Seeking Arrangements

**Laissez Faire** · 08-20-18 22:24

So I figured I'd give SA a try. What did you all do to pay the fee and remain somewhat anonymous? Was thinking either a prepaid card or using google pay with a throw away google play store email. Any particular way work better? I noticed the app has he 7 day trial, but the month seems to be more worth it if I'm going to give it a fair shot.

**FarFarAway** · 08-20-18 21:02

Originally Posted by GuyInTheCorner [View Original Post]

FFA, don't know what to tell you. I have had phenomenal experience in Boston. Much better than at the homebase in DC. Sure some have been 30 something's and therefore out of your range, but quite a few 20 somethings. Including a handful of college gals. I am about two decades younger than you so perhaps that is the difference?

That seems likely. Yes, I had gotten the 1 week promotional rate on a Seeking membership so it was a new email and new profile, I could have easily listed anything other than married, without consequence, that was clearly a mistake. I have learned at the feet of some real masters, F Scott, JZLizard, and they reported strategies similar to mine, and successes similar to my SF experience. IDK that these girls are all that great at judging age, I know I can't judge theirs very well. So, I would have said late 40's rather than the 50's I (thankfully) can claim. Usually, I have decent game, the nice guy approach works for me. That's the really surprising part. Getting them to message on the site or text, but not converting them. So, for those of you following in my footsteps.

**Malibu1980** · 08-20-18 10:58

I won't post any links, those I talk to and know me can PM [Deleted by Admin]

I'm getting tired of seeing posts like this, we are not running a PM site.

A2

**Member #6951** · 08-20-18 07:58

For those looking for daytime only meetings:

- I've had less than great experience in Boston (heck also in DC) with that crowd. You tend to get either pros, crazy, or desperate because they don't have a solid job. Look for a legit reason why they are available during the day (married, night shift work, undergrad).

- daytime AND hosting? Even tougher, especially in the city, unless you are looking for a pro. My advice is to get a place. I do that in DC and it works well.

- FWIW my best experiences in downtown Boston have all been in the evening, often later at night, at my hotel.

**Member #6951** · 08-20-18 07:52

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Brothers. I've been in your city 3 days, and totally saturated the local under 30 group on SA. I'd guess I hit 100. All I have to show for it was one nice dinner. I spoke w / that POT before I traveled, I could not get any of the others to even take a phone call. Perhaps I am chopped liver, the local talent may not have liked some aspects (6 decades). Your POTs are more offended by married men than those on the west coast. There is definitely local dependency on success I guess. I have done similar trips to San Fran where I had a SB in my hotel room each of my 3 nites there, FCing w / one. IDK what my fault was, I am all ears. BTW, I am not interested in any UTRs.

FFA, don't know what to tell you. I have had phenomenal experience in Boston. Much better than at the homebase in DC. Sure some have been 30 something's and therefore out of your range, but quite a few 20 somethings. Including a handful of college gals. I am about two decades younger than you so perhaps that is the difference?

**JohnTies** · 08-20-18 01:18

Originally Posted by JimXuper90 [View Original Post]

They even picked up the restaurant for me. "I always want to try this place, if we can meet over there will be great. ".

Hahaha They are not that entitled. WOW! Where do they think that any of that is even remotely going to happen.

Where do they fill their heads with that bs?

**JohnTies** · 08-20-18 01:16

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Brothers. I've been in your city 3 days, and totally saturated the local under 30 group on SA. I'd guess I hit 100. All I have to show for it was one nice dinner. I spoke w / that POT before I traveled, I could not get any of the others to even take a phone call. Perhaps I am chopped liver, the local talent may not have liked some aspects (6 decades). Your POTs are more offended by married men than those on the west coast. There is definitely local dependency on success I guess. I have done similar trips to San Fran where I had a SB in my hotel room each of my 3 nites there, FCing w / one. IDK what my fault was, I am all ears. BTW, I am not interested in any UTRs.

Women here in the Northeast are the most uptight, opinionated, and closed minded than anywhere else in the country, even the young college girls.

Sorry man.

