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[Lomion]

And that crap about ". All women are providers. Trading resources for sex. " Yeah, that shit is archaic and laughable. The reason why some guys feel like this is low self esteem. They can't even imagine that a woman would be with them just because she wanted to, or that she had sex because she wanted it. They feel that a woman only wants to be with them if they're giving something in return like dinners or jewelry. Who knows, maybe in your case it's true?.

Well Macko69 if you are one of the few gifted men in the world that gets sex regularly and repeatedly without spending a dime on women you are a better than 99% of us because I haven't met a man in my life (outside an occasional random one night stand or hook-up) that has managed to pull a woman without spending cash on her whether that is dinner, flowers, a ring, groceries, the electric bill, primary earner marriage, etc. Women are hypergamy by nature (well documented in human sexuality literature) and as the old saying goes "What do you call a unemployed woman, a housewife. What do you call an unemployed man, deadbeat and soon to be divorced" or if you've been married and your wife works the modern feminist version (female voice) "My money is my money, your money is my money. What the fuck do I need a man for if I'm giving him my money. ". Outside rare matriarchal poor cultures (inner city black families, some Micronesia islands, etc) a broke homeless man with no job and no resources ain't getting laid. It's also why cultures which have practiced polygamy are usually more violent because the dudes with the resources monopolize all the women leaving broke young dudes horny as hell and a need to "go to war" to both burn off that pent up love and get additional resources (so they can come back and get a chick). Fundamental rule of nature across most species is "Males display, Females choose". Humans ain't no different. Sure your girlfriend may love you more than your moke bruddah for reasons consciously unrelated to resources but it's there whether they will admit it or not. Stop spending a dime on your girl or even better, quit your job and ask her to support you for the next twenty years, and see how long your relationship lasts. Ever dealt with family law much? You want to see a insanely pissed woman, find one of the few cases where they are forced to pay the man alimony.

Sorry brah but hell will freeze over before you find me a significant number of men, over his lifetime, that has received more in resources from a woman that he spent on them and ditto the inverse. That goes for you also.

And don't confuse why people move to Hawaii with the culture which you imply. You could kill every last man, woman, and child on this island and within five to ten years it would be fully repopulated. Folk move here nowadays for the climate, geography, money laundering, surf, hype, and high East Asian population. Not the musubis and mokes.

[DickTracy25]

I praise you too if you have DD breast and pussy between your legs.

The ironic thing is you bash us old goats, but you praise Hana, who is even older than we are.

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[John Ross]

Hana is back teaming up with her sister Ann once again at PC Bonita. We all know she got games, just name it. With her new DD boobs, she is good to go.

The ironic thing is you bash us old goats, but you praise Hana, who is even older than we are.

[H Mobius]

True that. It would appear that more than one "celeb" has been spotted in an AMP. Poor guys. Me, I'm just a caveman (a term coined by Mr. HM) who can blend into the walls quite nicely. These poor guys are recognized everywhere they go.

Ss.

They should be wearing caps backwards or sideways and shades, like some mongers I've seen in the CC lobby.

Junk thing about looking like a caveman is the druggies ask for 420 or clear.

[Shipshape]

That observation would probably be censored in a Frank DeLima's act. That material might be for more for an Augie's audience.

True that. It would appear that more than one "celeb" has been spotted in an AMP. Poor guys. Me, I'm just a caveman (a term coined by Mr. HM) who can blend into the walls quite nicely. These poor guys are recognized everywhere they go.

Ss.

[Memahu]

If it's who I think he is referring to, then your speculation is WAY off not to mention your generalization about local girls.

Ss.

That observation would probably be censored in a Frank DeLima's act. That material might be for more for an Augie's audience.

[Realdeal808]

No we don't do real names because of illegal activities, not for embarrassment. I talk about exploits with girls past the statute of limitations all the time under my real name on Facebook. I truly don't care outside LEO who knows I monger. I've talked about my past illegal drug use openly also, this shit not bother me. I'm just not one to give a rats ass about what folk do on their personal time. It's like gay marriage WTF do I care, they ain't making me marry a man. If my mom is interested who I paid to suck me off ten minutes ago she is free to ask and I would tell her. I don't get this shame crap over mongering, after all all girls are providers, some you just have to pay for with a ring or dinner. Either way you trading resources for sex.

