"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[RWarNmsn69]

Still up in NC. Got a 27 yo this morning for 3. 0. she was sweet and BBFS, but I just couldn't find the right groove. Then my threesome with a girl I met last week flaked on me and didn't even text to cancel. But instead, I had a new 30 yo come over for 2. 0 and more BBFS and she spent 5 hrs here. She just didn't want to leave, and we had some great chemistry. I can't see ever going back to BP after this SA action. Far from perfect at times, but definitely the way to go.

PJ, how about posting links on some of these North Carolina SBs for us North Carolina SDs? Thank you sir!

Safe mongering and sugaring!

[Peter Johnson]

Still up in NC. Got a 27 yo this morning for 3. 0. she was sweet and BBFS, but I just couldn't find the right groove. Then my threesome with a girl I met last week flaked on me and didn't even text to cancel. But instead, I had a new 30 yo come over for 2. 0 and more BBFS and she spent 5 hrs here. She just didn't want to leave, and we had some great chemistry. I can't see ever going back to BP after this SA action. Far from perfect at times, but definitely the way to go.

[SugarDaddio]

I have been chatting this one as well. I just haven't made it to see her yet. She seems perfect for me. If anyone has seen her let me know how it went. As soon as I get to see her I will let everyone know.

What's up bros? Here is a little intel I've gathered over the past week or so. My experiences only, yours may vary.

Spicey83.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...6-a06bdcc9e674

Easy to connect with. I hit her with some lame line about "are you really spicey, because I like them hot" Almost slapped myself for it but she "liked" it. She wants $400. Can't host. Asked if we could have drinks first. I decided to take another offer and didn't counter her initial price point. Cute girl though.

Gypsy.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...1-6eb28376817e

This one is definitely about her business. Lots of tats. 4'11. Quoted me $500 for two hours of fun. When you message her, put the word Kitty in the subject line so she knows you "read" her profile. Our schedules didn't connect and I am swimming in multiple at lower price points, but her pics are nice.

SweetHips.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...9-c7bf7396d2ab

Scammer. Says she needs $600 dollars and wants it via Google Wallet or Cash App. Playing around, I told her I would give it to her in person cash if we met at public location of her choice. Then the excuses poured in. The car is in the shop, she's scared to give out her home address this early and her last Uber experience soured her from using the service. Stay away from this one.

2 sweet75.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...3-8ce29797eeb3

Chatted this one up for a bit. Stays about 1 hour outside of Atlanta but has transportation to get to the area. Offered $150 for playtime and she said she would make the trip. Works nights so she can only make it up to the Atlanta area during the day. Says she needs the money for some bills and asked if it would be a weekly arrangement. My plate is kind of full so I didn't partake. Yet.

White Diamond.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...3-9dec9d003a00

Willing to meet immediately, but said she would have to bring her aunt first meet. Then it would be whatever. Oh yeah, needed gas money for the trip. Yada yada. Her spill is that she needs another surgery after undergoing a hysterectomy Told me they have to finish cleaning some tissue around the uterus. Sheesh. That sure put me out of the mood.

Import Lover.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...a-d0a9a88b6977

One of those that want you to pay her to meet you for dinner. $500. LOL. Then says she's not looking for intimacy at all, but if it happens then so be it. Pass.

Mexican Cutie.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...1-be87ffaf2a09

This one has a pro vibe and is about her business. Clearly has a routine and I was intrigued. Likes guys a bit overweight. Prefers white gentleman and doesn't like black guys although she evaluates on "case by case" . Gave me the thumbs up upon picture verify, but the preferences are preferences and I wasn't taking the chance of BS service because of them.

Ivory51.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...8-cd48b2527a70

Older lady, mid-50's. Staying in an extended motel in Marietta. Quoted me $160 for an hour of fun and says she would include a prostate massage in the deal. Everything covered. Says she recently fell on hard times. Asked for a quick selfie to verify and she came up with an excuse not to send it. So I passed.

