Seeking Arrangements

**Davio** · 04-04-18 07:30

Originally Posted by Javazer [View Original Post]

I usually try to keep one arrangement at a time due to my lack of free time. I am with this nice lady for about a month now and no complain so far, it keeps getting better and better, caring, genuine, truthful and hot for single mom in her 40's, trust me. We meet once a week for two to three hours at an hotel in exchange for two thousands in monthly allowance. There was no negotiation per say, she told me her situation I told her my limit allowance the day after our M&G and we never spoke about it since. I don't know if I am the only one she is seeing right now, her profile no longer exist on SA since the day we exchanged e-mail. It is pretty close to the ideal arrangement for me.

How many of you have an on going arrangement right now and what would you change in the arrangement if you could?

I have met up with a few. They have ranged from a quick. 5 car date (single mother with a regular receptionist job, actually picked her up near her office), to some demanding up to 7 per date which I didn't partake in. I think there are many fakes / scams there and has become harder to keep their attention as there are so many of us hitting them up.

I have decided to focus more on the 28-40 age range as they at least seem to be more stable. I like the idea of long term but haven't met anyone that I would want to have along term arrangement with.

I also travel and have had mixed bag but some luck in other cities.

**Davio** · 04-04-18 07:23

Originally Posted by Ebloke [View Original Post]

She is the one in black (right).

I am seeing her this week (unless she bales which seems to very common with many of the women on SA).

Interestingly enough she hasn't brought up allowance so far and we have messaged and texted.

Will report back.

**SwimSays** · 04-03-18 13:40

Originally Posted by Fun0410 [View Original Post]

I think she is using Sexxyysisi as a screen name now. Looks just like the photos I saw below.

Also has a new profile under something along the lines of SexxxxyLeeexxxiiii. Based out of Providence but it's definitely her as well.

**Spike77** · 04-02-18 19:25

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

What would I change for almost all the girls I meet is this: after expressing interest in being in a threesome, I wish they would follow through with finding a girl and making it happen.

I finally did a threesome with an SA girl and one of my UTRs. Fun time, although the SA girl was on her period so options were limited. Both girls in their early twenties. Got some good video too. Back channel me if you want her profile.

**Javazer** · 04-02-18 11:38

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

I don't know what you look for in the bowl or what you're hoping to find but just from your post we're not playing the same bowl. She blocks you so she can stay online? That's simply dishonest and unacceptable. For what you're paying she should be on her utmost best behavior at all times with sprinkles on top.

She's extremely lucky to have you as a SD and she should act the part. Take charge and don't let her jerk you around so much. Just saying.

(BTW your inbox is full)

I have two premium accounts and I am sure she removed her profile. I did a background check and everything she told me is spot on in timeline and events.

**EvilTmp** · 04-02-18 11:11

Originally Posted by Javazer [View Original Post]

I wish I could travel to Boston more often but I don't. I am in central NH and had a 22 y / o college girl before that for the same allowance and it was not as fun as it is right now. I think I am fairly generous but would never talk about allowance until a meet and greet as a rule, I know I don't receive as much replies as I should because of that. As you said, I created a new profile and could find her on SA. Yeah, threesome would be fun.

I don't know what you look for in the bowl or what you're hoping to find but just from your post we're not playing the same bowl. She blocks you so she can stay online? That's simply dishonest and unacceptable. For what you're paying she should be on her utmost best behavior at all times with sprinkles on top.

She's extremely lucky to have you as a SD and she should act the part. Take charge and don't let her jerk you around so much. Just saying.

(BTW your inbox is full)

**Javazer** · 04-02-18 10:20

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

In her 40's with kids? With that kind of budget you should be able to meet the hottest of the 19-20 year old College girls on there.

The only way you can tell if she's still on the site is to create another SD profile and see if she's online. It's easy to block someone and pretend you're not online anymore.

What would I change for almost all the girls I meet is this: after expressing interest in being in a threesome, I wish they would follow through with finding a girl and making it happen.

I wish I could travel to Boston more often but I don't. I am in central NH and had a 22 y / o college girl before that for the same allowance and it was not as fun as it is right now. I think I am fairly generous but would never talk about allowance until a meet and greet as a rule, I know I don't receive as much replies as I should because of that. As you said, I created a new profile and could find her on SA. Yeah, threesome would be fun.

**EvilTmp** · 04-02-18 09:34

Originally Posted by Javazer [View Original Post]

I usually try to keep one arrangement at a time due to my lack of free time. I am with this nice lady for about a month now and no complain so far, it keeps getting better and better, caring, genuine, truthful and hot for single mom in her 40's, trust me. We meet once a week for two to three hours at an hotel in exchange for two thousands in monthly allowance. There was no negotiation per say, she told me her situation I told her my limit allowance the day after our M&G and we never spoke about it since. I don't know if I am the only one she is seeing right now, her profile no longer exist on SA since the day we exchanged e-mail. It is pretty close to the ideal arrangement for me.

