Safe Sex Information and Advice

[DeaconBlues]

First time poster, long time reader and supporter of the hobby.

Quick question though, am I the only married guy still boning his wife? Seems like everyone is getting BBBJs all the time and I'm rather too careful or too scared to get one out of fear of my wife catching something.

How do you guys do it?

Also why does no one use erotic monkey?

For what it's worth, I think you're wise to have only CBJ. Even if you never catch anything else, that's a really easy way to transmit HPV to either party. And the site you mention started a more restrictive subscription policy.

[NoviceNewb]

First time poster, long time reader and supporter of the hobby.

Quick question though, am I the only married guy still boning his wife? Seems like everyone is getting BBBJs all the time and I'm rather too careful or too scared to get one out of fear of my wife catching something.

How do you guys do it?

Also why does no one use erotic monkey?

[HighTemp]

I stopped by Planned Parenthood and had not so great experience. I did gonorrhea, chlamydia and trichomoniasis testing and clinician gave me a 1 gram z-pack. For all these it cost me 265. That's the cost of an hour long GFE session in a K-agency. I think the clinician fee of 125 is the most worthless piece. She talked for less than 2 min and didn't even pull down my pant and check my junk and just gave me a z-pack and send me on my way.

So I had a GFE session with a Japanese and Korean mix girl. We did use condom, but there were BBBJ, DFK and bit of DATY. Afterwards I started to feel "discomfort" around penile area. It's not burning, not rush or bump or wart, no discharge all these typical STD symptoms. It's like a muscle in pelvic floor that stretch from penis to anus that's sore. I guess sore is the best feeling to describe it. I don't know if this just some psychological thing or is it really STD, but it won't go away after 2 weeks. So, I decided to get it tested.

Searched around this forum, seems for STD testing, there are couple options: one is that place an online order and wait for them mail you a test kit, and you do test at home and send it back. The other is have an online chat, a teledoc send prescription to a local lab and you go to local lab and get urine and / or blood sample. The other option is planned parenthood and after thinking it over, I decided to go with PP.

When I get there, the door is locked and there is intercom at door. You must have an appointment to get in. There are quite few people in waiting room. It's kind of weird to see what type of people will go into PP.

The receptionist asked about my insurance and income stuff. Even I have insurance, I told them I don't. Actually I just got laid off and was on UI, but with all the people in waiting room I feel nervous and just told her I will pay myself with cash. Maybe that's the mistake and the visit cost me that much. Did you guys just lie on the form and PP will not actually do a full financial investigation? From people wrote on this forum, it seems like a free clinic. But for me, I think 265 is too expensive for the minimum level of medical attention and treatment. I am even thinking of laying off this hobby for a while or only go full covered from start to finish.

Anyone has any better approach to get STD testing?

[John Dough]

There are news reports about a hard-to-treat strain of gonorrhea that is resistant to currently available antibiotics.

"Against Drug-Resistant Bacteria, Nature's Medicines Offer Our Best Hope. Stephen Harrod Buhner is the author of Herbal Antivirals, Herbal Antibiotics".

https://www.storey.com/article/steph...drug-resistan/

"Bacteria develop resistance to antibiotics rather easily. Plant antibacterials, because they contain hundreds to thousands of compounds, do not lead to resistance in bacteria. Cryptolepis: a broad spectrum, systemic antibacterial, effective for MRSA, C-diff, CRE, and gonorrhea".

[John Dough]

Washing your penis while urinating in a shower immediately after exposure (I. E, sex) reduces your risk by pissing and washing away the bacterium.

I wonder if products that prevent UTIs would also reduce the risk of STDs.

https://www.healthline.com/health/d-mannose-for-uti

"E. Coli bacteria cause 90 percent of UTIs. Once these bacteria enter the urinary tract, they latch on to cells, grow, and cause infection. Researchers think that D-mannose works for a UTI by preventing these bacteria from latching on".

http://tipsdiscover.com/health/herba...emics-juniper/

"Alcohol extracts of juniper show activity against 57 strains of 24 bacterial species. Juniper is also active against SARS coronavirus, and herpes simplex 1. Use the berries for urinary tract infections".

