"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[2me4Looking2]

Ok, I am trying to set up an SA account, and I want to pay for it anonymously. I purchased a prepaid VISA card today. When I try to pay for SA, it wants a name and address to use the prepaid card. So I set up a Paypal account, linked the card to it, won't work. Anyone able to give me a step by step or some help via PMs?

Pirate.

You can enter any name you want when paying with a prepaid card on SA. The important thing is that you register your card first and then it should work. The one I used was a Target prepaid Visa.

One other thing to note, is that you will inevitably have a balance leftover and you can use it to buy an Amazon gift card for that exact amount on Amazon and then use it for normal Amazon shopping.

[MoonshineXXX]

I see no redeeming value in this individual, at any price.

So why hasn't anyone told offered her $300. She's not getting any dates at 1 k.

[MoonshineXXX]

You must register your card.

There are instructions on the SA site and on the VISA card / card package.

I paid with mine using a pre-paid card and had no problem.

Ok, I am trying to set up an SA account, and I want to pay for it anonymously. I purchased a prepaid VISA card today. When I try to pay for SA, it wants a name and address to use the prepaid card. So I set up a Paypal account, linked the card to it, won't work. Anyone able to give me a step by step or some help via PMs?

Pirate.

[El Pirata]

If Ashley Madison didn't clue people in, then I don't know what will. Always pay with a pre-paid cad. If you do PayPal, fund it with prepaid cards. ALWAYS. And use an email address that never is used for anything but SA. Don't even give the password reset email to a legit email address. NEVER.

Ok, I am trying to set up an SA account, and I want to pay for it anonymously. I purchased a prepaid VISA card today. When I try to pay for SA, it wants a name and address to use the prepaid card. So I set up a Paypal account, linked the card to it, won't work. Anyone able to give me a step by step or some help via PMs?

Pirate.

[Airmantroy]

Same one proposed $1000 for the night with me.

I didn't get any photos though!

So why hasn't anyone told offered her $300. She's not getting any dates at 1 k.

[GA400]

Here I am thinking that $300 was the number in the SB handbook since that seems to be the number that's always offered to me at first.

Same one proposed $1000 for the night with me.

I didn't get any photos though!

[DRickGiver5]

Sooo, you run across all types on SA and for the most part I've gotten the realistic ones. Sometimes you need to bring them down to reality but they will get there.

This one, on the other hand, is VERY playful and a SUPER HOTTIE. She will send any pics you want. She is talkative and engaging till you get to the heart of the matter and then she pulls the trigger. She wants $1500 for an hour or nothing, LMAO ROTFL!

Her SA handle is LaurenAshley88. If you want some really hot pics the engage her. If you break her GPS let me know cause I would be a player at a reasonable number.

Happy Huntin,

SKY.

Here I am thinking that $300 was the number in the SB handbook since that seems to be the number that's always offered to me at first.

[MoonshineXXX]

ROTFLMAO.

She musst be asking he rinds.

She quoted me $1,000.

I didn't have the heart to tell her I've got 4 giving me hours of enthusiastic no holds barred fun for between 0 and 2.

Sooo, you run across all types on SA and for the most part I've gotten the realistic ones. Sometimes you need to bring them down to reality but they will get there.

This one, on the other hand, is VERY playful and a SUPER HOTTIE. She will send any pics you want. She is talkative and engaging till you get to the heart of the matter and then she pulls the trigger. She wants $1500 for an hour or nothing, LMAO ROTFL!

Her SA handle is LaurenAshley88. If you want some really hot pics the engage her. If you break her GPS let me know cause I would be a player at a reasonable number.

Happy Huntin,

SKY.

[RipperMagoo]

Sooo, you run across all types on SA and for the most part I've gotten the realistic ones. Sometimes you need to bring them down to reality but they will get there.

This one, on the other hand, is VERY playful and a SUPER HOTTIE. She will send any pics you want. She is talkative and engaging till you get to the heart of the matter and then she pulls the trigger. She wants $1500 for an hour or nothing, LMAO ROTFL!

Her SA handle is LaurenAshley88. If you want some really hot pics the engage her. If you break her GPS let me know cause I would be a player at a reasonable number.

Happy Huntin,

SKY.

Personally, I only search through minimal through practical. If anyone in the late 20's onward has more than that, I don't want to bother with them. There are just too many who are reasonable and desirable. Thanks for sharing. I've never seen an example of that. I've found that younger girls with the higher lifestyles didn't really put a lot of thought into it when they filled it out.