How many of you have an on going arrangement right now and what would you change in the arrangement if you could?

In her 40's with kids? With that kind of budget you should be able to meet the hottest of the 19-20 year old College girls on there.

The only way you can tell if she's still on the site is to create another SD profile and see if she's online. It's easy to block someone and pretend you're not online anymore.

What would I change for almost all the girls I meet is this: after expressing interest in being in a threesome, I wish they would follow through with finding a girl and making it happen.

**Javazer** · 04-02-18 07:28

I usually try to keep one arrangement at a time due to my lack of free time. I am with this nice lady for about a month now and no complain so far, it keeps getting better and better, caring, genuine, truthful and hot for single mom in her 40's, trust me. We meet once a week for two to three hours at an hotel in exchange for two thousands in monthly allowance. There was no negotiation per say, she told me her situation I told her my limit allowance the day after our M&G and we never spoke about it since. I don't know if I am the only one she is seeing right now, her profile no longer exist on SA since the day we exchanged e-mail. It is pretty close to the ideal arrangement for me.

How many of you have an on going arrangement right now and what would you change in the arrangement if you could?

**Fun0410** · 04-01-18 19:03

I think she is using Sexxyysisi as a screen name now. Looks just like the photos I saw below.

Originally Posted by Davio [View Original Post]

Thank you for the heads up.

I was about to drive out and see her couple of days ago but she was really aggressive and pushy and gave me a bad vibe. This confirms it.

**Davio** · 04-01-18 11:18

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

Now going under the profile "reallifecutie" and yet another profile called ''sexxyyysarahh". Resides in Fall River. Stay away.

Thank you for the heads up.

I was about to drive out and see her couple of days ago but she was really aggressive and pushy and gave me a bad vibe. This confirms it.

**Herow** · 03-30-18 17:30

I have had two different SA girls for some time now, and things have gotten kinda advanced. They are down for some incredible things, but it requires more people than just me. I seriously doubt I could find more than one "right person" to help out here on this site, but it's worth seeing if any of you SA veterans might fit the bill.

Just so I don't get spammed like crazy, here are a few really quick qualifying attributes you MUST have. You'd have to live near Boston or Metrowest. No north or sourth shore. You'd have to be under 45. You'd have to be in shape. You'd have to be reasonably flexible about times and meeting. You need a college education and to be relatively white collar. Beyond that, hit me up. You need to be heigh'weight proprotionate. And finally you need game and experience. Those are absolutely hard requirements BTW, so. Just don't waste your time and mine.

**Spike77** · 03-30-18 14:51

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

Goes by Regina babyyy.

Same deal, asks for money up front and dashes. I knew better but small head took over. She thinks she's clever but I have all her personal info.

Now going under the profile "reallifecutie" and yet another profile called ''sexxyyysarahh". Resides in Fall River. Stay away.

**Banjomania** · 03-30-18 08:50

Originally Posted by Javazer [View Original Post]

I stopped using craigslist, BP, EROS and agencies and I am on SA for about a year now. I have met dozens of girls from various age and background. My longest arrangement lasted 6 months and the shortest was a one time thing. I am far from being a player, I am honest upfront with my marital status and what I can afford on allowance and in time. I am not looking for a one or two bang and done but rather a long term arrangement with someone who is looking for just one SD to supplement their legitimate income. It takes time to find the gem, build trust and actually meet. I am starting a new arrangement with a 44 why / o classy young "Candace Bergen" type looking woman who had to go back to work as a nurse after her recent divorce and take care her kids. It took a year to find this ideal arrangement and I am hoping to keep it going for a long time. What you are looking for will determine how you will approach the conversation. Of course I had my share of flakes, it's part of the game. But if you are a gentleman and have patience, you will find that gem. SA is not instant gratification, you have to adjust your expectation.

Javazer.

I find SA so extraordinarily successful that I have had to deactivate my profile there because I now have too many options. I have found more than a few gems, a few flakes and mostly just very nice women with cash and horniness needs. I am not one of those guys who seems to settle on one person so I have settled on trying to establish a rotation. It's actually difficult to manage, but better than constantly having to go to new meet and greets which was taking up a lot of time and causing some complicated "splaining" at home from time to time. I will say that my latest. A divorced lady with two kids (so many like that) - hits top ten all time for looks and personality, and top 3 for BBBJ skills. Who knew how to find such UTR gems before SA? There is a secret to it. And it's not that complicated. Be nice. You are dealing with non-professionals for the most part who are very nervous about what they are doing and driven to it for complex reasons. Be nice, that's all.