Strip Club Reports

[Pussylicker2]

I'm kinda eager to try point 2, let me try and report back.

Be sure to take a handful of napkins with you.

... Maybe I have to try without curtains, and this may be a new experience for me.

I liked the clubs that just had one big room that everyone would share.

I'm used to asking if I can touch tats only during dances. Some say 'yes' some say 'no'.

This is why most experienced mongers always negotiate with the girl EVERYTHING you want to do in the back BEFORE you go back. I can't imagine a girl saying no to that request if you ask her at your table before you go back. In the back your request might catch them off guard. When you're at the table talking, you could say something like "tattoos on girls really turn me on. I get excited by them, and I love to touch them. If we go to the VIP, would you mind if I touched your tattoos while I jack off?

... BTW, is it ok to discuss with girl about my "fantasies" since I've been under the impression that it may sound rude and don't want to offend girls by discussing them.

That depends on what your fantasies are. If you fantasize about sex with animals, keeping a woman in a cage, or you day dream about hurting people, that would be considered creepy. But if you have pretty tame fantasies, that would be all right. If you're not sure if it's too creepy or not, you could ask the forum.

[RaviFrequent]

You enjoy touching tattoos? I guess if that works for you, good on yuh!

Anyway, you just need to tell the chick what you want and what your limits are. I do that before the session begins,
and ask her what she's comfortable with and her limits. After that, it seems, I never have any issues with upsell bullshit.
Give that a try anywhere you like. It has worked well for me at BT's in Dearborn. Happy hunting.

Yes, I will ask girl about her limits and what she is comfy with. I'm used to asking if I can touch tats only during dances.

Some say 'yes' some say 'no'.

I will try Dearborn soon, its little drive from my place, but I'm eager to try this place.

[RaviFrequent]

I almost think you're mocking us, and I should call "Poe's Law". But, I know I go back and get worked up and ask about BBFS, and some of the girls do it. So I know what you mean about being weak. Regardless of what you discuss before you get in the back room, once you're in the back room, you could always say "will you suck my dick for an extra $50 (or $100 or whatever), and most girls will smile and start sucking. I have several ideas for you.

1) Are you worried about getting a hand job from a girl? Hand jobs can be great, and they're more economical. The girls like them too.

2) How about you touch her tats while you chock your own chicken (I. E. , jack off)? Tell her before you go back that you want to do that and get a fixed price.

3) If you don't like the above 2 suggestions, I'd suggest you go to clubs that don't have curtains. Then you can't get extras even if you want.

The main thing is to tell the girl what you want to do, and ask her for a price. Even if you're at a club with no curtains, if you're chatting it up with a girl, tell her how it turns you on to touch a girls tats, and look for her reaction. Since your requirements are so much easier to fulfill than those of most perverts who frequent the club (and talk about it on forums like this), I think she'll be happy to be a good performer for you.

Even though the girls "only" make $20 / song, they don't have to gargle or douche after, so they like clean dances too.

Tell us how it works our for you!

I'm worried about point 1 since during HJ request, there is a possibility of girl spitting on my chicken to loosen it up. Haha. BTW I don't.

Think this will be even necessary for me, since I take dances, only when I'm wet and lubricated enough along with condoms on to avoid any.

Spill off on my inner garments. This is to primarily avoid any body fluids exchange ie. , vaginal and saliva. Should I be worried about.

Sweat exchange from dancers during my lap dances??

Since normally they sometimes dance back-to-back and are most of times sweating. I know I'm kinda sounding weird about sweat.

But hey, I don't want to repent later for some temporary fun which I have during lap dance moments. I suppose you understand what.

I mean.

I'm kinda eager to try point 2, let me try and report back.

On point 3, I want to have some privacy during dances and have been going to clubs with curtains. Maybe I have to try without.

Curtains, and this may be a new experience for me. I will have this only list.

BTW, is it ok to discuss with girl about my "fantasies" since I've been under the impression that it may sound rude and don't want to.

Offend girls by discussing them.

