Sugar Babies / Arrangements

**FutSniffA** · 03-17-17 18:03

Originally Posted by Raiden [View Original Post]

I posted a real pic but with sunglasses. And put real photos in private. Just IMHO but if you want to get serious returns you got to be real. I have gotten quite a lot of favorite and hook ups by being real. Even the girls do that by putting private pics.

I've gotten really good looking non pro girls but it takes up a lot of time and being that I'm married with family the AMP scene is better for my situation. If I was single then I'd be all. Over this site for sure.

And just my opinion, but your responses and actual hook up will depend a lot. And I mean a lot on how you look. The girls here can choose and to be frank, if you kinda ugly or fat or below average, don't expect to be hooking up with 10's. You better off going to an AMP. Of course there are professional SBs if you got the funds. Then your looks will not be so important. Don't rag on me for this, I'm just giving my opinion from my experiences. More than a few girls I met told me that they choose the best looking guys. Especially the hot girls in their 20's who are just playing around on this site. I just hit up the girls who favorite me. Because it show already they're interested so makes things a whole lot easier. I even met a girl who came here from London. Pretty cool that one.

I agree and disagree. I agree that looks matters to most but money and personality matters more in my experience. I say this because I'm not handsome but I do know how to talk to them in a sensible way. I've seem some pretty creepy and disgusting messages that some of the guys send. These girls don't know or understand that they are escorts / hookers so it's all about talking to them in their language.

**Blake123** · 03-17-17 04:48

Originally Posted by LostIn808 [View Original Post]

Trying it out. Will post if get results. Question, does anyone actually post their picture? Opted to pay the premium price to bypass the requirement for a photo for messaging. Tried to post a pic of my dog but didn't fly, got rejected.

Use your own discretion. But, I'd recommend against doing that because your co-workers, neighbors or someone who knows you might see your profile--unless you don't care. It's best to show your face pic to the girl only when it looks like you are actually going to meet up with her.

**Member #5810** · 03-17-17 03:44

Originally Posted by LostIn808 [View Original Post]

Trying it out. Will post if get results. Question, does anyone actually post their picture? Opted to pay the premium price to bypass the requirement for a photo for messaging. Tried to post a pic of my dog but didn't fly, got rejected.

I posted a real pic but with sunglasses. And put real photos in private. Just IMHO but if you want to get serious returns you got to be real. I have gotten quite a lot of favorite and hook ups by being real. Even the girls do that by putting private pics.

I've gotten really good looking non pro girls but it takes up a lot of time and being that I'm married with family the AMP scene is better for my situation. If I was single then I'd be all. Over this site for sure.

And just my opinion, but your responses and actual hook up will depend a lot. And I mean a lot on how you look. The girls here can choose and to be frank, if you kinda ugly or fat or below average, don't expect to be hooking up with 10's. You better off going to an AMP. Of course there are professional SBs if you got the funds. Then your looks will not be so important. Don't rag on me for this, I'm just giving my opinion from my experiences. More than a few girls I met told me that they choose the best looking guys. Especially the hot girls in their 20's who are just playing around on this site. I just hit up the girls who favorite me. Because it show already they're interested so makes things a whole lot easier. I even met a girl who came here from London. Pretty cool that one.

**LostIn808** · 03-16-17 23:43

Trying it out. Will post if get results. Question, does anyone actually post their picture? Opted to pay the premium price to bypass the requirement for a photo for messaging. Tried to post a pic of my dog but didn't fly, got rejected.

**FutSniffA** · 03-14-17 23:17

I made the mistake of bidding against myself early on. I would start with $300 to see if she would bite and sure enough most dropped everything and found time to see me. I started to notice this and put 2+2 together. Then I cut my offer in half and some started to walk which is fine and others went with that realizing something is better than nothing. I think guys fail to see that attraction matters to most of these girls since they're not full time pros. I'm not handsome but do look young for my age. Since December I've banged 14 (10 Hawaii) on average I've paid 175 if my math is correct.

I suspect that most guys on here run directly to the hottest blonde on the site expecting her to take less when she has more offers to decide from. I rarely see white girls in general so we could be after different girls. Lastly, don't come off desperate, girls can sense this and play you. Oh and never send money to them via pay pal or square etc.

