"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Leep12]

Pumped up the Fun fund, and now I have arrived on SA. Can anyone provide any recommendations or advice on hwo to message the girls? I've been reading some comments but I figure you dogs are keeping the prizes to yourselves! LOL.

I'm with Jay, never bring up money, let them do it. I've taken SB's to dinner and then to bed and not discussed money, but was fair with them.

I suggest reading the profiles well and put some thought into the messages, refer to something in the profile make them feel special. I think some quality messages to a few is better than saying "Hey" to 100 girls. Keep the chat light and use some humor if you have it. If you are liking them, give them your number, sometimes they will message, sometimes they will respond with their number for you to contact. At some point drop "I would really love to meet you soon as possible. ".

I found if you waiting more than a few days to meet is not ideal.

I figured out that the ones with simple, "want to have fun" type profiles are best to target. If her whole profile talks about getting spoiled and money etc, and doesn't mention anything about what she brings to the table. I will pass.

Ideally you want to find the girls that truly like sex and sex with older guys and want to have some fun and the money is just a perk. Trust me they are out there. That said, early on I was with a few that where mainly into the money, never as fun.

[Leep12]

I have had mostly good experiences on SA, but never forget many women are just plain nuts. I was talking to this one in North Ga earlier this year and seemed laid back and cool and a lot of fun. She sent me nude pics without me even asking, and then we talked about getting together. I was asking her about possible BBFS and she said I needed to use a condom at first, but then later in the conversation said "It's ok. You can nut in me".

I wanted to get up to N GA and do some hiking, so have been trying to wait for nice weather (and also when I wasn't banging one of my other SBs). I figured I would get a room and pick her up and take her there and back. We talked a lot at first and then just maybe once a week since then, but she was always cool. Well, she did ask me to send her some $ a couple of times, but I said no and would give her $200 allowance for the visit when we met up. She told me last week that she hadn't met anyone from SA yet, despite being on there at least three months.

So looks like I could finally meet her in a couple of days, and I messaged her and suddenly she goes off on me:

"Well I honestly don't even know if I want to mess around anymore. You're not serious about it or you would have already sent me some money. I sent you pictures of my body for free. You didn't even offerme 5 dollars. You've been playing with me. So I think I'm going to pass. I've been talking to you for months and you haven't sent me anything. You aren't much of a sugar daddy. I'm not wasting anymore time on you. Sorry. ".

WTF.

"I have men give me 200 dollars just to speak to me. I'm not sellinmyself short. I'm sorry but you're a cheap fuck. There is no way Iwould take just 200 dollar. That wouldn't pay one of my bills. 😬 so I have to find someone who has more time is closer and isn't so cheap. Good luck".

What a crazy chick. She doesn't even have her own place and has no car and she has no use for $200. Somehow I think it would take a good chunk out of one of her bills or just put it towards saving up for transportation. And she's not that hot either, although her body did look good.

It was just surprising and makes me think she is scared to actually meet someone in person. Or maybe she did just get annoyed that I wasn't sending her money for nothing the last couple of months. I can look at pics of naked women online for free, and I'm not going to pay for it. Well maybe if I was already seeing someone and was an excuse to send them more funds, while seeing some hot pics, I would do it, but not in this situation.

Anyway it's disappointing. And I'm not going to give out her contact info, because I don't want her to be rewarded for insulting me. I guess there were some red flags with her along the way but nothing major. But I just had to share that, even though not really useful intel.

Well, dealing with females 20 somethings, going to have stuff like that, could have caught her on the red color. I think these girls are chatting on forums way more than most guys do. It's not about need money for a lot of them, they want good NSA sex and some fun, like she said the money is comparison and ego based.

Someone could be very happy with their salary and paying bills just fine, but let them find out another guy is making 30 k more a year for the same job and they go through the roof.

[Tratia]

Anybody try Secret Benefits? I am seeing some of the same girls on SA on there. Also what do ya'll message on the first message?

[Peter Johnson]

I got to say if you are on here it is to get or share info or reports about the experiences we have with these women, not to use it to get what others are getting. You need to know that YMMV. This not to be shared to these ladies on what is being said about them. Specially because it seems that more BP girls are coming up in SA and most SB are being told how much to play. I have a SB (sorry fellas can't share her details yet) that one night we were together actually told me if there was a site where people post what happens with experiences in SA. So I just got to say stop bringing this site up with SBs or providers.

Don't know if I should have posted it here or on the other section. So mybad about expressing this again even though it has already been said before.

Yes it is a little dicier sharing info about SBs, because some seem to be regular girls (and at least not pros), so you don't really want to post too much about their personal sex life online. But there's a way it can be done to help the guys here and also help them (to get more interest and more $). However I'm like you and would not share SB details until I am done with her and then maybe a little time has passed. And you definitely don't want to tell girls about this site or just likely creates headaches for everyone.

[TheJasonator]

I got to say if you are on here it is to get or share info or reports about the experiences we have with these women, not to use it to get what others are getting. You need to know that YMMV. This not to be shared to these ladies on what is being said about them. Specially because it seems that more BP girls are coming up in SA and most SB are being told how much to play. I have a SB (sorry fellas can't share her details yet) that one night we were together actually told me if there was a site where people post what happens with experiences in SA. So I just got to say stop bringing this site up with SBs or providers.

