"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[LogJammin18]

Hey guys,

I figured I would join in and confirm what others are saying. Was thinking about trying Craigslist or Backpage last year and decided to jump into SA in early January. Best freaking 85 $ I've ever spent in my life! Here is my experience, hope it helps others!

I'm late 30's, would say I'm a 8 or 9 out of 10. I'm was never a ladies man. The classic nerdy kid who just happened to have a 30's mid-life crisis and started getting into shape. I'm only saying this here, to give an idea of how the girls on SA respond / etc. I could probably be successful at the bar or Tinder, but I don't have the time now, and I was never good at being a player.

You need to make sure you have spare time the first few days you join SA. I posted a fairly normal pic, plus a fairly straight forward profile. NSA, I'm fun, like to cook, enjoying life, etc. The first few days I was spreading the net pretty wide. I'm not too picky, was looking for anything good looking between 18 and 45. I was constantly hit up by women, and I would say be super careful with the ones that hit you up. Very few of those went anywhere. I also suspected they were Backpage, or possibly high mileage babies. My target were chicks with fairly new profiles (last 10 months or so) and seem at first glance to be authentic. You will have to do a decent amount of filtering. I was very swamped. I feel like they would categorize into the following:

1) Good BP pro's or basically well versed pay to play babies. These girls would get to a number very, very fast. Any that were hot enough, usually had GPS. There may be a perl in there, if you are not too picky about looks.

2) DTF chicks: These are the normal girls that usually have high sex drives, and need money (rent, expensive hobby, or like nice things). This is my sweet spot. Most require more work than #1 with conversation, but the time invested is totally worth it. Reasonable rate, mostly bare back, experienced (so no dead fish), but also not high mileage. I prefer the early 30's, but there are horny co-eds in there too. You usually need to have a talking game. I won't go into details, but it's already been covered. They want to fuck, but have some bar.

3) The unicorns: These are brand new babes to SA, or have been on a while, but don't have a daddy because they are so paranoid. These girls require a TON of work. Lots of flakes, no-shows, ghosting. BUT, and I say BUT, you can land a baby that is absolutely smoking 11/10, and you may be their #2 or #3 ever. I've landed one. It took a shit ton of time, and I almost gave up after a few weeks, but I was literally her #2. Had one serious high school BF and was looking to try something new. (can't make this up). They are not experienced like #2 types, but if you want to lay pipe in a smoking hot, ultra low mileage chick, this is the long and hard road. I seriously doubt she is even talking to anyone else (#2 on my list probably have a few daddy's in their stable).

I've piped five total sugar babies (all I have time for) and settled down to two regulars. They followed the above fairly well. Names changed:

Thanks for sharing. Great info. Going to PM you with a few questions.

[TroyWess]

Saw this kind of question come up here a while back and I was wondering the same, so I figured I'd share what I've experienced a week in to SA.

Question was what kind of action / interest can you expect if you stay real low profile with no picture and just sort of general information in your bio (because, you know, you don't want to be busted for being on the site). And in my experience so far, I'm sure I get ignored on a lot of messages because of it, but it's certainly not something that closes the door on possibilities. I've got a few conversations going with non-pros who seem to be really looking for low-profile encounters, so it could be they feel more comfortable with somebody who's obviously low-profile as well. I've even had quite a few ladies message me first. Of course you have to build up trust, but like I tell them. No picture is honest; some picture that could be fake or doesn't show my face or something. How valuable is that, really?

And yesterday I met up with a nice, shy, rather attractive 23-yo I'd be chatting with (first on the site, then off. A good sign when they want to move to text or Kik) who likes older men, doesn't want any kind of support and just wants to keep meeting up for sex. That'll do, and those types of ladies are going to be my focus for now. Interested to see how it goes.

[Harley32]

Anyone ever get banned from SA?

I did and have no idea why? Is there a way to dispute it? Any suggestions guys?

Thanks.

