"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**TinFoilHat** · 10-11-18 09:43

Originally Posted by SouthsideStan [View Original Post]

I signed up with SA a month or so ago. I just did the "trial" membership through the app for like $29 for the week. I already had numerous messages and favorites.

I don't have a lot of free time or extra chips laying around so I can't just go run amuck and sample all the candy out there. I'm also kind of looking for that proverbial unicorn, someone who is not really a pro. I'm waiting to hear back from a couple that have already been discussed here.

I don't pop for rooms at hotels right now but may have to in the near future.

Sweets1983.

I really like this gals look. She seems like she is just getting started or, back into it. She seemed a bit scatter-brained as she talked about seeing what she could do about hosting "you guys". She also had thought I had already set a date. She says she comes into ATL from her listed location. I was a bit skeptical about why. She ended up shooting me a 400 number. (yikes) I apologized for wasting her time.

https://www.seeking.com/member/855cc...3-7bd426e1572d

Celenna.

Love her looks too but, at 3 big ones, I excused myself.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...9-a14607dff407

Sierra Landree.

Southeast side of town. Travel to you or you get a place. Wanted 3 big chips and me to pop for a room. Uh. Thanks but no thank you.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a53df...7-ff0fdc0999eb

I've had a couple vanish on me in just two days, even though they were on-line for some time prior. I guess I'm just a scary guy with "Sucker" written across my forehead?

Hope everyone is safe and dry.

Are those quoted numbers what they opened with, or were they negotiated? When I started in the bowl I rarely haggled, but roughly 70% of Sb's start high and come down.

**LongRun** · 10-11-18 09:24

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

Brothers. Met up with this one. Mixed chick. 26. Has her own place on the Northeast side. Very direct and to the point. One and done for me. The pictures are her but from a few years ago and she has added a good amount of tats.

Pros: she hosts, has a real chill demeanor, took a good thumping and gives good BBBJ.

Cons: I strap up regardless, but she definitely is for CFS. Plopped a whole box of wrappers on the bed for me to choose from. I had my own. After I erupted in the bag she immediately got dressed. Hmmm. She saw my face and asked if I wanted to go again. I didn't have time to anyway, but her original actions let me know what her M. O. Probably is.

I have gotten used to more "connection" since joining the bowl. I could be being too harsh but she was definitely all business. For instance she told me what she wanted for the meet via text and said "I like my money upfront".

Be safe. Ripper.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ad01...e-80883a67b441

Money up front is code for Pro.

Money for sex is code for Pro.

Just saying

A2

**Southside Stan** · 10-11-18 00:34

I signed up with SA a month or so ago. I just did the "trial" membership through the app for like $29 for the week. I already had numerous messages and favorites.

I don't have a lot of free time or extra chips laying around so I can't just go run amuck and sample all the candy out there. I'm also kind of looking for that proverbial unicorn, someone who is not really a pro. I'm waiting to hear back from a couple that have already been discussed here.

I don't pop for rooms at hotels right now but may have to in the near future.

Sweets1983.

I really like this gals look. She seems like she is just getting started or, back into it. She seemed a bit scatter-brained as she talked about seeing what she could do about hosting "you guys". She also had thought I had already set a date. She says she comes into ATL from her listed location. I was a bit skeptical about why. She ended up shooting me a 400 number. (yikes) I apologized for wasting her time.

https://www.seeking.com/member/855cc...3-7bd426e1572d

Celenna.

Love her looks too but, at 3 big ones, I excused myself.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...9-a14607dff407

Sierra Landree.

Southeast side of town. Travel to you or you get a place. Wanted 3 big chips and me to pop for a room. Uh. Thanks but no thank you.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a53df...7-ff0fdc0999eb

I've had a couple vanish on me in just two days, even though they were on-line for some time prior. I guess I'm just a scary guy with "Sucker" written across my forehead?

Hope everyone is safe and dry.