Don't know if I should have posted it here or on the other section. So mybad about expressing this again even though it has already been said before.

[DRickGiver5]

Anyway it's disappointing. And I'm not going to give out her contact info, because I don't want her to be rewarded for insulting me. I guess there were some red flags with her along the way but nothing major. But I just had to share that, even though not really useful intel.

You're actually rewarding her by not letting us know who to avoid. Just setting up a fellow man to come across this headache of a woman.

[JimStokes]

Was reading reviews on the Backpage forum. Link to the BP add.

http://atlanta.backpage.com/WomenSee...-4014/93064032

Link to th SA add.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...2-4931630b6973

Look similar to me. Just an FYI. I have not seen her.

JS.

[Peter Johnson]

I have had mostly good experiences on SA, but never forget many women are just plain nuts. I was talking to this one in North Ga earlier this year and seemed laid back and cool and a lot of fun. She sent me nude pics without me even asking, and then we talked about getting together. I was asking her about possible BBFS and she said I needed to use a condom at first, but then later in the conversation said "It's ok. You can nut in me".

I wanted to get up to N GA and do some hiking, so have been trying to wait for nice weather (and also when I wasn't banging one of my other SBs). I figured I would get a room and pick her up and take her there and back. We talked a lot at first and then just maybe once a week since then, but she was always cool. Well, she did ask me to send her some $ a couple of times, but I said no and would give her $200 allowance for the visit when we met up. She told me last week that she hadn't met anyone from SA yet, despite being on there at least three months.

So looks like I could finally meet her in a couple of days, and I messaged her and suddenly she goes off on me:

"Well I honestly don't even know if I want to mess around anymore. You're not serious about it or you would have already sent me some money. I sent you pictures of my body for free. You didn't even offerme 5 dollars. You've been playing with me. So I think I'm going to pass. I've been talking to you for months and you haven't sent me anything. You aren't much of a sugar daddy. I'm not wasting anymore time on you. Sorry. ".

WTF.

"I have men give me 200 dollars just to speak to me. I'm not sellinmyself short. I'm sorry but you're a cheap fuck. There is no way Iwould take just 200 dollar. That wouldn't pay one of my bills. 😬 so I have to find someone who has more time is closer and isn't so cheap. Good luck".

What a crazy chick. She doesn't even have her own place and has no car and she has no use for $200. Somehow I think it would take a good chunk out of one of her bills or just put it towards saving up for transportation. And she's not that hot either, although her body did look good.

It was just surprising and makes me think she is scared to actually meet someone in person. Or maybe she did just get annoyed that I wasn't sending her money for nothing the last couple of months. I can look at pics of naked women online for free, and I'm not going to pay for it. Well maybe if I was already seeing someone and was an excuse to send them more funds, while seeing some hot pics, I would do it, but not in this situation.

Anyway it's disappointing. And I'm not going to give out her contact info, because I don't want her to be rewarded for insulting me. I guess there were some red flags with her along the way but nothing major. But I just had to share that, even though not really useful intel.

[Shaved Is Best]

I just joined myself and am overwhelmed. I had no idea how good the site is. I didn't do anything special, just used a realistic looking pic (I. E. Not good looking) and a short vague description. I looked at plenty of profiles but didn't favorite. I had dozens of Interests and maybe 15 women message me within 24 hours. The 2nd night I got straight up propositioned twice and chose to have a threesome with a 20 and 21 year old. I'm still recovering. I got half a dozen more messages yesterday and I didn't even log in. It's almost like those old PH Forum Letters: "I never thought this would happen to me. ".

Like Big Jay said, wait for them to mention $.

Pumped up the Fun fund, and now I have arrived on SA. Can anyone provide any recommendations or advice on hwo to message the girls? I've been reading some comments but I figure you dogs are keeping the prizes to yourselves! LOL.

[Kloop]

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...7-b9f175d948ea

Got in contact with this one and she is DTF. Quoted 1. 5. I'm passing but one of you guys may be interested.

[Big Jay]

Pumped up the Fun fund, and now I have arrived on SA. Can anyone provide any recommendations or advice on hwo to message the girls? I've been reading some comments but I figure you dogs are keeping the prizes to yourselves! LOL.

Be respectful. Wait till she brings $ and expect to waste a lot of time.

Happy Hunting.

[GeralToFrivia]

Pumped up the Fun fund, and now I have arrived on SA. Can anyone provide any recommendations or advice on hwo to message the girls? I've been reading some comments but I figure you dogs are keeping the prizes to yourselves! LOL.

[Leep12]

Was this one ever on the site? She's off the market now!

http://www.fox5atlanta.com/news/woma...er-sugar-daddy

Naaw. I'm sure will still take on a new daddy from Cobb co jail, could get her for 50 a month and won't have to worry about taking her shopping for clothes LOL.

[Zipper34]

Was this one ever on the site? She's off the market now!

http://www.fox5atlanta.com/news/woma...er-sugar-daddy

They met in a Walmart and he was only her sugar daddy for a week.

[JeffInnAtlanta]

Was this one ever on the site? She's off the market now!

http://www.fox5atlanta.com/news/woma...er-sugar-daddy