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[Dctator1]

I broke the cardinal rule and sent a girl an advance to come see me. Only sent a twenty for transportation. Of course she went MIA. A good twenty dollar lesson.

Sorry to hear this. Even the best of us will get bitten every so often. At least it was only a twenty. Any chance you can post some info and picture so more of us don't fall into her web.

[John HandCock]

I had a young sb who went to CSUDH and lived off campus. We have been seeing each other every other week or so but the sex was alright. She always complained that I was too large. Mind you I'm not but whatever. We had a good thing going and last week she asked if I had any friends who wanted to see her because she wrecked her car and only had liability insurance.

I said yes but asked what the incentive was for me? She got mad and said she isn't a *****. Mind you I never treated her like a ***** ever. We chilled fucked a couple of times had a few drinks I paid her 200 every visit and I left.

So today she hits me up and asks me about my friends. Mind you I was just about to bring her info to this board. I said I have been swamped at work but I'll get to it sometime this week. She got mad and hung up. So I text her saying that I would be doing this out of the kindness of my heart and that she needs to chill out or give me a reason to do it faster.

Of course the I'm not a ***** and insults came flying out her mouth. I just blocked her. She may still be going as I type this. I would pass her info but honestly I don't wish her on anybody. Lesson learned on my behalf.

She will do fine on her own, in my book she's utr. Guys put up with alot of crap for pussy so from your post other than being pissed at you for no itroductions guys will take a chance. It sounds like you really didn't want to share her but that's your call. She will find all the help she needs from someone else.

[HollywoodGuy]

I broke the cardinal rule and sent a girl an advance to come see me. Only sent a twenty for transportation. Of course she went MIA. A good twenty dollar lesson.

[Jdb1911]

I guess the only thing that comes to mind is kinda what I do to soften the blow. Which is to suggest some light play for a first date. HJ only. About half the time it will go further on the first date. Another half will go further on the second date. But it takes the pressure off and seems more organic. So it gives both parties a chance to think about it. Also its a good excuse to start with a lower allowance amount, which may or may not go up when the girl decides to offer more. My last girl said she was ready to step it up if I was, I told her sorry, a $ is all I pay regardless. So she decided she wants another date anyway, but with out the overnite. But I have been turned down, and then I just stop seeing them. Hope this helps.

You know I actually started taking your approach and I'm not sure it's working. After talking to my Filipina about it she told me that when she got on the site it was overwhelming. SD promising 3-500 to meet and then showing up with 100. One guy stole money from her when she was in the bathroom washing up. He literally paid her then took it back. What an asshole.

So the girls start to feel like regular street walkers. And they become hardened. I don't know who to blame. The fake sd are definitely to blame but these girls get in over their head. Dating 3-5 at a time and then it hits them that they are what they didn't want to become.

I stopped talking to sb's under 21 years old for that reason and I let all the ones I didn't like above a surface level go. Right now I really only have 2. But a lot of these chicks get used to the money and text me asking to meet again and even lowering their allowance to try and convince me to hang out.

I'm going to let my month run out and then I'm taking a break from SA.

[HollywoodGuy]

She must have deactivated her account some time ago because I can't even find it at all. Personally she had all the signs of somebody with mental illnesses so her outburst was not surprising at all. I have noticed on my short time on SA that the younger girls have issues reconciling being a sugar baby. In essence pay for play but not necessarily in a direct way like on backpage or hx.

I have had 3 girls between 18-21 years old meet up with me, we have a great time and then they turn ghost a couple days later. Then pop up a week after like they never stopped responding to messages. Some have boyfriends who find out what they are doing. One family went through her phone. But the other one told me that after she met with 4 guys in a week she felt like a escort.

I guess the only thing that comes to mind is kinda what I do to soften the blow. Which is to suggest some light play for a first date. HJ only. About half the time it will go further on the first date. Another half will go further on the second date. But it takes the pressure off and seems more organic. So it gives both parties a chance to think about it. Also its a good excuse to start with a lower allowance amount, which may or may not go up when the girl decides to offer more. My last girl said she was ready to step it up if I was, I told her sorry, a $ is all I pay regardless. So she decided she wants another date anyway, but with out the overnite. But I have been turned down, and then I just stop seeing them. Hope this helps.

[Jdb1911]

You could always post her profile link as a girl to avoid.

She must have deactivated her account some time ago because I can't even find it at all. Personally she had all the signs of somebody with mental illnesses so her outburst was not surprising at all. I have noticed on my short time on SA that the younger girls have issues reconciling being a sugar baby. In essence pay for play but not necessarily in a direct way like on backpage or hx.

I have had 3 girls between 18-21 years old meet up with me, we have a great time and then they turn ghost a couple days later. Then pop up a week after like they never stopped responding to messages. Some have boyfriends who find out what they are doing. One family went through her phone. But the other one told me that after she met with 4 guys in a week she felt like a escort.

[HollywoodGuy]

I had a young sb who went to CSUDH and lived off campus. We have been seeing each other every other week or so but the sex was alright. She always complained that I was too large. Mind you I'm not but whatever. We had a good thing going and last week she asked if I had any friends who wanted to see her because she wrecked her car and only had liability insurance.

