"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Ripvan12]

If a SB is charging you for time. Either for your date or for a meet and drink. She is either using you or not a SB. Time is never part of this (other then the I have to be a work at. Or he the sitter is good till.) anyone that wants a gift or money to meet for drinks to see if there is a connection is a no fly at all, no matter how hot or anything. I don't pay to sit at a bar to have a conversation. I can do that at any bar.

Also do you ever meet up before discussing that? It is a waste of time if they want a fortune and you aren't going there, but sometimes they could be hotter than their pics. And I suppose not always bad to meet someone for lunch, but time is money and not my favorite thing to do.

When one of these women want 300-500 for a meet and greet at a bar or restaurant to see if there's chemistry I cut and run. It screams scheme to me. I posted a couple weeks ago about a hot 18 why / o asian that wanted $300 just for a lunch. Honey, what can you possibly talk me about?

Now I am sure some of you have had Great success doing this, but I just can't do it. It would be a pretty good strategy for women to ask for $300 to meet up get treated to a meal and then later on that evening say thanks but no thanks I think we were off a bit. I just can't get behind the possibility of that happening so I immediately eliminate.

What I struggle with is mentioning time. Ugh. So used to dealing with pros and clock watchers that after we come to an agreement on the meet, I ask "How much time I have you for?" 80% of the time on SA, the response is "I dunno, a few hours is that good?" A lot of these women aren't even thinking about time. They are civvies dabbbling and treating it like a regular date. But when you come from the click watching world of escorts, it is a tough habit to break.

Ripper.

[CallMeTom]

New poster here, long time SA member. I saw her when she first joined the site so maybe she's changed but she spent a lot of time on her phone, no kissing and no CIM. It was a one time thing obviously but only 200 for overnight.

Thanks for the info. I doubt she's had a change of heart since then but she's just so hot to me. Not sure yet. Got her down to 3 and we haven't discussed amount of time. Problem with the really good looking ones is they don't do the good stuff. Best experiences I've had so far are with the 7's and mid twenties. Not ugly but not GPS, actually enjoy the action as much as the allowance, and experienced enough for really good fun (but not too experienced so they still will take direction). Ah, this site is a gold mine. If you don't have success on this site, I just can't understand it. It does take some work, but the rewards are grand.

[CallMeTom]

He posted her username. I searched for it and found her, without the link. I would rather people do it this way, because many times, the links don't work.

Yeah agreed. Which was my thinking. But I guess the best approach is the profile name and the link. Sometimes I struggle finding the name, not sure why. Other times the link doesn't work.

[Peter Johnson]

Yep. Today, 4 pm Meet time, no text, no contact. 3 hours later, said she was in a wreck (possible, certainly).

Most difficult experience: establish contact with young, blonde 21 why / old. Emails, texts, even a couple of phone conversations. Meet for lunch, she's hot, says she's ready to go. Drive to her place, go in, starts crying. "I can't do this. " Turns out she went to my local high school, her dad had lost his job three weeks before. Sweet girl, talked to her for half an hour, hugged her and left. She texted me a week later to say thanks, which at least made me feel a bit better.

Obviously, about 2% probability your 4pm girl was really in a wreck. One of mine went dark on me and never responded to my (polite) texts, asking what happened. Another said she fell asleep, trying to get her son to sleep (lame excuse). Still haven't heard from the one tonight.

That hurts about the blonde. It would take a a few days to get over that, but at least she is just dumb, and not purely self-absorbed, opportunistic, and inconsiderate. But tough to be right there and have your good fortune turn to bad. Not to mention that time is money and these chicks waste a lot of our valuable time.

I have had three good experiences and will figure out in a few months if the good ones are truly worth all the bullsh*t. Hopefully just some bad luck lately. And being stood up is irritating but not like getting robbed or blackmailed, so could be worse.

[Allen981]

Damn, had plans with another one tonight and she disappeared on me. That is three in the past week who did this or similar. Are any of you having the same issues? I hadn't discussed allowance with this one, so maybe she caught a big fish, but seems like would at least text me and make a lame excuse. I think I am may be underestimating how ruthless some of these girls are, although this one seemed rather sweet and normal. And of course I had Saturday night blocked off, so couldn't make any plans with another one, because this one was all lined up.

I am supposed to get together with another one tomorrow morning and then do threesome with one and her roomie a few hours later, so we'll see if any of those go through. Very frustrating though and not much better than flaky Backpage b*tches.

But hoping to get back to ATL in the next few days and then start to share some more precise local intel.

Yep. Today, 4 pm Meet time, no text, no contact. 3 hours later, said she was in a wreck (possible, certainly).

