Seeking Arrangements

[Ernest Ll]

Yes that happens half the time with me. Also if they are questioning alot and asking for alot of info usually Its a bad one cause there already nervous.

Told me about the other SDs she had had. But its just weird she would invest all that time.

[Ernest Ll]

Looks fake to me. Profile says she is 21 but has had a SA account since 2012? So she joined at age 15? Hmmm.

She said she and her friends set it up out of curiosity and her first SD was really her boss when she was 16 who faked time clock info in exchange for blow jobs.

But again, why waste the time if she wasn't out for the $$.

[BostonMan781]

I think sometimes they just chicken out.

Yes that happens half the time with me. Also if they are questioning alot and asking for alot of info usually Its a bad one cause there already nervous.

[Banjomania]

I think sometimes they just chicken out.

Just like us, they may be playing two or three or four guys at once. When they ghost on you it may be that they selected someone other than you. I learned early on in this hobby to have multiple options pending at all times in case of calamity or failure. I suspect that the ladies play the same way.

[Member #6503]

I did NOT meet her but we had settled on 300. She does not host.

She has a twin sister Ashley. I do not think they work together.

Yeah they had a doubles profile but deleted it because they were getting too many requests for threesome's. Go figure. Krys told me her friend has had an arrangement for 3 years and has never had sex so that's where her head is at. They seem like a waste of time from what I gather.

[Dump My Goo]

Hit up this young hottie. Lots of texting / sexting, sent photos of her semi naked -- but never with face showing.

Agreed to meet, allowance, activities for the night. Messaged back and forth for several days before I came to town.

90 minutes before our meeting, she says she's running a little late, so maybe 630. Silence after that. Phone went straight to voicemail.

Never asked for a penny in advance, so no scam there. But why did she put in so much effort messaging? The vagaries of woman's mind. All I can think is she found a better $/ hr offer.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-aac6be824cc1

Looks fake to me. Profile says she is 21 but has had a SA account since 2012? So she joined at age 15? Hmmm.

[Spill]

Hit up this young hottie. Lots of texting / sexting, sent photos of her semi naked -- but never with face showing.

Agreed to meet, allowance, activities for the night. Messaged back and forth for several days before I came to town.

90 minutes before our meeting, she says she's running a little late, so maybe 630. Silence after that. Phone went straight to voicemail.

Never asked for a penny in advance, so no scam there. But why did she put in so much effort messaging? The vagaries of woman's mind. All I can think is she found a better $/ hr offer.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-aac6be824cc1

I think sometimes they just chicken out.

[Ernest Ll]

Hit up this young hottie. Lots of texting / sexting, sent photos of her semi naked -- but never with face showing.

Agreed to meet, allowance, activities for the night. Messaged back and forth for several days before I came to town.

90 minutes before our meeting, she says she's running a little late, so maybe 630. Silence after that. Phone went straight to voicemail.

Never asked for a penny in advance, so no scam there. But why did she put in so much effort messaging? The vagaries of woman's mind. All I can think is she found a better $/ hr offer.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...3-aac6be824cc1

[SixPacking]

Like so many of them.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-ca30e13b7088

[Hobbyist420]

Met a 20 year old Spanish college girl. Things got hot and for all you saying they are all pricey and unwilling are dead wrong. Got to find out the right ways to approach this.

Finding UTG girls requires a ton of work. But once you are on the site for a while, you can distinguish b / t the SB pros (who usually focus more on the commitment for allowance part) as supposed to those who, while they do want money, also want a good time and good dick.

[Cpcdman]

Same experience!!

Don't waste your time with this one, myself into other guys I know made plays for her. Her mo seems to be the same, she will favorite you but her responses are single word answers and you never will move to texting. Complete time-waster.

http://www.seekingarrangement.com/me...d-c60e0a1f89bd

[BostonMan781]

Met a 20 year old Spanish college girl. Things got hot and for all you saying they are all pricey and unwilling are dead wrong. Got to find out the right ways to approach this.

[Dump My Goo]

There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.

There is tons of variety on these sites. I have had a couple of longer term arrangements. One lasted over a year. I started out giving her $250 per meet and then eventually I was at $150 but I would also pay for her hair, nails, makeup etc. It was worth it. She was really nice and pretty. Oh and a sex machine. I would meet her 4-5 times a month at her apartment and romp for 2-4 hours. As much fun as I wanted. She graduated and got a job in Dallas. I met a girl on wyp that I agreed to give $40 to meet at DD. When she showed up she was not nearly as good looking as the pics on her profile would seem. They were pics of her but the angles and lighting were pretty strategic. Anyway, the little head takes over and we agree to go for a ride and discuss arrangements. I told her I was interested in oral fun only. She said I give the best head ever! I said well let's find out. She was damn right. Top 5 BJ girls I've ever had and I've had hundreds of them. I gave hera an extra $30. I met her an average of 1 x per week for the next 2 yrs for a pipe cleaning. I would give her between $30-40 each time. Just a couple of weeks ago I got a huge work bonus and decided to splurge I met this girl on WYP and had lunch with her and dessert at her place. I had never given a girl more than $300 before her. She asked for 500 and I was willing to do it. She is a solid 9. 5 -10 on anyones scale though.

[SixPacking]

Don't waste your time with this one, myself into other guys I know made plays for her. Her mo seems to be the same, she will favorite you but her responses are single word answers and you never will move to texting. Complete time-waster.

http://www.seekingarrangement.com/me...d-c60e0a1f89bd

[Spike77]

There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.

Well said!