"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**CoolPix** · 07-27-18 18:16

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Her purse was stolen 2 days ago with all her money and wants 700 for rent and then we can meet up. Mighty big purse if it had 700 in it.

https://www.seeking.com/member/55c05...3-7c5831c9cfc4

Tried to check her out just now and wouldn't you know it, her profile is gone. So, you're probably right, scammer.

**CantWinLosin** · 07-27-18 14:18

Originally Posted by JustLonely [View Original Post]

Anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/273da...d-4c1c12c46a90

I've tried to set up a meeting with her but our schedules wouldn't mesh, mostly because she is / was in Petersburg and wouldn't meet in the middle. She's got a bit of attitude. Her FB page shows that she's a little heavier than her SA pics might indicate but she's still very sexy. She is living with a black guy and seems to prefer black guys.

**JustLonely** · 07-27-18 13:06

This one is in Charlottesville. Selling pics only.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3ff76...2-bf51ba9cc774

**JustLonely** · 07-27-18 13:03

Her purse was stolen 2 days ago with all her money and wants 700 for rent and then we can meet up. Mighty big purse if it had 700 in it.

https://www.seeking.com/member/55c05...3-7c5831c9cfc4

**JustLonely** · 07-27-18 11:37

Anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/273da...d-4c1c12c46a90

**CantWinLosin** · 07-27-18 11:33

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Anyone seen this tall busty ginger?

https://www.seeking.com/member/c21d2...4-ca9bfdc24a49

I've tried to get a response from her several times with luck. And she's pretty intermittent in even logging into the site and ignores msgs. Too bad. She's a stunner.

**BlueDrive** · 07-27-18 10:38

So I see that ever since they changed their domain name they also no longer accept PayPal. Most PP cards are not for international, any ideas on how to not use a personal CC?

**JustLonely** · 07-27-18 10:35

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Anyone seen this tall busty ginger?

https://www.seeking.com/member/c21d2...4-ca9bfdc24a49

Had dinner with her a few months back. She cancelled at the last minute before the next date and didn't want to meet anymore. Fun to talk with and quite a beauty. Never got past a hug and I guess she decided that was a far as she wanted to go. Maybe you will have better luck.

**Ernest Ll** · 07-27-18 09:15

Anyone seen this tall busty ginger?

https://www.seeking.com/member/c21d2...4-ca9bfdc24a49

**Starkey 2008** · 07-26-18 14:17

Originally Posted by BagIt [View Original Post]

Honestly they are not utr or pro. I have a reason why I don't want to meet them in public and I tell them this from get go on SA, that I have no interest in dinners or dates. I am sending messages to girls I know are no pro or utr and tell them in 1 or 2nd message, "I am looking for an SB who will come see me for fun and bed, no dinners and dates, you open to it?" You will be surprised how many respond yes, but then will want to know the allowance.

Hey BagIt.

First point I'll make, and this point is frequently made by the Admin of this board, is this. If they have sex with you in exchange for money, and if there were no money there would be no sex, they are PROS. It's that simple. It does not matter if it happens 3 months after you start talking with them or three hours after. Sex for money = PRO. But not all pros operate exactly the same way. In the same way that not all SDs operate the same way. Trust me when I tell you, there is more than one way to skin a cat and what might work for me or some other SD might not work for you. The fact is, many SBs don't want to consider themselves pros, and each one has a different degree of financial need, and therefore different levels of urgency. If they are mostly financially stable, not supporting a habit or a kid, or not desperately trying to make rent or tuition payments, then they may be in a position to take it slower and be more picky. But some of the best encounters I have had, with the hottest chicks I've been with, have moved very quickly from initial contact to FC. Some have taken longer and require more time and work. IMHO, one of the skills most successful SDs have is, the ability to quickly read the signals the SB is giving you and then being able to quickly adjust your "system" to that particular SB. For my part, if an SB starts asking about money over the DM on the site, I use that as an opportunity to immediately move her to offline communication or to a first meeting. I don't like to discuss money or those types of details using the DM on the SA site. So when they bring it up, I tell them that, and suggest we start texting, or skyping or using whatever method you use to communicate offline. Or I tell them that I would rather have that discussion face to face, so I suggest a meeting for coffee, drinks or lunch. I like to start with a casual meeting that does not require a big time commitment on her part or a big financial commitment on my part. So if they want to move fast, don't automatically assume that is a negative. Go with it, but use it to your advantage. Get her to commit to moving forward, one way or another. Frankly, and this is just my opinion, the biggest time wasters are the ones who want to have casual conversation for 2-3 weeks using the DM on the SA site. If they will not at least move to an offline form of communication pretty quickly, the chances you are dealing with a time waster go way up. But again, this is just my opinion. You will need to find the process that works best for you.