[John Dough]

Either the Pasante Unique condom with the skirt at the base of the penis or the FC2 female condom with the wide ring that stays on the outside of the woman's body provide much better protection from sexually transmitted diseases / infections (STDs / STIs) than standard male condoms that leave much of the base of the penis exposed, because some STDs / STIs (such as syphilis, HPV / condyloma / genital warts, and herpes) pass through skin rather than through the urethra.

Here is a link to the Unique Plus condom with skirted bottom.

https://luckybloke.com/products/buy-...s-best-reviews

The material used to make the Unique condoms is similar to a plastic bag in the produce section of a grocery store. It isn't very stretchy, so sizing is important. They are a bit wider than most condoms, so they may fit loosely on narrow penises, leaving the material wrinkly. Although they are very thin, they still remove the sensation of friction. Some people say they feel like wearing nothing, but I disagree. The female condom allows the man to feel friction, giving a much improved sensation. Adding extra lube to the penis helps the FC2 to provide a better experience for the man.

[Nw Pounder]

Balanitis is a new word for me. I don't recall ever hearing about it before. Here is an article about it:

https://www.drscabies.com/blog/home-...tis-naturally/

Thanks, I don't know the % chances of getting an STD by dry humping. I have applied Yeast cream for couple of days, hoping it will be alright!

[Param Ahmad]

I was with my regular about a week back. I did not have sex, but was dry humping (both naked). My uncircumcised penis was having thrush for the past 3-4 days and since yesterday the head was tingling. Today, the head is burning and also my buttock hole too. Is this could be balanitis or any other STD? Appreciate all inputs and recommendation. Thanks.

Balanitis is a new word for me. I don't recall ever hearing about it before. Here is an article about it:

https://www.drscabies.com/blog/home-...tis-naturally/

[Nw Pounder]

I was with my regular about a week back. I did not have sex, but was dry humping (both naked). My uncircumcised penis was having thrush for the past 3-4 days and since yesterday the head was tingling. Today, the head is burning and also my buttock hole too. Is this could be balanitis or any other STD? Appreciate all inputs and recommendation. Thanks.

[Param Ahmad]

I had unprotected sex with a regular. I haven't had sex with anyone else in several months. I got tested on Tuesday, results came back negative for 10 different STDs. But I'm still a little sore after I piss and there is a white substance that I can force out of my dick in the morning. Any ideas gents.

It's probably gonorrhea. Testing negative doesn't prove you don't have it because you can get false-negative test results. It might take days or even months for symptoms to appear, and in many people gonorrhea has no symptoms, but you can transmit it despite having no symptoms. You should have yourself re-tested. There are news reports about a hard-to-treat strain of gonorrhea that is resistant to currently available antibiotics. Washing your penis while urinating in a shower immediately after exposure (I. E, sex) reduces your risk by pissing and washing away the bacterium.

See WebMD, https://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditi...have-gonorrhea#1 :

How Do I Know If I Have Gonorrhea?
. . . .

Gonorrhea symptoms normally show up between 1 and 10 days after you get the infection. Some people dont see any symptoms until after they've had the infection for months. Others -- usually women -- may never have symptoms at all.

See also the Center for Disease Control web site: https://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/stdfact-gonorrhea.htm.

[Param Ahmad]

Either the Pasante Unique condom with the skirt at the base of the penis or the FC2 female condom with the wide ring that stays on the outside of the woman's body provide much better protection from sexually transmitted diseases / infections (STDs / STIs) than standard male condoms that leave much of the base of the penis exposed, because some STDs / STIs (such as syphilis, HPV / condyloma / genital warts, and herpes) pass through skin rather than through the urethra. The Pasante Unique condom probably provides more complete and more reliable protection than a FC2 female condom, either with the inner ring removed or still in place, since during intercourse the outer ring of the FC2 female condom that stays on the outside of the woman's body can get pushed against the base of the penis, allowing a small area of contact between the base of the penis and the woman's vulva. If you remove the inner ring, it is important to use fingers you haven't fingered her with or otherwise contaminated. I found both Pasante Unique and FC2 female condoms for sale today on eBay.

