Arrangement Reports

[Navmd]

I've done that a number of times where I book a hotel in the Chicago area, and see multiple women during the stay. It's a wild ride, but definitely make plans with about 5 girls because it's seriously ridiculous how often these girls flake out.

Thanks gents. Will definitely heed the advice and book after meets. Banter has been great tho so I'm hopeful. Side note I can tell my text game is massively improving with all the interaction, should spill over into other areas which is cool.

[ChicagoGoer]

The lifestyle expectation field was just not working from either direction. Many guys would not even deal with the women in the higher lifestyle expectations, perceiving major GPS. The newer ladies to the website would think it was the norm for guys give them $10 k or $20 k per month for platonic dates. When that did not work out, they would give up on the site. It gave them false expectations of what an arrangement is.

There are also new tags added. Here are some of them.

Designer Clothes & Accessories: I'm looking for someone who can accomodate my designer style.

Life of Leisure: I'm looking for someone who will support me in living a life of leisure.

Tuition & School Support: I'm looking for someone who can pay for my tuition or help me with minor school related expenses.

Fine Dining: I'm looking for someone who will take me out to amazing restaurants.

Shows & Entertainment: I'm looking for someone who wants to see shows and live entertainment with me.


Get that sex.

SDX

Not sure if it existed before. But Online Only is now a tag. Hopefully that makes it easier to weed out the pic sellers.

[Member #5757]

New poster long time lurker. Thought I'd give my take on SA. So far it's been good.

Signed up for premium last week. Probably put in around 20 hours to date (setup, searching, messaging).

Have sent 100 or so cold messages, basically any profile that caught my eye or has an oz of thought in it.

Right now, getting about 30-40% response rate, 10-15% transition to conversation / digits.

From those, I've 'selected' to hang with two of them this week, both beautiful and dtf, 19 and 23 yo. Going to book a hotel room this weekend and see how it goes. Hopefully, I keep both my kidneys.

Keep you guys posted.

I've done that a number of times where I book a hotel in the Chicago area, and see multiple women during the stay. It's a wild ride, but definitely make plans with about 5 girls because it's seriously ridiculous how often these girls flake out.

[Pal5600]

https://www.seeking.com/member/52749...8-67b645351559

We chat and text and exchange pic, she want to meet this week near north side, pic look look and hopefully she look like her text pic in real life, not sure about BBFS cip but will try.

[Pal5600]

https://www.seeking.com/member/1edec...c-c586009e3462

Chat with this one and exchange number, her text pic look young and hot, plan to meet this weekend, but probably flake, will see.

[Kellster]

New poster long time lurker. Thought I'd give my take on SA. So far it's been good.

Signed up for premium last week. Probably put in around 20 hours to date (setup, searching, messaging).

Have sent 100 or so cold messages, basically any profile that caught my eye or has an oz of thought in it.

Right now, getting about 30-40% response rate, 10-15% transition to conversation / digits.

From those, I've 'selected' to hang with two of them this week, both beautiful and dtf, 19 and 23 yo. Going to book a hotel room this weekend and see how it goes. Hopefully, I keep both my kidneys.

Keep you guys posted.

I agree with the other poster. I'd wait on booking a hotel room. Many chicks on SA flake. Meet her for coffee- if she shows up and things go well then you can go to a hotel.

[Pal5600]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f2745...e-22d9e9f55e75

This one here for lollapalooza this weekend, she and her girlsfriend want to meet today, but I think she flake city.

[Pal5600]

https://www.seeking.com/member/d35ff...3-e7a804c3f0e5

This one ask for weekly deal, told her if we get along good, I am okay with once a week, then she ghost, WTF.

[Pal5600]

https://www.seeking.com/member/05355...7-fc969e05d00d

Chatting with this one, I don't think she is that hot but maybe her price is reasonable for BBFS cip deal, will see how it turn out. Anyone meet her.

