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[Amateur11]

I'll chime in and give my two cents as most know my post are about Asian pussy on the massage board. At the beginning of every year I get 5 or 6 $50 Visa cards and distribute them to a very few select girls at a selective time. Why Visa? Why not just cash, because my cash gets stuffed with everybody's cash and my tip is forgotten before I can get a mile down the road, But when she see's the Visa card and spends it she remembers who that tip came from. Since I usually deal with Asians I pass these out around Christmas but especially Feb. 8 . This is the Chinese New Year, this is a huge Holliday for them. Like I said it is with someone that I've known and not just here for a few months. I always wait to give it to her right before I walk out the door, so this is the last memory she has of me. Of course I give her the regular tip but the card is one hell of an investment for future visits, Will this work with American BP girls? Maybe but like I said you need to be very selective the Chinese take a sign of respect and compliment serious it's all in the timing and delivery. Oops giving away my secrets.

What is this, a fucking Chinese restaurant? The advertised price is the price the get, unless I negotiate a discount, which I often do. My goal is to see a new chick every time, if I like her, I'll see her 2-3 times more, and that's it. I can get "regular sex" and "tried and true" at home. This is about variety.


Do you think my clients tip me? No, they try to jew the price down every fucking time. Tipping. You are just inflating these girls' egos and making average pussy think it is a pornstar, which leads to newbie "good catches" becoming attitude-laden "YMMV, wasn't the same as last time" situations that EVERYONE HERE complains about.

PS edit: If you really feel the need to donate gift cards as "tips," you should donate them to the Salvation Army and get a tax writeoff.

PS edit #2: I am always respectful, always smell good, always do my part to not be selfish but to also not drag the encounter out needlessly, and I'm attractive, so maybe I can get away with more than the average Dick, but I mean...........come on. This is SEX. The goal is a hot hole that comes with as little drama and danger as possible. If you're trying to wife one of these girls, if you're trying to find a mattress therapist to confide your troubles in, you should be spending your "tip" money on QUALITY PURSUITS or professional matchmakers, not Backpage hookers

[Sobe69]

Any info on these two? I'm in the mood for a double whopper tonight LOL.

Anna.

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...-guys/26193756

Gabriela.

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[Crtchadialhntr]

Appreciate it. The problem is that she continues to daily contact me for about a week now. Also, I wasn't trying to talk her down. She quoted a price that I did not have on me at the time. I was not trying to talk her down. I think it is their body and we should honor their prices. She just suddenly dropped her price and has stuck with it. That seems to come off as desperate to me. Desperation makes me nervous in light of some of the reports of track marks. Personally I do everything covered for safety, and I am not so naive to think there is no risk involved. Needle come with a higher probability of disease though. All of those things combined have my spider sense going off. Just wondering what others might think before I pull the trigger or holster my gun.

I said I wasn't trying to criticize you but let me elaborate. Your post actually just touched on a point that I had been thinking about for a while now. From the number of responses it seems like a good topic for discussion. Just let me say the negotiating thing wasn't directed at you personally but it seemed a good time to breech the subject.

I have had a couple providers over text me trying to get me to make an appointment. Usually AFTER the first appointment so who could blame them, hehe. I don't think she is desperate but merely following a lead, sales 101. Always go with your gut! But, you obviously like her looks and she wants you to come see her. If the tracks are a deal breaker ignore her and she will drop you. That's a personal call. It wouldn't stop me but I would be 100% safe. Please post if you do see her.

Good luck!

[JoeFral]

Guys have been out of the hobby for a little while and forgot my logon I'd and password so I had to create a new one. Anyway I contacted Amber and she is back in.

Business. It is good to see she is back, she is one of few reliable ladies out there. I will keep you posted on how it goes.

[XHippie]

In my experience, when a tip is given it is NEVER forgotten. Especially if it's larger than normal.

Agree, when the excellent service deserves a special tip and both remember the experience and the cash is only part of the equation, this is the sweet spot of this game.

[Ronnor]

At the beginning of every year I get 5 or 6 $50 Visa cards and distribute them to a very few select girls at a selective time. Why Visa? Why not just cash, because my cash gets stuffed with everybody's cash and my tip is forgotten before I can get a mile down the road, But when she see's the Visa card and spends it she remembers who that tip came from.

