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[Ron M]

I'm not sure if that's a good idea after your incident, but I was planning to have her over at my hotel. Also, if you could share what are the rates she quoted you, that will help.

You still want to see this provider after MoneyT's review? You're crazy. There are plenty of other providers without this kind of drama.

[Devj243]

I called on here Tues. Sounded great on phone like you mentioned. Didn't answer phone upon arrival. Waited 30 minutes. No luck!

Same thing happened to me just now. Called and got the location, make it there and called and called but no answer. Wasted time and gas. I think she does this a lot.

[BangBangoo]

I'm not sure if that's a good idea after your incident, but I was planning to have her over at my hotel. Also, if you could share what are the rates she quoted you, that will help.

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...t-fun/38005865

I'll first start by posting the link that I saw for her.

So I searched her number on Facebook and her page with photos pop up (I believe since then she has changed her settings where you can't search her ad by cell # Now I'm thinking she must be green right. Not to mention, I have Current Caller I'd on my phone and the phone is in a family member's name (they share the last name). As you can see this ad was posted on Friday, which is when I first started texting her. After an agreed upon donation, I decided to pull the trigger on Sunday. Upon confirming the appointment, I let her know my ethnicity. She agreed to see me. She tried pawning the AA friend off on a package deal, but I declined as I only wanted to see Lola. I get to her Schaumburg incall location (actually a nice upscale place) but I'm still not quite sure if this is 100% legit. So I tell her that I have a problem. I forgot my debit card as I was rushing out and only have enough for the half hour. I tell her if its a problem I can go back and get it. She says no its cool. I get the room number and head up.

I knock on the door and after a few moments, Lola opens. I am happy to see that she is the girl in the photos and I'm starting to think it's about to be a great time. I walk into the room and her girlfriend is laying on the adjacent bed. I say hello as Lola sits down on the adjacent bed. The girlfriend makes no move to get up as she is texting on her phone. She then looks up and says "what are you two waiting on?" I immediately respond that I'd like some privacy. The girlfriend gets up, grabs her phone, charger and purse and makes her way to the bathroom. Now Lola stands up from the bed and walks over to the chair by the desk. I begin to undress and I notice that she is texting on her phone. I try making small talk, asking her how she is doing, etc, etc. She's replying with short answers. So I get down to my tank top and boxers and ask her if she's going to follow suit. After a few moments, she replies I don't see black men. It says it in the ad. I reply that I didn't see that in the ad but it's cool. I start putting my clothes back on and as I'm doing so I tell her that she could have easily said that before I undressed. In fact, if she doesn't see black men, why even let me in the room.

As I'm driving back home, I text her asking why she wasted my time on having me drive there knowing that I told her I'm black. She replies with a screen shot of a different ad where it says no AA. I immediately send her a screenshot of the one I saw all the while explaining to her that I don't play games nor would I drive that far just to take a chance on her seeing me. About 10 minutes later I get a text saying she's sorry, she has had bad experiences in the past and that if I come back she will see me. A few moments later, the girlfriend calls and asks if would like to see her instead. I reply no thanks, hang up, then Lola texts again, this time from her 563 #. She convinces me to turn back around. I tell her I will on the condition that her friend leave the room so we can have some privacy. She agrees.

So now it's 3 am, I'm tired but more horny so I make the trek back. 20 minutes later I'm in the parking lot. Text her I'm there and she promptly replies to come back to the room. I get to the room, knock and after a slight delay she opens. Upon entering I ask if it's okay to use the bathroom. She replies yes. I come out a few minutes later and she's laying in bed, under the comforter still fully clothed and on the phone. She's visibly crying as I hear this females voice in the phone yelling at her. She says okay and hangs up the phone. I ask her if everything is okay but she just lays there with a blank look on her face. Her phone rings again and again, the girl on the phone is yelling at her. She again says okay and hangs up the phone. Then there was this real awkward moment of silence when I say to her, if she is not comfortable seeing me we don't have to do this. Again, she says nothing but is visibly upset. I then tell her, if you are in a situation you don't want to be in, just walk away. The phone rings again, she answers and again more yelling. At that point, I stand up and tell her I'm just going to leave. I tell her to stay safe and be careful then out the door I go.

I make my way downstairs and out the front door. As I am walking towards my car I see an older model green Cadillac pulling around and driving somewhat crazy. I can't make out who's in the car but I did see there were at least 2 people inside and a black male driving. Now I'm thinking this has to be her pimp and they know I have money on me. So I posture up and prepare for anything that may come my way. BTW I'm 6'2 235 lbs, workout 5 times weekly and have studied Kung Fu and Braziliam Juijitsu. The car stops in the lot, reverses then pulls around the front of the hotel. Next I see Lola getting into the car. The car then speeds off. I make my way to the car, relieved that I had passed on what could have potentially been an all around bad situation. My only loss was time and some gas. I'll take that over what could have been a potentially worse outcome.