**RI CheeseHead** · 08-20-18 00:15

Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]

Here is a nice mature / MILF type. There was no money exchanged and none asked for. She just asked to be spoiled, which didn't mean much more then a drink and offering to get her dinner when we met. Met her out and she looked just like her pics. Noticed that she was married. Typical crappy marriage story and will be eventually divorced. Husband treats her like garbage. I didn't want to really get into it.

BBBJ, DATY, CFS, heavy french kissing all for $0. 00. Just bought her a drink and was nice to her.

If you reach out to her. Be a gentleman. Just offer to take her out to dinner / drinks and act normal. You will probably get laid.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4a148...3-7595624459e5

Did this end up at your place, hers, or a hotel?

**FarFarAway** · 08-19-18 23:07

Brothers. I've been in your city 3 days, and totally saturated the local under 30 group on SA. I'd guess I hit 100. All I have to show for it was one nice dinner. I spoke w / that POT before I traveled, I could not get any of the others to even take a phone call. Perhaps I am chopped liver, the local talent may not have liked some aspects (6 decades). Your POTs are more offended by married men than those on the west coast. There is definitely local dependency on success I guess. I have done similar trips to San Fran where I had a SB in my hotel room each of my 3 nites there, FCing w / one. IDK what my fault was, I am all ears. BTW, I am not interested in any UTRs.

**CoolGuy1985** · 08-19-18 19:24

Erin was reviewed by Ebloke and she also conatcfed me for an arrangement. I asked her for her digits and she hasn't been online since. Could any of you who has seen her provide me her digits? You can confirm with her if you want and then PM me the number.

Her SA link

https://www.seeking.com/member/46083804-77bf-4f22-b808-0da9603cec13

**JimXuper90** · 08-19-18 17:38

Originally Posted by Skatar018 [View Original Post]

You should've asked them if you were the appetizer, the entree, or the main course!

They even picked up the restaurant for me. "I always want to try this place, if we can meet over there will be great. ".

**OkWhatever** · 08-19-18 12:44

Here is a nice mature / MILF type. There was no money exchanged and none asked for. She just asked to be spoiled, which didn't mean much more then a drink and offering to get her dinner when we met. Met her out and she looked just like her pics. Noticed that she was married. Typical crappy marriage story and will be eventually divorced. Husband treats her like garbage. I didn't want to really get into it.

BBBJ, DATY, CFS, heavy french kissing all for $0. 00. Just bought her a drink and was nice to her.

If you reach out to her. Be a gentleman. Just offer to take her out to dinner / drinks and act normal. You will probably get laid.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4a148...3-7595624459e5

**Samuel05** · 08-19-18 12:40

Originally Posted by CoolGuy1985 [View Original Post]

I chat with girls and at times they message me. At various levels they just disappear. They don't read chats, they are online, but just disappear. Am I doing something wrong? I don't even ask for sex, I just ask for their allowance and meeting up.

Basically, have had pretty good luck but every so often something crazy comes along. Several post as being in Boston, but are so far away it's half day of back and forth travel. One 53 yo posted Boston but in Rhode Island because the state is to small and everybody knows everyone. She didn't want to message, text, or email but would talk. Gave the burner #. She called. Ambled through the prelim convo. Repeatedly said was not a hooker just in a bad spot financially. On SA since 2014, but that was SA's error. Finally to the $, wanted 6000 per month. Remember she's 53 lives in RI and is not a hooker. I guess just a dreamer. Said I was the bad person for not wanting to help her. Glad it was the end of a nice day and I was partaking so turned out to be a real hoot.

**Skatar018** · 08-19-18 06:54

You should've asked them if you were the appetizer, the entree, or the main course!

Originally Posted by JimXuper90 [View Original Post]

I have two girls asked me to pay them $200 just to have them eat dinner with me

**JimXuper90** · 08-18-18 23:42

Originally Posted by CoolGuy1985 [View Original Post]

Thanks to all the seasoned players I have digits of 5-6 gals now. Rates are high but let's see how it goes.

I agree with the hot college girl thing. One was asking for 500 bucks for some books. When I asked what do I get in return, she asks what do I expect. When I said well physical intimacy, she said she was surprised she wasn't expecting it. I was like yeah, I will give 500 to you for just talking to me.

I have two girls asked me to pay them $200 just to have them eat dinner with me. Where do they get these ideas that we are so desperately lonely?