"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**AtlEyez** · 07-27-18 08:55

Originally Posted by TroyWess [View Original Post]

That's an interesting one. Don't think I've seen "saving myself for marriage" before. SA women I've talked to have run the gamut from offering $60 QV to being insulted that you think the $1 K they want for a date would include sex. It's nothing more than a platform to match people up. Profile pics and text, the "lifestyle expectation" and so forth offer clues, but there's no one definition of "arrangement". You just have to explore a lot to find good matches for what you're looking for. And, hey, if a woman can find a guy willing to pay to just hang out, or text, or whatever with no sex, more power to her. As long as there's not some bait and switch going on, I guess that's a dude's choice to make.

Thanks guys, I appreciate that. TroyWess, we are pretty much in line with our thinking. I've been at this for several months now and I finally met a sb yesterday for the first time. It was pretty interesting and not quite what I expected. However, we had a nice time and I'll probably see her again. I don't particularly kiss and tell, but I didn't leave disappointed.

Now, for something else. Have you, or any of you guys tried secretbenefits? I know the payment system is a little high, so you have to sort of get in there quickly and work something out to get your money's worth. But the standard of sb's are pretty much the same as SA's from what I can see. They also seem to get new ones more often then SA. I shut my profile down over there but am considering going back to a little stint. Thoughts? Anybody else have any experiences from there, positive or negative?

**AllHailChet** · 07-27-18 08:45

Has anyone met this chick? What was it worth it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/9592d...c-5ac5c2a8bad7

**SoonerFan72** · 07-26-18 17:07

Originally Posted by NGASugarMan [View Original Post]

Anyone else seeing her? Please PM me if you are, would like to compare notes Or post, either way it's fine with me.

Ludas.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2cff0...9-4cc2588a9285

Nothing bad at all, just wanted to see what $$ other were possibly getting.

I chatted with her a while back, she used to advertise being in Newnan. She seemed pretty legit from what I remember, she bailed when she found out I had a SO, she only wants single guys.

**TroyWess** · 07-26-18 15:41

Originally Posted by AtlEyez [View Original Post]

Sorry for the double post, but here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://www.seeking.com/member/e99f8...2-672dbe91321e

That's an interesting one. Don't think I've seen "saving myself for marriage" before. SA women I've talked to have run the gamut from offering $60 QV to being insulted that you think the $1 K they want for a date would include sex. It's nothing more than a platform to match people up. Profile pics and text, the "lifestyle expectation" and so forth offer clues, but there's no one definition of "arrangement". You just have to explore a lot to find good matches for what you're looking for. And, hey, if a woman can find a guy willing to pay to just hang out, or text, or whatever with no sex, more power to her. As long as there's not some bait and switch going on, I guess that's a dude's choice to make.

**HalliknWolk** · 07-26-18 14:19

Originally Posted by AtlEyez [View Original Post]

Sorry for the double post, but here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://www.seeking.com/member/e99f8...2-672dbe91321e

A lot women think that being a sb consist of spending a old rich mans money without having any type of sex. When I hear ladies say they want a sd I always say you know them sd got them blue skittles and going to want you to do more than just sit on their lap. If I was you I'd just keep going to the next instead of wasting time and funds.

**Airmantroy** · 07-26-18 13:33

Originally Posted by AtlEyez [View Original Post]

Sorry for the double post, but here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://www.seeking.com/member/e99f8...2-672dbe91321e

I'd guess she wants to sell you pics and videos.

As a general rule, the girls who are the best are the ones who look demure and have FWB in the text of their profile. The ones who are UTR pros / Semi Pro have revealing pics and are pretty straight forward in their profiles. Pay very little attention to the "Lifestyle expectation" a 19-25 yr old thinks $200/ wk is a lot of money. And to them that's extravagant.

**AtlEyez** · 07-26-18 06:18

Sorry for the double post, but here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://www.seeking.com/member/e99f8...2-672dbe91321e

**AtlEyez** · 07-26-18 06:17

When you see some of these SB's profiles and they're dressed all provocative or showing off their ass and then they write "not here for sex" or something to that effect. Are they full of shit? Or are they just trying to sucker some poor schmuck to hope just MAYBE he might get what he wants but never does? As soon as they write something like that, I click on to the next one.

**Cmcae1** · 07-25-18 16:18

She hit me up as well. Asked for 4. Told her I tapped out at 2. She said ok and sent her #. I decided against it.

Originally Posted by NGASugarMan [View Original Post]

Hey Harpo 8.

