"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[FarFarAway]

The phrase "never gamble more than you can afford to lose" just came into my head, so I thought I'd pass it along. I have no idea what a sunset dinner cruise in LA costs, but if you can write it off as a loss, then go for it.

Still hungry,

Scott.

I explained why a dinner cruise didn't work for me logistically, w / an SO and all, and proposed happy hour at a very upscale place (and promised a Kruggerand in the FC). She asked to schedule. It's still alive (the dream). If she's all that, she's likely going to expect something nice at the M&G. I'm open to your suggestions.

[John HandCock]

So whatever became of the man that started all of this?

Don't think he started it. His last post is around 12/26/13 so Mia quite awhile.

[F Scott]

True enough. I am amazed, given she has one of the most inscrutable profiles on there, that I've gotten as far as I have, with some educated guessing and luck I'd surmise. She implies that she's some very important person, maybe in entertainment, perhaps the arm candy of a VIP. probably quite beautiful.

As always, when I have a profile that I have some messaging with but no engagement, I think you can't lose by trying something else. I've mentioned before my second message after a POT reads my first without responding is tailored to kinky / submissive. What's the worst she can do, block me?

The phrase "never gamble more than you can afford to lose" just came into my head, so I thought I'd pass it along. I have no idea what a sunset dinner cruise in LA costs, but if you can write it off as a loss, then go for it.

Still hungry,

Scott.

[FigLeaf]

So whatever became of the man that started all of this?

[John HandCock]

Does anyone have experience w / an app called Sudy? I am in contact w / a POT who says she found two SDs on it. I recently installed the SA app on my burner phone, so that I could get a 1 week SA membership (that option is not offered on the website), and Sudy was suggested as something I might be interested in by Google Play.

It seems like in any internet area, something is always going away because it gets ruined, something new is always coming up. SA is vulnerable to all kinds of things, and maybe just going out of fashion. Maybe something like Sudy will be what we're all talking about next year.

Doubt it gets popular. This was taken from the app.

We will try our best to remove all the fake profiles, bots and salt daddies from the members on Sudy. Sudy requires members to verify their account to make sure their photos and income are authentic. The verified members on our apps have had their income and identity verified. The average wealthy member on our app has an average net income of over $200 K.

[FarFarAway]

Does anyone have experience w / an app called Sudy? I am in contact w / a POT who says she found two SDs on it. I recently installed the SA app on my burner phone, so that I could get a 1 week SA membership (that option is not offered on the website), and Sudy was suggested as something I might be interested in by Google Play.

It seems like in any internet area, something is always going away because it gets ruined, something new is always coming up. SA is vulnerable to all kinds of things, and maybe just going out of fashion. Maybe something like Sudy will be what we're all talking about next year.

[FarFarAway]

I def agree with Scott. We are the ones in control of the "process" and if the girl is in fact motivated she will meet you for a three dollar cup of coffee. But that also may require some game / finesse with your text convo.

True enough. I am amazed, given she has one of the most inscrutable profiles on there, that I've gotten as far as I have, with some educated guessing and luck I'd surmise. She implies that she's some very important person, maybe in entertainment, perhaps the arm candy of a VIP. probably quite beautiful.

As always, when I have a profile that I have some messaging with but no engagement, I think you can't lose by trying something else. I've mentioned before my second message after a POT reads my first without responding is tailored to kinky / submissive. What's the worst she can do, block me?

[StormyTuesday]

I agree. It's a scam plain and simple. You are either very naive or thinking with the wrong head, or both.

I def agree with Scott. We are the ones in control of the "process" and if the girl is in fact motivated she will meet you for a three dollar cup of coffee. But that also may require some game / finesse with your text convo.

[Madaboutmax]

I've noticed that a couple of times now. When I search for the girls telephone # on Facebook it came back with a guys profile. I go dark at that point.

I never clue them in how I found out, because I don't wan to help educate the scam artists, but I have reported some to the Admin and had them removed.

I don't rule out the possibility of a scam, but thanks for the reminder. I had a message-fest w / a very hot profile recently. She eventually gave me her # and email. There were some pauses. I searched facebook w / the number and hit upon the page of a young hispanic guy. A few days later, I get a message on SA 'so how's 1200 per meet?' I can see it now. Me showing up w / that much in cash only to be looking down the barrel of a pistol. So, at least I detected that one.