[SkyHighBuilder]

Sooo, you run across all types on SA and for the most part I've gotten the realistic ones. Sometimes you need to bring them down to reality but they will get there.

This one, on the other hand, is VERY playful and a SUPER HOTTIE. She will send any pics you want. She is talkative and engaging till you get to the heart of the matter and then she pulls the trigger. She wants $1500 for an hour or nothing, LMAO ROTFL!

Her SA handle is LaurenAshley88. If you want some really hot pics the engage her. If you break her GPS let me know cause I would be a player at a reasonable number.

Happy Huntin,

SKY.

[Steak 404]

Adding to my last report on the topic of gals that won't M&G:

Think about why you're fishing in the Sugar pond anyway. It's because you're tired of the straight up P2 P pros and all that comes with them.

I'm not saying your sugar gals are good girls, but "good girls" (for lack of a better term) don't straight up invite strange men over to their place of residence. It is that simple.

The diamonds in the rough. The ones we're all trying to find. The ones we donn't share because we want to selfishly keep to ourselves lest they get turned out. The ones that have some good stuff going on in their lives and would just like a little help or excitement. You know the ones we dream about. The ones that aren't really just BP girls in disguise. These diamonds don't invite strange men to their place with having met them. It totally goes against all common sense from a safety awareness standpoint and how the better part of society behaves.

The gal that invites you to her house is not why you got into Sugar.

Maybe you take a calculated risk and try it and even have fun but basically you're just calling a BP gal. Nothing wrong with it. Just really not the Sugar program.

[Steak 404]

Great report!

I know. It's like the hot stove. You got to get burned before you believe it's really hot.

Not picking on you. Just building on a couple of points. Lord knows I've learned all this the hard way.

I know it is also counter intuitive, right? She suggests meeting at her place; you think you got a sure thing, right? But think about what you might be getting.

Always M&G in public. When they won't M&G it is a huge redflag. They can still be hot (appearance wise), but it is usually a big red flag that they are not mobile. Think about the pool you are playing with that aren't mobile (not even to a McDonald's down the street) in the Metro Atlanta ares? This is the era of $5 Uber Pool.

If she is or could be mobile and won't M&G that should be a red flag too, like you are walking into a catfish no different than the fake pics the BP gals post.

Beyond the redflag and quality aspects of things, there is a huge strategic element to not going to her place. In public, you control the situation, etc. You don't like, you pick up the drink check and leave, being as gracious and polite as the situation dictates.

There's also a little bit of a safety issue with going straight to her place. It essentially becomes like going to an incall for P2 P. At least if you've met her at the Starbucks a mile from her place it makes organizing any kind of trap a little more difficult or at least involved.

Even worse than meeting at her place is picking her up and taking her to a place for "a date"/ M&G or a ride to your place. She's gets in her car she's kinda your responsibility to some extent. This is perhaps the worst lot: the can't host and not mobile. The double whammy. I've literally turned down 3* (two of them would have been straight up free) chicks this week where when it came down to logistics it turned out they were not mobile or able to host. Trust me it was hard to say thanks but no thanks, holler at me when you get wheels, but it just is a mess. *one actually could host but didn't want to M&G first.

Also if you are meeting someone for what you hope is a regular, ongoing thing the whole not mobile / can't host double whammy starts becoming a real time eater.

Changing topics, have a sense of urgency when you are scheduling dates. The odds of dates not occurring increase exponentially with the amount of time between now and when you plan to meet. Offer to meet same day or next day. There is no time like the present. You can't always control this but you want to push to meet sooner vs. Later. If they think you are being too pushy tell them straight up, "listen, in my experience, the longer we wait to get together the less likely it is that we actually hookup. " Also don't be afraid to tell the ones that tell you how busy they are (LOL) that "listen, if you are too busy too meet, I don't think this is going to work out. " (e. G. The whole take the offer off the table as a way of closing approach).

Finally, don't be afraid to double or triple book (first) dates (M&G with the expectation of playtime) on the same day. You look at it and think "wow if I see them all I'll be spent in more ways than one!" Stagger them a couple hours apart. Invariably one or more won't workout and you'll be glad you had a backup plan (literally because you're probably ready to go with anticipation from the first one that didn't work out). If you really can't / don't want to see the 2nd or 3rd one because you're busy simply cancel. Be a good guy about it and let them know ASAP. Don't no show them. Or if you can make the M&G but aren't sure you will be (literally) up for the playtime, meet her anyway and see if you like her but beg off on the playtime. If you really like her you might find yourself ready to go again! I call that a doubleheader! Enjoy!

