Seeking Arrangements

**Samuel05** · 08-25-18 09:31

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

If this is the same girl, she made initial contact with me immediately after I signed with SA 8 months ago. Her friends get 500-1000 per meet. Now she's on SB with 2 listing. Absolute discretion, won't meet for lunch or anywhere in public, doesn't have a credit card, travels for work, college loans plus, plus, plus. At one point, believe there was a post mentioning she was a twin, not positive. She sent some covered photos. Body not as shapely as others available on SA and SB. There were too many warning signs for me.

**Glennie** · 08-25-18 08:57

Agree. Also stay away from her "twin" AshD. Sounds like trouble to me.

Originally Posted by TwoMins [View Original Post]

Was this KrysM by any chance? It sounds like her story. Next she'll tell you her friends get 500-1200 per meet. Stay away from that one if so.

**Finder117** · 08-25-18 03:34

Saw a chick on SA using the name Pickford https://www.seeking.com/member/1519bacb-4463-6b01-c421-960d4c5e5837 She is in her early 30's and living in Somerville. She's cute -- but something is a little off about her.

I didn't get the "*****" vibe from her -- don't think she's selling to just anyone, but YMMV.

Wanted $$ got away with paying $$ for BBBJ. Skills were INCREDIBLE. CIM but she spit.

Personality is. Okay. Body is great. Face is kinda beat.

Might repeat.

**JimXuper90** · 08-24-18 21:10

Seeking arrangement has iOS app now. Just installed it.

**SixPacking** · 08-24-18 17:27

So I'm getting ready to jump back in after a few months of being away from seeking. I am considering What's your Price though and I'm curious as to what kind of experiences you guys may have had on that site, any and all feedback is certainly appreciated.

**SixPacking** · 08-24-18 17:25

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

I agree with long john I think you may have overreacted. I also see absolutely no reason, as I almost always do, for you guys not to post links to their profiles. If you had posted a link to her profile someone might have said that they had seen her and that she's an awesome girl. Or they might have said the opposite and at least you'd have a lot more information.

To be perfectly honest here, not just you but most guys participating here, there's not a single good reason not to post a profile. If you review a girl post the link it's not like you're posting where she lives or her phone number or her email address. If she still has an active profile on seeking guess what? If she has an active profile she's still looking around for c*ks that are not yours! So post the damn links!

Ok, rant over.

**Member #6503** · 08-24-18 15:59

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

Was this KrysM by any chance? It sounds like her story. Next she'll tell you her friends get 500-1200 per meet. Stay away from that one if so.

**Longjblues** · 08-24-18 10:54

You answered your own question, "who does this", banjo man!

You take her at her word that's she is newbie and doesn't do this professionally?

She is a professional, not a scammer. If she wanted to set you up, she would control location. She wants to meet at your hotel room, so you control entrance. I have had a number of ladies initiate conversation / contact. Mostly ladies who have been doing it on regular basis.

I never meet in public.

I think you over reacted. Please provide link. Thank you.

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

**Rome400** · 08-24-18 00:27

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

Good job, not a chance in the world I would take that risk. Too many girls available on here. Some type of rob scam, doubt law enforcement would waste their time.

**FarFarAway** · 08-24-18 00:07

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

It's supposed to be a sugar daddy site not barter with a crack ***** site. I figured the 90 a month would filter out the ex backpage people. I wouldn't be surprised if this site gets closed down eventually.

Keep in mind the girls pay nothing, most of them. The fee filters out guys who want to hit on the drug-riddled hookers. If the ratio of the membership to the sugar is low enough, they'll be on seeking.

**Aimstraight** · 08-23-18 23:42

Don't think you over reacted at all. They could be legit but does sound like some sort of set up. Maybe even LE. I've gotten a similar message or two in the past that has triggered my spidey sense. Once I tel then I will only meet in public they block me. I'm guessing your spidey sense was right on the money.

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

**Banjomania** · 08-23-18 22:19

A woman contacted me on SA today. That in and of itself is rare. Supposedly a nanny late 20's trying to pay off student loans. She had not been on a date yet on SA. So she said. But she refused to meet in public and wanted only to meet in a hotel room, for safety reasons she said. She said that a friend had been stalked by a guy she met in a bar and hotels rooms were safer. My spider sense was not comfortable. I thought, could this be a robbery? Who thinks it's safer to meet a guy you never met before in his hotel room? Something was odd, not wanting to meet in public first off SA. So I decided to pass. Anyone think I overreacted? I mean, I know regular ladies for hire do this all the time, but a woman who contacted a man off SA and had never been with one before?

**Longjblues** · 08-23-18 10:00

My guess is that BostonMan pays them $200 and then has session with them of 2. 5 to 3 hrs, thus calculating out to $60-80 per hour.

Most of the ladies agree to a gift amount, not as to the time spent.

Originally Posted by BostonMan781 [View Original Post]

I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.

**EvilTmp** · 08-23-18 09:44

Originally Posted by JohnTies [View Original Post]

60-80 and hour? Are these college girls or older women? That's for sex? How do you get them to agree to that amount, curious?

Can answer here or pm me very curious I try to see all different points and tactics to figure out what I will do when back on in the fall.

Thanks man.

This has been discussed ad nauseam. You will not get any and every girl you want for 100-200. What you will get is a girl that likes you, is attracted to you, and enjoys spending time with you. And guess what, a girl that likes you will give you a great experience as opposed to a BP experience where she's counting the minutes until you leave. But you will say "what about the hot ones? Yes, it's true even for the hottest girls on the site. For $800 they will let Shrek touch them but for me I've never been interested in a girl that needs to hold her nose as I'm diddling her. In the end you make your own sugar bowl experience. Approach the girls like BP and you will get a BP experience. Use more finesse and game and you get a different experience (and different girls) entirely.

**JimXuper90** · 08-22-18 15:53

Originally Posted by BostonMan781 [View Original Post]

I always pickup the ladies. I'm cheap and won't pay for ride sharing. Also you are paying way too much. Don't just jump into that stuff. Talk to them a little before. I usually pay 60-80 for an hour of hang time with a lady. Sometimes more if they are really hot.

You are right. If I send uber to pickup girls from different area, it usually add up $30-$50 to the cost.