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[Ron M]

I read that long posting. I get what your points are.

When I'm seeing a provider / massage therapist I expect the session she's offering at the very least. I'll ask her if she's willing to do X or why. Most of the time they'll accomodate my requests. No upselling or asking for more money on top of their rate that I'm paying. I tip according to what they'll do. At least 50 dollars for CIM (WS) or COF. All seem surprised about getting a tip for special requests.

[WildOnKiss]

Has anyone ever seen this girl?

http://chicago.backpage.com/WomenSee...n-now/34851654

[Garbonzo]

ETA: My apologies, I didn't realize this post was so fucking long. I got a little carried away.

Indies work for themselves. What they charge is what they make. I'll pay more than the provider's rate because of exceptional service and / or special requests. What I pay just depends on my request and if she's willing to do it.

In a massage parlor, where you're paying a door fee, or any other situation where you're not paying as much as you should because of the house taking a large cut (thinking of some brothels I visited in NYC in the late 90's), then a tip is definitely in order so long as the experience is even halfway decent.

As to indies, it may sound sort of crazy, but especially after I get over the $180-$200/ hour range, with my regulars I feel like I'm interacting with a professional services provider. I mean that in the sense that I often pay professionals an hourly or fixed rate to render their services and expertise for my benefit -- get your minds out of the gutter, I'm talking about my lawyer, my accountant, my doctor, and so on. I wouldn't offer my lawyer a tip after she does an extremely good job in getting a court order approved or quashing opposing counsel's motion, especially if she achieves equivalent results by negotiating with the opposing counsel, which is an even happier ending in terms of cost / stress / having to go to court. (11 years later, my divorce is still providing me excitement and drama!) It's part of her job and I pay her to do it; if she couldn't do it, I'd retain a different lawyer. Likewise, with a higher-end adult provider, I wouldn't offer a tip. It's the same principle, though when I engage my lawyer I'm trying not to get fucked or to make someone stop fucking me, and, well, you can figure the rest of the joke out yourself. Or, if you prefer, it's a lot more fun to pay for an hour for some professional services than for others.

A higher-end provider who pushes for a tip is one I likely won't see again. All parties know that this is a commercial transaction and there is a set rate. If my accountant said, "Hey, didn't I do a great job lowering your tax liability? How about I tack a little extra onto your invoice so you can show your gratitude? Next year I'd be looking for a new tax accountant.

It also has to do with perceived status and role. Strange example, but once at the end of a week on the road, after leaving the client site I stopped by the hotel's front desk to pick up the luggage I had left in storage for the day. When the lady at the desk wheeled it out to me, I slipped her a couple of bucks, and she said, "I'll make sure this gets to one of the busboys. " It turns out she was a manager, and it wasn't appropriate (in her mind) to take a tip.

Even for the lower-priced indies as well as the Euro services, I usually don't tip, under the same principle. (It seems to me providers at the Euro services keep a decent amount of their pay and control how much / often they want to work.) If I have an excellent experience from a provider, they'll get my repeat business and / or a good review. The exception is when something extra that's not expected as part of the service is provided, especially if it's unasked for or if I don't get nickel-and-dimed for it. I once was a regular of a great indie body rub provider. One day, I asked her if we could do a specific extra thing. She said yes. She didn't upcharge me for it, so I tipped her. Whenever we did that extra bit from then on, in my mind it was almost like there was a different hourly rate rather than I was tipping her each time. (Sort of the same way my lawyer charges me a higher rate for courtroom time than office time.).

But it's all case-by-case, and I think it mostly has to do with your character, motivations, and how you want to influence your next session. Last example: I tip cab drivers, hotel maids, and shoeshine guys well. I do this for cab drivers because they have one of the most dangerous jobs in America, statistically more deadly than cop or fireman; hotel maids and shoeshine guys because they're both doing jobs I would not want to do, and incrementally it's not that big of a deal to me. (Giving someone a $10 for a $7 shine and saying keep the change is no real financial hit.) But to be brutally honest with myself, a big part of it is if I didn't tip these workers who usually don't make much money, I'd feel like a cheapskate, and I don't like to feel that way. Some of it might be me being a nice guy, but a larger part is that I don't want to feel like a jerk.