[FarFarAway]

I agree. It's a scam plain and simple. You are either very naive or thinking with the wrong head, or both.

I don't rule out the possibility of a scam, but thanks for the reminder. I had a message-fest w / a very hot profile recently. She eventually gave me her # and email. There were some pauses. I searched facebook w / the number and hit upon the page of a young hispanic guy. A few days later, I get a message on SA 'so how's 1200 per meet?' I can see it now. Me showing up w / that much in cash only to be looking down the barrel of a pistol. So, at least I detected that one.

[LongLasting]

I don't know, my brother. To me, this has SCAM written all over it! You take her out on the sunset dinner cruise after making up some dubious story to get a hall pass from your SO. The baby's all cuddly, touchy-feely during the boatride, and then when the gangplank hits the dock, it's "thanks for a lovely evening, let's stay in touch", and you're left wankin' in the parking lot.

Suggest a much more modest M&G, with the promise that the difference in cost will be added to her first FC sugar gift and see what she says. If the answer is affirmative, I will gladly eat crow, but my spidey sense says I will go hungry!

Keep us in the loop either way.

Scott.

I agree. It's a scam plain and simple. You are either very naive or thinking with the wrong head, or both.

[F Scott]

I'd like some perspective. I am messaging w / a gal with a dream profile. Model quality, lists high lifestyle expectations, lives in an expensive area in California. I am amazed I was able to get a response from her. PM if you want the link. She also seems pretty taken with herself, but I think I've tapped into her deal. She's a kept woman who is bored, maybe kinky. She wants me to take her on a sunset dinner cruise for the M&G. I don't know how I can get away from the SO for this, but I'd really like to pursue her. I likely couldn't afford her ongoing, but then some other guy seems to be paying her freight already. Potentially a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.

I don't know, my brother. To me, this has SCAM written all over it! You take her out on the sunset dinner cruise after making up some dubious story to get a hall pass from your SO. The baby's all cuddly, touchy-feely during the boatride, and then when the gangplank hits the dock, it's "thanks for a lovely evening, let's stay in touch", and you're left wankin' in the parking lot.

Suggest a much more modest M&G, with the promise that the difference in cost will be added to her first FC sugar gift and see what she says. If the answer is affirmative, I will gladly eat crow, but my spidey sense says I will go hungry!

Keep us in the loop either way.

Scott.

[John HandCock]

I'd like some perspective. I am messaging w / a gal with a dream profile. Model quality, lists high lifestyle expectations, lives in an expensive area in California. I am amazed I was able to get a response from her. PM if you want the link. She also seems pretty taken with herself, but I think I've tapped into her deal. She's a kept woman who is bored, maybe kinky. She wants me to take her on a sunset dinner cruise for the M&G. I don't know how I can get away from the SO for this, but I'd really like to pursue her. I likely couldn't afford her ongoing, but then some other guy seems to be paying her freight already. Potentially a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.

Pretty simple, if once in lifetimes, bucket list and you have the dollars go for it.

[FarFarAway]

I'd like some perspective. I am messaging w / a gal with a dream profile. Model quality, lists high lifestyle expectations, lives in an expensive area in California. I am amazed I was able to get a response from her. PM if you want the link. She also seems pretty taken with herself, but I think I've tapped into her deal. She's a kept woman who is bored, maybe kinky. She wants me to take her on a sunset dinner cruise for the M&G. I don't know how I can get away from the SO for this, but I'd really like to pursue her. I likely couldn't afford her ongoing, but then some other guy seems to be paying her freight already. Potentially a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.

[John HandCock]

Have you made this work very recently? I keep a whole archive of everyone I've ever had any serious interactions with on the site, including the pix. It's just for my own protection, in case anyone ever came at me. I also have my own little personal Hall of Fame. I'm sure many of us do.

I just keep all messages sent and received on the site plus keep all tex4 t received and sent to be able to review or fact check. The site info you can only access while a member butc I have correspondence goung back to years. Seems much simpler for me. Anyone that's texted I keep on phone and cintact list.