[RaviFrequent]

I wouldn't know of any way to actually identify the girls that you're looking for. I mean, every club in the metro area is basically a brothel and I've never been to any of them where extras aren't available with pretty much every girl there. I do know there are girls who do "regular" dances for guys, apparently like the type you want, for whatever reasons. Whether it's fear of disease or maybe the guys feel like they're being unfaithful to their wives or girlfriends if they do anything more.

Anyway, since you're paying the per dance fee or whatever you negotiate, I can't imagine the girls would have any problem at all with just doing regular dances with light touching. Why is it an issue to tell them before you go back that you just want regular dances and not to mention or offer extras? That seems to be a very simple solution to you problem.

I agree with your comment that I can talk upfront with the girl about my requirements.

If girl is capable of doing extras I don't want to end up in a situation that she agrees for bareback stuffs.

Even though we agreed for dance only.

I want to make sure that even during my weakest moments during dances, the girl will not / never provide extra's and this way, even.

If I want to have some extra fun with girl and if it crosses my mind, this will never happen since the girl will never provide to me.

This way. I don't want to end up in a BareBack / FS situations which exposes body fluids during extras.

[Incognito1234]

Even though the girls "only" make $20 / song, they don't have to gargle or douche after, so they like clean dances too.

LOL! Just in case you're ever wondering why there's a rush on mouthwash at the 7-11's, near the clubs.

[Warpig2000]

I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.

Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?

Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.

Toychest was mentioned earlier, I think another Detroit club that has no extras would be Bouzoukis. Open VIP room and no extras but a lot of grindage. Kind of a throwback to the pre 2000 days.

Bouzoukis is in Downtown Detroit next to the Greektown Casino.

Also, there is a run down little hole in the wall in Mt. Clemens called the Traffic Light. No VIP room, Lap Dances are $15 and are out in the open in the booths along the wall of the club.

Its pretty much a dive with a gravel parking lot, but they are known for having great burgers during lunch- if you're out in Macomb County this one would probably be a winner.

Good Luck and hope you find what you want, I think most of the discussion here is going to be the clubs where guys are looking for the extras.

[Pussylicker2]

I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.

Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?

Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.

I almost think you're mocking us, and I should call "Poe's Law". But, I know I go back and get worked up and ask about BBFS, and some of the girls do it. So I know what you mean about being weak. Regardless of what you discuss before you get in the back room, once you're in the back room, you could always say "will you suck my dick for an extra $50 (or $100 or whatever), and most girls will smile and start sucking. I have several ideas for you.

1) Are you worried about getting a hand job from a girl? Hand jobs can be great, and they're more economical. The girls like them too.

2) How about you touch her tats while you chock your own chicken (I. E. , jack off)? Tell her before you go back that you want to do that and get a fixed price.

3) If you don't like the above 2 suggestions, I'd suggest you go to clubs that don't have curtains. Then you can't get extras even if you want.

The main thing is to tell the girl what you want to do, and ask her for a price. Even if you're at a club with no curtains, if you're chatting it up with a girl, tell her how it turns you on to touch a girls tats, and look for her reaction. Since your requirements are so much easier to fulfill than those of most perverts who frequent the club (and talk about it on forums like this), I think she'll be happy to be a good performer for you.

Even though the girls "only" make $20 / song, they don't have to gargle or douche after, so they like clean dances too.

Tell us how it works our for you!

[ALotNohsin]

I see a lot of you go to bogarts or H8, these clubs seems popular on this thread. I have never been to any of these. My personal favorites are coli, PH, players. Obviously because of the dancer quality. How do these clubs compare to my favorites? Dancer quality and club environment. Also suggest any other clubs with similar quality to my favorites.

[Tommy101]

This ashley you are all talking about, would she happen to be of mixed ethniticity with apot leaf tattoo on her back?

[Tom70]

I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light TOUCHING OF TATS (emphasis added) only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.

Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?

Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.

You enjoy touching tattoos? I guess if that works for you, good on yuh!

Anyway, you just need to tell the chick what you want and what your limits are. I do that before the session begins, and ask her what she's comfortable with and her limits. After that, it seems, I never have any issues with upsell bullshit. Give that a try anywhere you like. It has worked well for me at BT's in Dearborn. Happy hunting.

