Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

**BigGusDickUs55** · 04-30-17 15:01

Someone turned Great Grandma out on BP. Great Grandma looks like that Jenner lady dude. Yes this is a real ad on BP and EB. http://cincinnati.backpage.com/Women.../joan/35639333 https://escortbabylon.net/#cincinnati / photos /2165919796/21394718.

**CincyHobbist** · 04-30-17 10:53

So I have been messaged a few times in the last few weeks by a few providers that I have seen or communicated about being hard up an needing $ and would be willing to meet me a few times to pay back what I advanced them up front. One of them caught me off guard as she was once a highly sought after commodity here and on other forums.

I want to know if any provider would willing to do the same with a monger that is short on cash, but was looking for the same arrangement? Would they be willing to exchange / barter services for anything other then cash?

**CrissyLynn2015** · 04-29-17 00:38

Originally Posted by RicoTrebor [View Original Post]

It's perfectly acceptable for a provider to ask for your USA username as a means to verify you. Just as you can use their name in forum posts to qualify them.

From what I have heard recently, there is at least one if not two VERY strange and violent guys in the area seeing providers. Provider's have every right and need -- to be able to verify who they are going to see.

I'm with Josie on this one. I ALWAYS 99.99999 percent the time request a pm before seeing anyone, that's just my personal preference and if you don't send one or say you did and I don't get it, I won't see you period. And hate to ask but I haven't heard anything about a violent man. Is there someone or people I should be worried about. Us ladies or I should SAY some of the ladies keep each other updated on whether a man is nice or to be very careful with certain friends! Anyways just anotha USA member putting her 2 cents in LOL. Everyone be safe and everybody enjoy your weekend.

**UOnlyLiveOnce** · 04-28-17 08:56

Originally Posted by CincyKayak [View Original Post]

I know it has been reported that she is recovering from her auto accidents but it sure would be nice to touch base with her to see how she is doing. Texted her number but have not had a response; wouldn't be surprised if it is no longer active.

Hope she is doing well.

CK.

I've wondered about her too. She was a genuine sweetie.

**CincyKayak** · 04-27-17 13:08

I know it has been reported that she is recovering from her auto accidents but it sure would be nice to touch base with her to see how she is doing. Texted her number but have not had a response; wouldn't be surprised if it is no longer active.

Hope she is doing well.

CK.

**TeeJay69** · 04-26-17 20:23

Originally Posted by HuntLadys29 [View Original Post]

But isn't that why the girls post on this site as well as us using this site to have a safe place to meet girls and girls to meet guys? If used correctly it always works out. EE has used this site effectively, Buddah used this site to his girls advantage. Any lady that post on here that I want to see I never had a problem setting anything up all I did was text or pm and I'm on my way. HL29.

I don't disagree. Just telling you my personal experience. And these were two newer highly sought after providers. I was surprised!

**Member #5522** · 04-26-17 20:04

Unless the lady that asks for your user name sends you a verification pm, the question means nothing and sharing it, pointless.

Originally Posted by TeeJay69 [View Original Post]

Actually, in two cases I've given my user name and they've said give me a minute to check you out. Then, they both came back and said okay. No verifying PM.

**HuntLadys29** · 04-26-17 16:32

Originally Posted by TeeJay69 [View Original Post]

Actually, in two cases I've given my user name and they've said give me a minute to check you out. Then, they both came back and said okay. No verifying PM.

But isn't that why the girls post on this site as well as us using this site to have a safe place to meet girls and girls to meet guys? If used correctly it always works out. EE has used this site effectively, Buddah used this site to his girls advantage. Any lady that post on here that I want to see I never had a problem setting anything up all I did was text or pm and I'm on my way. HL29.

**PenguinDreamer** · 04-26-17 16:17

It's absolutely ridiculous unless they are using PM's, otherwise how do they or YOU know whom you are talking too? My Safety is PARAMOUNT, they want my patronage, they have to do give and take too. L Send me YOUR provider name, and review links, and I will share. Otherwise FO.

**UPullAndPay3** · 04-26-17 15:38

Given my username with a PM from the guide several times! Whats the big deal?

**NotShy1** · 04-26-17 14:10

Originally Posted by TeeJay69 [View Original Post]

Actually, in two cases I've given my user name and they've said give me a minute to check you out. Then, they both came back and said okay. No verifying PM.

I've never had a problem giving my Username. I also include the Username from other sites if provider wants to check.

**TeeJay69** · 04-26-17 13:32

Originally Posted by HuntLadys29 [View Original Post]

If I give my username for verification I'll use pm only you are right as anybody can look on here and grab a username but only that person can send a pm and if the girl wants verification she will and should use the pm as a way of verification. HL29.

Actually, in two cases I've given my user name and they've said give me a minute to check you out. Then, they both came back and said okay. No verifying PM.

**Cloudy1** · 04-26-17 09:43

I honestly don't understand why anyone is hesitant about giving usernames when first contact with a provider. This is my way of saying. "I'm a legit member and not LE. Use my user name to check my reviews and posts. Pm or text any provider I have reviewed or check my posts out to get a feel of how I am. " I get some people level of paranoia or trying to protect themselves.

**UOnlyLiveOnce** · 04-26-17 09:37

I try to avoid texting my username if I'm able, as I don't like having my username linked to my burner phone any more than necessary. Sometimes I can get around it by sending the provider a pm instead, but there are still occasions where I have to text my username if I want to see the provider.

**HuntLadys29** · 04-26-17 09:37

Originally Posted by TeeJay69 [View Original Post]

I think the question is ridiculous.

First, I can come on here, look around to pick up some active Senior usernames, and give any one of them to the girl. She has no way of knowing if I am actually the person attached to that name.

Second, being a senior on usasg means that you've posted 25 posts, regardless of what they are about, you've been a member for over 6 months, and you've managed not to get banned by A2. Nothing more than that. I don't know why anyone would use that as a security check.

Not being critial uf USASG, just saying that Senior status means less than they are thinking it does.

If I give my username for verification I'll use pm only you are right as anybody can look on here and grab a username but only that person can send a pm and if the girl wants verification she will and should use the pm as a way of verification. HL29.