I said yes but asked what the incentive was for me? She got mad and said she isn't a *****. Mind you I never treated her like a ***** ever. We chilled fucked a couple of times had a few drinks I paid her 200 every visit and I left.

So today she hits me up and asks me about my friends. Mind you I was just about to bring her info to this board. I said I have been swamped at work but I'll get to it sometime this week. She got mad and hung up. So I text her saying that I would be doing this out of the kindness of my heart and that she needs to chill out or give me a reason to do it faster.

Of course the I'm not a ***** and insults came flying out her mouth. I just blocked her. She may still be going as I type this. I would pass her info but honestly I don't wish her on anybody. Lesson learned on my behalf.

You could always post her profile link as a girl to avoid.

[Jdb1911]

I had a young sb who went to CSUDH and lived off campus. We have been seeing each other every other week or so but the sex was alright. She always complained that I was too large. Mind you I'm not but whatever. We had a good thing going and last week she asked if I had any friends who wanted to see her because she wrecked her car and only had liability insurance.

I said yes but asked what the incentive was for me? She got mad and said she isn't a *****. Mind you I never treated her like a ***** ever. We chilled fucked a couple of times had a few drinks I paid her 200 every visit and I left.

So today she hits me up and asks me about my friends. Mind you I was just about to bring her info to this board. I said I have been swamped at work but I'll get to it sometime this week. She got mad and hung up. So I text her saying that I would be doing this out of the kindness of my heart and that she needs to chill out or give me a reason to do it faster.

Of course the I'm not a ***** and insults came flying out her mouth. I just blocked her. She may still be going as I type this. I would pass her info but honestly I don't wish her on anybody. Lesson learned on my behalf.

[Stolper]

She's on SA, I sent her a message but that was the little head talking. I'm not too sure I want to meet with her even if her allowance was reasonable.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...e-752af41f16d5

Just make sure you pay up and don't insult her.

http://www.laweekly.com/news/a-young...ps-say-7078020

[Buster Face]

There is nothing worse than being in love with some one that can't love you back. This girl could be the "one", if only it wasn't for this, this, this, and that. I am too old to compromise.

"When unrequited love is the most expensive thing on the menu, sometimes you settle for the daily special."

Miranda Kenneally,

Adapt, or regress.

It's probably not love but lust.

[HollywoodGuy]

There is nothing worse than being in love with some one that can't love you back. This girl could be the "one", if only it wasn't for this, this, this, and that. I am too old to compromise.

[HollywoodGuy]

Also I just read my intro letter, and it says I have a better than average job. But that's it as far as finances go.

[HollywoodGuy]

She's on SA, I sent her a message but that was the little head talking. I'm not too sure I want to meet with her even if her allowance was reasonable.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...e-752af41f16d5

I messaged her just now. Maybe I can find out her rates. Nothing I would be willing to pay. I watched a couple of her videos. She can suck half a dick and seems to like kissing. But she just kinda lays there when she's getting dicked. But as pretty as she is I suppose no one cares

[Jdb1911]

She's on SA, I sent her a message but that was the little head talking. I'm not too sure I want to meet with her even if her allowance was reasonable.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...e-752af41f16d5

[JohnnyTheWad]

And just an addendum to the last post. The only reason I can have so many LTR's with this number of girls is that they are all overlapping. Over the last 10 years I have usually had about 3 LTR's overlapping simultaneously with a few mid-range girls, while the interviews continue at a rate of maybe one new girl a week. Many times the girls are here 2 or 3 at a time, and many have met many of the others. They are generally grateful to be a part of my world as I do show an enormous amount of interest in their lives, and have the patience and understanding to help them with their real life issues. It is time consuming, but with no wife or traditional GF to sneak around, and no family or friends eating up my time, and no other interest outside of work, this is more than a hobby for me. It's a lifestyle.

They all understand I have to continually interview new girls to make up for the ones that will eventually fade away or be dismissed. And yes, those girls I generally only see one or two times. And no one seems to have a problem with that. At least not enough of one to leave me over it. Do they give me some shit over it from time to time? They do. But its usually just over one particular girl they dislike for one reason or another or they are feeling neglected. But the LTR's all understand I have to make time for everyone so it's not as hectic as it may sound. I am an excellent time manager, get my 50+ hours of work in every week, don't require much sleep, work from home, and have the girls co-operation, without which, none of this could be possible.

Now all of this does make it impossible for me to find the "one". But I don't know if the "one" exists. Like many guys on this site, my interests are too varied, my attention span too short, and my need for attention too great to believe that such a girl even exists. And even if she did, part of what would make her the "one" would be her need / desire to allow me to have other girls.

Various therapists have suggested that I have a problem, have never been in a healthy relationship, may have a sex addiction, and that I should find an appropriately aged GF. All I know is that I do my job, pay my bills, take care of my daughter, keep the house clean, feed, clothe and shelter a few deserving girls from time to time, and try to put a good vibe out into the world. As of the beginning of 2016 I basically cut my overall trips to the FC in half, but I was averaging about 25 trips a month before that. So I hope this gives everyone a better understanding of my outlook on the sugar life and my place in it.

HG, aside from the jealousy I feel over your life LOL I think you have it done pat. I enjoy reading of your exploits and continue to learn. Half of my regs started as a SB / SD thing and I could not be happier. Carry on my good man. JTW.