Chanel Bags.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...f-25971c9fe234

This is an agency or a collection of girls managing the account. Was texting on a Friday and the person told me they just checked into a spot in Norcross. The next day I got pictures that differed from the profile and inviting me to a Marriott in Marietta. I responded, I thought you were in Norcross. Crickets after that. The cell number matched a few escort profiles on Google. Quoted 250 hour.

Alright, I got a couple more. Once I am done with them I will share the intel. Ripper.

[Shnshan99]

Did you have to pay more for the roommate?

Nope. Since the time is changed to 1 hr, so I didn't pay anything more. They are up for negotiation.

[Atlanta John]

Exchanged some messages and decided to meetup for $$ for couple of hrs. Afterwards she mentioned she has roommate also who can join in fun. Met them in their place. The place was messy and they were in hurry. Overall it was good fun but very quick one not even an hr.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...1-f47e27b61d75

Did you have to pay more for the roommate?

[Ripvan12]

If a SB is charging you for time. Either for your date or for a meet and drink. She is either using you or not a SB. Time is never part of this (other then the I have to be a work at. Or he the sitter is good till.) anyone that wants a gift or money to meet for drinks to see if there is a connection is a no fly at all, no matter how hot or anything. I don't pay to sit at a bar to have a conversation. I can do that at any bar.

Also do you ever meet up before discussing that? It is a waste of time if they want a fortune and you aren't going there, but sometimes they could be hotter than their pics. And I suppose not always bad to meet someone for lunch, but time is money and not my favorite thing to do.

When one of these women want 300-500 for a meet and greet at a bar or restaurant to see if there's chemistry I cut and run. It screams scheme to me. I posted a couple weeks ago about a hot 18 why / o asian that wanted $300 just for a lunch. Honey, what can you possibly talk me about?

Now I am sure some of you have had Great success doing this, but I just can't do it. It would be a pretty good strategy for women to ask for $300 to meet up get treated to a meal and then later on that evening say thanks but no thanks I think we were off a bit. I just can't get behind the possibility of that happening so I immediately eliminate.

What I struggle with is mentioning time. Ugh. So used to dealing with pros and clock watchers that after we come to an agreement on the meet, I ask "How much time I have you for?" 80% of the time on SA, the response is "I dunno, a few hours is that good?" A lot of these women aren't even thinking about time. They are civvies dabbbling and treating it like a regular date. But when you come from the click watching world of escorts, it is a tough habit to break.

Ripper.

[CallMeTom]

New poster here, long time SA member. I saw her when she first joined the site so maybe she's changed but she spent a lot of time on her phone, no kissing and no CIM. It was a one time thing obviously but only 200 for overnight.

Thanks for the info. I doubt she's had a change of heart since then but she's just so hot to me. Not sure yet. Got her down to 3 and we haven't discussed amount of time. Problem with the really good looking ones is they don't do the good stuff. Best experiences I've had so far are with the 7's and mid twenties. Not ugly but not GPS, actually enjoy the action as much as the allowance, and experienced enough for really good fun (but not too experienced so they still will take direction). Ah, this site is a gold mine. If you don't have success on this site, I just can't understand it. It does take some work, but the rewards are grand.

[CallMeTom]

He posted her username. I searched for it and found her, without the link. I would rather people do it this way, because many times, the links don't work.

Yeah agreed. Which was my thinking. But I guess the best approach is the profile name and the link. Sometimes I struggle finding the name, not sure why. Other times the link doesn't work.

[Peter Johnson]

Yep. Today, 4 pm Meet time, no text, no contact. 3 hours later, said she was in a wreck (possible, certainly).

Most difficult experience: establish contact with young, blonde 21 why / old. Emails, texts, even a couple of phone conversations. Meet for lunch, she's hot, says she's ready to go. Drive to her place, go in, starts crying. "I can't do this. " Turns out she went to my local high school, her dad had lost his job three weeks before. Sweet girl, talked to her for half an hour, hugged her and left. She texted me a week later to say thanks, which at least made me feel a bit better.

Obviously, about 2% probability your 4pm girl was really in a wreck. One of mine went dark on me and never responded to my (polite) texts, asking what happened. Another said she fell asleep, trying to get her son to sleep (lame excuse). Still haven't heard from the one tonight.

