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[Spacehog]

Any experience with this one? https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...-5849879277a5. Her literally third message on SA was "do you want me to come over?" Then she pushed to come to my place, and I said I was not comfortable having someone over without meeting in public first. She proceeded to tell me how much she wanted to f*#k me, and I persisted in the "meet first" idea. She offered a compromise of meeting in a parking lot, and if we hit it off she would give me roadhead back to my place. Numerous messages about how much she wanted to f me. My intuition is that something is off when a girl is pushing that much to find out where I live.

I'm highly suspicious when girls only post 1 photo and that's it. Did she provide anymore photos?

[SeattleSilver1]

Any experience with this one? https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...-5849879277a5. Her literally third message on SA was "do you want me to come over?" Then she pushed to come to my place, and I said I was not comfortable having someone over without meeting in public first. She proceeded to tell me how much she wanted to f*#k me, and I persisted in the "meet first" idea. She offered a compromise of meeting in a parking lot, and if we hit it off she would give me roadhead back to my place. Numerous messages about how much she wanted to f me. My intuition is that something is off when a girl is pushing that much to find out where I live.

[TomNoHat]

Just a heads up. Broklynbb69 is trans, it's right in her profile now. If you're into that.

Non of them host, not the one to visit a lady a their place, most them prefer to be discreet. Hot tubs or the little red spa is a go to go place. Little red spa is a little bit pricey but you can get a spot for an hour or so with hot tubs and very clean. Rooms with ac. Check it out. Google The little red spa.

[Michael1967]

Granted every situation and person is different but I can't imagine chatting for a month and a half without even at least meeting for coffee. I usually try to connect on SA, then chat, then meet for a coffee, then schedule a meeting if we hit off after chatting with her in person.

This one set up a date with me, flaked and then disappeared for a week. I had given up on her and had met several people since then. She contacted me and apologized and said she still wanted to meet me but she had a boyfriend and was worried he might find out (we are texting by this point. I disabled my account on SA). I explained how I would take her out and do things with her in nice places where her boyfriend wouldn't go. Unlike many of the people on SA, she is obviously not an escort or wannabe escort. She is someone that is 21 YO, has a crappy job and looking for extra money and to be taken out. Which is what I'm looking for on SA. So, if it takes time to convince her, I'll do it. T's not like I'm giving her cash while she decides what she's going to do. She drunk texts me obscene messages and nude pictures at least once per weekend and is embarrassed about them the next day and asks me to delete them. Each morning, she sends me a text before work and another when she gets off of work about her day. She using a real phone (not a burner) and I have access to her Facebook. So, yes, I'm investing time in her and it may or may not pay off. If it pays off, she will probably be someone that I can throw a little cash to and take out occasionally and not be stuck handing a wad of cash to every time my dick gets wet. I tried to upload a couple of pictures without her face, but could only get one to work.

[PeterBigPipe]

Thanks. Seems like the TNA rate is better.

She will start at the same rate she has listed for VIP, 350 plus drinks.

[Syu425]

Have you guys gotten any luck with wechat girls? I use nearby function but the promising one always end up being gift card scam. Pm me if you don't want to openly give name.

[Twister100]

Okay, that's different. That would make me nervous. That sounds like "To Catch A Predator" shit. That being said, I've been working on a 21 YO for about a month and a half. She wants to do the SB thing, but the part about hanging around and putting out for someone simply because they have cash that they will give to her bothers her. A few days ago, she asked me for explicit details about the arrangement I have with another SB. What allowance, how often we have sex, what do we do besides have sex, what do I think of her, how does she treat me, etc. ,. I answered them all honestly. She texted me last night at 11:30 wanting me to meet her some place (so it may have worked), of course I missed the text. So, it really could just be she's a newbie and doesn't know or is unsure if she wants it. On the other hand, if it makes you nervous, then there are thousands of others out there that are just as attractive. I've been e-mailing back and forth with this one for $300, just can't get our schedules to match https://www.seeking.com/member/3b83c...f-d86f25ddb0ba.

Granted every situation and person is different but I can't imagine chatting for a month and a half without even at least meeting for coffee. I usually try to connect on SA, then chat, then meet for a coffee, then schedule a meeting if we hit off after chatting with her in person.

[TravelPooner]

I see her TNA info and rates but was wondering if you or anyone that uses SA have seen / been with her. I'd like to know what I am in for before setting something up with her. Thanks.

She will start at the same rate she has listed for VIP, 350 plus drinks.

