Safe Sex Information and Advice

[NBboy25]

Recently got a nude massage body 2 body, her bottom half touched me a few times on my butt didn't think much of it just curious if there's any std risk in that? I know it sounds dumb but paranoia kicks in sometimes.

[JDapper]

When I first started out in this I got a few BBBJ's from questionable girls, because I was dumb at the time and figured bbbjs have basically no risk because its so common. I turned out to be fine though. Got tested a few times since then, and that was over 2 years ago I think.

Its probably hard to say how risky it can be. But its proabbly pretty low risk if its a clean looking girl, no hard drugs, marks, how her teeth look, etc.

It always shocked me that there are some people that do BBFS with providers they don't know really well. Now that is risky.

[Prometheus77]

I see a lot of people post they got a BBJ or BBBJ. Aren't why'all afraid of std's or is there a way to tell who's clean or not. Just wondering because CBJ are kind of boring lmao I always cover up but I was wondering about going bare next time just wanted some opinions and advice.

There's a level of risk involved, of course. You're not going to get anything life-threatening, but if you're in a situation (say you're married, for example) where you just CAN'T take the risk of accidentally bringing something home with you, then yes, it's probably better to keep everything covered. Obviously that's not nearly as much fun. BBBJ feels much better than CBJ, and BBFS feels much better than CFS. Everyone involved in this hobby (mongers and providers alike) has to make up their own mind as to what level of risk they're comfortable taking, and who they're comfortable taking that risk with.

[CapeGuyToo]

I see a lot of people post they got a BBJ or BBBJ. Aren't why'all afraid of std's or is there a way to tell who's clean or not. Just wondering because CBJ are kind of boring lmao I always cover up but I was wondering about going bare next time just wanted some opinions and advice.

Just be safe and cover it always kid!

[OreoCookie]

I see a lot of people post they got a BBJ or BBBJ. Aren't why'all afraid of std's or is there a way to tell who's clean or not. Just wondering because CBJ are kind of boring lmao I always cover up but I was wondering about going bare next time just wanted some opinions and advice.

Unprotected oral sex has far less risks to the person receiving. You're not going to get HIV from a BBBJ. If you're that worried about the small chance of catching a lesser STI, jerk yourself off. And make sure you use generous amounts of antibacterial soap. Funny thing is that your wife is far more likely to give you the clap.

[Ambrose]

I see a lot of people post they got a BBJ or BBBJ. Aren't why'all afraid of std's or is there a way to tell who's clean or not. Just wondering because CBJ are kind of boring lmao I always cover up but I was wondering about going bare next time just wanted some opinions and advice.

Yes, CBJs are boring and of course BBBJs can transmit STDs, not nearly as easily as BBFS though. There is no way that I know of to tell if a woman is safe to go BB with unless she has been tested and hasn't been with anyone since the tests. Good luck with that one. Personally, I have very little interest in a CBJ but that's just me.

[NBboy25]

I see a lot of people post they got a BBJ or BBBJ. Aren't why'all afraid of std's or is there a way to tell who's clean or not. Just wondering because CBJ are kind of boring lmao I always cover up but I was wondering about going bare next time just wanted some opinions and advice.

[Cephlapod Love]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocTkALIGJ78

This YouTube video illustrates why it is important to be careful what you say in a massage parlor.

Best I could tell, the dude in the video NEVER mentioned money for a sex act, and as such does not appear to have violated any law, The Girl (cop) however, appears to have alluded to sex for money. But hey, then one is into a he said she said. That is why it makes sense to head to known & reviewed AMPs.

If one follows "the rules" at AMPs then one never has to worry about things.

[Cephlapod Love]

I need advice brothers. I had my new baby (just 2 x in the FC) Tuesday afternoon. I have only been with any babies covered, but of course get BBBJs. I traveled w / the SO on Thursday night and somewhat unexpectedly had a long fuck session w / her. Saturday she says she has vaginal pain / irritation. And it's worse today. My mind's racing. Anyone been through this scenario? I have experienced absolutely NO symptoms myself, but is something transmissible asymptomatically? My hope is yeast infection, though I'd have to figure out how to stop that baby - SO transmission. My nightmare is HSV. My reading says its not 100% blocked by rubbers b / c it's a skin / skin thing, not a fluid / fluid thing.

If it does turn out the SO has HSV, I have no choice but to come clean about the baby, right? How much else?

Calm down! LOL! VJs are an fascinating and strange "thing". If you haven't banged the SO in a while a "long session" with her prolly means she is sore! Use to have a GF that lived away and would see her infrequently. When she did visit, we'd have to slow play it until the VJ adjusted. Pretty frustrating when one is worked up so much in the beginning.

But don't jump the gun. Why do you assume the SO caught some STD from you? You sound like you want to get caught. Go get yourself tested for a full panel and then you'll know!

