Seeking Arrangements

[Aardvarks]

In addition to the above suggestions help not getting you banned, it'll get you farther with the ladies.

I don't know if there is some sort of double standard but I frequently have SBs tell me explicitly what they will and won't do. As far as I know they are not getting banned. Are we as men being singled out here? #METOO!

I appreciate all the tips. Guess SA is becoming either A) more PC so they don't get shutdown or B) banning people randomly so they can make more bucks.

There's a thread on the Let's Talk Sugar forum about the eventual potential demise of SA. I hope it doesn't go away but maybe something better will be next. Hosted in NL!

[Glennie]

I wouldn't say zero. I've had a few encounters in the 18-21 space, recently, from SA. But, yes, spam is part of the world we live in.

So basically the owner of the website reads or moniters all the messages that guy's send to girls? That's what I think is going on, if I pay the first months fee and I try to give all the girls my Facebook email or cell number (so I won't have to keep paying the monthly fee) there probably going to ban me, am I speaking the truth? That's the only way they make money by making you pay and it's safe to say a lot of the ads are spam I mean no 18 year old girl would just post all these pictures of herself I don't believe that.

[Spill]

Not a problem taking the conversation to text or email, or even suggesting it. But mentioning certain words, "incall, outcall, donation, etc" will get you banned. Asking about "menu, bjs, daty, etc", I am sure will get you banned.

You just have to be a little smarter than that. Use common sense, and "date" language and courtesy. "Allowance", "benefits", "date" are ok. Of course, the lady can complain about you as well, and that can get you banned.

The earlier you go to text or email the better.

In addition to the above suggestions help not getting you banned, it'll get you farther with the ladies.

[JimXuper90]

Not a problem taking the conversation to text or email, or even suggesting it. But mentioning certain words, "incall, outcall, donation, etc" will get you banned. Asking about "menu, bjs, daty, etc", I am sure will get you banned.

You just have to be a little smarter than that. Use common sense, and "date" language and courtesy. "Allowance", "benefits", "date" are ok. Of course, the lady can complain about you as well, and that can get you banned.

The earlier you go to text or email the better.

What if the girl reports you after your date didn't work out? I had not mentioned incall outcall donation not even roses. All I asked was how much for the date.

[Longjblues]

Not a problem taking the conversation to text or email, or even suggesting it. But mentioning certain words, "incall, outcall, donation, etc" will get you banned. Asking about "menu, bjs, daty, etc", I am sure will get you banned.

You just have to be a little smarter than that. Use common sense, and "date" language and courtesy. "Allowance", "benefits", "date" are ok. Of course, the lady can complain about you as well, and that can get you banned.

The earlier you go to text or email the better.

So basically the owner of the website reads or moniters all the messages that guy's send to girls? That's what I think is going on, if I pay the first months fee and I try to give all the girls my Facebook email or cell number (so I won't have to keep paying the monthly fee) there probably going to ban me, am I speaking the truth? That's the only way they make money by making you pay and it's safe to say a lot of the ads are spam I mean no 18 year old girl would just post all these pictures of herself I don't believe that.

[Downtown Boy]

So basically the owner of the website reads or moniters all the messages that guy's send to girls? That's what I think is going on, if I pay the first months fee and I try to give all the girls my Facebook email or cell number (so I won't have to keep paying the monthly fee) there probably going to ban me, am I speaking the truth? That's the only way they make money by making you pay and it's safe to say a lot of the ads are spam I mean no 18 year old girl would just post all these pictures of herself I don't believe that.

[OlmanDriver]

I got kicked off before even paying the 90 bucks because they said my initial profile remarks were not allowed. I pushed the envelope with the profile and it was obvious the site wasn't going to work like a backpage did.

[JimXuper90]

I got banned and this time they won't give me the reason why. They can't discuss it.

I got banned for "solicitation". What do they think Seekingarrengment is?

There is this delusion that SA isn't about hookers. I don't know why people are buying into that. The entire "arrangement" is literally a FINANCIAL arrangement. Event he credit card processors are looking the other way and guys say shit like "well the cops aren't going to go there because X" when they are already doing it.

SA is just trying to get as much as they can before they get shut down.