I know the whole double or triple booking thing sounds like a dick move but trust me, she's doing it too. You know all those lame excuses she gives you for cancelling on you (assuming she has the courtesy to actually tell you) about stuff at work or her grandma being sick or whatever? 80% of that is her meeting a guy she perceives as a better prospect. Again don't be a dick about it. Once you know you won't be able to meet let her know ASAP.

I want to reinforce a point I made it my post a few days ago. Do this on timing that works for you. Don't jerk your schedule around for the schedule of one prospect. All of our circumstances are different but most of us probably have a couple of blocks of time in any given week that we could do "playtime" - if you are trying to meet new girls load up that block of time with several dates and increase your odds of having a good time.

Ideally you are doing the initial M&G in a place that is convenient to you. There is a bar in Buckhead that I met / meet so many propects the regular staff all knew what was up. Above average to stunning women, 10-20 years younger than me, never the same one twice, often two in an evening, we never arrive together. They caught on pretty quick and as a regular were happy for me or at least professional. They also knew I'd been stood up when I sat alone for 20 minutes LOL.

Have a system guys.

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2. Fail #1. (All of this in 3 weeks!) Didn't M&G a chick, and only had face, pussy / thigh, and ass / leg shots. Our first meeting was at her house at 10:00 at night. She was cute, but bigger than her pics. If it was a proper M&G before I committed, I wouldn't have moved forward to FC. Nowhere to bail out, and the little head had been doing the thinking all day, so I was stuck.

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[Readytogetonit]

What I propose is:

1) We make posts about HOW it was a success. Share some insights about your ways of approach and game.

2) Share your failures and bad experiences, so the stronger players can give advice.

3) Rants?

1. I achieved success staying AWAY from the exact same types of women I would stay away from in real life. If you look like someone I would hesitate to approach in real life, I avoid on SA. In real life, I avoid chicks who look "too hot". It screams high maintenance (which means high sugar), late for dates because of time for putting on warpaint (eh, makeup).

2. Fail #1. (All of this in 3 weeks!) Didn't M&G a chick, and only had face, pussy / thigh, and ass / leg shots. Our first meeting was at her house at 10:00 at night. She was cute, but bigger than her pics. If it was a proper M&G before I committed, I wouldn't have moved forward to FC. Nowhere to bail out, and the little head had been doing the thinking all day, so I was stuck.

Fail #2. Spent too much time texting what turned out to be a bat shit crazy chick who lived so far away, that I wasn't ever going to close escrow with anyway. Figure out how far you're willing to travel for SB time, and figure out if they're within proximity QUICKLY!

Fail #3. Almost blew an opportunity with a chick because I spent TOO MUCH time messaging, and then texting. These chicks have a lot of dudes on their phone and chat window, and most of them are full of shit, and won't come through. They are on SA for a reason. They need something, and they have already resigned themselves to giving something to get something! So, strike while the iron is HOT! Just met her for lunch, and she's much happier, and I have memories that will last me for hours. Until I need another nut.

Rant:

Young chicks that hit me up are usually dangerous. While they're smoking hot, 98.7% of them have GPS, and I don't have the patience to weed through them, so I don't bother.

Why is it that these chicks are on a SB / SD website, but still want to act like they're on match.com and do conventional dating stuff? Oh wait. They're all having a crisis of conscience. They're further along in the understanding that all women prostitute themselves in some fashion, but they're not ready to fully digest the reality of said fact.

[P Connoisseur]

All,

Been watching this thread for a while and decided to take the plunge. I started this past Sunday. Since then I have had an all three hole session with a mature bbw which was amazing and just finished a super snuggling session in her car outside the restaurant we had lunch at. We are already scheduled for our next meet at her place. Based on how far I got in her car in the parking lot I am looking forward to some good lovin. She is in her 40's and looks great. All of this and I was out of town for part of the week too. When I view profiles on SA I start getting messages back. I'm mostly interested in 30 and 40's year old. I will read up on all the advice I see below. It should only get better and better. Glad this thread is active.

PC.

[RipperMagoo]

This is exactly how people got outed with Ashley Madison. You have no way of knowing how secure their site is and these sites are prime targets for a hack because every guy is blackmail material or some so called social justice cause. I'd strongly advise that you use a prepaid visa and a fake name. I did that and had no issues.

If Ashley Madison didn't clue people in, then I don't know what will. Always pay with a pre-paid cad. If you do PayPal, fund it with prepaid cards. ALWAYS. And use an email address that never is used for anything but SA. Don't even give the password reset email to a legit email address. NEVER.