Stay Safe,

Starkey.

**JustLonely** · 07-26-18 13:58

In case you haven't been following her in the General Reports #7711 section, she has been found after the police were looking for her. She is on SA today so beware if she is not what she seems.

**CarolinaBlue** · 07-25-18 11:33

Currently women on SA can make a free account and send and receive messages for free but SA has changed the rules up on them as well. A premium account charges them $19/ month for a premium subscription with this they can see if you have read their message, narrow their search results by age, ethnicity, income, net worth and do on. Also without a premium subscription the SB cannot tell what men are premium subscribers. Meaning they can't tell who will be able to read and reply to their messages. So while SA is still "free" to women, it's greatly limited what you get for free. Girls who register with their college. Edu email accounts get free premium accounts as they are verified college students.

**JZLizard** · 07-25-18 08:05

Originally Posted by VangDr [View Original Post]

I've been watching the SB site for a while now and decided to splurge and purchase a few credits so I may attempt to contact a few girls. Reached out to a few, and had a couple replies. One was a pro in Hopewell just looking for some quick $$ She gave me the "I have no food for my kids" line, but whatever. I met her once and had a nice bbbjcimws.

Messaged another girl, very pretty 36 yrs old, has a stable job, car, home, etc. I kept messaging her and she gave me her KIK screen name and then we used that form of communication. Asked her to meet up for a drink one night after work and she said yes, had a very nice time, she is really a great girl. Met two other times, once for coffee and the other was for drinks and appetizers. One night during the week I texted her and asked if she wanted to come over, to my surprise she said yes. She probably didn't get to my place till 2300, but a couple of hours later we were naked in the bedroom. A few nights later she came over again for a repeat.

With all that being said I still haven't been asked for any allowance, but I am waiting for that conversation to take place. LOL. Idk, I will just play it by ear and see what happens. She did say to me that she wanted the benefits of a relationship, without the relationship bs. I am fine with that.

I don't think I fully understood what a sugar daddy \ baby was.

There are plenty of girls who have a boyfriend already that's not meeting their needs, yet have cravings and fantasies about meeting older men for no-strings sex, and sometimes they use the scenario you described as a way of saying they want the hookups but nothing more serious (emotional needs already met but they don't want to come out and say they are cheating). I love this category of girls. There are also girls who are looking for exactly what she says she is. A "pseudo-boyfriend" that she can hang out with and have good sex and good times with, but without the obligation that you will text each other daily and start pulling emotions and feelings into the situation. I like this category of girls too, but some of them can quickly go from wanting only the hookups to wanting something more. Either type is a winning situation because gifts or money is either way down their priority list, or not on it at all in some cases.

**VangDr** · 07-24-18 18:52

I've been watching the SB site for a while now and decided to splurge and purchase a few credits so I may attempt to contact a few girls. Reached out to a few, and had a couple replies. One was a pro in Hopewell just looking for some quick $$ She gave me the "I have no food for my kids" line, but whatever. I met her once and had a nice bbbjcimws.

Messaged another girl, very pretty 36 yrs old, has a stable job, car, home, etc. I kept messaging her and she gave me her KIK screen name and then we used that form of communication. Asked her to meet up for a drink one night after work and she said yes, had a very nice time, she is really a great girl. Met two other times, once for coffee and the other was for drinks and appetizers. One night during the week I texted her and asked if she wanted to come over, to my surprise she said yes. She probably didn't get to my place till 2300, but a couple of hours later we were naked in the bedroom. A few nights later she came over again for a repeat.

With all that being said I still haven't been asked for any allowance, but I am waiting for that conversation to take place. LOL. Idk, I will just play it by ear and see what happens. She did say to me that she wanted the benefits of a relationship, without the relationship bs. I am fine with that.

I don't think I fully understood what a sugar daddy \ baby was.