[Pal5600]

This girl came up in my search since she lists herself as athletic. Looking at the photos I would grade her out as either "a few extra pounds" or "full / overweight", and these might be her most flattering photos from a year or two ago. There must be some disconnect between men and women on body type.

https://www.seeking.com/member/09b63...9-cbfbd79e068d

SDX.

I would said full / overweight, however there are guys out there that like full / overweight women, so different strokes for different folks, I guess, just not for me.

[Eric Lex]

New poster long time lurker. Thought I'd give my take on SA. So far it's been good.

Signed up for premium last week. Probably put in around 20 hours to date (setup, searching, messaging).

Have sent 100 or so cold messages, basically any profile that caught my eye or has an oz of thought in it.

Right now, getting about 30-40% response rate, 10-15% transition to conversation / digits.

From those, I've 'selected' to hang with two of them this week, both beautiful and dtf, 19 and 23 yo. Going to book a hotel room this weekend and see how it goes. Hopefully, I keep both my kidneys.

Keep you guys posted.

Goodluck, man. But definitely do yourself a favor and have some sort of a backup if you already paid for the hotel. Most SA girls will flake. That's just life when fishing in the SA pool.

I've had my fair share of flakes, and I'd hate for it to happen to you.

[Navmd]

New poster long time lurker. Thought I'd give my take on SA. So far it's been good.

Signed up for premium last week. Probably put in around 20 hours to date (setup, searching, messaging).

Have sent 100 or so cold messages, basically any profile that caught my eye or has an oz of thought in it.

Right now, getting about 30-40% response rate, 10-15% transition to conversation / digits.

From those, I've 'selected' to hang with two of them this week, both beautiful and dtf, 19 and 23 yo. Going to book a hotel room this weekend and see how it goes. Hopefully, I keep both my kidneys.

Keep you guys posted.

[NdFanMan]

And she did say she does yoga and acrobatic. Besides she has pics so it's not like she is totally trying to pull a fast one on guys. I have seen a lot worse!

This girl came up in my search since she lists herself as athletic. Looking at the photos I would grade her out as either "a few extra pounds" or "full / overweight", and these might be her most flattering photos from a year or two ago. There must be some disconnect between men and women on body type.

https://www.seeking.com/member/09b63...9-cbfbd79e068d

SDX.

[SugarDaddyX]

This girl came up in my search since she lists herself as athletic. Looking at the photos I would grade her out as either "a few extra pounds" or "full / overweight", and these might be her most flattering photos from a year or two ago. There must be some disconnect between men and women on body type.

https://www.seeking.com/member/09b63...9-cbfbd79e068d

SDX.

[FafaFooey]

The lifestyle expectation field was just not working from either direction. Many guys would not even deal with the women in the higher lifestyle expectations, perceiving major GPS. The newer ladies to the website would think it was the norm for guys give them $10 k or $20 k per month for platonic dates. When that did not work out, they would give up on the site. It gave them false expectations of what an arrangement is.

There are also new tags added. Here are some of them.

Designer Clothes & Accessories: I'm looking for someone who can accomodate my designer style.

Life of Leisure: I'm looking for someone who will support me in living a life of leisure.

Tuition & School Support: I'm looking for someone who can pay for my tuition or help me with minor school related expenses.

Fine Dining: I'm looking for someone who will take me out to amazing restaurants.

Shows & Entertainment: I'm looking for someone who wants to see shows and live entertainment with me.

LOL. I'm sure the young ones especially will have fun with those new tags. Of course now the tag library is pretty firmly biased towards what the girls can 'get' out of an arrangement vs what they'll offer. I won't miss the lifestyle expectations either, although it could sometimes help weed out the most irrational girls. The high ends of the old scale were ludicrously inflated, but it, along with the 'big fish' stories that go around on some message boards fed the fantasies of the young ladies. Can't blame them for being a little jaded when they're sold on images of evenings on a yacht with George Clooney and the offers they get are lunch hours in a Motel 6 with George Costanza!