"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**TomDickNHarry** · 12-06-18 11:59

Needs to be a pinned post on here. Anything, and I do mean anything from phone minutes to gas money to a subscription to a gift to anything and everything where someone is asking you for something that costs money, sight unseen prior to meeting, is a scam. Every. Single. Time. Automatically move on the 2nd you get something like that and save yourself some time.

Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]

Anybody talk to or meet with this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/3cfa3...e-9e428c5341ba.

Taking it easy. Sounds good but sounds fake. Soon after sending a message I got this:

Takin It Easy about 23 hours ago.

Thanks for the message! Sadly I have found this site to be a huge waste of time, so to cut through the BS, I am going to try something new and just be right up front with everything.

I am married, and my profile does say that. My husband is a bit of control freak, but not like you see in a movie so don't think hes crazy. He rather me be a stay at home house wife, we have one vehicle even though we can afford 2, but its just to keep me at home. Our iPhones are linked together, so he can see what apps I have / who I text.

My mom got sick of him reading our texts so she bought be a prepaid flip phone he doesn't know about, which is how I am on here.

No I don't have snapchat, whatsapp, tinder, textfree, any other app. Its a flip phone. Sorry, just been asked that question a lot. I also have no interest in emailing.

I am willing to send photos, but if you are going to ask for nudes right away, please look elsewhere. Also not interested in talking dirty right off the start, at least get to know me first.

I am not a "sugar baby" My options are limited so I choose this site. I don't want your money. I am looking for a friend with benefits.

With saying that, I do still have some needs. I would need an uber / lyft to meet you. I will not get picked up by you, I'm sorry.

Since my phone is prepaid, I will need it refilled as needed to keep in touch.

I am NOT LOOKING for a time / date relationship where we set a time and date and not talk until then. Sorry, communication and connection is important to me. So I would really like to talk to you some before we set a date in stone. I also need a 48 hour notice.

Sorry if this is a deal breaker, but yeah, just done with the games on here. Please let me know regardless. Thank you.

Long message but anybody have experience?

**JustLonely** · 12-06-18 09:54

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

I think this is a new profile or she pulled it down for a while. I got her digits and we texted for a day or two and I just didn't pull the trigger because I had someone else lined up that, quite frankly, was much better looking with a bit more meat on her bones. She seemed legit while texting and claimed to not really care about the allowance. But that often changes once you start getting serious about actually meeting!

I didn't pull the trigger on this one after all. Like you a better fit for me worked out.

**Member #6951** · 12-06-18 01:14

Originally Posted by InTight [View Original Post]

The only way I have found is BitCoin. It is volatile as is the stock market. If you fund your BitCoin wallet and use it immediately should be good. If there is enough interest I can post how to do it.

Thanks for the offer. That's probably too much effort for me.

For what it is worth I did try the more complicated and in depth international Vanilla card. You do have to register it with your real name and address through Vanilla, but I was then able to sign up on SA with a modified name and address— only zip code matched — and that worked. I think that accomplishes my goal, which is to avoid having my name and address sitting in SA's files.

**VAvet** · 12-05-18 20:57

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

I think this is a new profile or she pulled it down for a while. I got her digits and we texted for a day or two and I just didn't pull the trigger because I had someone else lined up that, quite frankly, was much better looking with a bit more meat on her bones. She seemed legit while texting and claimed to not really care about the allowance. But that often changes once you start getting serious about actually meeting!

Agree it's a new profile, but pretty sure I used to see her. She's super cool and extremely accommodating. Really nice girl. But for those of you who've been around for awhile think Donna. Not a bad thing but depends on what you like and what you're willing to pay I guess?

**InTight** · 12-05-18 18:07

Originally Posted by GuyInTheCorner [View Original Post]

Apologies for asking again but I didn't see a response to the previous message. What are you all doing for payment to SA? I had been trying to handle payment through a prepaid card. Didn't go through so I messaged support as I have done a half dozen times in the past. This time SA sent me a message that I had to fill out a form and send it back, no way.

I looked further and realized the Vanilla card I had was US only, and the website requires international ones. I looked at the international version, but all of those seem to require you provide your identity and drivers' license. I'd prefer to avoid if possible but is that my only option?

The only way I have found is BitCoin. It is volatile as is the stock market. If you fund your BitCoin wallet and use it immediately should be good. If there is enough interest I can post how to do it.

**FarFarAway** · 12-05-18 16:00

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.

Just generally, I find it interesting the demographics that are on seeking. Definitely nurses, but also nannies, cosmetologists, hairdressers. Someone should do a PhD thesis explaining it all. Some of it may be vanity, a girl wants to be thought of as a special beauty, if she can get someone to pay a lot of $ to be w / her it confirms that aspiration.

**CantWinLosin** · 12-05-18 14:34

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.

Nurses learn pretty quickly in their work to be pragmatic and realistic, and those traits carry over to their personal lives; nurses who work with the elderly and dying (nursing homes, home care and hospice services) get that double, plus a good dose of "live for today, none of us are promised tomorrow" on top of it. As medical people, they're often more aware of and in tune with their bodies and their sexual needs than civvies. And nursing home / home care / hospice providers, especially the less-skilled ones (home health aides, LPNs, phlebotomists / renal support / etc.) are generally on the bottom rung of the pay scale for medical professions. Combine those things, and it's no surprise that a lot of the SBs we see come out of that field of work: they're broke, horny, and not afraid to use the latter to fix the former. I've had two long-term SBs in that category, and have met quite a few others.