But all that irrelevant to the fact people can't stand to have a two minute elevator conversation in CC over who you both just fucked.

I think you answered your own question without even knowing it. You state you are reluctant to share your real name since you are talking about illegal activity. That in itself should answer your question as to why people don't want to be seen or carry on a convo with you. It may not necessarily have to do with shame. YOU may not give a rat's ass whether others know about your activities, but the other guy may have way more to lose than you. It's a matter of each individual's circumstances. For example, the guy you see in the elevator may have a prominent position where a public outing of his activities would lead to his demise career-wise or in his community standing. Now YOU may not out him but how would he know that? Safer for the guy to ignore everyone he comes in contact with at the establishment. If you can't understand that then something's wrong.

[Shipshape]

There are local celebrites who have local asian wives. Maybe these wives have too much tita in them. You can't take the tita out of a girl who was born and raised in Hawaii. He just wanted a more softer Asian woman from Asia from time to time.

If it's who I think he is referring to, then your speculation is WAY off not to mention your generalization about local girls.

Ss.

[DickTracy25]

Yes, that is what happen when you " Getting Old", no can't fuck princess with a limp dick, can see he is frustrated, that is why he comes here to lay his two cents. Keep on trolling fool, carry on!

[Memahu]

I once ran into a local TV sports commentator in the hallway of Rose Marie going to a room with a Korean provider. He had a towel over his head to hide himself, but I recognize him and later asked my provider if indeed he worked for the local TV station, she said he comes often. He probably not getting any from the wife and not my business to be concern about.

There are local celebrites who have local asian wives. Maybe these wives have too much tita in them. You can't take the tita out of a girl who was born and raised in Hawaii. He just wanted a more softer Asian woman from Asia from time to time.

[Memahu]

So let me state one thing I really can't stand about this state is this inferiority complex everybody whose local seems to have about "us v. Mainland" and how they take everything as an attack, etc. Like it or not Hawaii is part of America and has been part of America for longer than it was Hawaii.

You can find inferiority complex at every town in the USA. You can't go into any town in the USA and try to pick up a local girl there without a bunch of local guys wanting to fight you. They will use the fake being a victim of "YOU THINK YOU BETTER THAN ME" as a battlecry to gang up and false crack you. Get same smell all ovah da country.

[Larry Hoover]

Ah, I see what's going on now. You try to chat up some dude in an elevator after you both mongered at the same place and he gave you the cold shoulder and it hurt your feelings. It could very well be that he wasn't ashamed. After all, how the fuck would you know what he was thinking? You probably came on too strong and he wasn't liking the vibe you put out so he was trying to ignore you.

So you're open to all sorts of people in your life knowing you monger. Good for you. But if you are unable to understand why other guys might not want people to know and tend to be secretive about it, well, that's a sign of immaturity and a lack of imagination on your part that you can't put yourself in someone else's shoes and understand why they'd do this. Sometimes it might be shame. Other times it's about self preservation, as someone mentioned earlier. You don't know.

And that crap about ". All women are providers. Trading resources for sex. " Yeah, that shit is archaic and laughable. The reason why some guys feel like this is low self esteem. They can't even imagine that a woman would be with them just because she wanted to, or that she had sex because she wanted it. They feel that a woman only wants to be with them if they're giving something in return like dinners or jewelry. Who knows, maybe in your case it's true?

Anyway, from your earlier post, it seems you're really disgruntled with life in Hawaii. If you really feel this way, you should probably move. Obviously, people in the USA And around the world don't really share your disdain for Hawaii. People are willing to pay a huge premium to live here because it's pretty fucking awesome to live here. If you can't appreciate it, do yourself a favor and leave.

Even though Lomion rambled, he does have a point about the mindset out here.

