Seeking Arrangements

[CoolGuy1985]

Bottom line first- I am never going to renew the subscription. Why? 80 bucks not worth it.

However, there are chicks you won't find on backpage or on streets. Regular job girls who do this for extra money / are in a soup. So, that's a plus. However, they may not be having the best bod or skills, yet look forward to please.

The best part? Young chicks you won't find anywhere else.

I got digits of almost 30 girls. Met with 3. All BBBJCIMSW. My previous two I already reviewed. Met Kattack yesterday.

https://www.seeking.com/member/bf306...f-a1ca29d72f72

Nice girl. Few extra pounds, almost a smaller BBW, but she had a good headgame. $. Intense DT session and she was good.

The problem with the girls on this site is that the girls are desperate for money, but they don't want to show it. So, I really wanted to show respect, treat them like lady, shower compliments, and they would play hard to get, jack up their prices (500). The moment you drop the offer, stop conversing or play hard like "Sorry to waste your time but I would offer only 150", they would come back like crazy asking for dates. So, it almost felt like everywhere, girls don't respect the nice guy.

The other problem was a lot of them being a No Show. Like a few girls I agreed to the prices they offered, and we are all set to meet on a Saturday. And then they suddenly stop replying. Not sure if they are fake or anything, but this one chick was sending me her regular pics consistently, and stopped replying all of a sudden on the day of meet.

Overall, for the few girls I met, and few I plan to meet, none of them would qualify as an ATF. But the effort to bring them to a price point and a meet point is too high. So, not really renewing the membership.

Maybe I will take up Whats Your Price or SugarDaddyMeet in some time. But for me, SA is over.

[Aardvarks]

Just curious, how many times do you generally see a lady you have met through SA?

Is it one and done, or do you generally see her a few times?

Is it basically the same trend as the ladies you met through BP & CL?

The few I have seen, I generally keep seeing for 3 or 4 times, minimum, assuming there was "chemistry"(ie. satisfactory menu).

Thanks.

My numbers run between 1 date and seeing someone for a year. And a bunch in between. I guess when you find one you like try to lock her down. I've been seeing my current for 3 months and it's been amazing. Though you have to occasionally throw your weight around and threaten to leave or move on if they start to flake. Once you give them the sugar and it's consistent they're yours. Just in my experience.

[TheIceGuy]

What I have found is most are there for the money / play arrangement. There are a few I have run into that make a point of not wanting the situation to feel like an escort or prostitute. They are looking for something "else", definitely in their heads as having fun with someone that kinda like, maybe, and getting a few bucks because out of the kindness of our hearts we just want to help them out with a few bills, etc. Would be easier if they were all just "escort" minded so we could find our price points.

Exactly what I was trying to say LOL. So basically most of the girls on seeking are either full blown escorts or girls who fuck for money but do it in a way where they don't feel like escorts (like you said, ask for money to pay a bill or some shit). It's hilarious how in their mind, telling us they're doing something responsible with the money makes them feel better about it. (and I know, 99% of those who say they're paying bills end up paying their weed or heroin 'bill' from their dealer LOL).

Whatever makes them feel better.

So I'm gathering almost all girls are there for dick. Most want money but some will for free. Girls typically understand that it's not a regular dating site where we're looking for soul mates and shit.

[Laissez Faire]

Does anyone else see some manly features on her or is it just me?

She had the right parts from the other pictures she sent me!

[Aimstraight]

Does anyone else see some manly features on her or is it just me?

https://www.seeking.com/member/f6336...8-97a2b2001787

Have been talking to this one, she seems pretty sweet and open to some pretty kinky stuff, unfortunately, a bit far for me and she can't do incalls, she initially asked for 5, said she'd take 3 per meet, she didn't seem to mind much about a time limit. For any of you guys that can host north of Boston.

[Longjblues]

Just curious, how many times do you generally see a lady you have met through SA?

Is it one and done, or do you generally see her a few times?

Is it basically the same trend as the ladies you met through BP & CL?

The few I have seen, I generally keep seeing for 3 or 4 times, minimum, assuming there was "chemistry"(ie. satisfactory menu).

Thanks.