**Johnny Mapalo** · 10-10-18 23:51

These broads hit me up in the past, but I took a pass. LOL. My lost is your blessing.

First one below hit me up on my 2 accounts (fake account and real account). Says she is a dancer somewhere and lives in midtown. Can host or come to me. Wants $250. First 2 pics.

https://www.seeking.com/member/26f25...5-de50c34fbb08

This one is down in Ellenwood and looking for $400 per month. 3rd and 4th pics.

https://www.seeking.com/member/61cd0...1-4cfcbd9680ef

This chic in the 5th and 6th pics just text messaged me today. I had messages from her at the end of May. She wanted me to give her money just to talk, the last time. Yea Right!! I dismissed her ass. Now, she's singing a new tune. Wants to meet up and do whatever pleases daddy. Yea right! I'm not fully buying it but she wants to link up for $150 this weekend. We'll see. I think she took her link down.

This chic in the 7th and 8th pic messaged me on that Sugar daddy site about 2 weeks ago when my membership expired. LOL. I just got my membership back up a few days ago and messaged her asking her what was she looking for in a daddy. She gave me one simple word, "Fuck". What the fuck. She was all blunt and vulgar with it, too. I told her I wanted to phuch her too and she told me for $100 this weekend at her place in college park.

This chic is the the 9th and last pic (10th). I was cleaning out my old text messages on my phone and text this one as I had a message from her in January. To my surprise, this chic text me back the very same minute I text her and ask if I was available. Damn!! That was pretty fast. Must be a youngin that can't keep her phone out of her hand. She did tell me that she just turned 20 years old this month. Hmm. Wants to come to me for $100 bones and wants me to send her $30 via paypal, the day before, for her Uber transportation fee. Oh boy, that usually spells a scam, but we'll see.

**DesiLover28** · 10-10-18 21:14

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

Brothers. Met up with this one. Mixed chick. 26. Has her own place on the Northeast side. Very direct and to the point. One and done for me. The pictures are her but from a few years ago and she has added a good amount of tats.

Pros: she hosts, has a real chill demeanor, took a good thumping and gives good BBBJ.

Cons: I strap up regardless, but she definitely is for CFS. Plopped a whole box of wrappers on the bed for me to choose from. I had my own. After I erupted in the bag she immediately got dressed. Hmmm. She saw my face and asked if I wanted to go again. I didn't have time to anyway, but her original actions let me know what her M. O. Probably is.

I have gotten used to more "connection" since joining the bowl. I could be being too harsh but she was definitely all business. For instance she told me what she wanted for the meet via text and said "I like my money upfront".

Be safe. Ripper.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ad01...e-80883a67b441

She's been hmu for a few months back and forth. Just don't get a great vibe from her. She comes as a 2 Pro for my tastes and the pictures that she sent me the recent ones didn't match up with the profile pics. You are absolutely right she is a little bit more heavier now than in those pics but YMMV and also toftt. Ain't nobody going to know how the female was till the time somebody doesn't take a plunge. I'm going to pass but she might be cool for some folks.

**TallGuy3000** · 10-10-18 20:43

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

Brothers. Met up with this one. Mixed chick. 26. Has her own place on the Northeast side. Very direct and to the point. One and done for me. The pictures are her but from a few years ago and she has added a good amount of tats.

Pros: she hosts, has a real chill demeanor, took a good thumping and gives good BBBJ.

Cons: I strap up regardless, but she definitely is for CFS. Plopped a whole box of wrappers on the bed for me to choose from. I had my own. After I erupted in the bag she immediately got dressed. Hmmm. She saw my face and asked if I wanted to go again. I didn't have time to anyway, but her original actions let me know what her M. O. Probably is.

I have gotten used to more "connection" since joining the bowl. I could be being too harsh but she was definitely all business. For instance she told me what she wanted for the meet via text and said "I like my money upfront".