**SlappinBellies** · 03-14-17 08:34

Originally Posted by BallnChain808 [View Original Post]

1. I've had girls that I was chatting with that deleted their accounts. For whatever reason it must be lame because girls can do everything for free on SA.

2. I've met 3 girls so far. But had more than that flake on me too.

3. Like I mentioned in earlier posts, some girls are straight up five benjamins for "intimacy". Others are three bennys just to hang out.

4. Been there with one. She said she "needed to pay rent" so to send greenbacks via Paypal. Lame and major red flag. Don't do it at any cost. No matter what they try to do. They send "real pics". Not. If she says "pay me online first, then we'll f*ck whenever you want" don't fall for that.

5. I had a girl in Australia (sheesh) want 1 K for "videos and sexy pics". What? Nope.

6. See #2.

Overall, SA is cool to check out people that you may normally not talk to but it's a "fun" time waster. My 1-month promo subscription is up and I'm debating whether or not to renew. I already have digits for 2 solid girls that I could see myself continuing to see but no need to stretch it further. Besides this island is way too damn small. You never know if you're connected (or in my case, my SO connected).

And sorry, I won't give out one of my favorites' digits. She's all mine baby. And probably some of yours too hahaha.

Beware: There are some resentful bitches on the site. I was banned permanently from the site for asking for sex in exchange for money. The one's I flaked on reported me. [Deleted by Admin]. Also, none of the attractive girls that know their worth will accept $150. More like $300 to $500. The nice thing about the site new girls are always signing up.

**BallnChain808** · 03-12-17 22:58

Originally Posted by GMan808 [View Original Post]

It could be that I have very little free time and no place to host but my experience so far:

1. Girls delete their accounts.

2. Girls flake on the meet and greet.

3. Girls want $500 for PPM, $300 is ok and I have paid $300 + nice lunch for PPM.

4. Scam artists that want me to send money electronically.

5. Virtual sugar babies that want me to pay for pictures without their heads on them.

6. Girls that cancel the meet and greet because the location "is too far" (its always near ala moana or waikiki).

I did have several amazing conversations with a few girls but that hasn't turned into anything and one student I met at the meet and greet without realizing it nearly shouted "so what made you sign up for seeking. " and then she caught herself. It would have been too much work for me to schlep her all over town.

And I met one fantastic lady twice but she is busy too so hard to find time.

I'm meeting one more this week that's looking good.

Overall not a waste but certainly more work than I initially anticipated.

1. I've had girls that I was chatting with that deleted their accounts. For whatever reason it must be lame because girls can do everything for free on SA.

2. I've met 3 girls so far. But had more than that flake on me too.

3. Like I mentioned in earlier posts, some girls are straight up five benjamins for "intimacy". Others are three bennys just to hang out.

4. Been there with one. She said she "needed to pay rent" so to send greenbacks via Paypal. Lame and major red flag. Don't do it at any cost. No matter what they try to do. They send "real pics". Not. If she says "pay me online first, then we'll f*ck whenever you want" don't fall for that.

5. I had a girl in Australia (sheesh) want 1 K for "videos and sexy pics". What? Nope.

6. See #2.

Overall, SA is cool to check out people that you may normally not talk to but it's a "fun" time waster. My 1-month promo subscription is up and I'm debating whether or not to renew. I already have digits for 2 solid girls that I could see myself continuing to see but no need to stretch it further. Besides this island is way too damn small. You never know if you're connected (or in my case, my SO connected).

And sorry, I won't give out one of my favorites' digits. She's all mine baby. And probably some of yours too hahaha.

**GMan808** · 03-11-17 13:54

Originally Posted by Makana9 [View Original Post]

That I would try something new, but I always gamed within my reasons. SA has been interesting for the last month. Talked with some, connected with a couple, one college student and one diva from Big Island. Will split up the stories over the weekend, but interesting on my fun time search.

