Rants and Raves

**Tarl66** · 12-09-18 22:12

Originally Posted by HobbyMan51 [View Original Post]

It's not her you can't get out of your mind, it's what she might be or is doing with all the other customers when you aren't around. Here is the only advice: Tell yourself that she doesn't love you and MAKE YOURSELF BELIEVE IT! Because that is the truth. That and time are the only things that will save you from this mental deterioration. It's not her fault, it's just business, and she is under no obligation to have feelings for you or anybody else if she doesn't want to. You are not alone. Most of us have fallen into this romantic trap at one time or another, even the most seasoned of us out here. Give it time and be real with yourself. You also might want to examine just what it is in your emotional make-up that made it possible for you to do this to yourself.

You are right brother, thanks for the safe advice. I just can't tell my heart what to do.

**Tarl66** · 12-09-18 22:11

Originally Posted by SpaKing [View Original Post]

Easy to do. These gals really know how to satisfy a man.

She has brought me far more misery than pleasure at this point.

**Tarl66** · 12-09-18 22:10

Originally Posted by Knock123 [View Original Post]

Easy to do. Attachment is the root of all suffering. Good luck moving forward. You can never really tell if they are real feelings or you are just a special customer.

She does love me, but just not enough.

**Tarl66** · 12-09-18 22:09

Originally Posted by DoggyStyl [View Original Post]

Who is the girl?

Sorry, I don't want to say.

**Tarl66** · 12-09-18 22:09

Originally Posted by MassageFourMe [View Original Post]

I've dated a CAMP girl before. You started dating her knowing her occupation so nothing you can do unless you leave her. If you love her out a ring on the finger and make her quit her job. Besides that look for a girlfriend somewhere else.

Yeah, I totally wanted to marry her. Got her to quit for a few days.

**Tarl66** · 12-09-18 22:08

Originally Posted by BigComanche [View Original Post]

Post location and name so I can avoid.

That would just make it worse for me.

**Tarl66** · 12-09-18 22:07

Originally Posted by Niteluvr [View Original Post]

Yes. Run, Forrest, run!

Good advice! I can't get my heart to do it though. I'm hooked good.

**Tarl66** · 12-09-18 22:05

Originally Posted by Rsb621 [View Original Post]

Who hadn't at one time or another!

Glad I'm not the only one. I feel like such a fool.

**Niteluvr** · 12-09-18 21:11

Originally Posted by Charlie812 [View Original Post]

Andrew Dice Clay said it best never trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

He copied that from the late, great George Carlin.

**The Hated One** · 12-09-18 18:52

Originally Posted by Tarl66 [View Original Post]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

You have to maintain your manhood, and stand strong. This is just business, don't let it go to your head. Everything is transactional in this day and age, don't let her make a simp out of you.

**USABarry** · 12-09-18 16:05

Originally Posted by TaoistMaster [View Original Post]

Keeping two or three regular ones also helps prevent this.

Originally Posted by HobbyMan51 [View Original Post]

It's not her you can't get out of your mind, it's what she might be or is doing with all the other customers when you aren't around. Here is the only advice: Tell yourself that she doesn't love you and MAKE YOURSELF BELIEVE IT! Because that is the truth. That and time are the only things that will save you from this mental deterioration. It's not her fault, it's just business, and she is under no obligation to have feelings for you or anybody else if she doesn't want to. You are not alone. Most of us have fallen into this romantic trap at one time or another, even the most seasoned of us out here. Give it time and be real with yourself. You also might want to examine just what it is in your emotional make-up that made it possible for you to do this to yourself.

Totally agree on this. Went down that road until I realized I was infatuated by the attention. Back up and rethink your position. I have one I see often who does a great job. She was my first experience and has serviced me many times since. I hoped to see her last week but she was booked already. Hmm, that's twice in the same month it happened. I got another at a different spa and one up the road a ways. Both of those are go to girls that I know will give me what I want the way I like it. So, find and keep several on tap. It's fun to search them out as you get to explore a lot. BTW, my ATF and first experience set me up with the next best available at the spa last week. The alternate and I had a great time.

**TaoistMaster** · 12-09-18 15:40

Originally Posted by HobbyMan51 [View Original Post]

It's not her you can't get out of your mind, it's what she might be or is doing with all the other customers when you aren't around. Here is the only advice: Tell yourself that she doesn't love you and MAKE YOURSELF BELIEVE IT! Because that is the truth. That and time are the only things that will save you from this mental deterioration. It's not her fault, it's just business, and she is under no obligation to have feelings for you or anybody else if she doesn't want to. You are not alone. Most of us have fallen into this romantic trap at one time or another, even the most seasoned of us out here. Give it time and be real with yourself. You also might want to examine just what it is in your emotional make-up that made it possible for you to do this to yourself.

Keeping two or three regular ones also helps prevent this.

**Knock123** · 12-09-18 14:56

Originally Posted by HobbyMan51 [View Original Post]

And that is why we so often are sucker chumps and they have all the power. Drooling fools thinking with our dicks instead of our brains. Great quote by the way.

Just remember if it has tits or tires it's EXPENSIVE.

**HobbyMan51** · 12-09-18 13:36

Originally Posted by StarFleet [View Original Post]

My advice is this: Men love altruistically; women love opportunistically.

And that is why we so often are sucker chumps and they have all the power. Drooling fools thinking with our dicks instead of our brains. Great quote by the way.