The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**Member #5790** · 03-27-17 00:16

I got sick and tired of all the flakes and no shows and back and forth, so I decided to try a virtual arrangement (and I didn't get ripped off! If anyone is interested in filling in the gaps between the no shows and time wasters, I've had a very good experience with MollyBabyxxoxo. She is totally reliable (although sometimes the custom vids take a little while for her to find the time to make them). She's absolutely gorgeous, her rates are relatively reasonable and she's a sweetheart to boot. She sends me pics and custom vids. I've always gotten what I asked for. She has an amazon wishlist and I'll send things to her so she can make a vid for me. I would recommend setting a due date though. I've had good results with "I want X vid by why date" (usually 2-3 days for a custom vid). I realize virtual arrangements aren't for everyone, but when there's no fear of getting ripped off it's actually kinda fun. I told her I had a bad day the other day and she sent me a short freebie that totally made my day better. Try her out, just don't tell her who sent you.

**BigPackFan** · 03-25-17 20:35

Originally Posted by Tomas247 [View Original Post]

I'd suggest you all stay away from this one. She's just fishing for private photos, I think. I don't share private photos until I've talked to a lady for a while and 1st realize they're real, and 2nd that we have some common interests. It seems to me that so many of these girls first message is to "Request Private Photos. ".

As I told Natalie before she blocked me, I do not need her. She's there more for me than I am there for her. If she's only interested in photos and not a conversation, I just don't see the point.

The bowl is full of potential currently but seems like a bunch of flakes and time waisters on there right now. Had 2 no shows for meet and greets this weekend which has never happened.

**Tomas247** · 03-25-17 20:17

I'd suggest you all stay away from this one. She's just fishing for private photos, I think. I don't share private photos until I've talked to a lady for a while and 1st realize they're real, and 2nd that we have some common interests. It seems to me that so many of these girls first message is to "Request Private Photos. ".

As I told Natalie before she blocked me, I do not need her. She's there more for me than I am there for her. If she's only interested in photos and not a conversation, I just don't see the point.

**ChevyGuy03** · 03-22-17 16:12

Had the pleasure of meeting this lady today. Had a great time. She is all about making sure you are satisfied. We met for coffee by her place then came back to my home in Durham for some fun. She isn't a clock watcher, and she looks just like her photos. Those boobs are amazing. Just saying guys! Haha. Great attitude and I can't wait to see her again. If you guys have the pleasure of meeting with her please treat her well. You will be rewarded!

**Tomas247** · 03-22-17 13:03

Well, it's definitely happening. When I check my account "payments" tab, it shows that I have no active membership. But, the yellow premium tag still shows up by my name, and I've sent wayyyyy more than 10 messages since it should have expired.

I joined premium in December, paid the $50 first time joining fee or whatever it was, and have been messaging ever since. I guess I got lucky. For now?

Also, Donatello, mind clearing out a few PMs so I can hit you back?

Originally Posted by JohnHandCock [View Original Post]

No, once your membership runs out you can't send or read messages until you renew. You hit the jackpot if they screwed up. That's a first I've heard of that happening with SA.

**MedJohnson** · 03-22-17 06:29

Originally Posted by Tomas247 [View Original Post]

Has anyone had success with any of the asian girls on SA?

I talked to one of them for months, met with her twice for M&G and dinner. She was totally new to everything, visibly nervous, almost scared. So I gave her plenty of time and have been super patient. We texted daily. But I think she might be bi-polar for real after the last couple days, and an incident a couple months ago. I don't want to expose her in the open forum, but Seniors feel free to PM me for info on her bc I would suggest you stay away.

There's another one I've been talking to, she has a stripper pole in her wishlist. She's great to talk to, incredibly smart and I'm planning to meet her soon.

I don't know how most of you guys feel, but I like SA because it doesn't feel as business like as escorts. So I actually do want to have some kind of a connection with these girls. It's not just about the sex for me, but the sex is certainly mandatory LOL.

That has something about her overbearing Asian parents and wanting to get a lux apartment in raleigh. All about discretion but I had her real I'd in about 10 minutes- down to her father's name and occupation. I let her know how easy it was and she didn't seem to care. To dangerous for me.

Med.

**Aswerty9111** · 03-22-17 00:58

Originally Posted by Tomas247 [View Original Post]

I got a 1 month membership 4 months ago, and I can still message girls no problem. Is this normal?

Don't think so, mine expired on the dot. I think you get 10 free messages when registering? Maybe that carried over if you got a membership immediately?

**John HandCock** · 03-22-17 00:02

Originally Posted by Tomas247 [View Original Post]

I got a 1 month membership 4 months ago, and I can still message girls no problem. Is this normal?

