Seeking Arrangements

**BostonMan781** · 08-15-18 20:01

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Come on now, we're not some dumb girls here. While they might not tell you why, I'll bet top dollars you know exactly why you were banned.

I've never paid a girl for sex on SA. I've only offered girls cash for cuddling in underwear.

**Longjblues** · 08-15-18 15:16

Not asking for Profile Name, just tell us the City / town she is listed under on SA. If its Boston, never mind.

Pleas don't make us beggggggggg! You won't be violating your promise to her, by just the city / town name.

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.

**Glennie** · 08-15-18 13:48

I know why. PM me if interested in discussing. It's a good idea to understand the SOP on SA.

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Come on now, we're not some dumb girls here. While they might not tell you why, I'll bet top dollars you know exactly why you were banned.

**JohnTies** · 08-15-18 11:37

Originally Posted by Banjomania [View Original Post]

Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.

You could post link to her page as if we found her on the site.

**EvilTmp** · 08-15-18 11:04

Originally Posted by BostonMan781 [View Original Post]

"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use. ".

Well I'm banned for life, I've tried to find out why and they won't tell me.

Come on now, we're not some dumb girls here. While they might not tell you why, I'll bet top dollars you know exactly why you were banned.

**BostonMan781** · 08-15-18 10:10

"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use. ".

Well I'm banned for life, I've tried to find out why and they won't tell me.

**Banjomania** · 08-14-18 23:10

Had a top ten of all time encounter today with a graduate student off SA. Unfortunately, I cannot share her digits or any other information at her request, but I just share this for those who are SA doubters. It takes energy and commitment to succeed on SA, but when you do the rewards are often off the charts. I would say that at least four of my top ten lifetime experiences are from SA at this point. This woman today was a uniquely intelligent and lovely friend. We had lunch once previously with no sex. Today was all sex at lunch time. Two hours of joy for all. I am sure I will get some gripes about not sharing, but those of you who do great on SA will understand.

**Nrlmus** · 08-13-18 15:52

Originally Posted by BigHead [View Original Post]

I have her number and FB. I communicated with her 6 months ago. She is in Natick, agreed to a car date BBBJ for 50, but I never went to see her, just do like car dates. She was reviewed here once and also recommended by a trusted senior.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5eb28...f-6c7b5b718c91

-BH.

Oh yea, I remember her too. Didn't Tu Eres talk about her?

**Big Head** · 08-13-18 14:05

I have her number and FB. I communicated with her 6 months ago. She is in Natick, agreed to a car date BBBJ for 50, but I never went to see her, just do like car dates. She was reviewed here once and also recommended by a trusted senior.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5eb28...f-6c7b5b718c91

-BH.

**Spill** · 08-13-18 13:22

Originally Posted by SpecialOne8 [View Original Post]

ALL of these sites, whether SA, AL, Established Gentlemen, etc, all have a certain number of pros that advertise in there. Why wouldn't they? There is little or no enforcement of policies that would restrict such use, so they do. I have gandered upon them and found that a large minority of women there are also UTRs on USA, so there you have it. My BFF and fellow "domesticated" male has been seeing three young ladies he found on EG more than a year ago. He is convinced NONE of them are UTRs. I don't want to burst his bubble, so I keep it to myself that two of them are trolling on USA. You'd think for a gal having her rent paid in a decent apartment complex located in a yuppy part of town, taken to nice lunches and dinners, not to mention nice furniture and weekends on the beach in 5-star resorts would be enough to be a one-SD kind of girl, but apparently not. The amount of money he would save by simply seeing one or two pros or UTRs would curl your toes! But hey, it's only money, right?

There is no honor amongst thieves. As long as you go into such arrangements with your eyes wide open, it's no problem. It's when you look at the same "arrangement" through rose-covered glasses that can cause angst.

" large minority" ?