[Michael1967]

With regard to setting off spidey senses, I starting chatting with this one and she said she wanted to know the details since she's heard horror stories and what to know what to expect. As we chatted she got very explicit - "Please tell me what you are wanting me do do with you. I'm a fan of details. Do you like getting your dick sucked? Do you eat pussy? Are you straight to vanilla sex? Do you want it spontaneous and give you head in the car or other places?" That set off my spidey sense since she had previously asked about an allowance so I had thrown a figure out. I offered to text, kik or snap versus chatting on SA which I told her was not very private but she went radio silent. Perhaps she's just very new and naive but the whole thing just seemed odd since I've never had any legit woman on SA get so explicit right off the bat.

Blondeethinng40 https://www.seeking.com/member/883da...5-ff33cdddf3ad.

Okay, that's different. That would make me nervous. That sounds like "To Catch A Predator" shit. That being said, I've been working on a 21 YO for about a month and a half. She wants to do the SB thing, but the part about hanging around and putting out for someone simply because they have cash that they will give to her bothers her. A few days ago, she asked me for explicit details about the arrangement I have with another SB. What allowance, how often we have sex, what do we do besides have sex, what do I think of her, how does she treat me, etc. ,. I answered them all honestly. She texted me last night at 11:30 wanting me to meet her some place (so it may have worked), of course I missed the text. So, it really could just be she's a newbie and doesn't know or is unsure if she wants it. On the other hand, if it makes you nervous, then there are thousands of others out there that are just as attractive. I've been e-mailing back and forth with this one for $300, just can't get our schedules to match https://www.seeking.com/member/3b83c...f-d86f25ddb0ba.

[Twister100]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e89cc...b-d20301ab3ea8

Pulled for a meet very soon at a nearby "room" her "friend" has, says she's 20 and has an I'd but wants to go bar hopping. It set off my spidey sense.

FYI.

With regard to setting off spidey senses, I starting chatting with this one and she said she wanted to know the details since she's heard horror stories and what to know what to expect. As we chatted she got very explicit - "Please tell me what you are wanting me do do with you. I'm a fan of details. Do you like getting your dick sucked? Do you eat pussy? Are you straight to vanilla sex? Do you want it spontaneous and give you head in the car or other places?" That set off my spidey sense since she had previously asked about an allowance so I had thrown a figure out. I offered to text, kik or snap versus chatting on SA which I told her was not very private but she went radio silent. Perhaps she's just very new and naive but the whole thing just seemed odd since I've never had any legit woman on SA get so explicit right off the bat.

Blondeethinng40 https://www.seeking.com/member/883da...5-ff33cdddf3ad.

[3Putt]

Love the trim but shits getting expensive to renew.

[Michael1967]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e89cc...b-d20301ab3ea8

Pulled for a meet very soon at a nearby "room" her "friend" has, says she's 20 and has an I'd but wants to go bar hopping. It set off my spidey sense.

FYI.

Though on SA, the girls say they aren't escorts, many (or in my case, all) are escorts and are probably sharing an incall. I asked one if she had a place we can go, she originally said, "no". I told her thanks and moved on. 30 minutes later, I got a text saying her friend has a room we can use. As far as bar-hopping, she may have wanted you to buy her drinks. They tend to order double shots of top shelf alcohol when you take them out.

[Hairpie Dinner]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e89cc...b-d20301ab3ea8

Pulled for a meet very soon at a nearby "room" her "friend" has, says she's 20 and has an I'd but wants to go bar hopping. It set off my spidey sense.

FYI.

Just curious what the concern would be here? I thinks it's perfectly legal to hang out with a 20 or 21 yo, and if your not brazen about saying sex for money and being discreet or coded, what could you be doing that LE would be concerned about?

If she has a fake I'd, that's on her not you.

I would probably be more concerned about someone waiting in the room to roll you, but not LE.

[Twister100]

Kind of new to this SA thing, wondering how do you guys initiate the conversation on SA if you're just looking for a short, 1-hour engagement. How direct should you be? It seems like the girls use a common set of phrases if they're open to one-time encounters, so do you also follow a certain template when reaching out?

I would say it's a two step process. First a general description as a rough filter so you can use words like discreet, mutually beneficial, meeting for intimacy. I probably would avoid words like hook-up which while probably the most accurate for what you are looking for, carries a negative connotation with some of the ladies since the argument would be that you should be on tinder if you're looking for that. Once you start chatting, then I would get to the point without being too blunt or rude. Manners and courtesy should be observed but don't be wishy-washy. I never bring up the time issue. I just say what I'm looking for, ask what they are looking for, and work out the financials and logistics. Usually the girl will bring up the time when you discuss the finances or as you plan out the logistics. If it doesn't come up, then you can initiate it like any other date discussion in the civilian world. Hey can you hang out for an hour or two next Friday night?

[BadAtComputer1]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e89cc...b-d20301ab3ea8

Pulled for a meet very soon at a nearby "room" her "friend" has, says she's 20 and has an I'd but wants to go bar hopping. It set off my spidey sense.

FYI.