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[Dink9873]

Hey guys,

This is a bit off topic, but I've been falling FLAT when messaging girls mentioned in this forum. IE girls who have given BBFS, cia, cip, just simply not responding to me. It's the same for SA as well as SDM. I've lost my mojo. Could you guys give me a couple of canned openers, or general feedback of what opening messages are working for you? I'd really appreciate any help here.

I do the 7 day trial when I want new girls. This last time I had plenty of messages, and already met up with three girls. All under 300 bucks, all bareback. Stand your ground, some will say they don't do bareback in person. Most won't walk without money and do it anyways. The into provided on here is gold. Christmas time was awesome, all the single moms taking it raw to pay for gifts LOL.

[Michael1967]

It is not your mojo but your approach. Stop approaching it as a dating site. It is an arrangement you have a need, she has a need, and needs are time bound. A simple "hello" should suffice. If you are looking for a canned opener (fucking serious?) then you are very much wasting your hard earned money. May sound cliched but there are plenty fishes out there. Keep trying.

Interesting, I've found that many of the women posted here have contacted me at some point. My profile uses all of the appropriate words and phrases like "discreet", "once or twice per month", "no monthly allowance" and other things like that. Only an idiot would not know what I'm looking for. So, if I just write a quick note saying I like their profile and to respond if they are interested. If they are interested, I know they are looking for Pay for play. I have a picture that's blurry, but I'm not like fat and ugly (so if you are, that may be a turn-off), at the same time, I'm not attractive either. Remember, the women have to pay to use the site also (only less), so they are probably about as hesitant to pay as we are. Shit, right now, I have 20 messages that I'm not responding to because I'm not willing to pay $89.95 (I'm not looking right now). It could simply be the women are not looking for money now (try the first of the month) and aren't responding.

[MyNickname]

I was puzzled by this post so I inquired her tna rate and it is 400 hr. Maybe she (or management?) reads this board and made some changes?

She just quoted me from SA, 1 k for 2 hrs.

[MaachoMaan]

Hey guys,

This is a bit off topic, but I've been falling FLAT when messaging girls mentioned in this forum. IE girls who have given BBFS, cia, cip, just simply not responding to me. It's the same for SA as well as SDM. I've lost my mojo. Could you guys give me a couple of canned openers, or general feedback of what opening messages are working for you? I'd really appreciate any help here.

It is not your mojo but your approach. Stop approaching it as a dating site. It is an arrangement you have a need, she has a need, and needs are time bound. A simple "hello" should suffice. If you are looking for a canned opener (fucking serious?) then you are very much wasting your hard earned money. May sound cliched but there are plenty fishes out there. Keep trying.

[BadAtComputer1]

Hey guys,

This is a bit off topic, but I've been falling FLAT when messaging girls mentioned in this forum. IE girls who have given BBFS, cia, cip, just simply not responding to me. It's the same for SA as well as SDM. I've lost my mojo. Could you guys give me a couple of canned openers, or general feedback of what opening messages are working for you? I'd really appreciate any help here.

[WarpFactor69]

Clicked through the link for SexiLex on Seeking and the pics looked REALLY familiar! So, I went to my Sent MSG Box on TNA and the handle for the smoking hot blonde that gave me an unbelievable BJ experience last summer in PDX. Sure enough, Lexxi Monee (Yes, Lexxxi with 3 Xs!) on TNA is SexiLex on Seeking.

Curious as to what her rate is on SA as she is a bit pricey on TNA. I could only afford a QV, but it was a memorable one!

https://www.tnaboard.com/attachment....6&d=1529626512

Here is the link to an ad with pictures of her on TNA:

https://www.tnaboard.com/showthread....=#post12006058

As her ad says, "Open Menu with No Rules".

I guess she splits time between Seattle and Portland. May have to start a savings plan for that Full Menu next time...

Rock Chalk.

Isn't she the one that dicks you around with fake specials in ads, but when you contact her, she quotes full price? There was some other controversy about her a few years back when her "boyfriend" was controlling her account. I think she had a different name.

[DelToro]

Interesting, I did not know. So I can add her to my list of tna ladies I have seen for way lower than what they ask in tna. It is even more puzzling as their time donation is lower in SA, they do more or all in SA than what they do in TNA. For example in SA they BBFS, cim, cip, cia and in tna they usually are not even BBFS.

She just quoted me from SA, 1 k for 2 hrs.

[IrishGuy1977]

She previously went by angelmoonxxo on SA. There was a post the she was Angelpuff on SDM. https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/mobil...serId=64773064.

She did / does porn work under Megan Winters. She wanted 500 for CIP but then at the last minute she said I also needed to pay for her Uber from Tacoma up to Bellevue and copped an attitude so I never saw her.

