Safe Sex Information and Advice

[LightYagami]

Yes it is out there. The ladies who do it are taking more risk than the men and most will say it is YMMV and at their discretion.

In many cases if the lady feels safe with you she will just proceed to doing it without asking. For those who won't, they will have the condom ready and waiting.

The question was raised as to why BBBJ and BBFS are linked in the same forum? For the educated it makes sense. BBBJ and BBFS have the same STD risk, so if you do one, then you should not be afraid of the other. Over my almost year 30 hobby life, I have gotten Chlamydia twice and in both cases it came from BBBJ, and it was from reputable, top tier ladies. I have also received the dreaded, "I think you should be tested. " phone call once. That instance proved to be negative, but it goes to show you that even if you and the lady are tested regularly, you can only claim that you are truely clean up to the next time you get a BBBJ.

The most risky act, BBANAL is never talked about. It is about the only way a man can get HIV from a woman sexually. The anus was not meant to take the stress of sex. The sphincter will tear and bleed. Blood equals risk for both parties. It is rumored that BBANAL is what made Magic Johnson HIV positive, his wife stayed clean while getting pregnant by him. Think about that a bit.

Because of the risk to the woman, BBFS should have an upcharge and should be at the lady's choice. If you are one of the ones that ask for it, then only ask once. If the answer is "No" then move on to CFS. Begging, bartering and attempted negotiation is a juvenile and unmanly thing to do.

It is not the same risk, BBBJ and BBFS, and I encourage everyone that has questions to do research and consult with your doctor.

[FarFarAway]

There is a lot of media discussion about HPV levels in the US population right now. It says that 1 in 9 of us guys have oral HPV, presumably by DATY, though in point of fact, rates are higher among men who have sex with men. Anyway, a question is what we can do about this. Young people these days are being offered vaccines for HPV, Gardasil and another brand name. They are only recommended in the US up to 26 years of age. So, if you limit your partners to young women who had the shot, you should be fine. LOL. I wondered about other countries, and found out this about Canada, in a Canadian health magazine:

* didn't even consider getting the vaccine until he contracted genital warts. He says: "I first considered the vaccine out of fear. The genital warts were a nuisance and having them frozen off over a period of months was physically uncomfortable. It was a condition and treatment that I'd never want to experience again. ".

Even though Gardasil does not protect against HPV strains already contracted, it does against others, so * went through with his vaccination. He recently received his third and final dose and says that to him, prevention is paramount. "I see myself as equally responsible for the safety and well-being of my partners," he says. "The peace of mind alone is worth the cost and hassle. ".

Despite being 30-years-old. Over the recommended maximum age of 26 for men, * experienced no problems in getting his prescription. According to Dr. * since the Gardasil vaccine has now been approved for use in women up to age 45, it makes sense to do the same for men.

So, maybe us geezers can head north of the border and get it.

[CoJones123]

What risks are reasonably possible with a hand job?

Hand job only with or without oils.

[JLZ61]

Hear, hear!

I'd say Amon can offer some direction on who to contact. For me, however, it would be who NOT to contact! LOL.

Yes it is out there. The ladies who do it are taking more risk than the men and most will say it is YMMV and at their discretion.

In many cases if the lady feels safe with you she will just proceed to doing it without asking. For those who won't, they will have the condom ready and waiting.

The question was raised as to why BBBJ and BBFS are linked in the same forum? For the educated it makes sense. BBBJ and BBFS have the same STD risk, so if you do one, then you should not be afraid of the other. Over my almost year 30 hobby life, I have gotten Chlamydia twice and in both cases it came from BBBJ, and it was from reputable, top tier ladies. I have also received the dreaded, "I think you should be tested. " phone call once. That instance proved to be negative, but it goes to show you that even if you and the lady are tested regularly, you can only claim that you are truely clean up to the next time you get a BBBJ.

The most risky act, BBANAL is never talked about. It is about the only way a man can get HIV from a woman sexually. The anus was not meant to take the stress of sex. The sphincter will tear and bleed. Blood equals risk for both parties. It is rumored that BBANAL is what made Magic Johnson HIV positive, his wife stayed clean while getting pregnant by him. Think about that a bit.

Because of the risk to the woman, BBFS should have an upcharge and should be at the lady's choice. If you are one of the ones that ask for it, then only ask once. If the answer is "No" then move on to CFS. Begging, bartering and attempted negotiation is a juvenile and unmanly thing to do.

[Sir LanceLicksalot]

Yes it is out there. The ladies who do it are taking more risk than the men and most will say it is YMMV and at their discretion.

In many cases if the lady feels safe with you she will just proceed to doing it without asking. For those who won't, they will have the condom ready and waiting.

The question was raised as to why BBBJ and BBFS are linked in the same forum? For the educated it makes sense. BBBJ and BBFS have the same STD risk, so if you do one, then you should not be afraid of the other. Over my almost year 30 hobby life, I have gotten Chlamydia twice and in both cases it came from BBBJ, and it was from reputable, top tier ladies. I have also received the dreaded, "I think you should be tested. " phone call once. That instance proved to be negative, but it goes to show you that even if you and the lady are tested regularly, you can only claim that you are truely clean up to the next time you get a BBBJ.

The most risky act, BBANAL is never talked about. It is about the only way a man can get HIV from a woman sexually. The anus was not meant to take the stress of sex. The sphincter will tear and bleed. Blood equals risk for both parties. It is rumored that BBANAL is what made Magic Johnson HIV positive, his wife stayed clean while getting pregnant by him. Think about that a bit.

Because of the risk to the woman, BBFS should have an upcharge and should be at the lady's choice. If you are one of the ones that ask for it, then only ask once. If the answer is "No" then move on to CFS. Begging, bartering and attempted negotiation is a juvenile and unmanly thing to do.

