"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[UKnowWho]

You do prepay before visits occurred? Or post pay after visits occurred? How do you determine she is trust worthy if you do prepay. In my experience a pot took 5 oo for weekly arrangement and gone silent.

Neither, actually. I give money each visit, though some don't like that because it feels too much like prostitution to them. But telling (and showing) her that the money isn't conditional on sex helps. And I guarantee her the monthly total unless she misses visits. That is, if I have to miss (which never happens), I'll still give her the money, but if she misses, no money. And I tell her we'll switch to monthly prepay if I fail to live up to that, since I know I won't.

I have had two who insisted on prepay and I decided were worth the risk. I prepaid one for two weeks, and the other was for a month. Neither ghosted me, but both missed about half of the agreed number of visits. I insisted on switching to money each visit after that. In both instances, they agreed, and everything was fine from then on.

[JustLonely]

I suppose it's about how much time you have. Seems like a lot of work for something that is a long shot.

I agree. A waste of time. It's getting hard enough to find ones willing to go to the FC without starting the chase laps behind.

[FruitNinja]

Have any of the members been successful with any ladies who mentioned that they was looking for a mentor and wasn't interested in anything sexual? I was thinking about going along with one in order to see, if they would eventually warm up with different approach.

I suppose it's about how much time you have. Seems like a lot of work for something that is a long shot.

[EvilTmp]

You do prepay before visits occurred? Or post pay after visits occurred? How do you determine she is trust worthy if you do prepay. In my experience a pot took 5 oo for weekly arrangement and gone silent.

Let me get this right: you met some girl on the internet and then you gave her 500 with the assumption that you'd meet later and she would 'make it up' to you? And then as a complete shocker she ghosted you?

Some people can't be helped...

[CrazySpice]

Always twice a week. Less than that isn't enough for me, and more is too much burden on my free nights. No firm rules about time per visit, but each visit usually ends up being about three to five hours.

Haha, that's hilarious. I think I'll borrow that story the next time I run across a girl with a story about her friend's SD.

You do prepay before visits occurred? Or post pay after visits occurred? How do you determine she is trust worthy if you do prepay. In my experience a pot took 5 oo for weekly arrangement and gone silent.

[CrazySpice]

Always twice a week. Less than that isn't enough for me, and more is too much burden on my free nights. No firm rules about time per visit, but each visit usually ends up being about three to five hours.

You do prepay before visits occurred? Or post pay after visits occurred? How do you determine she is trust worthy if you do prepay. In my experience a pot took 5 oo for weekly arrangement and gone silent.

[Falar]

Have any of the members been successful with any ladies who mentioned that they was looking for a mentor and wasn't interested in anything sexual? I was thinking about going along with one in order to see, if they would eventually warm up with different approach.

[Ernest Ll]

Yessssss you will completely enjoy the experience while it is occurring but shortly after the act when all of the endorphins wane, you will experience complete remorse for what you have done. Scenario one. He will end up discovering the tryst soon and you will have lost a "life long friend" for a few moments of pleasure. NO father would ever excuse a friend for this travesty upon his little girl! You lose! Scenario two. She keeps it to herself and you will forever be completely uncomfortable around your friend and will never be able to continue as you had in your past as you are always fearful of exposure. Even if you are never outed, your life will never be the same as your guilt and fear will consume you around these folks. You should draw the line at what your inner conscience is telling you and be the better person and friend. There are plenty of opportunities for this type of leg around without jeopardizing yourself!

PIE.

Stay away from the daughter, you keep your friend = You win.

Tell us who she is, she gets her shopping spree = She win.

[FarFarAway]

"Online Only" is now an accepted form of Seeking as a tab now. Your new SA screwing up a good thing once again.

It is ironic that it is both something you can select or seek and something you can report someone for. Try the report function, you'll find it there. They're a little schizo over FOSTA.

[FarFarAway]

Yessssss you will completely enjoy the experience while it is occurring but shortly after the act when all of the endorphins wane, you will experience complete remorse for what you have done. Scenario one. He will end up discovering the tryst soon and you will have lost a "life long friend" for a few moments of pleasure. NO father would ever excuse a friend for this travesty upon his little girl! You lose! Scenario two. She keeps it to herself and you will forever be completely uncomfortable around your friend and will never be able to continue as you had in your past as you are always fearful of exposure. Even if you are never outed, your life will never be the same as your guilt and fear will consume you around these folks. You should draw the line at what your inner conscience is telling you and be the better person and friend. There are plenty of opportunities for this type of leg around without jeopardizing yourself!

PIE.

BTW, isn't this the plot to 'Lolita'? Humbert is eventually driven mad by his relationship w / her.

[JustLonely]

Report her.

"Online Only" is now an accepted form of Seeking as a tab now. Your new SA screwing up a good thing once again.

[FigLeaf]

From Stony Creek. Strictly online business in her words.

Report her.

[American314]

My lifelong friend has asked me to check in on his daughter going to college in my city. I already creep her Instagram and this summer she friended me on fb from a second account that her parents are blocked from seeing. She has already begged me to take her to the mall, what I don't know is whether she is looking for a ride or a sponsor. A misunderstanding could be catastrophic but this could be awesome / terrible / FANTASTIC. Updates to come.

Yessssss you will completely enjoy the experience while it is occurring but shortly after the act when all of the endorphins wane, you will experience complete remorse for what you have done. Scenario one. He will end up discovering the tryst soon and you will have lost a "life long friend" for a few moments of pleasure. NO father would ever excuse a friend for this travesty upon his little girl! You lose! Scenario two. She keeps it to herself and you will forever be completely uncomfortable around your friend and will never be able to continue as you had in your past as you are always fearful of exposure. Even if you are never outed, your life will never be the same as your guilt and fear will consume you around these folks. You should draw the line at what your inner conscience is telling you and be the better person and friend. There are plenty of opportunities for this type of leg around without jeopardizing yourself!

PIE.

[JustLonely]

From Stony Creek. Strictly online business in her words.

[EasyeOne]

https://www.seeking.com/member/17546...e-3e1a033bba0e

Any feedback on this one before I pull the trigger?

Nothing in archives I could find.

Thanks bros!

Been going back and forth for some time, sent a few sexy pics but 4 $$ is her minimum so far. The pics she sent are much better then those on the profile. If you pull the trigger do update us, I might go for it next week.