Pasante Unique condoms, https://www.ebay.com/i/253512451666?chn=ps..

Unique Plus Condomcard, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hm8WFz-b8nM..

How To Use a Female Condom (English Sub) ★ AlbatrozStudio, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P85c9lqCGfc 7,813,904 views as of 10/28/2018!

How to Use Your FC2 Female Condom, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJZOCdmnvmc..

These videos will answer most of your questions.

These pictures will help you identify the Pasante Unique and FC2 female condoms. If everybody used them, we could probably see the end of STDs / STIs within a generation or two.

[LimaBean]

Hey everyone, Just wanted to ask a quick question some more experienced people may know.

I've checked in to reviews on this site every now and again and wanted to try it out for myself. I drove down Jasper and found a pretty cute SW and was able to signal to her and have her get in my car. She seemed normal walking around, but once inside she was kinda drugged out on something (head rolling and dozed off once or twice). Got a simple BJ that was OK and dropped her off.

A few days later I got an STD infection that I was able to clear up pretty quickly, but made me stay away from ever trying this again.

I just wanted to ask, is having someone super drugged out like that normal? And what are the chances of STDs? Was this just a really unlucky first experience?

Thanks ahead of time for any responses.

When they're acting crazy, it's not always from being drugged out. Many times, it's fatigue. They do so much crack that it keeps them up for days. A girl in Florida who gave great head was passing out with my dick in her mouth. She'd wake up, bob her head a few times, and zonk back out. She'd also snore a bit still with my dick in her mouth. It was amusing.

As for STD's, it's simple math. Those who are the most promiscuous have a greater chance of catching an STD. You don't often get much more promiscuous than a hooker.

[Lance547]

Hey everyone, Just wanted to ask a quick question some more experienced people may know.

I've checked in to reviews on this site every now and again and wanted to try it out for myself. I drove down Jasper and found a pretty cute SW and was able to signal to her and have her get in my car. She seemed normal walking around, but once inside she was kinda drugged out on something (head rolling and dozed off once or twice). Got a simple BJ that was OK and dropped her off.

A few days later I got an STD infection that I was able to clear up pretty quickly, but made me stay away from ever trying this again.

I just wanted to ask, is having someone super drugged out like that normal? And what are the chances of STDs? Was this just a really unlucky first experience?

Thanks ahead of time for any responses.

Did you go to the clinic and test positive for an actual STD? That said you can catch an STD from anyone (I. E. , online, a bar girl) if you're not using condoms.

As far as picking up SWs, I would seriously avoid picking up SWs that look disheveled and not in their right frame of mind.

[Crow15]

Hey everyone, Just wanted to ask a quick question some more experienced people may know.

I've checked in to reviews on this site every now and again and wanted to try it out for myself. I drove down Jasper and found a pretty cute SW and was able to signal to her and have her get in my car. She seemed normal walking around, but once inside she was kinda drugged out on something (head rolling and dozed off once or twice). Got a simple BJ that was OK and dropped her off.

A few days later I got an STD infection that I was able to clear up pretty quickly, but made me stay away from ever trying this again.

I just wanted to ask, is having someone super drugged out like that normal? And what are the chances of STDs? Was this just a really unlucky first experience?

Thanks ahead of time for any responses.

[Andy54]

I met her numerous times, but haven't in a couple of months.

I could care less about GFE, for that I have the wife.

But god damn that body of hers is a perfect 10!

She is colder, at least in the beginning, but warms up the more she gets to know you. And she does have the "hoodie" vibe to her but I like it cause it's kinda sluty and makes you want to pound it harder.

I'd recommend a visit with her (hope nothing changed drastically in the last couple of months) and start with a 30 min for the first couple of sessions. Oh and the other thing I liked about her is the safety, everything is covered, which I know others here are not fans of. But the risk of bringing something back to the wife is much smaller.

I never understood why would anyone want to daty or kiss any of these high volume girls from STG or BP back in the day. Someone else's dick was in their mouth and pussy 30 min earlier. But to each their own.

That's pretty funny shit. Doesn't make any sense, but pretty funny nonetheless!