I'd definitely try to find out why. But I'm guessing someone objected to your profile or something you discussed in a message on the site. It's best not to discuss details on the site. Try to move conversations off site before you start discussing numbers or intimate details. The administrators can't suspend you for something that didn't occur on the site.

[GeralToFrivia]

Hey guys,

I figured I would join in and confirm what others are saying. Was thinking about trying Craigslist or Backpage last year and decided to jump into SA in early January. Best freaking 85 $ I've ever spent in my life! Here is my experience, hope it helps others!

I'm late 30's, would say I'm a 8 or 9 out of 10. I'm was never a ladies man. The classic nerdy kid who just happened to have a 30's mid-life crisis and started getting into shape. I'm only saying this here, to give an idea of how the girls on SA respond / etc. I could probably be successful at the bar or Tinder, but I don't have the time now, and I was never good at being a player.

You need to make sure you have spare time the first few days you join SA. I posted a fairly normal pic, plus a fairly straight forward profile. NSA, I'm fun, like to cook, enjoying life, etc. The first few days I was spreading the net pretty wide. I'm not too picky, was looking for anything good looking between 18 and 45. I was constantly hit up by women, and I would say be super careful with the ones that hit you up. Very few of those went anywhere. I also suspected they were Backpage, or possibly high mileage babies. My target were chicks with fairly new profiles (last 10 months or so) and seem at first glance to be authentic. You will have to do a decent amount of filtering. I was very swamped. I feel like they would categorize into the following:

1) Good BP pro's or basically well versed pay to play babies. These girls would get to a number very, very fast. Any that were hot enough, usually had GPS. There may be a perl in there, if you are not too picky about looks.

2) DTF chicks: These are the normal girls that usually have high sex drives, and need money (rent, expensive hobby, or like nice things). This is my sweet spot. Most require more work than #1 with conversation, but the time invested is totally worth it. Reasonable rate, mostly bare back, experienced (so no dead fish), but also not high mileage. I prefer the early 30's, but there are horny co-eds in there too. You usually need to have a talking game. I won't go into details, but it's already been covered. They want to fuck, but have some bar.

3) The unicorns: These are brand new babes to SA, or have been on a while, but don't have a daddy because they are so paranoid. These girls require a TON of work. Lots of flakes, no-shows, ghosting. BUT, and I say BUT, you can land a baby that is absolutely smoking 11/10, and you may be their #2 or #3 ever. I've landed one. It took a shit ton of time, and I almost gave up after a few weeks, but I was literally her #2. Had one serious high school BF and was looking to try something new. (can't make this up). They are not experienced like #2 types, but if you want to lay pipe in a smoking hot, ultra low mileage chick, this is the long and hard road. I seriously doubt she is even talking to anyone else (#2 on my list probably have a few daddy's in their stable).

I've piped five total sugar babies (all I have time for) and settled down to two regulars. They followed the above fairly well. Names changed:

Ashley #1 (type) - Premium member on SA (8/10 looks). Met up with her because she was my break-in chick on SA, or mongering at all. She was hot, quick banter that quickly let to a meeting and price. Probably paid too much 4 $ Covered, because I didn't want to risk it. Didn't go back.

Beverly #2 (type) - Normal profile, good looks (8/10). Single mom out of Buford. Talked for a few days, texted, finally met up. Went directly back to her place after the initial meet up. She liked dick, and knew how to work it. Never even asked for money. All bareback She dropped off the radar after a few months.

Ansley #2 (type) - UGA chick. Smoking hot (10/10) Blonde, tight body, amazing to look at naked. She was used to nice stuff at home, and now didn't like poor college life. I talked with her a few days, finally met up for lunch, went back to her place. I was in a 10+ year relationship with a nympho, and could have sex twice a day, every day. Having sex with Ansley crushed my soul and Mr. Happy for days. I thought Mr. Happy finally died. Now that I'm in my late 30's I can go at it for ever. Not with Ansley. I was literally a two pump chump. It was that mind blowing. Best 300 I've ever spent. All bareback I've only met up a few times. I think she only does it for temporary money, then drops off the radar.