[John Dough]

Looks like I might have contracted HPV, The warts I have pretty much look like skin tags. No pain, not spreading. And HPV not to be confused with HSV, totally different things. I've read that the body can get rid of the warts in it's own over a period of 3 months. I guess I'm looking for advice on what course of action I need to take to find a remedy.

HPV and HSV are both caused by a virus. There are some natural antiviral supplements you could try. Monolaurin from coconut oil is supposed to have antiviral activity. The most concentrated and highest dosage available is a product called Lauricidin. It is totally safe. A more controversial supplement is BHT, a food preservative available in capsules. I don't know if it's safe. Some people claim to have cured themselves of viral infections like hepatitis by using it.

You could also try placing tiny drops of chlorine bleach on the warts. I did this on the bottom of my foot. It worked and didn't hurt. In your case it is in a more sensitive location, so it will probably hurt. The trick is to get the drops very small so they don't touch the surrounding skin. Maybe try dipping a pointy object like a toothpick into the bleach.

[USNen]

So I have been in the hobby for about 4 years now. Not quite as active now because Florida had better selection than Virginia does (where I am now). I have always practiced safe sex have never done BBFS but have had my share of BBBJ's. Always have done research to find the legit girls. Throughout the years I never have had any issues with STI or STD. But I guess it was bound to happen. Looks like I might have contracted HPV, and from my research I have HPV 6 or 11. The warts I have pretty much look like skin tags. No pain, not spreading. And HPV not to be confused with HSV, totally different things. At least that's my understanding from research. I've read that the body can get rid of the warts in it's own over a period of 3 months. I guess I'm looking for advice on what course of action I need to take to find a remedy. And no I have not visited a physician just yet. Here's the plot twist. I have a SO and I am AD Military. If anyone on here is AD Mil, Will the physician I visit require me to disclose this info to my SO if I visit clinic on base? And what is the treatment for HPV?? Again. HPV 6 or 11 not the other types. And what are some alternative cost free clinics I can visit?? I have done research and I can only think of the planned Parenthood for testing and possible treatment at a reduced cost or free. Thanks fellas. Much help needed and very appreciated.

[PrettySheep]

The topic here is getting fired up, I just love reading your discussion. Very informative.

[SlyshyGuy]

Untrue! Herpes virus can shed even when there are no symptoms-its just more likely if symptoms are present. Sophisticated culture studies at the University of Washington showed virus shed sometimes even in asymptomatic HSV1 carriers. Your best bet is to take Valtrex to suppress the virus but even that is no guarantee against transmission if contact is BB. Valtrex PLUS condom is the recommended prescription against infecting a partner.

That's interesting information. Are you a doctor or in the medical field?

[Phallacy]

Asked my doctor about this a few months ago. He said the only way you can transmit the HPV is if you yourself are having an episode when you have sex with the girl. So if you have sex when not having the symptoms, you're not spreading it to your partner. Just what my doctor mentioned to me when I asked.

A.

Untrue! Herpes virus can shed even when there are no symptoms-its just more likely if symptoms are present. Sophisticated culture studies at the University of Washington showed virus shed sometimes even in asymptomatic HSV1 carriers. Your best bet is to take Valtrex to suppress the virus but even that is no guarantee against transmission if contact is BB. Valtrex PLUS condom is the recommended prescription against infecting a partner.

[Aviator1958]

HSV-1 is the mouth type, but can also be transferred to the genitals. HSV-2 is genital herpes. Both very contageous.

Asked my doctor about this a few months ago. He said the only way you can transmit the HPV is if you yourself are having an episode when you have sex with the girl. So if you have sex when not having the symptoms, you're not spreading it to your partner. Just what my doctor mentioned to me when I asked.

A.

[JoeDick2012]

As far as I know, canker sores are NOT caused by the herpes virus, while cold sores are caused by the herpes virus. If I remember correctly, cankers sores occur inside the mouth, while cold sores occur outside the mouth.

HSV-1 is the mouth type, but can also be transferred to the genitals. HSV-2 is genital herpes. Both very contageous.

[JackHolly]

I have someone at work who thinks a Canker sore is herpes, now I might be wrong but after googling it I believe that I am right it s not a part of herpes it's more or less an ulcer of the mouth!

As far as I know, canker sores are NOT caused by the herpes virus, while cold sores are caused by the herpes virus. If I remember correctly, cankers sores occur inside the mouth, while cold sores occur outside the mouth.

[Joesun1]

Thanks for the response every time I see a girl pretty much the same thing BJ without a condom kissing and I was wearing condom when I have sex so I caught these two STDs from either BJ or kissing so it doesn't matter if this particular girl gave it to me or somebody else but I know for a fact I got it from one of the girls and I never have unprotected sex so again just trying to pass real information because I'm sick and tired of Googling things and not knowing what to believe but this is a. Great platform where us guys share real information and I love this formun Wicked.

I have someone at work who thinks a Canker sore is herpes, now I might be wrong but after googling it I believe that I am right it s not a part of herpes it's more or less an ulcer of the mouth!

[AdderAll]

I'm not suggesting that bbbjs don't have risk. They do, and you could have caught the burn from a BBBJ. It is very, very unlikely that you caught it from someone who sucked you off the night before. It usually takes about a week after infection for symptoms to arise.

Thanks for the response every time I see a girl pretty much the same thing BJ without a condom kissing and I was wearing condom when I have sex so I caught these two STDs from either BJ or kissing so it doesn't matter if this particular girl gave it to me or somebody else but I know for a fact I got it from one of the girls and I never have unprotected sex so again just trying to pass real information because I'm sick and tired of Googling things and not knowing what to believe but this is a. Great platform where us guys share real information and I love this formun Wicked.