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[FarFarAway]

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[SteveInMa428]

I got banned and this time they won't give me the reason why. They can't discuss it.

I got banned after a week / I contacted them too, and they said it was final as well. I told them I wanted names of the people who ratted me out and they said they never do that. I guess you get hung without a trial. That site is full of bullshit anyway. And, I never said anything offensive or threatening to anyone. Luckily I got about ten numbers I can use at any time. I already met two. One was FANTASTIC, the other not so much. So. Screw you SA!

[BostonMan781]

I got banned for "using escort language" which violates their terms of use and the law. I can't say that language didn't happen occasionally, but it's often the woman who brings it up, and I've been on the site for over a year now, although I only recently started trying to meet anyone. There was no warning, and while their support team has been intermittently responsive, they've said their, "decision is final," at least 3 times now over the course of a week+. I got bumped up to a support supervisor, allegedly, but I'm going to keep asking to speak with someone.

In the meantime, it seems clear men & women have created new SA accounts after being banned. Have you used the same payment method (I. E. , the same credit card), or what? It seems if they really wanted to ban someone they could be more thorough than just using an email address as their only identifier. I suppose I could use a prepaid card.

I got banned and this time they won't give me the reason why. They can't discuss it.

[Malibu1980]

So I just got my account banned today. Honestly such a fucking scam they pull to steal my 90.00 bucks. I'm ten days in my membership so I sign on this afternoon and I've been banned for according to them potentially talking to underage girls. What kind of bullshit is this. Everyone on the site is 18 and over, all the profile ages I contact are 18 and over so hows anyone underage. I swear I'm being scammed by the site into making a new account and paying another 90.00. They have no phone number so I had to dispute my credit card charges. This happens to much. I've been reported before because woman who you say no to get all butthurt and just hit the report button and the site does nothing at into looking into it. I emailed them and waiting for a reply but I expect nothing to come out of this. Anyone here ever been banned and if so is there any chance of being reinstated or do I need to make a new account. I just lost all my contacts to I've made over the months.

So after some emails back and forth I am reinstated. I told them I wanted proof of what I was doing and that I was very serious of going further if I could with defamation. I take high offense to being accused of something serious as contacting underage woman on the site. First off that doesn't even exist everyones 18 and if there not and put 18 anyway well how the fuck would I know. But I have my real pics up on that site and don't need that accusation hanging over me but I'm back up and back at it so lets see how long it lasts before the next bullshit comes around.

[RI CheeseHead]

Agreed. She dances at a local club. But worth a trip for the home visit. I was a little rushed but whatever.

Which club?

[Cheese4256]

So I just got my account banned today. Honestly such a fucking scam they pull to steal my 90.00 bucks. I'm ten days in my membership so I sign on this afternoon and I've been banned for according to them potentially talking to underage girls. What kind of bullshit is this. Everyone on the site is 18 and over, all the profile ages I contact are 18 and over so hows anyone underage. I swear I'm being scammed by the site into making a new account and paying another 90.00. They have no phone number so I had to dispute my credit card charges. This happens to much. I've been reported before because woman who you say no to get all butthurt and just hit the report button and the site does nothing at into looking into it. I emailed them and waiting for a reply but I expect nothing to come out of this. Anyone here ever been banned and if so is there any chance of being reinstated or do I need to make a new account. I just lost all my contacts to I've made over the months.

I got banned for "using escort language" which violates their terms of use and the law. I can't say that language didn't happen occasionally, but it's often the woman who brings it up, and I've been on the site for over a year now, although I only recently started trying to meet anyone. There was no warning, and while their support team has been intermittently responsive, they've said their, "decision is final," at least 3 times now over the course of a week+. I got bumped up to a support supervisor, allegedly, but I'm going to keep asking to speak with someone.

In the meantime, it seems clear men & women have created new SA accounts after being banned. Have you used the same payment method (I. E. , the same credit card), or what? It seems if they really wanted to ban someone they could be more thorough than just using an email address as their only identifier. I suppose I could use a prepaid card.

[OkWhatever]

Seems like its deactivated now.

Met her out. Total headcase, married going through bad divorce, TONS of drama, baggage, bad living situation. Couldn't wait to leave. Avoid.