It could be that I have very little free time and no place to host but my experience so far:

1. Girls delete their accounts.

2. Girls flake on the meet and greet.

3. Girls want $500 for PPM, $300 is ok and I have paid $300 + nice lunch for PPM.

4. Scam artists that want me to send money electronically.

5. Virtual sugar babies that want me to pay for pictures without their heads on them.

6. Girls that cancel the meet and greet because the location "is too far" (its always near ala moana or waikiki).

I did have several amazing conversations with a few girls but that hasn't turned into anything and one student I met at the meet and greet without realizing it nearly shouted "so what made you sign up for seeking. " and then she caught herself. It would have been too much work for me to schlep her all over town.

And I met one fantastic lady twice but she is busy too so hard to find time.

I'm meeting one more this week that's looking good.

Overall not a waste but certainly more work than I initially anticipated.

**ClintonPortis** · 03-11-17 12:33

OK, may I respectfully request an honest breakdown of costs vs what you've actually gotten on this site? Trying to compare the cost / benefit of this vs traditional mongering.

Reading this thread, I noticed one guy getting great results and paying only 100-200 per girl. Obviously very cost effective, esp since these girls presumably see a lot less guys than your typical provider.

But then I noticed this other guy who seems super happy with Seeking Arrangements who spent, by my calculation, 860 bucks for basically 1 session, 1 make out session, and a few dates. That sounds like a horrible return on investment.

For me, as a nonpaying member, I've gotten about 10 favorites, 14 views, and 3 messages in 10 days. Only about 4 are good looking enough to respond to, and I suspect 1 or 2 of those are just scammers looking to make gullible dudes pay for "chaturbate" type online sessions.

**Makana9** · 03-11-17 03:22

That I would try something new, but I always gamed within my reasons. SA has been interesting for the last month. Talked with some, connected with a couple, one college student and one diva from Big Island. Will split up the stories over the weekend, but interesting on my fun time search.

**GMan808** · 03-07-17 23:22

Originally Posted by ChikanSan [View Original Post]

Decided to give SA a try. We'll see how it goes. Does anybody know if an AMP would be willing to rent out a room for a date? Damn, I wish we had Love Hotels here!

Good luck with SA. Love motels would be so welcome. Got tons of them in Meguro, Shibuya, and other places in Tokyo why not HNL.

**BallnChain808** · 03-07-17 20:39

Originally Posted by ChikanSan [View Original Post]

Decided to give SA a try. We'll see how it goes. Does anybody know if an AMP would be willing to rent out a room for a date? Damn, I wish we had Love Hotels here!

I completely agree! I was thinking of Air BnB but depending on who the owner is. Can't have a shady owner asking questions. "how come just one night? "you pau already?" (hahaha!

I've seen rooms and homes for as low as 90 per night.

**Chikan San** · 03-07-17 18:34

Decided to give SA a try. We'll see how it goes. Does anybody know if an AMP would be willing to rent out a room for a date? Damn, I wish we had Love Hotels here!

**Phillybeauties** · 03-07-17 07:15

https://www.sugarmodels.com/

**BallnChain808** · 03-05-17 22:07

So I've been on SA for almost a month now. I haven't been going crazy messaging any and every girl that looks f*ckable. Like they said, it takes some work and sometimes for me, I prefer the chase rather than the straight up pay the HF and get it done.

I've met up with a cutie from "the college in downtown". Pics didn't show the body, which ended up being larger than I thought. Still, I would've never had the courage to talk with an 18 yo nor would they have ever talked to me so it was pretty cool. We met at a local coffee shop and had some drinks (non alcoholic haha). I walked with her back to the class area and made out with her in an alley. Wooo weee those young girls sure know how to kiss like pornstars. I'm setting some time with her in privacy. She's asking. 3 for the whole thing which isn't too bad.

The only downside to this whole thing is unless you're someone with their own place (which I'd be wary or anyway) or a stash house, you'd have to fork over at least. 1 for a room in Waikiki.

Be aware though fellas. There are also ripoff girls out there that are almost slick. Almost. I was chatting with a young one and she said she needed to pay her "rent". And promised to f*ck my brains out after I paid it online via PayPal. Red flag. Didn't want to meet up first. And the PayPal account was listed under someone in Texas. Huge red flag. I told her to eff off via message (don't give out your cell number unless you know they're legit) and then her "profile" disappeared on SA.