Be safe. Ripper.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ad01...e-80883a67b441

I texted with this one the end of last year and scheduled a M and G. Said she could meet after work early afternoon. And since I knew the restaurant she was working at, I joked I was going to surprise her there. Then I really did show up. Gave her a ride back to her place (her car was in the shop). When we got there, she informed me her brother and Mom were inside babysitting her young kid. What?! I wasn't ready for that. Plus I just wasn't fully feeling her. So I told her I didn't do family crowds, and said we needed to go somewhere much more private. Since neither of us had the time, we agreed to try later in the week. We texted a few more times, but couldn't get schedules to synch up since she was starting a new job. And when I met up with a go-to Latina MILF a couple weeks later, I never pursued her further.

**Ripvan12** · 10-10-18 10:54

Brothers. Met up with this one. Mixed chick. 26. Has her own place on the Northeast side. Very direct and to the point. One and done for me. The pictures are her but from a few years ago and she has added a good amount of tats.

Pros: she hosts, has a real chill demeanor, took a good thumping and gives good BBBJ.

Cons: I strap up regardless, but she definitely is for CFS. Plopped a whole box of wrappers on the bed for me to choose from. I had my own. After I erupted in the bag she immediately got dressed. Hmmm. She saw my face and asked if I wanted to go again. I didn't have time to anyway, but her original actions let me know what her M. O. Probably is.

I have gotten used to more "connection" since joining the bowl. I could be being too harsh but she was definitely all business. For instance she told me what she wanted for the meet via text and said "I like my money upfront".

Be safe. Ripper.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ad01...e-80883a67b441

**NGASugarMan** · 10-10-18 09:33

I've done three one month fishing expeditions this past year. Get on SA, pay, talk to a lot of girls, get a few regulars, and let my month expire. Early on in my first go around, I put "Married but looking". This is my opinion, but it kills a huge pool of the type of girls you join SA for. These real babies. You can get them to have some stranger that's 15+ years older dump multiple loads of cum in their mouth and pussy, but married, they'll drop you like it's hot.

A vast majority of the real babies I've hooked up with are on SA due to a sort of relationship rebound from either BF cheating or dumping (Their first or second super serious relationship went bad) and they are rebounding, OR they are freshly divorced because (as you probably guessed) their ex had cheated on them. Even if it was because they were a pile of shit, cheating is almost always in the equation. So, while they will fuck your brains out raw, married is 100% no deal for a lot of them.

I just fucking lie and say I'm single. I say I have full custody and I don't want them coming around to my place because of that. You should never have a baby come home anyways.

Just my two cents.

Originally Posted by DL500 [View Original Post]

Thanks for all the help as I muddle my way through the learning process of SA. I don't know where I would be able to find such an informative group to ask even the basic questions.

I'm faced with a question as a response to sent messages to SB who asks "what exactly are you looking for?" I'm a bit hesitant about listing " I'm looking to lay some young coeds and / or horny milfs. So just wondering what a clever response would be without turning them completely off but still getting the point across. I've added tags "FWB, mutual benefits, NSA looking for fun". I know most of the SB are looking for an allowance but I have zero intention of going that route. So, is it best to make them think you're planning on this? Also, listed myself as "Married but Looking" but later wondered if I made a rookie mistake with that.

Thanks for the help DL.

**AtlEyez** · 10-10-18 01:25

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I can't emphasize enough, you need to spend a few days reading the posts on the Richmond, VA sugar thread and its archive. All the how-tos you would ever want are there. FFA.

Took his advice. Good stuff posted there.

**Leep12** · 10-10-18 00:38

Originally Posted by Aliados [View Original Post]

Are why'all finding SA worth the money? I guess if I find a couple of reasonably priced hotties to hook up with it would be worth it, but I have been hesitant to pull the trigger. I would also need to figure out how to discretely pay their fees.

Only worth it if you like hot low mileage girls in their prime for GFE. Some of these girls aren't even broken in yet. I have found cash always works for payment, some like cash app.