[Wirelessone]

As a black man in the game I can vouch for the exsprience of women saying they don't see black men. That can seriously piss you the hell off as there are some men in general who will be on the BS when showing up to a chick spot its not all of us. I.

As I grow older in the game (I'm 21) I try to do much reading on here to soak up the game you guys try to give to everyone.

I guess the lesson here is follow your first mind.

That the ad is usually been written by the AA pimp who doesn't the competition showing up. That aside, yeah AA men more than most will show with some BS story or pay for 30 minutes and want to last for an hour or try to push their penis from the back to the front of their throat, so the girls say why bother. When that's not the case, the girls have explained to me that a AA male showing up on their street in Algonquin or Lake in the Hills, will set all types of alarms with the neighbors, so they will put no AA men in the ads.

I do have my own rules for backpage girls: I don't go to Harvey, Markham or Dolton, North Chicago or Waukegan, Gary or Hammond Indiana addresses, whether its a home or hotel. I don't go to the notel off 127th and I-57 or the Lansing Inn, or Motel 6 in Hammond whether the girl is black or white I don't' go. Generally speaking, I will go see backpage girls only if they are at O'hara airport hotels. That's my comfort level so I would say develop rules for yourself, adjust and evolve them as you see fit.

Wired.

[Butchcasidy]

Hello all, I'm having some work done on my house and have to get a motel room for two nights. Thinking about booking the two nights in a motel that is frequented by backpage girls. If anyone can share (via messaging) I would appreciate the heads up. South suburbs works best for me.

Thanks.

[PghTraveler]

Damn, I'm sorry that happened to you. I saw the ad but something about her expression turned me off. I'm glad I didn't take the plunge, but I know why you did. My favorite thing is to find a green provider on BP who turns out to be awesome. It's like finding a needle in a haystack.

I'm impressed by your balls in going back, even though in retrospect I know you wouldn't do it again.

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...t-fun/38005865

I'll first start by posting the link that I saw for her.

So I searched her number on Facebook and her page with photos pop up (I believe since then she has changed her settings where you can't search her ad by cell # Now I'm thinking she must be green right. Not to mention, I have Current Caller I'd on my phone and the phone is in a family member's name (they share the last name). As you can see this ad was posted on Friday, which is when I first started texting her. After an agreed upon donation, I decided to pull the trigger on Sunday. Upon confirming the appointment, I let her know my ethnicity. She agreed to see me. She tried pawning the AA friend off on a package deal, but I declined as I only wanted to see Lola. I get to her Schaumburg incall location (actually a nice upscale place) but I'm still not quite sure if this is 100% legit. So I tell her that I have a problem. I forgot my debit card as I was rushing out and only have enough for the half hour. I tell her if its a problem I can go back and get it. She says no its cool. I get the room number and head up.

I knock on the door and after a few moments, Lola opens. I am happy to see that she is the girl in the photos and I'm starting to think it's about to be a great time. I walk into the room and her girlfriend is laying on the adjacent bed. I say hello as Lola sits down on the adjacent bed. The girlfriend makes no move to get up as she is texting on her phone. She then looks up and says "what are you two waiting on?" I immediately respond that I'd like some privacy. The girlfriend gets up, grabs her phone, charger and purse and makes her way to the bathroom. Now Lola stands up from the bed and walks over to the chair by the desk. I begin to undress and I notice that she is texting on her phone. I try making small talk, asking her how she is doing, etc, etc. She's replying with short answers. So I get down to my tank top and boxers and ask her if she's going to follow suit. After a few moments, she replies I don't see black men. It says it in the ad. I reply that I didn't see that in the ad but it's cool. I start putting my clothes back on and as I'm doing so I tell her that she could have easily said that before I undressed. In fact, if she doesn't see black men, why even let me in the room.

As I'm driving back home, I text her asking why she wasted my time on having me drive there knowing that I told her I'm black. She replies with a screen shot of a different ad where it says no AA. I immediately send her a screenshot of the one I saw all the while explaining to her that I don't play games nor would I drive that far just to take a chance on her seeing me. About 10 minutes later I get a text saying she's sorry, she has had bad experiences in the past and that if I come back she will see me. A few moments later, the girlfriend calls and asks if would like to see her instead. I reply no thanks, hang up, then Lola texts again, this time from her 563 #. She convinces me to turn back around. I tell her I will on the condition that her friend leave the room so we can have some privacy. She agrees.