Before all the other sites got shut down she would advertise in the Bay Area. She asked for much more and never would discuss BB at all. The tattoos were a dead give away.

[Twister100]

Today was an interesting day to find ladies with serious attitude problems.

Sweetheartxxx NYC2nd.

https://www.seeking.com/member/14dc9...9-302b662e5130

She is bossy and quick to try to drop you if she is not getting what she wants. All covered unless you show her test results (very recent within 2 weeks).

She previously went by angelmoonxxo on SA. There was a post the she was Angelpuff on SDM. https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/mobil...serId=64773064.

She did / does porn work under Megan Winters. She wanted 500 for CIP but then at the last minute she said I also needed to pay for her Uber from Tacoma up to Bellevue and copped an attitude so I never saw her.

[RichyRich88]

https://www.seeking.com/member/cb8c6...8-45317d1fcc88

Talked to sweetjudy13, a pretty decent looking 46 yr old. I asked her what her per date would cost and was told $500. Counter with $300. Got no reply back. I don't know about you guys but I'm not going to pay that much for a mid 40's chick. I could get 20 yr olds for that much. She's completely delusional.

[MyNickname]

Today was an interesting day to find ladies with serious attitude problems.

Sweetheartxxx NYC2nd.

https://www.seeking.com/member/14dc9...9-302b662e5130

She is bossy and quick to try to drop you if she is not getting what she wants. All covered unless you show her test results (very recent within 2 weeks).

RussianChick91.

https://www.seeking.com/member/57b5a...6-f4cae482ec74

She wants all her way or she trys to drop you. She cip happily but now she is GPS. She now wants 500 for 1 hour. She says she is currently without an arrangement but is looking to get what her previous arrangement was. Some guys just go high in allowance and then drop the ladies after few visits and then the lady wants to keep getting the high allowance she got in the last arrangement. So, some guys are just screwing the reality of allowances for everybody else (including the ladies). Some of you may recognize her by the wording of her profile. She does not show her face or leg tattoo in her current profile photos.
Obviously I did not offer to give 500 for 1 hour and we said good bye for now.

[Joseph1955]

I have found that too. Only two crossovers that I know of. I would guess that the clientele is a little better and more respectful on this side of the house. Also a safer type arrangement than TNA. Maybe it is just that they are treated like hookers on TNA where SA gentlemen treat them more like ladies. Just my two cents.

Don't forget, as escorts they aren't able to really be selective about who comes to their beds. And Johns are certainly more likely to be into random sex with many different partners, more perceived (if not actual) risk of STDs and bad behavior.

My SB experience is old, but there would typically be some upfront communication, a meet up / coffee date, etc. Unlike the escort, the SB (in theory) only beds who she wants. And we're more likely to be intimately open with people we've chosen. Just a theory, and the seasoned escort usually makes a piss poor SB; her sexuality is too connected to the clock and necessary boundaries of the escort world.

[IrishGuy1977]

Interesting, I did not know. So I can add her to my list of tna ladies I have seen for way lower than what they ask in tna. It is even more puzzling as their time donation is lower in SA, they do more or all in SA than what they do in TNA. For example in SA they BBFS, cim, cip, cia and in tna they usually are not even BBFS.

I have found that too. Only two crossovers that I know of. I would guess that the clientele is a little better and more respectful on this side of the house. Also a safer type arrangement than TNA. Maybe it is just that they are treated like hookers on TNA where SA gentlemen treat them more like ladies. Just my two cents.

[IrishGuy1977]

It does search for profile name. I did a search for daisycruzz4 and search found her profile.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6b4cc...3-f0581637a79f

Hunnybunny2828.

https://www.seeking.com/member/acb36...4-7401d5c585e6

Sweetname.

https://www.seeking.com/member/42fa9...9-587d732b4281

Particularly-pwn-93.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e22e9...7-bf5562fc8218

LCXX13.

https://www.seeking.com/member/64c2f...c-37b1168d04bd

Emily the redhead.

https://www.seeking.com/member/08988...c-0c3681364307

1 HotBunny.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6a9e9...6-d932b566f24d

Keepher.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6956b...d-a3907f5039af

Babyyyygggg.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e4951...3-895d7c49bf49

Sexilex.

https://www.seeking.com/member/22c5a...5-fb7ebd314bbf

Thank you. I tried. Maybe because I am using mobile browser. But no hits. Definitely not in the app. Very helpful. Thanks again.

[SometimeMonger]

https://twitter.com/SeattleSugarDad/...52202941128704

This guy with the videos has tons of girls info especially in his Tweets & replies. I've been hitting them up and some are just sluts that don't even charge.