Nationally there are 4 girls per guy on the site. I would think ATL is more like 6-1 or better.

I met a girl after being on the site in one day, lives 3 miles from my house picked her up and never talked money. Just gave her what I wanted. Still hooking up with her a year later.

Lot of amazing experiences for me. Make some mistakes also, but learned for them.

Just got to step up to the plate and take your swings. I think most these girls are wanting legit take charge SD's not always just about money IMO.

**GnesSmith** · 10-09-18 23:13

Alright guys here are two that I've scored with.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fb962...1-1856d3e5633b

This one use to be on POF. She's a pro and use to go by Queen. I had a threesome with her and her friend a couple years ago. It was quite fun having them both take turns blowing me. I don't remember what I gave her but I know it was under 2. All bare she knows how to please you. Funny she's on here now. She should not be difficult to hook up with. She's got 4 kids so needs the help.

https://www.seeking.com/member/24074...7-837f7d0565c3

This one went by Mia and has a smoking body my god. Nice big tits almost ds. She was a great fuck, not that great at giving head but damn her body is hot, tight and petite. She watches too much tv and is in a dream land thinking the's going to get 1000's per month. Wants to buy a house and I'm like your 19 with no job. Anyways I got her for 2 a couple times before she wanted more money. She was hesitant to do anything the first night but got to bang her anyways. She's actually sweet but is living in a fairly land. If you meet up with her it will be tough to keep your hands off her. She showed up wearing the tightest dress ever with tits perking out and we were going out to dinner. Thank god the place was packed so we went to another restaurant that was much more low key. I'd hate to give this one away but I've got some replacements now. Her body man if not a 10 probably a 9.9, no it's a 10. Enjoy.

**FarFarAway** · 10-09-18 17:23

Originally Posted by DL500 [View Original Post]

I'm just getting my feet wet and will probably screw up on some things but checking here for advice has helped me pull the trigger as well. Check my posts for payment options.

I can't emphasize enough, you need to spend a few days reading the posts on the Richmond, VA sugar thread and its archive. All the how-tos you would ever want are there. FFA.

**DL500** · 10-09-18 17:16

Originally Posted by Aliados [View Original Post]

Are why'all finding SA worth the money? I guess if I find a couple of reasonably priced hotties to hook up with it would be worth it, but I have been hesitant to pull the trigger. I would also need to figure out how to discretely pay their fees.

I'm just getting my feet wet and will probably screw up on some things but checking here for advice has helped me pull the trigger as well. Check my posts for payment options.

**Aliados** · 10-09-18 17:12

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

My reply is almost always " I'm looking for a friends and benefits arrangement. We get together a few times a month, have some adult fun, and then go our separate ways. " Usually that weeds out the ones just looking for free money real quick.

Are why'all finding SA worth the money? I guess if I find a couple of reasonably priced hotties to hook up with it would be worth it, but I have been hesitant to pull the trigger. I would also need to figure out how to discretely pay their fees.

**SoonerFan72** · 10-09-18 16:46

Originally Posted by DL500 [View Original Post]

Thanks for all the help as I muddle my way through the learning process of SA. I don't know where I would be able to find such an informative group to ask even the basic questions.

I'm faced with a question as a response to sent messages to SB who asks "what exactly are you looking for?" I'm a bit hesitant about listing " I'm looking to lay some young coeds and / or horny milfs. So just wondering what a clever response would be without turning them completely off but still getting the point across. I've added tags "FWB, mutual benefits, NSA looking for fun". I know most of the SB are looking for an allowance but I have zero intention of going that route. So, is it best to make them think you're planning on this? Also, listed myself as "Married but Looking" but later wondered if I made a rookie mistake with that.

Thanks for the help DL.

My reply is almost always " I'm looking for a friends and benefits arrangement. We get together a few times a month, have some adult fun, and then go our separate ways. " Usually that weeds out the ones just looking for free money real quick.