**JustLonely** · 12-05-18 12:56

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.

I can vouch for that as took a SB from hotel to nursing home when her car wasn't running. Funny thing it turned out be within 5 minutes of where I work. She might still be there by the time I need one. She loved the work.

**BikeRider** · 12-04-18 19:21

Originally Posted by CoolPix [View Original Post]

It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.

Ahmen! My friends joke I'll be chasing skirts with my walker.

**CoolPix** · 12-04-18 18:57

It may just be me but it seems the last three or four SBs I've met up with this year all claim to be nurses who work at nursing homes! Anybody else have this experience? I mean, in some way, it makes sense. Anyone in that profession has a natural empathy and is all about giving! LOL. And if it's true, I suspect some of them know one another and have shared their experiences in the bowl. But I'd like to know where this facility is because I'm going to be needing a nursing home here in a few years and that's the place I want to live out my last few years! LMAO.

**CoolPix** · 12-04-18 18:47

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

I am getting ready to TOFTT with this one. She seems a bit different than most I've messaged on SA. Any concerns from anyone who has seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/54538...7-d2154b9682a8

I think this is a new profile or she pulled it down for a while. I got her digits and we texted for a day or two and I just didn't pull the trigger because I had someone else lined up that, quite frankly, was much better looking with a bit more meat on her bones. She seemed legit while texting and claimed to not really care about the allowance. But that often changes once you start getting serious about actually meeting!

**Member #6951** · 12-04-18 17:15

Originally Posted by BikeRider [View Original Post]

SA is locking down things now to make it nearly impossible to remain anonymous. I've found it hard to access the site through a VPN at times.

The way I've found to pay with a US only gift card is via the google play store. Seeking is no longer on the Apple App store, and paypal is no longer available.

You need:

1. an android device, and a google account.

2. Download the seeking app. It will ask to use your location and there isn't a straight forward way to say no. If you're concerned about it logging your location, then get the FakeGPS app (free) and set your location with that prior to enabling location services for Seeking.

3. Enter your gift card as a payment option in the Google Play Store.

4. Start the seeking app and select upgrade. Select pay via google play.

5. Happy hunting.

For those of us that are single and don't need to hide your credit card transactions, you can pay with your own credit card. The only information that needs to be correct is the zip code. You can use a fake name and address. I still use a gift card even though I am single because I am paranoid.

Thank you very much. Apple user so Android is out. I did get an international gift card but not thrilled about using my name and address in seeking's site. Maybe I will try the fake name and address with that.

**RedBaron69** · 12-04-18 16:08

She is real. Met with her Saturday for drinks, hit it off pretty well, BBBJ in the parking lot. She was limited on time. Young kids and husband at home. Talked her into coming for a room visit the following afternoon after work. She is a lot of fun. Seeing her again soon.

Originally Posted by BobbyRichmond [View Original Post]

Gosh,

Could this profile be real? Its about as perfect as you can get in my opinion.

https://www.seeking.com/member/aa15b...9-126433dfd871

**BikeRider** · 12-04-18 13:34

Originally Posted by GuyInTheCorner [View Original Post]

Apologies for asking again but I didn't see a response to the previous message. What are you all doing for payment to SA? I had been trying to handle payment through a prepaid card. Didn't go through so I messaged support as I have done a half dozen times in the past. This time SA sent me a message that I had to fill out a form and send it back, no way.

I looked further and realized the Vanilla card I had was US only, and the website requires international ones. I looked at the international version, but all of those seem to require you provide your identity and drivers' license. I'd prefer to avoid if possible but is that my only option?

SA is locking down things now to make it nearly impossible to remain anonymous. I've found it hard to access the site through a VPN at times.

The way I've found to pay with a US only gift card is via the google play store. Seeking is no longer on the Apple App store, and paypal is no longer available.

You need:

1. an android device, and a google account.

2. Download the seeking app. It will ask to use your location and there isn't a straight forward way to say no. If you're concerned about it logging your location, then get the FakeGPS app (free) and set your location with that prior to enabling location services for Seeking.

3. Enter your gift card as a payment option in the Google Play Store.

4. Start the seeking app and select upgrade. Select pay via google play.

5. Happy hunting.

For those of us that are single and don't need to hide your credit card transactions, you can pay with your own credit card. The only information that needs to be correct is the zip code. You can use a fake name and address. I still use a gift card even though I am single because I am paranoid.

**Starkey 2008** · 12-04-18 13:27

I'd be really careful with her. I had multiple conversations with her about 6 - 12 months ago. They resulted in me driving to Farmville where she promptly ghosted me. We texted back and forth as I was driving and then she went dark as soon as I hit the city limits. I didn't lose any money, but it cost me about 3 hours of total time.

Stay Safe,

Starkey.

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/c4251...b-7064e141130a

Anyone have info? Quoted me $$$ for her time.