NoVA SugarBabies

[OldPilot71]

Things were going pretty smooth with my SB until I've had to go out of the country and other work related trips so we haven't linked up as frequently as she would like. Due to that she wants 180 instead of the 125 each date. She's offering extra time to compensate. Worth it or should I start looking for a new one?

Is $180 a good value for what you get? How much time do you spend together, what is involved, how much do you enjoy her company, are you paying for a room on top of that? Depending on your answers, $180 may be perfectly reasonable. Then again, maybe it's too much.

[JimBliss478]

Things were going pretty smooth with my SB until I've had to go out of the country and other work related trips so we haven't linked up as frequently as she would like. Due to that she wants 180 instead of the 125 each date. She's offering extra time to compensate. Worth it or should I start looking for a new one?

Don't give in. You're in charge. Not her.

[Titan Omega]

Things were going pretty smooth with my SB until I've had to go out of the country and other work related trips so we haven't linked up as frequently as she would like. Due to that she wants 180 instead of the 125 each date. She's offering extra time to compensate. Worth it or should I start looking for a new one?

[OldPilot71]

Well done. I've had several similar finds over the past two years.

Thanks. I really lucked out on that find. I found pretty much exactly what I was looking for on my first outing. She even deleted her profile once we figured out we had a good thing!

[BookerTNelson]

I had a very positive experience on SA. Signed up 3 weeks ago. Had initial contact with a lot of women who were obviously escorts. Those got ignored. Seriously chatted with five women. Planned two lunch meetups but ended up cancelling one because it was clear she was purely about the cash. The one meeting I kept ended up being pure gold and I haven't bothered with anyone else. We have now meet up 4 times, with all but the first involving sex. She was looking for some on the side action (so was I) and is more interested in pleasure than money. Other than paying for lunches / drinks / rooms, a grand total of $100 has changed hands over 4 dates. There are real women on the site. You need to be patient and be willing to overlook the ridiculously hot model photos.

Well done. I've had several similar finds over the past two years.

[OldPilot71]

I had a very positive experience on SA. Signed up 3 weeks ago. Had initial contact with a lot of women who were obviously escorts. Those got ignored. Seriously chatted with five women. Planned two lunch meetups but ended up cancelling one because it was clear she was purely about the cash. The one meeting I kept ended up being pure gold and I haven't bothered with anyone else. We have now meet up 4 times, with all but the first involving sex. She was looking for some on the side action (so was I) and is more interested in pleasure than money. Other than paying for lunches / drinks / rooms, a grand total of $100 has changed hands over 4 dates. There are real women on the site. You need to be patient and be willing to overlook the ridiculously hot model photos.

[DC Outlaw]

Joined two weeks ago again. Most girls are fake selling pics. Huge scammers now. I had a girl tell me I'm stupid for offering $400 for pussy, I asked for an arrangement, not asking for pussy.

So I replied well I guess you're giving your pussy away for free if I'm stupid for offering money, she reported me and I got permanently banned.

2 weeks lost. I'm done with that shitty overpriced website.

SA does take some time investment on your part but can be cheaper than $400 if you work at it. I've used the site a few times in the past two years and have always found success. Two factors that seem to work for me is to use SA when traveling and time mymembership around college breaks.

For example:

Business travel: I look for dinner dates that can move back to my room. I'm direct and upfront but not vulgar when communicating. . I typically look at the city I'm traveling to about two weeks before I arrive. Too far in advance doesn't work and last minute makes you seem desperate.

Timing: Christmas break just about broke my budget this year. December saw a big increase in college girls home for the holidays. I saw four different girls mid-Dec through this week and two of the ladies I saw on multiple dates. I'm hoping they'll both keep in touch when they're home again on breaks.

Yeah, you got to weed through some junk and it can be a let down if you find an ideal candidate but can't get her to respond. In that sense it's a lot liking dating.

I've never gifted more than $$ but I do buy meals, cover uber, and often host. The type of girls I have been going for typically won't host. But they also can't legally buy alcohol at dinner either.

[RappaHannock]

Joined two weeks ago again. Most girls are fake selling pics. Huge scammers now. I had a girl tell me I'm stupid for offering $400 for pussy, I asked for an arrangement, not asking for pussy.

So I replied well I guess you're giving your pussy away for free if I'm stupid for offering money, she reported me and I got permanently banned.

2 weeks lost. I'm done with that shitty overpriced website.

I would agree with what others have said. Takes patience. Two months ago one week I had three M&G's set up and two out of the three went silent and never showed up. Happy to say the other one worked out pretty well. So while it was really disappointing having my time wasted, I understand it is part of the deal. YOu have to roll with it.

[FarFarAway]

Joined two weeks ago again. Most girls are fake selling pics. Huge scammers now. I had a girl tell me I'm stupid for offering $400 for pussy, I asked for an arrangement, not asking for pussy.

So I replied well I guess you're giving your pussy away for free if I'm stupid for offering money, she reported me and I got permanently banned.

2 weeks lost. I'm done with that shitty overpriced website.

You really should read the Richmond blog for about 3 days straight before you make your first move. You could also read the TOS of SA. They are trying to maintain plausible deniability about prostitution. No one in their right mind has any convos on the SA site itself about pay for play. You have to move the POT to email or text or a messaging app (kik, snapchat) for that kind of thing. It never pays to be rude to anyone in this game. It can come back to bite you. Someone get's a wild hare to 'show you' and you can really end up regretting it. You never know who's on the other end of that profile.

[ShortMan22]

Joined two weeks ago again. Most girls are fake selling pics. Huge scammers now. I had a girl tell me I'm stupid for offering $400 for pussy, I asked for an arrangement, not asking for pussy.

So I replied well I guess you're giving your pussy away for free if I'm stupid for offering money, she reported me and I got permanently banned.

2 weeks lost. I'm done with that shitty overpriced website.

Hang in there buddy it can get rough at times.

[Mallet70]

Joined two weeks ago again. Most girls are fake selling pics. Huge scammers now. I had a girl tell me I'm stupid for offering $400 for pussy, I asked for an arrangement, not asking for pussy.

So I replied well I guess you're giving your pussy away for free if I'm stupid for offering money, she reported me and I got permanently banned.

2 weeks lost. I'm done with that shitty overpriced website.

SB relationships are a lot like dating, and there is a lot of flakiness.

It takes time and effort to wade through it, and sometimes you strike gold. It's all temporary anyway, you have your fun and things progress than fade away.

[Jim Rob]

Joined two weeks ago again. Most girls are fake selling pics. Huge scammers now. I had a girl tell me I'm stupid for offering $400 for pussy, I asked for an arrangement, not asking for pussy.

So I replied well I guess you're giving your pussy away for free if I'm stupid for offering money, she reported me and I got permanently banned.

2 weeks lost. I'm done with that shitty overpriced website.

[VaPlay]

I'm communicating with a white early 20's chick with long dark hair and a thick waist living in the Sterling area who responded to a CL add I placed. She seems as though she's not new to this and is UTR or possibly a SB. I have some pics and digits I could share if anyone thinks they might know her. Wanting to know what I am walking into is all.

[OldPilot71]

Definitely a positive 1st couple days on SA. Messaged about 12 women, chatted with about 6 of those and have "first date" lunches scheduled with 2 of them this week. I'll report back on how those go and what the future prospects are.

[Callmecrazy]

Vanilla Card worked like a champ on SA. Thanks again for the info!

Glad I was able to help. Now go have some fun and report your experiences. I don't play in your area but I may decide to take a road trip sometime.