[Kellster]

Hard pass. This is my experience not seeing her, and the nested post has someone else reporting how he TOFTT with her:

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/sh...=1#post2883106

From what I've seen, there aren't that many providers who know how to really work a prostate outside the domme community. A shame too, because getting your prostate handled just right during a handie or (even better) a BJ turns your orgasm from matching five white lottery balls into hitting the Powerball. And on a side note to the haters, no, it's not gay if it's a woman doing it to you, so go ahead and unclench your sphincter. Um. Poor choice of words?

So, out of curiosity, an open question -- should I have posted my shitty phone experience with her that made me decide not to visit? I assumed that anyone else would get the same phone treatment but apparently not.

Just my opinion, but I think it's fine to post her phone tirade- mainly because why she was mad because it alerts the rest of us. I don't think you did anything wrong. Either posting it or the actual call. Plenty of us have gotten or tried to get a massage on the spur of the moment with certain gals. She was probably having a bad day.

Edging is great- I'm not sure if she does it though. After reading the original review it sounds like it might have been a typo for ending. Maybe the original guy who saw her can let us know. I used to see a cute Indian gal, Neeva, who did that. I had no idea what it was at the time but became a fan. Not a fan of the prostate rub though. Don't want a massage in that area, but to each his own.

[Explorer8]

Hard pass. This is my experience not seeing her, and the nested post has someone else reporting how he TOFTT with her:

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/sh...=1#post2883106

From what I've seen, there aren't that many providers who know how to really work a prostate outside the domme community. A shame too, because getting your prostate handled just right during a handie or (even better) a BJ turns your orgasm from matching five white lottery balls into hitting the Powerball. And on a side note to the haters, no, it's not gay if it's a woman doing it to you, so go ahead and unclench your sphincter. Um. Poor choice of words?

So, out of curiosity, an open question -- should I have posted my shitty phone experience with her that made me decide not to visit? I assumed that anyone else would get the same phone treatment but apparently not.

Honestly I am not very educated on the process of a prostate massage, but it did inspire me to google it. My impression is that the prostate gland and the process of "massaging" or "milking it" seems should be left o someone who knows what they are doing for fear of damaging it. Is this an accurate assessment? If so, there is no way I would trust someone from BP, CL, etc. To do such a thing. Maybe I am just too paranoid about this having never had it done to me before.

[Garbonzo]

http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs...ssage/28373907

Has anyone seen her before? I like older ladies and am always curious if someone claims they can give a legit prostate massage.

Hard pass. This is my experience not seeing her, and the nested post has someone else reporting how he TOFTT with her:

http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/sh...=1#post2883106

From what I've seen, there aren't that many providers who know how to really work a prostate outside the domme community. A shame too, because getting your prostate handled just right during a handie or (even better) a BJ turns your orgasm from matching five white lottery balls into hitting the Powerball. And on a side note to the haters, no, it's not gay if it's a woman doing it to you, so go ahead and unclench your sphincter. Um. Poor choice of words?

So, out of curiosity, an open question -- should I have posted my shitty phone experience with her that made me decide not to visit? I assumed that anyone else would get the same phone treatment but apparently not.

[Garbonzo]

Can you make that story a little more comprehensive?

This asshole...http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...alous/37162938...brutal and violent after she tried to forcefully come inside and use a taser on me. Thank goodness I was unharmed and she had no backup, though to be honest I'm confused why there wasn't any soft of retaliation...trying to assuage me (like hell she's in the car), suspiciously trying to convince me to "scope the place"...

I'm not saying I know for sure something bad didn't happen to you, but your story is a little hard to swallow. Not because crazy shit happened in it -- there are tons of crazier stories around here -- but because I can't even follow what happened. I'm not even sure if this is an outcall or an incall encounter. With it being so unclear, I'm not sure if I'd take it as a real red flag, coming from someone with only three real posts since his arrival in February. (But I'll confess I didn't post as much as I should have for a long time after I started.).

Then again, to be fair, if I had been attacked by someone with a taser -- who somehow missed? -- I might not be able to calmly relate what happened.

In any case, I love the video in her ad; she gives off sort of a mild tranny vibe (anyone else get that?) while wearing those oh-so-sexy steel-toed boots.