So now it's 3 am, I'm tired but more horny so I make the trek back. 20 minutes later I'm in the parking lot. Text her I'm there and she promptly replies to come back to the room. I get to the room, knock and after a slight delay she opens. Upon entering I ask if it's okay to use the bathroom. She replies yes. I come out a few minutes later and she's laying in bed, under the comforter still fully clothed and on the phone. She's visibly crying as I hear this females voice in the phone yelling at her. She says okay and hangs up the phone. I ask her if everything is okay but she just lays there with a blank look on her face. Her phone rings again and again, the girl on the phone is yelling at her. She again says okay and hangs up the phone. Then there was this real awkward moment of silence when I say to her, if she is not comfortable seeing me we don't have to do this. Again, she says nothing but is visibly upset. I then tell her, if you are in a situation you don't want to be in, just walk away. The phone rings again, she answers and again more yelling. At that point, I stand up and tell her I'm just going to leave. I tell her to stay safe and be careful then out the door I go.

I make my way downstairs and out the front door. As I am walking towards my car I see an older model green Cadillac pulling around and driving somewhat crazy. I can't make out who's in the car but I did see there were at least 2 people inside and a black male driving. Now I'm thinking this has to be her pimp and they know I have money on me. So I posture up and prepare for anything that may come my way. BTW I'm 6'2 235 lbs, workout 5 times weekly and have studied Kung Fu and Braziliam Juijitsu. The car stops in the lot, reverses then pulls around the front of the hotel. Next I see Lola getting into the car. The car then speeds off. I make my way to the car, relieved that I had passed on what could have potentially been an all around bad situation. My only loss was time and some gas. I'll take that over what could have been a potentially worse outcome.

[Takuya6]

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...t-fun/38005865

I'll first start by posting the link that I saw for her.

So I searched her number on Facebook and her page with photos pop up (I believe since then she has changed her settings where you can't search her ad by cell # Now I'm thinking she must be green right. Not to mention, I have Current Caller I'd on my phone and the phone is in a family member's name (they share the last name). As you can see this ad was posted on Friday, which is when I first started texting her. After an agreed upon donation, I decided to pull the trigger on Sunday. Upon confirming the appointment, I let her know my ethnicity. She agreed to see me. She tried pawning the AA friend off on a package deal, but I declined as I only wanted to see Lola. I get to her Schaumburg incall location (actually a nice upscale place) but I'm still not quite sure if this is 100% legit. So I tell her that I have a problem. I forgot my debit card as I was rushing out and only have enough for the half hour. I tell her if its a problem I can go back and get it. She says no its cool. I get the room number and head up.

I knock on the door and after a few moments, Lola opens. I am happy to see that she is the girl in the photos and I'm starting to think it's about to be a great time. I walk into the room and her girlfriend is laying on the adjacent bed. I say hello as Lola sits down on the adjacent bed. The girlfriend makes no move to get up as she is texting on her phone. She then looks up and says "what are you two waiting on?" I immediately respond that I'd like some privacy. The girlfriend gets up, grabs her phone, charger and purse and makes her way to the bathroom. Now Lola stands up from the bed and walks over to the chair by the desk. I begin to undress and I notice that she is texting on her phone. I try making small talk, asking her how she is doing, etc, etc. She's replying with short answers. So I get down to my tank top and boxers and ask her if she's going to follow suit. After a few moments, she replies I don't see black men. It says it in the ad. I reply that I didn't see that in the ad but it's cool. I start putting my clothes back on and as I'm doing so I tell her that she could have easily said that before I undressed. In fact, if she doesn't see black men, why even let me in the room.

As I'm driving back home, I text her asking why she wasted my time on having me drive there knowing that I told her I'm black. She replies with a screen shot of a different ad where it says no AA. I immediately send her a screenshot of the one I saw all the while explaining to her that I don't play games nor would I drive that far just to take a chance on her seeing me. About 10 minutes later I get a text saying she's sorry, she has had bad experiences in the past and that if I come back she will see me. A few moments later, the girlfriend calls and asks if would like to see her instead. I reply no thanks, hang up, then Lola texts again, this time from her 563 #. She convinces me to turn back around. I tell her I will on the condition that her friend leave the room so we can have some privacy. She agrees.

So now it's 3 am, I'm tired but more horny so I make the trek back. 20 minutes later I'm in the parking lot. Text her I'm there and she promptly replies to come back to the room. I get to the room, knock and after a slight delay she opens. Upon entering I ask if it's okay to use the bathroom. She replies yes. I come out a few minutes later and she's laying in bed, under the comforter still fully clothed and on the phone. She's visibly crying as I hear this females voice in the phone yelling at her. She says okay and hangs up the phone. I ask her if everything is okay but she just lays there with a blank look on her face. Her phone rings again and again, the girl on the phone is yelling at her. She again says okay and hangs up the phone. Then there was this real awkward moment of silence when I say to her, if she is not comfortable seeing me we don't have to do this. Again, she says nothing but is visibly upset. I then tell her, if you are in a situation you don't want to be in, just walk away. The phone rings again, she answers and again more yelling. At that point, I stand up and tell her I'm just going to leave. I tell her to stay safe and be careful then out the door I go.

