Arrangement Reports

**BudLover99** · 08-13-18 17:26

https://www.seeking.com/member/84886...5-0c45c98a5b93

This one claims to be Jo Jo Kiss, and in town for 3 weeks. Asking $400 per hour, but $200 up front. Told her nothing up front, and she squaked at that saying too many no shows. I think she is full of shit with stolen pics off web. Has anybody else risked the plunge and it really is her? I totally doubt it, but never hurts to ask. In the highly unlikely case it is, it would be a bargain because Jo Jo Kiss is very fucking hot. Thanks.

**Eric Lex** · 08-13-18 05:41

Originally Posted by AlMelrose [View Original Post]

But did you meet with her and besides the extortion was she worth it?

I don't understand how you can ask that, given the intel I provided on her already.

No she wasn't worth it, and no I wouldn't even think of seeing her again. She will extort you, and she is a sociopath. I am not exaggerating. Do as you please, though.

**OlderGuy1954** · 08-12-18 23:17

Originally Posted by Samath2624 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf...9-cf85534cb346

Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?

Happy to learn more about the significance of this.

The changing location may be because she's using SA as a phone app. Unless you turn it off, the app reports back your location to HQ, and then it's shown in the profile.

**Al Melrose** · 08-12-18 20:34

Originally Posted by EricLex [View Original Post]

Same chick who tried extorting anyone she met up with. You should steer clear unless you want to put up with that.

But did you meet with her and besides the extortion was she worth it?

**Bamboo99** · 08-12-18 18:40

I have been messaging this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/95679...2-c4c940cd5423.

Anyone have experience with her? Her profile says "If you think that you will be giving gifts or monies in exchange for sex, you are mistaken. I am looking for a legitimate connection!" Is that a psychological defense mechanism against the reality of the situation? Or should I stop messaging her? My profile makes it clear that I'm looking for something casual and implies NSA sex without actually saying it.

A couple of girls have asked, "tell me a little more about yourself. " How do you answer that? My profile is fairly complete, playful, and clear. I'm thinking the girls want to know standard small-talk type information, for their comfort, which is totally fine. Or am I missing something here?

**Eric Lex** · 08-12-18 18:38

Originally Posted by ChicagoGoer [View Original Post]

Not really here to point fingers but there is a resemblance there.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f6e7b...f-39701c197fdf

Same chick who tried extorting anyone she met up with. You should steer clear unless you want to put up with that.

**ChicagoGoer** · 08-12-18 18:07

Originally Posted by EricLex [View Original Post]

Gents, beware. There is a cutie girl on SA by the name Rosalove24. I never thought I'd get hit with something like this, but I'm a victim of attempted extortion.

Fellas, be aware that you're meeting girls you never have met before. After this experience, I don't know how to proceed on SA or whether I'd like to engage in any of this at all. Gauge the texts, see for yourself, and just try to be careful. I've got to deal with this now.

I can't view her profile anymore since I reported her through SA (it automatically blocks the person upon report), so this is the only picture from her profile that I could get. I won't be surprised if she already deleted her profile/blocked me. I'm sick to my stomach right now.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/961cc944-427c-412d-8c74-87c4fc4977b2

Not really here to point fingers but there is a resemblance there.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f6e7b...f-39701c197fdf

**RogerOver** · 08-11-18 14:02

Originally Posted by Bamboo99 [View Original Post]

Incidentally, a while back I randomly met a girl at a bar in the city. During conversation she mentioned her "friend" is on SA. A few days later, we went on a date for drinks. She came clean and said it isn't her "friend", but herself that is on the site. Even more recently, about six months ago, I met another girl at a late-night bar, and again it came up in conversation that she is on SA. This girl was cute, but kind of a mess, and we didn't hook up. But it goes to show how many girls are signed up! Quite amazing.

Often, the way to other girls is through the ones you meet on the site. I've never had a SB that didn't say something along the lines of "do you know some other guys that might be interested in meeting my friend?" I'm thinking like, "Yeah. Me".

**Bamboo99** · 08-11-18 12:18

Hi everyone.

Thank you all for the valuable information and advice. FruitNinja, Jasse1 and TheMidwestExec have especially been helpful for orientation. I'm looking forward to getting started!

It sounds like the following are important: 1) prepaid VISA to pay for membership 2) burner phone for privacy 3) some way to deal with self photos.