[Medford Guy]

True. I guess it's my roundabout way of asking if all the girls on there are for money or some use it as a dating / hookup site for freebies?

What I have found is most are there for the money / play arrangement. There are a few I have run into that make a point of not wanting the situation to feel like an escort or prostitute. They are looking for something "else", definitely in their heads as having fun with someone that kinda like, maybe, and getting a few bucks because out of the kindness of our hearts we just want to help them out with a few bills, etc. Would be easier if they were all just "escort" minded so we could find our price points.

[ClMike01]

True. I guess it's my roundabout way of asking if all the girls on there are for money or some use it as a dating / hookup site for freebies?

Well I've meet 3 from sa only 1 wanted the cash the other 2 just wanted to have some fun. 1 was eve so hard up for it she paid for the room LOL.

[SwimSays]

True. I guess it's my roundabout way of asking if all the girls on there are for money or some use it as a dating / hookup site for freebies?

I'd say 90 to 95% of them on there are definitely primarily there for the money. Even the women who are overly sexual in their everyday lives and enjoy hooking up are trying to commodify it. I've run across some naive ones that don't talk about money or an arrangement until after the fact but I chalk that up to being inexperienced. After a month and a few meet ups they don't make that mistake anymore.

[OkWhatever]

I have talked to her a few time, couple weeks ago. She has pointed out to me that she is looking for an arrangement though, financial arrangement that is? Anybody else get anywhere with her.

Arrangement was never mentioned with me and no $ every exchanged. She kept asking me to meet her after the 1st time, never mentioned arrangement. She's just looking to be spoiled a bit. I think.

[TheIceGuy]

So basically you have one category.

Escort, fucks for money.

Then you have, cheap, some money, a lot of money, to describe the damage.

True. I guess it's my roundabout way of asking if all the girls on there are for money or some use it as a dating / hookup site for freebies?

[Malibu1980]

I'm curious too, how did it go? She seems really sweet.

I've been KIK messaging her and she never reads it so I don't know what her deal is. But if anyone has actually met her let me know because I feel like I'm wasting my time.

[JimXuper90]

I should elaborate on on "escortish". Escort is what we all know and love, but to me an escortish is the girl who likes to think she's not an escort but will fuck and expect something in return. They're basically escorts who are in denial. They call themselves "sugarbabies" to feel better about herself but to me the only differences between a SB and escort are one leeches on to just one guy or two guys at a time and actually has less sex than an escort but thinks she deserves even more money.

So, I have three categories.

Escort. Fucks for money.

Sugarbaby. Is a girlfriend of 1-2 at a time for lots of money.

Escortish. Is young like a sugarbaby but fucks anyone for money and charges a fortune because she thinks she's a sugarbaby.

Looking at seeking, the escorts are obvious, but what about the rest? Are they real sugarbabies, escortish girls, or civs who mistake seeking for a dating site?

So basically you have one category.

Escort, fucks for money.

Then you have, cheap, some money, a lot of money, to describe the damage.

[OwenShady]

Been speaking to her and will likely take a chance, seems pretty sweet so far, can't host though, so debating on getting a room somewhere, anyone have any experiences? Otherwise it'll be a Hail Mary toftt haha. https://www.seeking.com/member/915a8...d-4790afb6c53e.

Any luck yet?

I'm curious too, how did it go? She seems really sweet.

[TheIceGuy]

I should elaborate on on "escortish". Escort is what we all know and love, but to me an escortish is the girl who likes to think she's not an escort but will fuck and expect something in return. They're basically escorts who are in denial. They call themselves "sugarbabies" to feel better about herself but to me the only differences between a SB and escort are one leeches on to just one guy or two guys at a time and actually has less sex than an escort but thinks she deserves even more money.

So, I have three categories.

Escort. Fucks for money.

Sugarbaby. Is a girlfriend of 1-2 at a time for lots of money.

Escortish. Is young like a sugarbaby but fucks anyone for money and charges a fortune because she thinks she's a sugarbaby.

Looking at seeking, the escorts are obvious, but what about the rest? Are they real sugarbabies, escortish girls, or civs who mistake seeking for a dating site?