I make my way downstairs and out the front door. As I am walking towards my car I see an older model green Cadillac pulling around and driving somewhat crazy. I can't make out who's in the car but I did see there were at least 2 people inside and a black male driving. Now I'm thinking this has to be her pimp and they know I have money on me. So I posture up and prepare for anything that may come my way. BTW I'm 6'2 235 lbs, workout 5 times weekly and have studied Kung Fu and Braziliam Juijitsu. The car stops in the lot, reverses then pulls around the front of the hotel. Next I see Lola getting into the car. The car then speeds off. I make my way to the car, relieved that I had passed on what could have potentially been an all around bad situation. My only loss was time and some gas. I'll take that over what could have been a potentially worse outcome.

As a black man in the game I can vouch for the exsprience of women saying they don't see black men. That can seriously piss you the hell off as there are some men in general who will be on the BS when showing up to a chick spot its not all of us. I.

As I grow older in the game (I'm 21) I try to do much reading on here to soak up the game you guys try to give to everyone.

I guess the lesson here is follow your first mind.

[Hillbilly Bob]

Senior member here from Cincinnati. I will be in your fir city this weekend. I will be staying close to Navy Pier area looking for a trusted provider. Not looking for massage happy ending. Looking for DATY and a BBBJ any help. If you travel to Cincy get with me we have great providers here in the Queen city.

[Ron M]

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...t-fun/38005865

I'll first start by posting the link that I saw for her.

So I searched her number on Facebook and her page with photos pop up (I believe since then she has changed her settings where you can't search her ad by cell # Now I'm thinking she must be green right. Not to mention, I have Current Caller I'd on my phone and the phone is in a family member's name (they share the last name). As you can see this ad was posted on Friday, which is when I first started texting her. After an agreed upon donation, I decided to pull the trigger on Sunday. Upon confirming the appointment, I let her know my ethnicity. She agreed to see me. She tried pawning the AA friend off on a package deal, but I declined as I only wanted to see Lola. I get to her Schaumburg incall location (actually a nice upscale place) but I'm still not quite sure if this is 100% legit. So I tell her that I have a problem. I forgot my debit card as I was rushing out and only have enough for the half hour. I tell her if its a problem I can go back and get it. She says no its cool. I get the room number and head up.

I knock on the door and after a few moments, Lola opens. I am happy to see that she is the girl in the photos and I'm starting to think it's about to be a great time. I walk into the room and her girlfriend is laying on the adjacent bed. I say hello as Lola sits down on the adjacent bed. The girlfriend makes no move to get up as she is texting on her phone. She then looks up and says "what are you two waiting on?" I immediately respond that I'd like some privacy. The girlfriend gets up, grabs her phone, charger and purse and makes her way to the bathroom. Now Lola stands up from the bed and walks over to the chair by the desk. I begin to undress and I notice that she is texting on her phone. I try making small talk, asking her how she is doing, etc, etc. She's replying with short answers. So I get down to my tank top and boxers and ask her if she's going to follow suit. After a few moments, she replies I don't see black men. It says it in the ad. I reply that I didn't see that in the ad but it's cool. I start putting my clothes back on and as I'm doing so I tell her that she could have easily said that before I undressed. In fact, if she doesn't see black men, why even let me in the room.

Glad you got out of there without losing anything.

But I would have left after this point. And I would not have gone back.

[OngBak15]

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...t-fun/38005865

I'll first start by posting the link that I saw for her.

So I searched her number on Facebook and her page with photos pop up (I believe since then she has changed her settings where you can't search her ad by cell # Now I'm thinking she must be green right. Not to mention, I have Current Caller I'd on my phone and the phone is in a family member's name (they share the last name). As you can see this ad was posted on Friday, which is when I first started texting her. After an agreed upon donation, I decided to pull the trigger on Sunday. Upon confirming the appointment, I let her know my ethnicity. She agreed to see me. She tried pawning the AA friend off on a package deal, but I declined as I only wanted to see Lola. I get to her Schaumburg incall location (actually a nice upscale place) but I'm still not quite sure if this is 100% legit. So I tell her that I have a problem. I forgot my debit card as I was rushing out and only have enough for the half hour. I tell her if its a problem I can go back and get it. She says no its cool. I get the room number and head up.