HSV usually takes a couple of weeks to get established and produce "symptoms" and those usually are visible as blisters or sores in or around the vulva or opening to the vagina. Not always, but mostly.

DUDE! Come clean? Give yer FREAKING head a shake! Fist, get yer azz tested for HSV. If you don't have it, and I suspect you would know if you did, then you have a different problem. But why assume she got it from you? Huh? Oh, I know the old male double standard, eh? While I'm out f*cking 20-something the SO is clueless and NEVER would get a 20-some d*ck between her legs for a workout her hubby hasn't given her in years? REALLY?

Take a deep breath. Let things play out and USE YOUR HEAD AND NOT A GUILTY CONSCIENCE!

[Param Ahmad]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocTkALIGJ78

This YouTube video illustrates why it is important to be careful what you say in a massage parlor.

[FarFarAway]

I need advice brothers. I had my new baby (just 2 x in the FC) Tuesday afternoon. I have only been with any babies covered, but of course get BBBJs. I traveled w / the SO on Thursday night and somewhat unexpectedly had a long fuck session w / her. Saturday she says she has vaginal pain / irritation. And it's worse today. My mind's racing. Anyone been through this scenario? I have experienced absolutely NO symptoms myself, but is something transmissible asymptomatically? My hope is yeast infection, though I'd have to figure out how to stop that baby - SO transmission. My nightmare is HSV. My reading says its not 100% blocked by rubbers b / c it's a skin / skin thing, not a fluid / fluid thing.

If it does turn out the SO has HSV, I have no choice but to come clean about the baby, right? How much else?

[Cephlapod Love]

It is weird in some big cities I travel to and read their forums there is a lot more casual vibe on the BB stuff. Was in Orlando last summer and read through their Streetwalker thread, and some of these dudes were barebacking everything in sight and proud of it LOL! To each their own.

Yes, if one BBs girls in high risk categories they are taking on a greater risk. Injection drug users, minorities and low social economic class all tend to have high rates of "living with" an STD. So yeah, SWs would be a key category where risk is higher than the general population.

Maybe these guys feel "protected" as transmission rates from women to men is much lower than men to women?

While it seems like an unacceptable risk to me, everyone has a right to manage risk as they wish. Seems like many do it through lack of knowledge or awareness.

[Cephlapod Love]

For all you guys that sing the praises of riding BB.

http://www.dailynews.com/health/2016...-in-california

Just saying JQ.

Jeez. Let's read that article and take a look at its contents, shall we? Not just react based on the headline?

Sure looks like this is some Gubmint agency that had its budget cut and wants more of your tax dollars so it can GROW. Rather than get more efficient, they just want $ thrown at the problem.

The other game they are playing is with the numbers. Fugures don't lie but liars figure. For example that said:

Gonorrhea cases nearly doubled in five years, from 27,500 infections in 2011, to 54,000 in 2015.

While that is a true statement, what they don't mention is the actual rate of infection? Population of CA is 38.8 Million in 2014, so 54,000 cases of Gonorrhea infection is a rate of 0. 142% (54,000 / 38,800,000). So one has a 99.858% chance of finding someone who isn't infected. Sure 54,000 is a big number and sounds bad. But it appears properly put into context, it is a drop in the bucket.

But hey, last I checked, Gonorrhea isn't going to kill you. It maybe embarrassing to get and take a trip to a doc to get cured, but it isn't lethal. Seems like these days, with proper medical treatment there is nothing out there that can't be cured or managed.

But hey, if one reads down to the END of the article they find this factoid:

Men who have sex with men accounted for the majority of new gonorrhea and primary and secondary syphilis cases.

Wonder how much that might change everyone's opinion about what is really happening here? So cases of Gonorrhea have doubled in 5 years, but a majority of cases are Gay men? Why then all of the rhetoric about High school kids, etc. See how Gubmint takes facts and uses those to scare people who don't pay attention into dumping more dollars into gubmint programs? Hey, you can be fooled if one wishes, it's your money!

Hey, I know, talk about STDs is VERY emotional for most people. It's like religion: they believe what they believe, can't explain why they believe it, but will fight to the end to avoid ever changing their minds or beliefs.

[Rocko007]

It is weird in some big cities I travel to and read their forums there is a lot more casual vibe on the BB stuff. Was in Orlando last summer and read through their Streetwalker thread, and some of these dudes were barebacking everything in sight and proud of it LOL! To each their own.

Its actually quite sad because I think the all got that special delivery and don't know it or they do know it and sharing it. I would avoid any person they even so much as look at to for too long.

[BnT69]

For all you guys that sing the praises of riding BB.

http://www.dailynews.com/health/2016...-in-california

Just saying JQ.

It is weird in some big cities I travel to and read their forums there is a lot more casual vibe on the BB stuff. Was in Orlando last summer and read through their Streetwalker thread, and some of these dudes were barebacking everything in sight and proud of it LOL! To each their own.