"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Allen981]

Chatted off and on all day. Set up a time to meet and she canceled. Set up a time for me to pick her up for some fun. Canceled. Keeps saying she needs $$ so badly and will "Do anything it takes". But really just wants a handout. Same typical BS story you hear Boo Hoo, Ex beat me, Job pays nothing. Keeps asking for Moneygram or Paypal. Don't bother guys.

Someone mentions pay in advance in any form, I sign off. Nothing good would ever come from it. That said, I've had a ton of fun with it, met 5 very nice ladies (great way to meet someone if you're going out of town) and look forward to more. Good luck.

[Niteluvr]

They hate P4 P because they're not getting "paid" to have sex. But they expect to be paid whether they have sex or not. But they are not escorts or hookers in their minds. These women have their own ideas what these terms mean:

NSA. No strings attached. Means it's just an arrangement, they get money and there is no long term commitment. Which is funny when they ask for an allowance.

FWB. Friends with benefits. Means they will sleep with you but they benefit from your money in an allowance or a per-meet gift.

Allowance. Month given to them to allow them to live their lives in the lifestyle they prefer, does not mean you get anything for it.

Gift. Something given, usually up front. When you see them for the promise of something later

Very well said.

[John HandCock]

They hate P4 P because they're not getting "paid" to have sex. But they expect to be paid whether they have sex or not. But they are not escorts or hookers in their minds. These women have their own ideas what these terms mean:

NSA. No strings attached. Means it's just an arrangement, they get money and there is no long term commitment. Which is funny when they ask for an allowance.

FWB. Friends with benefits. Means they will sleep with you but they benefit from your money in an allowance or a per-meet gift.

Allowance. Month given to them to allow them to live their lives in the lifestyle they prefer, does not mean you get anything for it.

Gift. Something given, usually up front. When you see them for the promise of something later.

If they mention they want an allowance I shut them down. I've also had a few that say they're NSA and FWB and get hostile when you say you're not going to give them cash and prizes, like a game show. I guess they think they earned it by chatting with you on the site. Or they play the long game, chat with you and when you get ready to meet drop the "I have to borrow a car because my car has. " or "I am going to miss work tonight, can you help me out?

I apparently didn't state it right. Its the mongers who seem to "she is a p4 p girl" have problems. My post was meant to state its all p4 p no matter which one of the terms you listed. A civy girl doing this for the first time has know idea as to the term p4 p or any of the escort terminology.

[Airmantroy]

I'm fairly certain LE hasn't even attempted to use SA. They catch plenty on BP and it doesn't take nearly as much time. I wouldn't give her a direct answer, instead tell her you'll need to meet her before you make a decision on how much you are willing to invest in her future.

Any girls who jump straight to "how much" are more likely to be flaky as hell and have GPS though.

I'm pretty sure the cops ran a sting on SA recently, Arizona I think but I wouldn't bet on it.

A2

A2, It wouldn't surprise me if somewhere in this wonderful country a vice cop hasn't been jilted by a SB and decided it was good hunting grounds. There were several "18" yr old girls here in ATL that were in the now infamous area of town to avoid that suddenly disappeared from SA after they started doing a little age checking for the female members. I'm not a lawyer but I would venture to say that just offering an allowance is not going to get your name in the local paper as fast as actually meeting an underage girl. Still I wouldn't go mentioning specifics acts with the girl via chat, email or text until I had actually laid eyes on her in person. For LE to be active on SA would require a significant amount of time and resources to read and reply to the messages, then actually meet the guy, get him in their jurisdiction or have a multi jurisdictional type of deal going on. BP is soooooooo much easier for them, a few fake pics, and a phone number and a free post every few hours.

[JeffInnAtlanta]

So I keep wondering about p4 p phrase that seems to be a negative thing on the sb threads. P4 p was always associated witfh the escorts and there are plenty of those on the site. But it seems to me that what ever you workout its still p4 p. Whether a monthly allowance or weekly arrangement it still boils down to p4 p. Allowance or arrangement might be a less offensive term to an actual civy girl (non sex worker) but any way you cut its still p4 p.

They hate P4 P because they're not getting "paid" to have sex. But they expect to be paid whether they have sex or not. But they are not escorts or hookers in their minds. These women have their own ideas what these terms mean:

NSA. No strings attached. Means it's just an arrangement, they get money and there is no long term commitment. Which is funny when they ask for an allowance.

