Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**Rich196** · 10-11-18 18:36

Originally Posted by TheNovice [View Original Post]

I prefer it to SA. Credits never expire. More often GND but pros sneaking now. Limited data in profile so may be more risk there. I have met 3 long term friends. Not the quick hook up, although I see a few SA / CL / BP now posting.

TN.

Thanks I'll try it.

**Tomb8871** · 10-11-18 18:16

Originally Posted by TheNovice [View Original Post]

I prefer it to SA. Credits never expire. More often GND but pros sneaking now. Limited data in profile so may be more risk there. I have met 3 long term friends. Not the quick hook up, although I see a few SA / CL / BP now posting.

TN.

I think girls there more aware that guys looking primarily for hookups. Like I said before, lot of women seem to be there for a day or 2 and then never get on again. So either fake profile to make you burn credits or girl just signs up cause so easy not much required in profile. Like Sa it a numbers game.

**The Novice** · 10-11-18 17:59

Originally Posted by Rich196 [View Original Post]

Hi guys, any opinions on Secret Benefits?

Looks like a scam but has anyone scored there?

I prefer it to SA. Credits never expire. More often GND but pros sneaking now. Limited data in profile so may be more risk there. I have met 3 long term friends. Not the quick hook up, although I see a few SA / CL / BP now posting.

TN.

**Rich196** · 10-11-18 16:17

Hi guys, any opinions on Secret Benefits?

Looks like a scam but has anyone scored there?

**Member #6108** · 10-11-18 11:33

Originally Posted by Dave8 [View Original Post]

Also basically plan to start this March, 2019. Need to gather funds.

That sounds like a great plan. We look forward in April 2019 to your first post of you being with a provider. We can't wait for all your details.

**ArtOf** · 10-11-18 08:25

Originally Posted by Glennie [View Original Post]

Ok. There's another one that's decent.

Are you talking about the one which has a name Katie18558. , 25 y old. Located Enfield.

**Tomb8871** · 10-11-18 00:31

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

She replied a few times today. Jennnaay13.

She in the East Windsor area and likely camping at one of the local notels.

Her deal is 50 $ via Western Union, then upon arrival 150-200.

For all the young pups, it's a bottom dweller scam. She keeps the advance and you never get her location. She's 22 and thinks she's clever.

We'll see what she answers to my "no advance deals" reply. All of her pics are phone software enhanced. I'd never visit her but let's play along with her. .

BMD.

Any woman asking for money up front it invariably a scam.

**Dave8** · 10-10-18 23:52

Originally Posted by Avash88 [View Original Post]

If you single and bring them back to your place, just buy a sign saying premises is being recorded for security and put on your door or fence then you can record any room or event in your house for security purposes. Also helps you to see if stole anything while you went to bathroom. Cheap cameras are on sale on amazon.

My concern is that I don't want them coming where I live. Who knows what some of these girls are capable of doing. We always have to remember that we now live in the "MeToo" era. I remember reading a post a few months ago about what was basically an extortion attempt during an SA date. Not worth it!

**Avash88** · 10-10-18 21:00

Originally Posted by Dave8 [View Original Post]

I'm not in disagreement about negotiating, it's just that I want to video the encounters for a private collection and my thought is that the $1,000 gets me closer to the goal.

If you single and bring them back to your place, just buy a sign saying premises is being recorded for security and put on your door or fence then you can record any room or event in your house for security purposes. Also helps you to see if stole anything while you went to bathroom. Cheap cameras are on sale on amazon.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 10-10-18 18:00

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

I just messaged her. We'll see what she has to say.

She replied a few times today. Jennnaay13.

She in the East Windsor area and likely camping at one of the local notels.

Her deal is 50 $ via Western Union, then upon arrival 150-200.

For all the young pups, it's a bottom dweller scam. She keeps the advance and you never get her location. She's 22 and thinks she's clever.

We'll see what she answers to my "no advance deals" reply. All of her pics are phone software enhanced. I'd never visit her but let's play along with her. .

BMD.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 10-09-18 21:01

Originally Posted by ArtOf [View Original Post]

She has been mentioned here but not able to find if this was red flag. Any direction. ?

https://www.seeking.com/member/aaad7832-5798-48a6-a602-70b3b4b9e59b

I just messaged her. We'll see what she has to say.

**ArtOf** · 10-09-18 20:31

She has been mentioned here but not able to find if this was red flag. Any direction. ?

https://www.seeking.com/member/aaad7832-5798-48a6-a602-70b3b4b9e59b

**Dave8** · 10-09-18 18:17

Originally Posted by Dave8 [View Original Post]

I'm not in disagreement about negotiating, it's just that I want to video the encounters for a private collection and my thought is that the $1,000 gets me closer to the goal.

Also basically plan to start this March, 2019. Need to gather funds.

**Dave8** · 10-09-18 18:13

Originally Posted by RonOne [View Original Post]

Good plan Spend a $1000 a session Report back to us an let us know how it worked out for you. As we all try the basic Negotiation 101 approach.

I'm not in disagreement about negotiating, it's just that I want to video the encounters for a private collection and my thought is that the $1,000 gets me closer to the goal.