I knock on the door and after a few moments, Lola opens. I am happy to see that she is the girl in the photos and I'm starting to think it's about to be a great time. I walk into the room and her girlfriend is laying on the adjacent bed. I say hello as Lola sits down on the adjacent bed. The girlfriend makes no move to get up as she is texting on her phone. She then looks up and says "what are you two waiting on?" I immediately respond that I'd like some privacy. The girlfriend gets up, grabs her phone, charger and purse and makes her way to the bathroom. Now Lola stands up from the bed and walks over to the chair by the desk. I begin to undress and I notice that she is texting on her phone. I try making small talk, asking her how she is doing, etc, etc. She's replying with short answers. So I get down to my tank top and boxers and ask her if she's going to follow suit. After a few moments, she replies I don't see black men. It says it in the ad. I reply that I didn't see that in the ad but it's cool. I start putting my clothes back on and as I'm doing so I tell her that she could have easily said that before I undressed. In fact, if she doesn't see black men, why even let me in the room.

As I'm driving back home, I text her asking why she wasted my time on having me drive there knowing that I told her I'm black. She replies with a screen shot of a different ad where it says no AA. I immediately send her a screenshot of the one I saw all the while explaining to her that I don't play games nor would I drive that far just to take a chance on her seeing me. About 10 minutes later I get a text saying she's sorry, she has had bad experiences in the past and that if I come back she will see me. A few moments later, the girlfriend calls and asks if would like to see her instead. I reply no thanks, hang up, then Lola texts again, this time from her 563 #. She convinces me to turn back around. I tell her I will on the condition that her friend leave the room so we can have some privacy. She agrees.

So now it's 3 am, I'm tired but more horny so I make the trek back. 20 minutes later I'm in the parking lot. Text her I'm there and she promptly replies to come back to the room. I get to the room, knock and after a slight delay she opens. Upon entering I ask if it's okay to use the bathroom. She replies yes. I come out a few minutes later and she's laying in bed, under the comforter still fully clothed and on the phone. She's visibly crying as I hear this females voice in the phone yelling at her. She says okay and hangs up the phone. I ask her if everything is okay but she just lays there with a blank look on her face. Her phone rings again and again, the girl on the phone is yelling at her. She again says okay and hangs up the phone. Then there was this real awkward moment of silence when I say to her, if she is not comfortable seeing me we don't have to do this. Again, she says nothing but is visibly upset. I then tell her, if you are in a situation you don't want to be in, just walk away. The phone rings again, she answers and again more yelling. At that point, I stand up and tell her I'm just going to leave. I tell her to stay safe and be careful then out the door I go.

I make my way downstairs and out the front door. As I am walking towards my car I see an older model green Cadillac pulling around and driving somewhat crazy. I can't make out who's in the car but I did see there were at least 2 people inside and a black male driving. Now I'm thinking this has to be her pimp and they know I have money on me. So I posture up and prepare for anything that may come my way. BTW I'm 6'2 235 lbs, workout 5 times weekly and have studied Kung Fu and Braziliam Juijitsu. The car stops in the lot, reverses then pulls around the front of the hotel. Next I see Lola getting into the car. The car then speeds off. I make my way to the car, relieved that I had passed on what could have potentially been an all around bad situation. My only loss was time and some gas. I'll take that over what could have been a potentially worse outcome.

Thank you for the review. I am happy that you are safe. When you first posted I was thinking the worst. But one of the other posters hit the nail on the head saying that these girls are damaged. Some will become productive parts to society, while some will live this life for a long time. My main focus when I come on here to read is if every member is treated well and safe. Then the girl is second. I can tell you are broken up a little by this but this hobby that we all share, is all of us playing with broken toys. Continue to share but remember you first.

[Castlerae]

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...t-fun/38005865

I'll first start by posting the link that I saw for her.

So I searched her number on Facebook and her page with photos pop up (I believe since then she has changed her settings where you can't search her ad by cell # Now I'm thinking she must be green right. Not to mention, I have Current Caller I'd on my phone and the phone is in a family member's name (they share the last name). As you can see this ad was posted on Friday, which is when I first started texting her. After an agreed upon donation, I decided to pull the trigger on Sunday. Upon confirming the appointment, I let her know my ethnicity. She agreed to see me. She tried pawning the AA friend off on a package deal, but I declined as I only wanted to see Lola. I get to her Schaumburg incall location (actually a nice upscale place) but I'm still not quite sure if this is 100% legit. So I tell her that I have a problem. I forgot my debit card as I was rushing out and only have enough for the half hour. I tell her if its a problem I can go back and get it. She says no its cool. I get the room number and head up.

I knock on the door and after a few moments, Lola opens. I am happy to see that she is the girl in the photos and I'm starting to think it's about to be a great time. I walk into the room and her girlfriend is laying on the adjacent bed. I say hello as Lola sits down on the adjacent bed. The girlfriend makes no move to get up as she is texting on her phone. She then looks up and says "what are you two waiting on?" I immediately respond that I'd like some privacy. The girlfriend gets up, grabs her phone, charger and purse and makes her way to the bathroom. Now Lola stands up from the bed and walks over to the chair by the desk. I begin to undress and I notice that she is texting on her phone. I try making small talk, asking her how she is doing, etc, etc. She's replying with short answers. So I get down to my tank top and boxers and ask her if she's going to follow suit. After a few moments, she replies I don't see black men. It says it in the ad. I reply that I didn't see that in the ad but it's cool. I start putting my clothes back on and as I'm doing so I tell her that she could have easily said that before I undressed. In fact, if she doesn't see black men, why even let me in the room.