FWB. Friends with benefits. Means they will sleep with you but they benefit from your money in an allowance or a per-meet gift.

Allowance. Month given to them to allow them to live their lives in the lifestyle they prefer, does not mean you get anything for it.

Gift. Something given, usually up front. When you see them for the promise of something later.

If they mention they want an allowance I shut them down. I've also had a few that say they're NSA and FWB and get hostile when you say you're not going to give them cash and prizes, like a game show. I guess they think they earned it by chatting with you on the site. Or they play the long game, chat with you and when you get ready to meet drop the "I have to borrow a car because my car has. " or "I am going to miss work tonight, can you help me out?

[DaRiv]

This one has been on my hook for about 3 days asking for the same thing. I've been slow playing it and my go by for a visit today after some cultivating. I'll let you guys know.

Typical story. Mother of two. Needs help for room. Yada yada yada.

Chatted off and on all day. Set up a time to meet and she canceled. Set up a time for me to pick her up for some fun. Canceled. Keeps saying she needs $$ so badly and will "Do anything it takes". But really just wants a handout. Same typical BS story you hear Boo Hoo, Ex beat me, Job pays nothing. Keeps asking for Moneygram or Paypal. Don't bother guys.

[John HandCock]

Not a red flag for LE. So far, LE hasn't been an issue at all on SA. That may be changing with how popular this board has become though. Anyway, It does mean that you have a P4 P baby. Great if that's what you're looking for. Bad if you're looking for a non-pro, more innocent-type baby.

So I keep wondering about p4 p phrase that seems to be a negative thing on the sb threads. P4 p was always associated witfh the escorts and there are plenty of those on the site. But it seems to me that what ever you workout its still p4 p. Whether a monthly allowance or weekly arrangement it still boils down to p4 p. Allowance or arrangement might be a less offensive term to an actual civy girl (non sex worker) but any way you cut its still p4 p.

[TravelinSD]

Not a red flag for LE. So far, LE hasn't been an issue at all on SA. That may be changing with how popular this board has become though. Anyway, It does mean that you have a P4 P baby. Great if that's what you're looking for. Bad if you're looking for a non-pro, more innocent-type baby.

While chatting over SA site, if one of the SBs jumps straight to "how much" allowance, is that a red flag for LE?

[Airmantroy]

While chatting over SA site, if one of the SBs jumps straight to "how much" allowance, is that a red flag for LE?

I'm fairly certain LE hasn't even attempted to use SA. They catch plenty on BP and it doesn't take nearly as much time. I wouldn't give her a direct answer, instead tell her you'll need to meet her before you make a decision on how much you are willing to invest in her future.

Any girls who jump straight to "how much" are more likely to be flaky as hell and have GPS though.

I'm pretty sure the cops ran a sting on SA recently, Arizona I think but I wouldn't bet on it.

A2

[Focuses]

While chatting over SA site, if one of the SBs jumps straight to "how much" allowance, is that a red flag for LE?

[DaRiv]

Watch out for this profile https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...6-0243c7a946b8.

Sammiiemarie wants 200 $ for god knows and that she will pay you the money back next week and gaurantee a visit in a future date 😋.

This one has been on my hook for about 3 days asking for the same thing. I've been slow playing it and my go by for a visit today after some cultivating. I'll let you guys know.

Typical story. Mother of two. Needs help for room. Yada yada yada.

[Allen981]

Can you post or pm me a link? I don't know why I can't get them to come up.

Great time, very friendly, very good looking. But seems there are real money issues, got one of those "hey can you help me out" emails. No phone, have to contact through SA. But sweet girls and very fun.

[Allen981]

Can you post or pm me a link? I don't know why I can't get them to come up.

Great time, very friendly, very good looking. But seems there are real money issues, got one of those "hey can you help me out" emails. No phone, have to contact through SA. But sweet girls and very fun.

[Manzanito]

I have digits for one SB who is looking for money. If anyone wants digits, I can share. PM me.

Giving back to the team. I already have 4 in my pocket don't want to carry too much.

Already sent PM to everyone who asked for hopefully it works out for one of you. She is beautiful for sure.

[Oily123]

She is a little bit business-like but legit. I think she was a stripper who offered take-out with certain clients when she was younger. Just trying to describe her "type" if you know what I mean. She will do a BBBJ and a nice rough doggy for $$ at a motel. Anal can be had, but you'll have to have some game and that will bump things up to $$.

She's been on SA at least a year. I get the feeling she's hit everyone up that's ever been a premium member.