These ones are a tough call. I wrote a guide of my experiences on SA a few months ago (and categorized the type of chicks on SA). I forgot to include this as a category. I ran into a girl with a similar MO, but she was staying in a hotel in Decatur. My gut tells me these are pro's, or borderline baby / pro's. Even if they are legit, they will be smart enough to use a burner or textfree phone number, and probably even a first name alias. You won't find them on Facebook or online phone search (most likely).

I would say pass personally. I've had plenty to choose from, and have had to weed out prospects. If you have a weak SA game, and are having trouble landing a genuine hot younger baby, I would absolutely take a chance. The two that I ran into in my two SA runs were younger and very attractive. Just make sure you host. I wouldn't take the chance of going to their hotel room, but that's just me.

BTW, I'm not knocking any ones SA game. It's just a very nuanced dance, and I've had more than my share of fuck ups.

**NGASugarMan** · 07-24-18 21:32

Anyone else seeing her? Please PM me if you are, would like to compare notes Or post, either way it's fine with me.

Ludas.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2cff0...9-4cc2588a9285

Nothing bad at all, just wanted to see what $$ other were possibly getting.

**NGASugarMan** · 07-24-18 21:26

Hey Harpo 8.

These ones are a tough call. I wrote a guide of my experiences on SA a few months ago (and categorized the type of chicks on SA). I forgot to include this as a category. I ran into a girl with a similar MO, but she was staying in a hotel in Decatur. My gut tells me these are pro's, or borderline baby / pro's. Even if they are legit, they will be smart enough to use a burner or textfree phone number, and probably even a first name alias. You won't find them on Facebook or online phone search (most likely).

I would say pass personally. I've had plenty to choose from, and have had to weed out prospects. If you have a weak SA game, and are having trouble landing a genuine hot younger baby, I would absolutely take a chance. The two that I ran into in my two SA runs were younger and very attractive. Just make sure you host. I wouldn't take the chance of going to their hotel room, but that's just me.

BTW, I'm not knocking any ones SA game. It's just a very nuanced dance, and I've had more than my share of fuck ups.

Originally Posted by Harpo8 [View Original Post]

This one texted me out of the blue that she was going to be in town for a few days. She seems DTF, wants 300 (unspecified time), and is hosting at a decent hotel around the airport. Seems nice enough texting, but something doesn't seem right. Maybe just making her rounds and making money on the road. Spidey senses perking up since a post on the Escort threat about being busted. Am I being paranoid?

https://www.seeking.com/member/0c0e0...6-62013f13592b

**QuartJess** · 07-24-18 17:26

Originally Posted by TroyWess [View Original Post]

Damn. That's not cool. I wouldn't think giving out an SA member's phone number is appropriate unless she's explicitly told you it's ok (maybe she did and regrets it. Who knows) Some intel and a profile link seems OK in most instances. I bet some of these women are like "WTF with all the new Views all of a sudden?" after a link is posted here.

Exactly. I received a few PM's asking for her number. So, I called to see if it was OK to give it out, but someone beat me to it without asking her permission. Now I need to make a visit over there to smooth things over.

**TroyWess** · 07-24-18 17:13

Originally Posted by QuartJess [View Original Post]

Just got off the phone with her and she is paranoid now, because she says that somehow multiple men have been calling her out the blue, so someone gave her number out and now the storm has happened.

Damn. That's not cool. I wouldn't think giving out an SA member's phone number is appropriate unless she's explicitly told you it's ok (maybe she did and regrets it. Who knows) Some intel and a profile link seems OK in most instances. I bet some of these women are like "WTF with all the new Views all of a sudden?" after a link is posted here.

**QuartJess** · 07-24-18 16:16

Originally Posted by Axenglish [View Original Post]

What "arrangement" is she expecting?

Just got off the phone with her and she is paranoid now, because she says that somehow multiple men have been calling her out the blue, so someone gave her number out and now the storm has happened.

**TroyWess** · 07-24-18 15:07

Originally Posted by Harpo8 [View Original Post]

This one texted me out of the blue that she was going to be in town for a few days. She seems DTF, wants 300 (unspecified time), and is hosting at a decent hotel around the airport. Seems nice enough texting, but something doesn't seem right. Maybe just making her rounds and making money on the road. Spidey senses perking up since a post on the Escort threat about being busted. Am I being paranoid?

https://www.seeking.com/member/0c0e0...6-62013f13592b

Probably paranoid. But that's not a bad thing. I'm hesitant to jump too quickly at somebody who just recently joined. Does Googling her text number yield any results?

I messaged somebody with an Atlanta location the other day with some idle chit-chat related to what was in her profile and got back "LOL I'm from Kentucky. I'll be in town by the airport for a couple of days. Want to hook up?" It's a strange place sometimes.