As I'm driving back home, I text her asking why she wasted my time on having me drive there knowing that I told her I'm black. She replies with a screen shot of a different ad where it says no AA. I immediately send her a screenshot of the one I saw all the while explaining to her that I don't play games nor would I drive that far just to take a chance on her seeing me. About 10 minutes later I get a text saying she's sorry, she has had bad experiences in the past and that if I come back she will see me. A few moments later, the girlfriend calls and asks if would like to see her instead. I reply no thanks, hang up, then Lola texts again, this time from her 563 #. She convinces me to turn back around. I tell her I will on the condition that her friend leave the room so we can have some privacy. She agrees.

So now it's 3 am, I'm tired but more horny so I make the trek back. 20 minutes later I'm in the parking lot. Text her I'm there and she promptly replies to come back to the room. I get to the room, knock and after a slight delay she opens. Upon entering I ask if it's okay to use the bathroom. She replies yes. I come out a few minutes later and she's laying in bed, under the comforter still fully clothed and on the phone. She's visibly crying as I hear this females voice in the phone yelling at her. She says okay and hangs up the phone. I ask her if everything is okay but she just lays there with a blank look on her face. Her phone rings again and again, the girl on the phone is yelling at her. She again says okay and hangs up the phone. Then there was this real awkward moment of silence when I say to her, if she is not comfortable seeing me we don't have to do this. Again, she says nothing but is visibly upset. I then tell her, if you are in a situation you don't want to be in, just walk away. The phone rings again, she answers and again more yelling. At that point, I stand up and tell her I'm just going to leave. I tell her to stay safe and be careful then out the door I go.

I make my way downstairs and out the front door. As I am walking towards my car I see an older model green Cadillac pulling around and driving somewhat crazy. I can't make out who's in the car but I did see there were at least 2 people inside and a black male driving. Now I'm thinking this has to be her pimp and they know I have money on me. So I posture up and prepare for anything that may come my way. BTW I'm 6'2 235 lbs, workout 5 times weekly and have studied Kung Fu and Braziliam Juijitsu. The car stops in the lot, reverses then pulls around the front of the hotel. Next I see Lola getting into the car. The car then speeds off. I make my way to the car, relieved that I had passed on what could have potentially been an all around bad situation. My only loss was time and some gas. I'll take that over what could have been a potentially worse outcome.

Money, you probably made the right call. If that's her in the pics, she looks like she might not even be 18, and that's a place I don't think any of us would want to go. Too bad she would let you walk her out, or at least down to the lobby.

[DMichaels69]

You got it right BigDog. Hit the nail on the head. I have not ventured that much into BP, but luckily the ones I tried were pretty normal and they set timers on their phone which was fine by me. It is what it is and nothing more.

I have to be honest. Based upon your original post, I thought this story was going to be a lot worse. You seem like a pretty decent guy. After 20 years of mongering, I have learned a few things. First, these girls are selling a fantasy. The better they are, the more they can charge. I read some of the b. S. On here suggesting otherwise and it makes me laugh. The truth is, there is a meter running the moment you walk in the door and it turns off at the agreed upon moment. Which leads me to my second point. Most of the ladies involved in this business are fucked up one way or another. I don't hold that against them. It's just the truth. Whether it is daddy issues, molestation issues, drug issues or baby issues, most of these broads have issues. And quite a lot of them associate and hang out with complete lowlifes. Seriously, what kind of guy makes his woman sell her pussy? A lowlife scumbag. So yeah, maybe her friend yelled at her and she got upset. But really, what do you even know about this person based upon 5 minutes of interaction. I'm happy to hear she didn't rip you off.

[BigDog16]

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...t-fun/38005865

I'll first start by posting the link that I saw for her.

So I searched her number on Facebook and her page with photos pop up (I believe since then she has changed her settings where you can't search her ad by cell # Now I'm thinking she must be green right. Not to mention, I have Current Caller I'd on my phone and the phone is in a family member's name (they share the last name). As you can see this ad was posted on Friday, which is when I first started texting her. After an agreed upon donation, I decided to pull the trigger on Sunday. Upon confirming the appointment, I let her know my ethnicity. She agreed to see me. She tried pawning the AA friend off on a package deal, but I declined as I only wanted to see Lola. I get to her Schaumburg incall location (actually a nice upscale place) but I'm still not quite sure if this is 100% legit. So I tell her that I have a problem. I forgot my debit card as I was rushing out and only have enough for the half hour. I tell her if its a problem I can go back and get it. She says no its cool. I get the room number and head up.