In my experience, when a tip is given it is NEVER forgotten. Especially if it's larger than normal.

[Ronnor]

Advertises in Bodyrub section, no picture. I text her about her hh rate and ask her to send picture. Her response was "I don't do half hours. Fuck Off. " lol http://raleigh.backpage.com/BodyRubs...emale/24726941.

[XHippie]

I generally don't tip since you really never know what you're going to get beyond their own price they've given for the service. Sure, it may work and you get a GFE experience of a lifetime, but more often than not, they're attitude is set before you even walked in the door, and they're going to be a good provider or they're not. Someone recently mentioned that curvy blonde MILF who consistently tries to up-sell after you've agreed to a price and paid the donation. Imagine what she'd do if you'd already tipped her a bit more in hopes of good service? In that scenario, you still won't get what you want and the up-selling won't stop. My advice is to generally avoid tipping for yourself, and for the rest of us. Make a deal, stick with it, and dive in.

But each to their own. Just my take on it.

I'll chime in and give my two cents as most know my post are about Asian pussy on the massage board. At the beginning of every year I get 5 or 6 $50 Visa cards and distribute them to a very few select girls at a selective time. Why Visa? Why not just cash, because my cash gets stuffed with everybody's cash and my tip is forgotten before I can get a mile down the road, But when she see's the Visa card and spends it she remembers who that tip came from. Since I usually deal with Asians I pass these out around Christmas but especially Feb. 8 . This is the Chinese New Year, this is a huge Holliday for them. Like I said it is with someone that I've known and not just here for a few months. I always wait to give it to her right before I walk out the door, so this is the last memory she has of me. Of course I give her the regular tip but the card is one hell of an investment for future visits, Will this work with American BP girls? Maybe but like I said you need to be very selective the Chinese take a sign of respect and compliment serious it's all in the timing and delivery. Oops giving away my secrets.

[Pubb69]

I generally don't tip since you really never know what you're going to get beyond their own price they've given for the service. Sure, it may work and you get a GFE experience of a lifetime, but more often than not, they're attitude is set before you even walked in the door, and they're going to be a good provider or they're not. Someone recently mentioned that curvy blonde MILF who consistently tries to up-sell after you've agreed to a price and paid the donation. Imagine what she'd do if you'd already tipped her a bit more in hopes of good service? In that scenario, you still won't get what you want and the up-selling won't stop. My advice is to generally avoid tipping for yourself, and for the rest of us. Make a deal, stick with it, and dive in.

But each to their own. Just my take on it.

Most girls set there rates at at an odd number so when you withdraw money at an even number they get the extra 10.

Never bother to get change so I leave it. Not once have they stayed longer or offered thanks.

[Rectumrocket]

I have not seen her so this is just general opinion. I agree her photos are really hot, I have wanted to see her myself but everytime I have time she only offers outcall. From what others have posted about her it sounds like she may get mostly one timers and not much repeat. That can mean something or nothing. If she needs money for room or whatever you will start getting those calls and it would not put me off personally, just a sales call.

On talking provider down on price. Lots of people do it but it has always seemed like a bad move to me. A hot girl is going to agree to let you be with her without ever setting eyes on you, what's that worth to you? The price she sets is what she values herself at or what she needs to get by. If you save 20 or 40 dollars is it really worth it? She now sees you as cheap, you have told her essentially she isn't worth what she thinks she is. How good a time do you think she will be after that? Did you save 20 dollars or waste the hundred you gave her for the visit? Some providers really aren't worth what they ask, I just don't contact them.

Not criticizing you for looking for a deal. Lots of people do. Just my opinion.

Appreciate it. The problem is that she continues to daily contact me for about a week now. Also, I wasn't trying to talk her down. She quoted a price that I did not have on me at the time. I was not trying to talk her down. I think it is their body and we should honor their prices. She just suddenly dropped her price and has stuck with it. That seems to come off as desperate to me. Desperation makes me nervous in light of some of the reports of track marks. Personally I do everything covered for safety, and I am not so naive to think there is no risk involved. Needle come with a higher probability of disease though. All of those things combined have my spider sense going off. Just wondering what others might think before I pull the trigger or holster my gun.