That hurts about the blonde. It would take a a few days to get over that, but at least she is just dumb, and not purely self-absorbed, opportunistic, and inconsiderate. But tough to be right there and have your good fortune turn to bad. Not to mention that time is money and these chicks waste a lot of our valuable time.

I have had three good experiences and will figure out in a few months if the good ones are truly worth all the bullsh*t. Hopefully just some bad luck lately. And being stood up is irritating but not like getting robbed or blackmailed, so could be worse.

[Allen981]

Damn, had plans with another one tonight and she disappeared on me. That is three in the past week who did this or similar. Are any of you having the same issues? I hadn't discussed allowance with this one, so maybe she caught a big fish, but seems like would at least text me and make a lame excuse. I think I am may be underestimating how ruthless some of these girls are, although this one seemed rather sweet and normal. And of course I had Saturday night blocked off, so couldn't make any plans with another one, because this one was all lined up.

I am supposed to get together with another one tomorrow morning and then do threesome with one and her roomie a few hours later, so we'll see if any of those go through. Very frustrating though and not much better than flaky Backpage b*tches.

But hoping to get back to ATL in the next few days and then start to share some more precise local intel.

Yep. Today, 4 pm Meet time, no text, no contact. 3 hours later, said she was in a wreck (possible, certainly).

Most difficult experience: establish contact with young, blonde 21 why / old. Emails, texts, even a couple of phone conversations. Meet for lunch, she's hot, says she's ready to go. Drive to her place, go in, starts crying. "I can't do this. " Turns out she went to my local high school, her dad had lost his job three weeks before. Sweet girl, talked to her for half an hour, hugged her and left. She texted me a week later to say thanks, which at least made me feel a bit better.

[Peter Johnson]

You didn't provide a link to whoever you are talking about. I don't think you are going to get too many replies.

He posted her username. I searched for it and found her, without the link. I would rather people do it this way, because many times, the links don't work.

[Peter Johnson]

If a SB is charging you for time. Either for your date or for a meet and drink. She is either using you or not a SB. Time is never part of this (other then the I have to be a work at. Or he the sitter is good till.) anyone that wants a gift or money to meet for drinks to see if there is a connection is a no fly at all, no matter how hot or anything. I don't pay to sit at a bar to have a conversation. I can do that at any bar.

Also do you ever meet up before discussing that? It is a waste of time if they want a fortune and you aren't going there, but sometimes they could be hotter than their pics. And I suppose not always bad to meet someone for lunch, but time is money and not my favorite thing to do.

Yes, that's the issue that they could be hotter than the pics and worth a lot more than you expected. I found that out with the $500 one. I would have balked at that beforehand, but saw it might be worth it after I met her. (But she flaked on me the next day).

It just depends on the girl and if I really want her, I will make a more aggressive offer, so we don't get into haggling so much. Although perhaps this is the way to go sometimes.

Also I'm thinking to bring up the allowance discussion, earlier, rather than later so they don't think you are a poser who is just wasting their time. I guess no guaranteed strategy and still going to misfire quite a bit.

[Peter Johnson]

Damn, had plans with another one tonight and she disappeared on me. That is three in the past week who did this or similar. Are any of you having the same issues? I hadn't discussed allowance with this one, so maybe she caught a big fish, but seems like would at least text me and make a lame excuse. I think I am may be underestimating how ruthless some of these girls are, although this one seemed rather sweet and normal. And of course I had Saturday night blocked off, so couldn't make any plans with another one, because this one was all lined up.

I am supposed to get together with another one tomorrow morning and then do threesome with one and her roomie a few hours later, so we'll see if any of those go through. Very frustrating though and not much better than flaky Backpage b*tches.

But hoping to get back to ATL in the next few days and then start to share some more precise local intel.

[Shnshan99]

Exchanged some messages and decided to meetup for $$ for couple of hrs. Afterwards she mentioned she has roommate also who can join in fun. Met them in their place. The place was messy and they were in hurry. Overall it was good fun but very quick one not even an hr.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...1-f47e27b61d75

[CallMeTom]

You didn't provide a link to whoever you are talking about. I don't think you are going to get too many replies.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-0d213d5e668e