Veronica #2 (type) - working Nurse, good looks (8/10) Flawless body, but 6/10 face. Works a million hours, but loves dick. Talked a few days, met, headed back to her place, amazing in bed. Didn't pay anything the first few times. She's a regular now. I'll pay 2 $ a meet. We meet multiple times a month, I need a few days to recover from her. Absolutely knows how to work it. All bareback regular.

Kathy #3 (type) - Student. 18, flawless face and body (10/10) broke up with BF, used to have everything she wants at home. Experimental curious type. Took almost a month of texting, calling to finally meet. Met for a few "dates". Finally after a few weeks of hanging out (I would pay for food, entertainment, smallish gifts) while making out, she says she want to do it. Sack of potatoes the first few times, but is warming up. I know some of you will probably want to avoid this type, but I have to say. Nothing like teaching an 18 year old hottie to swallow your load for the first time. I'll just leave it at that. Covered the first few times, waiting for BC to kick in regular.

It's so real. Only downside, I don't think I could ever go back to a normal relationship again!

Everything in this post is correct. I've had a new girl over every day for the past week. All raw, all good. One was a death fish but she was so hot I didn't care. I can never go back to escorts again.

[WheresMyMule]

Anyone ever get banned from SA?

I did and have no idea why? Is there a way to dispute it? Any suggestions guys?

Thanks.

[Harley32]

Met her for drinks, seemed to go well. Then wanted to meet the next day. Got a hotel and she no showed. Later blamed a family issue.

Also, she failed to mention she had braces til we met. She was late for the date also. Seems flaky. Other may have better luck.

What allowance did she hit you with? She danced it with me so I did the usual month allowance, but would start out pay per visit. $$.

We had agreed on 1. 5. YMMV. I never get the room ahead of time. I've had far too many experiences where someone no shows regardless of how many times or how recently you've spoken with them. I use an app to reserve the room when they get there.

[TheJasonator]

So I had gotten a message out of the blue and this honey says she want to have fun. After a few messages it turns out she might be a pro or previous BP.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-9f228d8823c9

PM me any Qs.

[NGASugarMan]

Hey guys,

I figured I would join in and confirm what others are saying. Was thinking about trying Craigslist or Backpage last year and decided to jump into SA in early January. Best freaking 85 $ I've ever spent in my life! Here is my experience, hope it helps others!

I'm late 30's, would say I'm a 8 or 9 out of 10. I'm was never a ladies man. The classic nerdy kid who just happened to have a 30's mid-life crisis and started getting into shape. I'm only saying this here, to give an idea of how the girls on SA respond / etc. I could probably be successful at the bar or Tinder, but I don't have the time now, and I was never good at being a player.

You need to make sure you have spare time the first few days you join SA. I posted a fairly normal pic, plus a fairly straight forward profile. NSA, I'm fun, like to cook, enjoying life, etc. The first few days I was spreading the net pretty wide. I'm not too picky, was looking for anything good looking between 18 and 45. I was constantly hit up by women, and I would say be super careful with the ones that hit you up. Very few of those went anywhere. I also suspected they were Backpage, or possibly high mileage babies. My target were chicks with fairly new profiles (last 10 months or so) and seem at first glance to be authentic. You will have to do a decent amount of filtering. I was very swamped. I feel like they would categorize into the following:

1) Good BP pro's or basically well versed pay to play babies. These girls would get to a number very, very fast. Any that were hot enough, usually had GPS. There may be a perl in there, if you are not too picky about looks.

2) DTF chicks: These are the normal girls that usually have high sex drives, and need money (rent, expensive hobby, or like nice things). This is my sweet spot. Most require more work than #1 with conversation, but the time invested is totally worth it. Reasonable rate, mostly bare back, experienced (so no dead fish), but also not high mileage. I prefer the early 30's, but there are horny co-eds in there too. You usually need to have a talking game. I won't go into details, but it's already been covered. They want to fuck, but have some bar.