[Triptogamont]

I generally don't tip since you really never know what you're going to get beyond their own price they've given for the service. Sure, it may work and you get a GFE experience of a lifetime, but more often than not, they're attitude is set before you even walked in the door, and they're going to be a good provider or they're not. Someone recently mentioned that curvy blonde MILF who consistently tries to up-sell after you've agreed to a price and paid the donation. Imagine what she'd do if you'd already tipped her a bit more in hopes of good service? In that scenario, you still won't get what you want and the up-selling won't stop. My advice is to generally avoid tipping for yourself, and for the rest of us. Make a deal, stick with it, and dive in.

But each to their own. Just my take on it.

Interesting reading, and I appreciate the shared viewpoints.

I have never tipped, because I only ever bring the exact donation in an envelope. Basically for safety reasons in case of rob / pimp / whatever. At some point, I might have to revisit my methods, but so far, they've worked out ok. Knock on wood.

[Triptogamont]

Absolutely SPOT. ON, sir.

I always keep in mind that these women are mothers, sisters, cousins, etc. And they are sharing time and their bodies with me (after light screening but NO medical screening), for a fair amount of money. If I call and think that their price is too high, I don't even comment. I make up another excuse for not seeing them just because it is THEIR prerogative to set THEIR price for THEIR goodies. I won't even argue with them. They just aren't for me at that moment. Let's all keep our wits about us but still have some compassion for them, especially the ones who are genuinely nice.

If rate is not posted and then I get it via text / call and it is too high, I tell them that the rate is more than I have budgeted for play time. I think these ladies need to know that they are losing cash because they are charging too much. I don't haggle, because that just makes both of us think I'm a cheap ass. But I have had a few ladies immediately reduce their rate and gone on to have a good time.

If rate is posted and it's above my budget, I just don't call them.

Good luck out there!

[PangShalom]

I don't haggle on price. I stay away from the girls who are less than $. They typically aren't the girl in the picture. I try to put myself in the girls shoes. They got to pay for hotel, sometimes pimp, hair, nails, clothes. And I benefit from all of that. I like hot girls and no problems and I'm going to pay the price for that type of service. I may give an extra 20 or 40 but I usually don't have to. I never go over my time, finish earlier than my time mostly.

Also a good point. More often than not I do not, just depends on situation. A good girl in need is senario I am most likely to pay above on. Also in doing it you run risk of driving up her prices "if he paid it others will".

I never do up sales with the exception of Roxy who offered something not always available, but that was money well spent.

Anybody else read ads where girl claims to be upscale and misread it as upsale? Maybe just me.

[Crtchadialhntr]

I generally don't tip since you really never know what you're going to get beyond their own price they've given for the service. Sure, it may work and you get a GFE experience of a lifetime, but more often than not, they're attitude is set before you even walked in the door, and they're going to be a good provider or they're not. Someone recently mentioned that curvy blonde MILF who consistently tries to up-sell after you've agreed to a price and paid the donation. Imagine what she'd do if you'd already tipped her a bit more in hopes of good service? In that scenario, you still won't get what you want and the up-selling won't stop. My advice is to generally avoid tipping for yourself, and for the rest of us. Make a deal, stick with it, and dive in.

But each to their own. Just my take on it.

Also a good point. More often than not I do not, just depends on situation. A good girl in need is senario I am most likely to pay above on. Also in doing it you run risk of driving up her prices "if he paid it others will".

I never do up sales with the exception of Roxy who offered something not always available, but that was money well spent.

Anybody else read ads where girl claims to be upscale and misread it as upsale? Maybe just me.

[Vossen]

I've been talking to her and she seems legit and like she is a little more together than the average BP girl. Just want to see if anyone has a reason not to spend the money. I searched the forum but came up empty. Google is quiet as well.

http://raleigh.backpage.com/FemaleEs...tment/26035010

Holy shit! That makes 2 girls I went to high School with are now on BP; only this one I actually fucked in high school. These pics are definitely docktored but its here. I'm I'm not mistaken she is friends with Baby. I wonder if that's how she got into this.