I've come across a few methods on these forums for dealing with self photos: 1) use Badoo to find a look-a-like photo 2) use one real photo, that is not on any social media site, keep it private, and only show it once you are in communication with a SB 3) use a real photo, make it public, but blur your face. In any case, it sounds like once you are in communication with a SB over text or app (such as Kik), then it is okay to send a couple real photos. Am I summarizing this correctly? Any other tips for maximizing privacy, while still being effective on the site?

What do you all normally use to book a hotel while maintaining privacy? Do you use a pseudonym?

Thanks again for all these value-packed posts.

Incidentally, a while back I randomly met a girl at a bar in the city. During conversation she mentioned her "friend" is on SA. A few days later, we went on a date for drinks. She came clean and said it isn't her "friend", but herself that is on the site. Even more recently, about six months ago, I met another girl at a late-night bar, and again it came up in conversation that she is on SA. This girl was cute, but kind of a mess, and we didn't hook up. But it goes to show how many girls are signed up! Quite amazing.

**FruitNinja** · 08-11-18 08:15

Originally Posted by SNeed12 [View Original Post]

Potentially looking for some companionship on a business trip. Do I need to put in a similar level of effort to using SA, or is it more straightforward given the nature of the site?

THere is nothing in this hobby that is straightforward. It takes time. Unless you start months before and set up multiple meets for a travelling biz guy it's a waste. IMHO. If you're home and can put in the time it's a blast.

**FruitNinja** · 08-11-18 08:14

Originally Posted by Westburbia [View Original Post]

It looks pretty expensive to upgrade so you can exchange messages. Is it worth it?

Depend if you want to be able to talk or just look. Read the forum. See what others have managed to do and then make your own decision. For me it's been a gold mine.

**Kellster** · 08-11-18 01:55

Originally Posted by ItsHowdyDoody [View Original Post]

I'd say no but I'd want to talk to her more before deciding. In Chicago we are lucky to have a lot of European, Latvian, Russian, etc. In the area.

My best score was a Polish 19 year old last year. If she had been mentioned like so many profiles have been lately, I may have had a bias and not tried her out. YMMV. She started as a gp type who over the course of attraction, mutual interest, etc. Became a great per meet friend and sex wise you name it. Just bringing that up as I see a lot of blanket profile opinions looking for concurrent intel on girls. Unlike agency or parlor types, these girls are not the same to each guy. (And when they are, they are more of a pro than I'd want).

I've also noticed if your diligent, some that are online at the same time, you can sometimes find their tinder, or whatever else profile they might have. I've caught a few on more legit dating sites, while it doesn't necessarily change the convo we might have, it does sort of lower their guard when you can first connect not on the sa site. (As the hot ones get slammed, and don't always appreciate what gets said to them in less than tactful ways) Just few thoughts.

One of the few I met when I was on the site I originally saw on an online dating site first. She lives pretty far from me, but when I saw her on SA I had better luck and we met. She probably felt comfortable with me- especially since she had younger guys emailing her. I guess they were into the older woman, mommy fetish which she said freaked her out. She was close to my age- so not really a typical baby in the traditional sense.

**ItsHowdyDoody** · 08-10-18 23:18

Originally Posted by Samath2624 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf...9-cf85534cb346

Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?

Happy to learn more about the significance of this.

I'd say no but I'd want to talk to her more before deciding. In Chicago we are lucky to have a lot of European, Latvian, Russian, etc. In the area.

My best score was a Polish 19 year old last year. If she had been mentioned like so many profiles have been lately, I may have had a bias and not tried her out. YMMV. She started as a gp type who over the course of attraction, mutual interest, etc. Became a great per meet friend and sex wise you name it. Just bringing that up as I see a lot of blanket profile opinions looking for concurrent intel on girls. Unlike agency or parlor types, these girls are not the same to each guy. (And when they are, they are more of a pro than I'd want).

I've also noticed if your diligent, some that are online at the same time, you can sometimes find their tinder, or whatever else profile they might have. I've caught a few on more legit dating sites, while it doesn't necessarily change the convo we might have, it does sort of lower their guard when you can first connect not on the sa site. (As the hot ones get slammed, and don't always appreciate what gets said to them in less than tactful ways) Just few thoughts.

**Samath2624** · 08-10-18 15:09

Originally Posted by FruitNinja [View Original Post]

She looks good. Any other details?

https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf...9-cf85534cb346

Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?

Happy to learn more about the significance of this.