[Deepcover]

Ask her if she does extras when you start talking if she says no then say great because you only want dances and not to be pressured into extras. All the clubs have dancers who don't do extras. Good luck and have fun.

Try TOYCHEST in Dearborn. No curtains, extras are very rare.

[Incognito1234]

So, tonight (Monday) I went and saw Ashley at Henry's North. She was very much sober and said that had only one drink and was still clean from the drugs. Apparently, after her ex died, it jolted her enough to get herself clean and in a better place. Honestly, I believe that it has and that she's very serious and committed to the life change.

Anyway, we talked for a bit and she was telling me about her boyfriend. They've been dating about a month but he's VERY jealous. He obviously knows that she's a dancer and she tells him that she just does regular dances. I guess she told him that she did differently in the past but that she doesn't anymore. After a bit more conversation, we went to the VIP.

Just as we got back there, the phone rang. She said "shhhhh" and started talking to him while we're in the room. They start arguing and she's telling him that she's just with a regular and doing regular dances and that she wouldn't lie to him. He was telling her that he was going to come up there and so on and so on. I seriously considered leaving the VIP, because I figured it would be my luck that I'd be pumping away and the curtain would open and her boyfriend would start attacking me, all while I was half dressed. When I pointed that out to her, she said "He ain't coming up here, I'm sure". Well, we did our normal deed (BBBJ, CG, RCG and K9) but I chose to be faster than usual, because of the scenario I just mentioned.

Anyway, while we were getting our clothes back together, she was telling me about him. She kept saying that he's Mexican and crazy, that he's young and carries a gun and had spent some time in prison. He's extremely jealous (obviously) and I get the impression that he's mean to her. When I asked her why she was be with someone like that, she said "I like the bad boys, I like the ones that tell me to shut the fuck up and that I'm being a *****". She said I don't know why I like bad boys but I do. Truthfully, I'm amazed. Oh yeah, despite his extreme jealousy and constant tracking her, apparently, he's a loser. She told me that he has no job and that it's not like he's bringing any money in.

Even though he may not be visually able to verify that she's still doing the same as she always has, I can't imagine that he's that much of a fool, regardless of what she's telling him. I don't know what to say about all of this. Maybe watch your back? From the sounds of it, it sounds like he may be the type to just kind of hide in the club to spy on her and then follow someone out to harass them after they've been in the back with her.

Quite honestly, this makes me think twice about going in the back with her again, while she's still with this guy. Crazy boyfriends carrying guns are wild cards and you never know what they're capable of.

Additionally, I've been told that Tia has a "habit" and I was very surprised to hear that. She just didn't strike me as the type but I wouldn't know unless it was painfully obvious. When I mentioned that my last trip to the back with Tia included upselling, I was told that she's been known to do that.

[Incognito1234]

I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.

Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?

Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.

I wouldn't know of any way to actually identify the girls that you're looking for. I mean, every club in the metro area is basically a brothel and I've never been to any of them where extras aren't available with pretty much every girl there. I do know there are girls who do "regular" dances for guys, apparently like the type you want, for whatever reasons. Whether it's fear of disease or maybe the guys feel like they're being unfaithful to their wives or girlfriends if they do anything more.

Anyway, since you're paying the per dance fee or whatever you negotiate, I can't imagine the girls would have any problem at all with just doing regular dances with light touching. Why is it an issue to tell them before you go back that you just want regular dances and not to mention or offer extras? That seems to be a very simple solution to you problem.

[Shelby65]

Ask her if she does extras when you start talking if she says no then say great because you only want dances and not to be pressured into extras. All the clubs have dancers who don't do extras. Good luck and have fun.

I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.

Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?

Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.

[RaviFrequent]

I frequent clubs when I get time and try to stay myself with dances only and maybe light touching of tats only. I sometimes get so attracted to for some sexy dancers that I'm worried that I may give into their requests for any extras and worried I may catch some infections or something from them.

Are there any clubs and dancers who will not hint or discuss extras and will not offer these extras during lap dances?

Any advice from seniors here on how to identify girls of these types since I done want to say 'ok' during my weak moments.