[Lothar22]

Oh boy boredom an BP is so much fun. I periodically browse other cities that I have the potential to visit just to get familiar with some of ladies that I may dream about when I visit. Saw this add and almost spit my coffee out on my monitor LOL that first pic.

http://kentucky.backpage.com/FemaleE...tcall/10631624

[Kean19]

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...ideo/34688443.

I wrote a review for her last week but for some reason it wasn't posted. Anyway I I saw her on Saturday may 21 in the morning. Texted first for the rates and location. Once in the parking lot I had to call, she asked what car am I in and gave me the room #. I asked for quick session which was. 6. Placed the money on the dresser and before I even took my pants of she had the condom unwrapped, so I asked what's the 1. 0 special. It's 30 min she said, so I paid the difference but she didn't put the condom away, she just put it on and started with CBJ for a minute or two, then asked if am ready. Did mish for couple minutes then doggy and when I was popping she pushed me away. So I had to finish myself. I was done in less then 10 min. When I asked what are we going to do with the rest of the time she said that I can stay and chill without even looking at me just playing on her phone. She didn't let me even touch her pussy, said she doesn't like to be touched down there. Pictures are her she's good looking and has nice body but I will not see her again.

[StanleyStankas]

Can you make that story a little more comprehensive?

Haven't a cllue what actually happened. How about. 1. 2. 3. 4. I did this, then that, again.

Tx.

[Jim154]

http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs...pecial/5056813

Two part question. Anybody have experience with this one?

Having never seen a BP provider before I need to ask if the ad donation is all that is expected or should I be prepared to tip on top of it. This is an independent. If it was a parlor or spa I know what to do but this is an independent.

Compelling ad but not very accurate. She may have at one time in her life looked similar to those pictures but not so today. She is much heavier and thicker. The measurements she advertised aren't even close. The top measurement yes. Beautiful tits and let's you play with them all you want. Good massage and a very good HE but I went in thinking about those pics and the measurements. Very chatty, very nice and fun but IMO overpriced.

[Mannheim]

This asshole:

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...alous/37162938

Hello no. Never again. I had an experience with this one that was brutal and violent after she tried to forcefully come inside and use a taser on me. Thank goodness I was unharmed and she had no backup, though to be honest I'm confused why there wasn't any soft of retaliation. The situation was weird and I never wanted any part of what showed up, but once that foot was in the door, she did not take a single step back, trying to assuage me (like hell she's in the car), suspiciously trying to convince me to "scope the place", and demanding more donations to go away while trying to redirect my attention at every turn (fake money?) to make her move. I don't have anyone else to tell, so all I have to say is good luck folks. I have been picking up some providers here and there, and I think I will post more often to get more cred. Not knowing almost got me.

Can you make that story a little more comprehensive?

[Glen60]

After a disappointing experience the other day with Summer, Erica came through today, big time. Just about the time you think you have found your ATF in this pleasure business, along comes another to dispel that feeling. Such was the case with this cute, tiny spinner. Staying at a 5* hotel, when I walked into her room, she immediately slipped into my arms with a big hug and kiss, stirring up inner feelings. She is probably 10 years older than posted, but is a diminutive cougar, MILF type that exudes sexuality, with that come "fuck me" look. She also has a wonderful personality and had no qualms with my exploring every nook and cranny of that hot body. She has many reviews and will make a point to see her every times she visits here.

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...42471/36358034

[Slugga P]

This asshole:

http://chicago.backpage.com/FemaleEs...alous/37162938

Hello no. Never again. I had an experience with this one that was brutal and violent after she tried to forcefully come inside and use a taser on me. Thank goodness I was unharmed and she had no backup, though to be honest I'm confused why there wasn't any soft of retaliation. The situation was weird and I never wanted any part of what showed up, but once that foot was in the door, she did not take a single step back, trying to assuage me (like hell she's in the car), suspiciously trying to convince me to "scope the place", and demanding more donations to go away while trying to redirect my attention at every turn (fake money?) to make her move. I don't have anyone else to tell, so all I have to say is good luck folks. I have been picking up some providers here and there, and I think I will post more often to get more cred. Not knowing almost got me.

I'm having a hard time understanding what happened.

[Glen60]

Can you copy and paste the relevant contents here? It is making me go through hoops before allowing me to read your review.

Once you get to site, it only takes 2 more clicks to get to review, for those wishing to see. In essence, she was a Big time time waster, and only wanting to alert any mongers thinking of seeing her, to be aware.