Most difficult experience: establish contact with young, blonde 21 why / old. Emails, texts, even a couple of phone conversations. Meet for lunch, she's hot, says she's ready to go. Drive to her place, go in, starts crying. "I can't do this. " Turns out she went to my local high school, her dad had lost his job three weeks before. Sweet girl, talked to her for half an hour, hugged her and left. She texted me a week later to say thanks, which at least made me feel a bit better.

[Peter Johnson]

You didn't provide a link to whoever you are talking about. I don't think you are going to get too many replies.

He posted her username. I searched for it and found her, without the link. I would rather people do it this way, because many times, the links don't work.

[Peter Johnson]

If a SB is charging you for time. Either for your date or for a meet and drink. She is either using you or not a SB. Time is never part of this (other then the I have to be a work at. Or he the sitter is good till.) anyone that wants a gift or money to meet for drinks to see if there is a connection is a no fly at all, no matter how hot or anything. I don't pay to sit at a bar to have a conversation. I can do that at any bar.

Also do you ever meet up before discussing that? It is a waste of time if they want a fortune and you aren't going there, but sometimes they could be hotter than their pics. And I suppose not always bad to meet someone for lunch, but time is money and not my favorite thing to do.

Yes, that's the issue that they could be hotter than the pics and worth a lot more than you expected. I found that out with the $500 one. I would have balked at that beforehand, but saw it might be worth it after I met her. (But she flaked on me the next day).

It just depends on the girl and if I really want her, I will make a more aggressive offer, so we don't get into haggling so much. Although perhaps this is the way to go sometimes.

Also I'm thinking to bring up the allowance discussion, earlier, rather than later so they don't think you are a poser who is just wasting their time. I guess no guaranteed strategy and still going to misfire quite a bit.

[Peter Johnson]

Damn, had plans with another one tonight and she disappeared on me. That is three in the past week who did this or similar. Are any of you having the same issues? I hadn't discussed allowance with this one, so maybe she caught a big fish, but seems like would at least text me and make a lame excuse. I think I am may be underestimating how ruthless some of these girls are, although this one seemed rather sweet and normal. And of course I had Saturday night blocked off, so couldn't make any plans with another one, because this one was all lined up.

I am supposed to get together with another one tomorrow morning and then do threesome with one and her roomie a few hours later, so we'll see if any of those go through. Very frustrating though and not much better than flaky Backpage b*tches.

But hoping to get back to ATL in the next few days and then start to share some more precise local intel.

[Shnshan99]

Exchanged some messages and decided to meetup for $$ for couple of hrs. Afterwards she mentioned she has roommate also who can join in fun. Met them in their place. The place was messy and they were in hurry. Overall it was good fun but very quick one not even an hr.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...1-f47e27b61d75

[CallMeTom]

You didn't provide a link to whoever you are talking about. I don't think you are going to get too many replies.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...0-0d213d5e668e

[LuapW]

Anybody seen this one? Looking so hot. Text some. Got some pics. Seems real. Would love a PM with details before I pull the trigger!

You didn't provide a link to whoever you are talking about. I don't think you are going to get too many replies.

[CallMeTom]

All I know is she was in the upstate handling some business when she texted and wanted to know what I was up to. I was free; she was willing to drive to Atlanta but I just so happen to be in SC, a shade over an hour from where she was. She didn't mind driving to my location so I suggested she could stay the night since it was kinda late to be out and about. She arrived on time but since we both had places to be in the morning, off to bed we went in hopes of waking up an hour before we had to leave so we could have some fun. It didn't take her long to drift off but boy oh boy! I couldn't sleep at all because I was just thinking about all the things we were going to do when the alarm went off. Long story short, the snooze button can be your best friend but in this case it worked against me. By the time we both got up and got into it, it all turned into an overnight quick visit basically. Gorgeous face, body and the twins look phenomenal but I was hoping for MSOG.

Got a link for her? Couldn't seem to find her.

[Eustisflman]

If a SB is charging you for time. Either for your date or for a meet and drink. She is either using you or not a SB. Time is never part of this (other then the I have to be a work at. Or he the sitter is good till.) anyone that wants a gift or money to meet for drinks to see if there is a connection is a no fly at all, no matter how hot or anything. I don't pay to sit at a bar to have a conversation. I can do that at any bar.

Also do you ever meet up before discussing that? It is a waste of time if they want a fortune and you aren't going there, but sometimes they could be hotter than their pics. And I suppose not always bad to meet someone for lunch, but time is money and not my favorite thing to do.

[RedWine123]

Anybody seen this one? Looking so hot. Text some. Got some pics. Seems real. Would love a PM with details before I pull the trigger!

New poster here, long time SA member. I saw her when she first joined the site so maybe she's changed but she spent a lot of time on her phone, no kissing and no CIM. It was a one time thing obviously but only 200 for overnight.

[CallMeTom]

Anybody seen this one? Looking so hot. Text some. Got some pics. Seems real. Would love a PM with details before I pull the trigger!