I knock on the door and after a few moments, Lola opens. I am happy to see that she is the girl in the photos and I'm starting to think it's about to be a great time. I walk into the room and her girlfriend is laying on the adjacent bed. I say hello as Lola sits down on the adjacent bed. The girlfriend makes no move to get up as she is texting on her phone. She then looks up and says "what are you two waiting on?" I immediately respond that I'd like some privacy. The girlfriend gets up, grabs her phone, charger and purse and makes her way to the bathroom. Now Lola stands up from the bed and walks over to the chair by the desk. I begin to undress and I notice that she is texting on her phone. I try making small talk, asking her how she is doing, etc, etc. She's replying with short answers. So I get down to my tank top and boxers and ask her if she's going to follow suit. After a few moments, she replies I don't see black men. It says it in the ad. I reply that I didn't see that in the ad but it's cool. I start putting my clothes back on and as I'm doing so I tell her that she could have easily said that before I undressed. In fact, if she doesn't see black men, why even let me in the room.

As I'm driving back home, I text her asking why she wasted my time on having me drive there knowing that I told her I'm black. She replies with a screen shot of a different ad where it says no AA. I immediately send her a screenshot of the one I saw all the while explaining to her that I don't play games nor would I drive that far just to take a chance on her seeing me. About 10 minutes later I get a text saying she's sorry, she has had bad experiences in the past and that if I come back she will see me. A few moments later, the girlfriend calls and asks if would like to see her instead. I reply no thanks, hang up, then Lola texts again, this time from her 563 #. She convinces me to turn back around. I tell her I will on the condition that her friend leave the room so we can have some privacy. She agrees.

So now it's 3 am, I'm tired but more horny so I make the trek back. 20 minutes later I'm in the parking lot. Text her I'm there and she promptly replies to come back to the room. I get to the room, knock and after a slight delay she opens. Upon entering I ask if it's okay to use the bathroom. She replies yes. I come out a few minutes later and she's laying in bed, under the comforter still fully clothed and on the phone. She's visibly crying as I hear this females voice in the phone yelling at her. She says okay and hangs up the phone. I ask her if everything is okay but she just lays there with a blank look on her face. Her phone rings again and again, the girl on the phone is yelling at her. She again says okay and hangs up the phone. Then there was this real awkward moment of silence when I say to her, if she is not comfortable seeing me we don't have to do this. Again, she says nothing but is visibly upset. I then tell her, if you are in a situation you don't want to be in, just walk away. The phone rings again, she answers and again more yelling. At that point, I stand up and tell her I'm just going to leave. I tell her to stay safe and be careful then out the door I go.

I make my way downstairs and out the front door. As I am walking towards my car I see an older model green Cadillac pulling around and driving somewhat crazy. I can't make out who's in the car but I did see there were at least 2 people inside and a black male driving. Now I'm thinking this has to be her pimp and they know I have money on me. So I posture up and prepare for anything that may come my way. BTW I'm 6'2 235 lbs, workout 5 times weekly and have studied Kung Fu and Braziliam Juijitsu. The car stops in the lot, reverses then pulls around the front of the hotel. Next I see Lola getting into the car. The car then speeds off. I make my way to the car, relieved that I had passed on what could have potentially been an all around bad situation. My only loss was time and some gas. I'll take that over what could have been a potentially worse outcome.

I have to be honest. Based upon your original post, I thought this story was going to be a lot worse. You seem like a pretty decent guy. After 20 years of mongering, I have learned a few things. First, these girls are selling a fantasy. The better they are, the more they can charge. I read some of the b. S. On here suggesting otherwise and it makes me laugh. The truth is, there is a meter running the moment you walk in the door and it turns off at the agreed upon moment. Which leads me to my second point. Most of the ladies involved in this business are fucked up one way or another. I don't hold that against them. It's just the truth. Whether it is daddy issues, molestation issues, drug issues or baby issues, most of these broads have issues. And quite a lot of them associate and hang out with complete lowlifes. Seriously, what kind of guy makes his woman sell her pussy? A lowlife scumbag. So yeah, maybe her friend yelled at her and she got upset. But really, what do you even know about this person based upon 5 minutes of interaction. I'm happy to hear she didn't rip you off.

[Riina]

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...t-fun/38005865

I'll first start by posting the link that I saw for her.