3) The unicorns: These are brand new babes to SA, or have been on a while, but don't have a daddy because they are so paranoid. These girls require a TON of work. Lots of flakes, no-shows, ghosting. BUT, and I say BUT, you can land a baby that is absolutely smoking 11/10, and you may be their #2 or #3 ever. I've landed one. It took a shit ton of time, and I almost gave up after a few weeks, but I was literally her #2. Had one serious high school BF and was looking to try something new. (can't make this up). They are not experienced like #2 types, but if you want to lay pipe in a smoking hot, ultra low mileage chick, this is the long and hard road. I seriously doubt she is even talking to anyone else (#2 on my list probably have a few daddy's in their stable).

I've piped five total sugar babies (all I have time for) and settled down to two regulars. They followed the above fairly well. Names changed:

Ashley #1 (type) - Premium member on SA (8/10 looks). Met up with her because she was my break-in chick on SA, or mongering at all. She was hot, quick banter that quickly let to a meeting and price. Probably paid too much 4 $ Covered, because I didn't want to risk it. Didn't go back.

Beverly #2 (type) - Normal profile, good looks (8/10). Single mom out of Buford. Talked for a few days, texted, finally met up. Went directly back to her place after the initial meet up. She liked dick, and knew how to work it. Never even asked for money. All bareback She dropped off the radar after a few months.

Ansley #2 (type) - UGA chick. Smoking hot (10/10) Blonde, tight body, amazing to look at naked. She was used to nice stuff at home, and now didn't like poor college life. I talked with her a few days, finally met up for lunch, went back to her place. I was in a 10+ year relationship with a nympho, and could have sex twice a day, every day. Having sex with Ansley crushed my soul and Mr. Happy for days. I thought Mr. Happy finally died. Now that I'm in my late 30's I can go at it for ever. Not with Ansley. I was literally a two pump chump. It was that mind blowing. Best 300 I've ever spent. All bareback I've only met up a few times. I think she only does it for temporary money, then drops off the radar.

Veronica #2 (type) - working Nurse, good looks (8/10) Flawless body, but 6/10 face. Works a million hours, but loves dick. Talked a few days, met, headed back to her place, amazing in bed. Didn't pay anything the first few times. She's a regular now. I'll pay 2 $ a meet. We meet multiple times a month, I need a few days to recover from her. Absolutely knows how to work it. All bareback regular.

Kathy #3 (type) - Student. 18, flawless face and body (10/10) broke up with BF, used to have everything she wants at home. Experimental curious type. Took almost a month of texting, calling to finally meet. Met for a few "dates". Finally after a few weeks of hanging out (I would pay for food, entertainment, smallish gifts) while making out, she says she want to do it. Sack of potatoes the first few times, but is warming up. I know some of you will probably want to avoid this type, but I have to say. Nothing like teaching an 18 year old hottie to swallow your load for the first time. I'll just leave it at that. Covered the first few times, waiting for BC to kick in regular.

It's so real. Only downside, I don't think I could ever go back to a normal relationship again!

[Atlanta John]

You have a link for her? Thanks.

So have seen this little 19 yo from Decatur 3 times in the last couple months. Kind of a neo hippie, artsy type cute and nice tight body. Has a nose and lip piercing so I take that to mean she's alright with a bit of pain LOL. Sex is always great.

Lives with mom / family so always meet her at a near by fast food joint.

The second time we meet she shows up on her skate board, that's a new one / can't make it up.

So we are sending off some steaming chat the night before we are meeting, I'm telling her what I'm going to do to her etc. She sends back "sometimes when we have sex I image that you are my high school teacher. Whatever, so I just roll with it and tell her she can call me "coach" LOL.

So when we meet she confesses that she is into teacher-student porn. Always wondered who watched that shit. Not sure what I'm throwing out there to attract all the lunies, but has been kind of fun.