**Big Head** · 08-13-18 11:55

If you not a paying member then the initial messages they let you send, the girls cannot read them, they just receive a generic message that you are interested. Also I noticed that only 25% of the ladies who post there are actually visiting the site, majority of them already gave up. Still Boston has a lot of very active and hopeful ladies, but in the suburbs only a few who are still active. I think their dream of finding a real Sugar Daddy is very rarely realized.

-BH.

**Longjblues** · 08-13-18 09:11

I haven't had very good luck or experiences in Lynn, but I am forever curious. Below is a screenshot of her profile.

Originally Posted by Longjblues [View Original Post]

Anyone have info or experience with 5'6, athletic body, in her 30's, MILF on SA.

Nice pics. Can't get link right now. Pm or post. Any info appreciated.

**SpecialOne8** · 08-13-18 08:11

ALL of these sites, whether SA, AL, Established Gentlemen, etc, all have a certain number of pros that advertise in there. Why wouldn't they? There is little or no enforcement of policies that would restrict such use, so they do. I have gandered upon them and found that a large minority of women there are also UTRs on USA, so there you have it. My BFF and fellow "domesticated" male has been seeing three young ladies he found on EG more than a year ago. He is convinced NONE of them are UTRs. I don't want to burst his bubble, so I keep it to myself that two of them are trolling on USA. You'd think for a gal having her rent paid in a decent apartment complex located in a yuppy part of town, taken to nice lunches and dinners, not to mention nice furniture and weekends on the beach in 5-star resorts would be enough to be a one-SD kind of girl, but apparently not. The amount of money he would save by simply seeing one or two pros or UTRs would curl your toes! But hey, it's only money, right?

There is no honor amongst thieves. As long as you go into such arrangements with your eyes wide open, it's no problem. It's when you look at the same "arrangement" through rose-covered glasses that can cause angst.

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

You guys can play the way you want. Seeking is a site that does permit those of us who want real arrangements to find them. If there is too great an influx of escorts to the site, it will get bashed by FOSTA the same way CL and BP did. So, please don't screw it up for those of us who can get what we need here. Get yourself another safe, outside the US site for escorts.

Now, I am not holier than thou. I will be in your fair city Friday, and I am contacting gals left and right on Seeking. I make it clear I am a traveler, so it is most likely these will be 1-night stands, but it is also true there is much business to be done in Boston and I might be back, so they don't have to think of themselves as escorts, just on a 'delayed' ongoing arrangement. LOL.

It is interesting to me that many girls in Boston say they aren't interested in married guys. They have more morals than those in southern California, where it mostly doesn't matter, I guess. HA.

**Longjblues** · 08-13-18 07:47

Anyone have info or experience with 5'6, athletic body, in her 30's, MILF on SA.

Nice pics. Can't get link right now. Pm or post. Any info appreciated.

**FarFarAway** · 08-12-18 11:42

Originally Posted by BigHead [View Original Post]

I assume that a large percentage of these girls will just fuck for a fee. I recognize some faces there from the past. For the most part "sugaring" is just a fancy word for "pay for play". Most of the girls who hope to find a real wealthy sugar daddy will be disappointed. Most of our dreams as well as theirs will never materialized.

-BH.

You guys can play the way you want. Seeking is a site that does permit those of us who want real arrangements to find them. If there is too great an influx of escorts to the site, it will get bashed by FOSTA the same way CL and BP did. So, please don't screw it up for those of us who can get what we need here. Get yourself another safe, outside the US site for escorts.

Now, I am not holier than thou. I will be in your fair city Friday, and I am contacting gals left and right on Seeking. I make it clear I am a traveler, so it is most likely these will be 1-night stands, but it is also true there is much business to be done in Boston and I might be back, so they don't have to think of themselves as escorts, just on a 'delayed' ongoing arrangement. LOL.

It is interesting to me that many girls in Boston say they aren't interested in married guys. They have more morals than those in southern California, where it mostly doesn't matter, I guess. HA.