So I searched her number on Facebook and her page with photos pop up (I believe since then she has changed her settings where you can't search her ad by cell # Now I'm thinking she must be green right. Not to mention, I have Current Caller I'd on my phone and the phone is in a family member's name (they share the last name). As you can see this ad was posted on Friday, which is when I first started texting her. After an agreed upon donation, I decided to pull the trigger on Sunday. Upon confirming the appointment, I let her know my ethnicity. She agreed to see me. She tried pawning the AA friend off on a package deal, but I declined as I only wanted to see Lola. I get to her Schaumburg incall location (actually a nice upscale place) but I'm still not quite sure if this is 100% legit. So I tell her that I have a problem. I forgot my debit card as I was rushing out and only have enough for the half hour. I tell her if its a problem I can go back and get it. She says no its cool. I get the room number and head up.

I knock on the door and after a few moments, Lola opens. I am happy to see that she is the girl in the photos and I'm starting to think it's about to be a great time. I walk into the room and her girlfriend is laying on the adjacent bed. I say hello as Lola sits down on the adjacent bed. The girlfriend makes no move to get up as she is texting on her phone. She then looks up and says "what are you two waiting on?" I immediately respond that I'd like some privacy. The girlfriend gets up, grabs her phone, charger and purse and makes her way to the bathroom. Now Lola stands up from the bed and walks over to the chair by the desk. I begin to undress and I notice that she is texting on her phone. I try making small talk, asking her how she is doing, etc, etc. She's replying with short answers. So I get down to my tank top and boxers and ask her if she's going to follow suit. After a few moments, she replies I don't see black men. It says it in the ad. I reply that I didn't see that in the ad but it's cool. I start putting my clothes back on and as I'm doing so I tell her that she could have easily said that before I undressed. In fact, if she doesn't see black men, why even let me in the room.

As I'm driving back home, I text her asking why she wasted my time on having me drive there knowing that I told her I'm black. She replies with a screen shot of a different ad where it says no AA. I immediately send her a screenshot of the one I saw all the while explaining to her that I don't play games nor would I drive that far just to take a chance on her seeing me. About 10 minutes later I get a text saying she's sorry, she has had bad experiences in the past and that if I come back she will see me. A few moments later, the girlfriend calls and asks if would like to see her instead. I reply no thanks, hang up, then Lola texts again, this time from her 563 #. She convinces me to turn back around. I tell her I will on the condition that her friend leave the room so we can have some privacy. She agrees.

So now it's 3 am, I'm tired but more horny so I make the trek back. 20 minutes later I'm in the parking lot. Text her I'm there and she promptly replies to come back to the room. I get to the room, knock and after a slight delay she opens. Upon entering I ask if it's okay to use the bathroom. She replies yes. I come out a few minutes later and she's laying in bed, under the comforter still fully clothed and on the phone. She's visibly crying as I hear this females voice in the phone yelling at her. She says okay and hangs up the phone. I ask her if everything is okay but she just lays there with a blank look on her face. Her phone rings again and again, the girl on the phone is yelling at her. She again says okay and hangs up the phone. Then there was this real awkward moment of silence when I say to her, if she is not comfortable seeing me we don't have to do this. Again, she says nothing but is visibly upset. I then tell her, if you are in a situation you don't want to be in, just walk away. The phone rings again, she answers and again more yelling. At that point, I stand up and tell her I'm just going to leave. I tell her to stay safe and be careful then out the door I go.

I make my way downstairs and out the front door. As I am walking towards my car I see an older model green Cadillac pulling around and driving somewhat crazy. I can't make out who's in the car but I did see there were at least 2 people inside and a black male driving. Now I'm thinking this has to be her pimp and they know I have money on me. So I posture up and prepare for anything that may come my way. BTW I'm 6'2 235 lbs, workout 5 times weekly and have studied Kung Fu and Braziliam Juijitsu. The car stops in the lot, reverses then pulls around the front of the hotel. Next I see Lola getting into the car. The car then speeds off. I make my way to the car, relieved that I had passed on what could have potentially been an all around bad situation. My only loss was time and some gas. I'll take that over what could have been a potentially worse outcome.

Money, you are an interesting hobbyist. It was you that led me to the 262 agency. You have a very wide mongering spectrum unlike most of us here. You meet girls in high end agencies like 872 and yet you also meet the lower end often times TOFTT. You are the real deal my friend. Thanks for sharing.

[Degenerate1776]

So I saw this one recently. She advertises as a BBW. That's about the only thing accurate.

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...-pics/27231018

Now I know pics are usually representing the provider in the best possible light. She is the girl in the picture but they are really old. Also did some video work as Valentina Krave if you're interested. She showed up at my place, on time and seemed nervous. Silly me thinking that this girl has been around a while, she'd be a tad more relaxed. Nope. She was wearing jeans and a sweatshirt, looking like she just got done grocery shopping. She's a big girl and has a ginormous rack. Long story short, she gave a very poor BBBJ and didn't have the equipment for FS. The worst part is her attitude. Short boring almost rude. Seemed very surprised that I wanted more than a HJ for $$. Her reviews on the oThEr site are similarly lackluster. Figured I'd share this so people don't get their hopes up.