Rants and Raves

[HobbyMan51]

My advice is this: Men love altruistically; women love opportunistically.

And that is why we so often are sucker chumps and they have all the power. Drooling fools thinking with our dicks instead of our brains. Great quote by the way.

[StarFleet]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

My advice is this: Men love altruistically; women love opportunistically.

[JDont]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

Only cure that works that I know of is find one that turns you on and enjoy. Apply as needed.

[HobbyMan51]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

It's not her you can't get out of your mind, it's what she might be or is doing with all the other customers when you aren't around. Here is the only advice: Tell yourself that she doesn't love you and MAKE YOURSELF BELIEVE IT! Because that is the truth. That and time are the only things that will save you from this mental deterioration. It's not her fault, it's just business, and she is under no obligation to have feelings for you or anybody else if she doesn't want to. You are not alone. Most of us have fallen into this romantic trap at one time or another, even the most seasoned of us out here. Give it time and be real with yourself. You also might want to examine just what it is in your emotional make-up that made it possible for you to do this to yourself.

[Charlie812]

Sorry to hear that! I think I can speak for the majority of us we've all been told your so handsome, nice looking, they love you, they miss you! Try to keep this in your mind when you're with them they love only one thing. Your money!

Andrew Dice Clay said it best never trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[Charlie812]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

Sorry to hear that! I think I can speak for the majority of us we've all been told your so handsome, nice looking, they love you, they miss you! Try to keep this in your mind when you're with them they love only one thing. Your money!

[Knock123]

Post location and name so I can avoid.

Easy to do. Attachment is the root of all suffering. Good luck moving forward. You can never really tell if they are real feelings or you are just a special customer.

[DoggyStyl]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

Who is the girl?

[MassageFourMe]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

I've dated a CAMP girl before. You started dating her knowing her occupation so nothing you can do unless you leave her. If you love her out a ring on the finger and make her quit her job. Besides that look for a girlfriend somewhere else.

[Big Comanche]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

Post location and name so I can avoid.

[Niteluvr]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

Yes. Run, Forrest, run!

[Rsb621]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

Who hadn't at one time or another!

[Tarl66]

Guys, I screwed up and fell in love with a massage girl! Jealousy is driving me nuts, I can't get her out of my mind. Any advice?

[Zipper34]

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Last but not least, that sugar baby site. Dudes, that site is overrated and overpriced like a mother. The site is worth no more than $29.95 per month. I think craigslist casual encounters, where you would place your own ad and wait for the fishes to start biting, was a waay better site for getting straight to the point than that sugar baby site. You new guys signing up to the site and thinking your able to get laid are in for the shock of your life.

Most chic's who place an ad on there are only looking for a human atm machine that's stuck on withdrawal. They're not trying to make any deposits. They know most men on there are looking for sex and all they're doing using that as bait to extract money out of desperate horny men. Any chic asking you for money before meeting them or paying them for a meet and greet, is a complete rip off. She's trying to hustle you for you money and trying to see how stupid and gullible you are.

If your dumb enough to give her money at a meet and greet, prepare to get more messages for "money loans" and "help me with my rent". Most of the chic's who post an ad on that site, didn't place an ad with the intentions of selling ass for money, regardless of what some people say on here. I've been on that site for close to a year now and I see exactly what's going on there. That site is a waiting site. It's better if you place your profile / ad and wait for them to start messaging you.

I message none of these chics, even when they favor me I still don't message them. Messaging random chics is a complete waste of time. Most of the times, you will not get a reply at all and when you do, the chic will hit you back with some ridiculous numbers or you will come to find out that she only wants you to give her money for nothing in return. The chic's that message you, want something. You can bargain with them because they messaged you and you didn't message them.

You have the upper hand in these situations and you can tell her yay or nay, since she messaged you first. That site is a wating game. It's best if you just browse at everyone's profile at the most and the ones that are interested will message you. I don't go around messaging anyone randomly. I found that to be a complete and total waste of time and the chic's expectations are pretty ridiculous and unrealistic. A lot of you guys are going around messaging these random chics and wondering why they have "GPS" and want something for nothing.

That's because "you" messaged "them" and not the other way around and they feel like they have the upper hand, since you're the one seeking them. The site is a waiting game. Just create your profile, view all the random ads you want, and wait for the fishes to come biting. Kind of like what you would do with the craigslist casual encounters ad when you placed your own ad. This is just my experience from being on the site for a year. Also, any chic mentioning anything about getting a hotel is definitely bad news. That shows that the chic has done this many times before and she's very green for money. A recipe for disaster.

You are right that it should be 29.95 a month. You are right that it is full of people who just want you to send them money but some of them do tell a story. I had one person on there who claimed she was living in Ukraine or somewhere over there and told me she was never going to meet me but she needed some money because of the war they've had there and said anything would help. Told me a lot of sad details that may or may not have been true but since it sounded believable to me I sent her a few bucks. I have met plenty of girls off there though but 90 bucks a month is too steep. Craigslist had a lot of scammers too and I bet all those scammers weren't happy when Craigslist pulled the plug on dating ads. The sugar baby site should charge the ladies a cheap fee to be on there and lower the fee for the guys, LOL.

[The Hated One]

I MUST take issue with the SA portion of your RANT.

It sounds like you are calling a bunch of us SIMPS and IDIOTS for the way we run our own game out here and I don't feel like you have a clear insight into what makes the world go round out here so let me inform you about the differences in people.

Personally, I chat with women on SA every day and have some amazing experiences to roll around in my head. I still have some UTR's that I give nothing or very little to and see regularly at their places when I want pretty much. BUT I go after the, shall we say, more MATURE ones typically. I have ZERO interest in chasing any of the teens or early twenty-something bimbos and all the trouble that comes with them. YES they have the sweet little hard bodies but their level of experience is crap and the couple of times I have partaken of that forbidden fruit it's been disappointing to say the least. THOSE are the ones that always approach me and I even have a statement on my profile stating that they NOT contact me cause I don't even want to weed through them anymore.

I filtered my search results to show certain characteristics and that serves me well. Ask some of the guys on here who have been with my recommendations over the past couple of years! They'll tell you that I have found some FUN ones! I look EXCLUSIVELY on SA and while the $90 monthly may be higher than I want to spend I do it every month and it has paid big dividends in the Puntang dept for me.!

What Johnna says is 100% spot on!! Some men have no respect for themselves, or the almighty dollar.