No, once your membership runs out you can't send or read messages until you renew. You hit the jackpot if they screwed up. That's a first I've heard of that happening with SA.

**Tomas247** · 03-21-17 23:10

I got a 1 month membership 4 months ago, and I can still message girls no problem. Is this normal?

Originally Posted by JohnHandCock [View Original Post]

LOL they put a profile up to be bombarded. The more messages they receive the more potential SD's to choose from. If they aren't interested in your profile or message they aren't going to answer you anyway. Also only paid members can contact them anyway so that eliminates most that are reading the post on here. New girls depending on their age bracket and looks will be bombarded with messages for a couple of weeks before things let up for them. Everyone attempts to get the new girl before she becomes educated so to speak. Posting a profile link also gives a somewhat credibility to ones posting. Also remember YMMV applies to this also. What you deem crazy, not worth the time or GPS might not be for someone else. Remember only paying members to SA can contact the girl.

**StormyTuesday** · 03-21-17 21:58

I have had one visit with KillinLife22 at her duplex in Lillington, a small town 20 minutes south of Raleigh. Abbie is a tall (5'9") mixed AA and although she listed her body type as average I would put it as athletic. Her apartment is a bit rough and for those brothers with BP experience this will remind you of a fayetteville type incall. But Abbie makes it worthwhile in the FC. She never brought up the $ topic and I gave her a card with 150. Two points for clarification. She did not offer to host during our initial messages but as luck would have it the host opportunity presented itself and I jumped on it. Also, there is a possibility she may have expected more than 150 as she has not reached out to me since my visit 3 weeks ago. PM me if you can not find her on SA or need more info.

**John HandCock** · 03-21-17 18:53

Originally Posted by StormyTuesday [View Original Post]

I recently posted two suggested ground rules to help with local teamwork among the Raleigh forum, one of which was to post the POTs SA link. After going back and reading MbncMar's post (# 179) I realize my suggestion needs to be amended. MbncMar is correct, we should not post the POTs link on the forum as they will get bombarded with hits. IMO sharing a link in a PM is acceptable, but not on the open forum.

LOL they put a profile up to be bombarded. The more messages they receive the more potential SD's to choose from. If they aren't interested in your profile or message they aren't going to answer you anyway. Also only paid members can contact them anyway so that eliminates most that are reading the post on here. New girls depending on their age bracket and looks will be bombarded with messages for a couple of weeks before things let up for them. Everyone attempts to get the new girl before she becomes educated so to speak. Posting a profile link also gives a somewhat credibility to ones posting. Also remember YMMV applies to this also. What you deem crazy, not worth the time or GPS might not be for someone else. Remember only paying members to SA can contact the girl.

**Tomas247** · 03-21-17 17:20

Has anyone had success with any of the asian girls on SA?

I talked to one of them for months, met with her twice for M&G and dinner. She was totally new to everything, visibly nervous, almost scared. So I gave her plenty of time and have been super patient. We texted daily. But I think she might be bi-polar for real after the last couple days, and an incident a couple months ago. I don't want to expose her in the open forum, but Seniors feel free to PM me for info on her bc I would suggest you stay away.

There's another one I've been talking to, she has a stripper pole in her wishlist. She's great to talk to, incredibly smart and I'm planning to meet her soon.

I don't know how most of you guys feel, but I like SA because it doesn't feel as business like as escorts. So I actually do want to have some kind of a connection with these girls. It's not just about the sex for me, but the sex is certainly mandatory LOL.

**StormyTuesday** · 03-21-17 17:00

I recently posted two suggested ground rules to help with local teamwork among the Raleigh forum, one of which was to post the POTs SA link. After going back and reading MbncMar's post (# 179) I realize my suggestion needs to be amended. MbncMar is correct, we should not post the POTs link on the forum as they will get bombarded with hits. IMO sharing a link in a PM is acceptable, but not on the open forum.

**YayaGogo** · 03-21-17 15:34

Originally Posted by Tomas247 [View Original Post]

Do you guys even bother with the girls who have written in their profiles that they have no desire for a sexual arrangement? I tend to not even bother with them, but I'm starting to wonder if I should.

I've done both. If they say something like 'platonic ONLY' or 'online only' etc I don't even bother. They will either change their outlook or be gone from the site soon enough.

I HAVE met with those that say something like 'if you're interested in just sex move on'. That (to me) does not mean it's off the table, they just don't see themselves in that way. Just be nice and make a connection with them, and they'll get to the FC without issues. Of course, the rule applies that there is no sugar until / unless there is intimacy.

Yaya.

**Tomas247** · 03-21-17 04:09

Do you guys even bother with the girls who have written in their profiles that they have no desire for a sexual arrangement? I tend to not even bother with them, but I'm starting to wonder if I should.