[Macko69]

I don't get this shame crap over mongering, after all all girls are providers, some you just have to pay for with a ring or dinner. Either way you trading resources for sex.

But all that irrelevant to the fact people can't stand to have a two minute elevator conversation in CC over who you both just fucked.

Ah, I see what's going on now. You try to chat up some dude in an elevator after you both mongered at the same place and he gave you the cold shoulder so it hurt your feelings. It could very well be that he wasn't ashamed. After all, how the fuck would you know what he was thinking? You probably came on too strong and he wasn't liking the vibe you put out so he was trying to ignore you.

So you're open to all sorts of people in your life knowing you monger. Good for you. But if you are unable to understand why other guys might not want people to know and tend to be secretive about it, well, that's a sign of immaturity and a lack of imagination on your part that you can't put yourself in someone else's shoes and understand why they'd do this. Sometimes it might be shame. Other times it's about self preservation, as someone mentioned earlier. You don't know.

And that crap about ". All women are providers. Trading resources for sex. " Yeah, that shit is archaic and laughable. The reason why some guys feel like this is low self esteem. They can't even imagine that a woman would be with them just because she wanted to, or that she had sex because she wanted it. They feel that a woman only wants to be with them if they're giving something in return like dinners or jewelry. Who knows, maybe in your case it's true?

Anyway, from your earlier post, it seems you're really disgruntled with life in Hawaii. If you really feel this way, you should probably move. Obviously, people in the USA And around the world don't really share your disdain for Hawaii. People are willing to pay a huge premium to live here because it's pretty fucking awesome to live here. If you can't appreciate it, do yourself a favor and leave.

[LiveDieRepeat]

No, the context that you put your comments in weren't limited just to conversations you have at an AMP. Here's what you said in your comment that I originally responded to was this:

You obviously think that people outside of Hawaii openly talk about mongering at work. I doubt that it's as common as you seem to think.

In regards to your comment: "You are both in the hobby so you can count on each other to STFU and not talk about it in polite company. ", I also disagree. Just because someone is in the hobby too doesn't mean they'll have the same beliefs about how discrete they should be. Maybe the other person is single and they don't give a fuck what other people think about them, so they don't mind if everyone knows about their mongering hobby. We all know people like that. I have relatives like that. I don't want someone like that to be telling everyone stories about the time he saw me at Top Spa (or wherever). I have kids. I have a lot of clients who rely on my advice, mostly women. I have aunties, uncles, neighbors and friends who look up to me as a "good boy". I don't want these people to know my sexual proclivities. It's not "crazy paranoid secrecy" like you make it out to be. It's just taking reasonable steps to limit the amount of people who know about my hobby. The less other people know, the less I need to worry about.

I would prefer not to see any other dudes at AMPs, but if I do, oh well, so be it. Yeah, I don't make eye contact or conversation with other guys at AMPs. Why should I look at them and make small talk? I'm not going there to make buddies with other guys.

If you want to be open about it with certain people in your life, good for you. But it's kind of foolish if you can't understand why on an island like Oahu, certain guys like to keep their illegal hobby a secret. Anyone who can't understand that is an idiot.

The one time a guy tried to talk to me outside an AMP, I thought it was weird, I just muttered something non-committal and left. The next time I was there the girls told me he was an undercover LE.

[Lomion]

No we don't do real names because of illegal activities, not for embarrassment. I talk about exploits with girls past the statute of limitations all the time under my real name on Facebook. I truly don't care outside LEO who knows I monger. I've talked about my past illegal drug use openly also, this shit not bother me. I'm just not one to give a rats ass about what folk do on their personal time. It's like gay marriage WTF do I care, they ain't making me marry a man. If my mom is interested who I paid to suck me off ten minutes ago she is free to ask and I would tell her. I don't get this shame crap over mongering, after all all girls are providers, some you just have to pay for with a ring or dinner. Either way you trading resources for sex.

But all that irrelevant to the fact people can't stand to have a two minute elevator conversation in CC over who you both just fucked.