[Peter Johnson]

Have any of yall tried the tinder app? I have had plenty of success there. I still like to see working girls but lots of girls really just want to have fun. I am honest and just say looking for nothing serious. I am lucky because I am single but you would be surprised at the amount of lovely girls who are busy building a career and just want to let off some steam without the time needed for a relationship.

I'm too old and not good looking enough to have much success on Tinder. I tried it years ago and only banged one chick who had a really funky face from most angles. I probably could have met more for regular dates, but at that point, it's the same as a dating site like POF. I banged plenty of POF women back in the day, but again, was sometimes getting in there on the first date. And they were very average looking older women, just like I'm an average looking old dude. For young, attractive pussy, SA is the way to go for me. It is truly remarkable.

Plus of course if you want to keep a low profile, you sure don't want to be on Tinder. SA is risky enough, but a regular dating site or app just makes you much more visible out there.

[MajMilkDuds]

Thought about this kind of site, I guess Tinder is pretty hot in ATL. Is it pretty easy to keep an incognito profile?

I'm married, so need to be careful. I wonder if Most tinder chicks have and issue with Married guys? All the SA girls seem to be cool with it.

I have come across lots of open relationships. And been with a couple of married women who opened things up. They we're looking for something new and it has mostly gone well. I'd be careful with the wife but open relationship are more common than you would think. So I wouldn't worry about the stigma.

[Leep12]

So have seen this little 19 yo from Decatur 3 times in the last couple months. Kind of a neo hippie, artsy type cute and nice tight body. Has a nose and lip piercing so I take that to mean she's alright with a bit of pain LOL. Sex is always great.

Lives with mom / family so always meet her at a near by fast food joint.

The second time we meet she shows up on her skate board, that's a new one / can't make it up.

So we are sending off some steaming chat the night before we are meeting, I'm telling her what I'm going to do to her etc. She sends back "sometimes when we have sex I image that you are my high school teacher. Whatever, so I just roll with it and tell her she can call me "coach" LOL.

So when we meet she confesses that she is into teacher-student porn. Always wondered who watched that shit. Not sure what I'm throwing out there to attract all the lunies, but has been kind of fun.

[JimStokes]

I actually had some messages going back and forth about a month ago. She was quoting me 1. 5 k for the month and said we can do anything after we met up for some drinks. So I went ahead and tried to set something up and jist never got a response. I think like the other post said she has been there for a while so she might not really need it and trying to milk for more. She ended up messaging me back but I just passed that by.

Same here. I think she does alotta fishing hoping to catch 1 or 2 whales. She is not hot enough for that rate.

[JimStokes]

This lady is in Kennesaw though her profile says Atlanta. I met her for drinks a couple of weeks ago and it seemed like nothing would come of it. I decided to text back and see if she was interested and she was into it. We arranged a time and I was checking in with her before heading her way when suddenly there was a delay. I asked for clarification of her schedule and never heard back. I was wondering if anyone else has seen or talked with her.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-39a05023e2a1

Met her for drinks, seemed to go well. Then wanted to meet the next day. Got a hotel and she no showed. Later blamed a family issue.

Also, she failed to mention she had braces til we met. She was late for the date also. Seems flaky. Other may have better luck.

What allowance did she hit you with? She danced it with me so I did the usual month allowance, but would start out pay per visit. $$.

[Leep12]

Have any of yall tried the tinder app? I have had plenty of success there. I still like to see working girls but lots of girls really just want to have fun. I am honest and just say looking for nothing serious. I am lucky because I am single but you would be surprised at the amount of lovely girls who are busy building a career and just want to let off some steam without the time needed for a relationship.

Thought about this kind of site, I guess Tinder is pretty hot in ATL. Is it pretty easy to keep an incognito profile?

I'm married, so need to be careful. I wonder if Most tinder chicks have and issue with Married guys? All the SA girls seem to be cool with it.