"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Copper Fool]

If I was laying out that kind of money, the woman would be treating me like a full time job.

If I had that kind of disposable income -- I would NOT be using AM!! The guy should be reading this forum!

[MyHobby]

Finally the weather is getting warmer up here in the Northeast and I am trying to come out to the bowl to play again. And especially try to put Hollywood's excellent guide to good use.

I signed up for a 3 day trial period with SD4 M with a $5 prepaid card. We all know this 3 day period runs for about a month after you signed up and they failed to charged your CC.

So I did a quick search for babies between 18-40 within 50 mile radius of my zip code and I've found less than 50 babies that signed up in the past 2 week.

What happened to SD4 M? Are they doing that bad these days? Babies don't sign up to that site anymore?

I am going to sign up for SA next, if I can't find anything on SD4 M.

I think we fish in the same pond and I've always found SA to have a better selection even tho in the past I've met some gems on SD4 ME.

[JeffpPSeet]

I am in Hartford area.

Sent you a pm, Hartford area, please check your inbox. I am in CT once or twice a week.

[Member #5055]

If I had that kind of disposable income -- I would NOT be using AM!! The guy should be reading this forum!

http://www.cleveland.com/court-justi...s_pimp_tr.html

[DogSun]

http://www.cleveland.com/court-justi...s_pimp_tr.html

[Mike7794]

I keep it honest, but have my pics on private.

[Member #5144]

I have real pics -- I am married -- but have them on p rivate. I used to only email them upon request, but found; many women would not bother to take that extra step just to make sure I was not fugly.

In my case, I live in a small town, so anything here would have to be duriing business hours with SB hosting.

I also travel to major cities monthly and am targeting women there too.

In general I made it clear I am not looking to date. No dinners out on the town, spending the day together -- just NSA fun if the chemistry is right, which I ahve been able to establish simply by message / email adn maybe a phone call.

They know what I want and those willing to go for such a casual arrangement reply. Those looking for a long term thing and allowance don't contact me and I don't bother selling something to them they are not in the market for.

[FTP1999]

I am probably going to renew my SA membership because. Whatever. TMI.

What are some good tips for a good profile?

I know the obvious:

Don't use a real pic.

I have been reading back and I don't see a recent discussion on this.

[Member #5570]

Finally the weather is getting warmer up here in the Northeast and I am trying to come out to the bowl to play again. And especially try to put Hollywood's excellent guide to good use.

I signed up for a 3 day trial period with SD4 M with a $5 prepaid card. We all know this 3 day period runs for about a month after you signed up and they failed to charged your CC.

So I did a quick search for babies between 18-40 within 50 mile radius of my zip code and I've found less than 50 babies that signed up in the past 2 week.

What happened to SD4 M? Are they doing that bad these days? Babies don't sign up to that site anymore?

I am going to sign up for SA next, if I can't find anything on SD4 M.

[HollywoodGuy]

Yes it is and I understand your stance. Good insight there, I was one of those kinds of kids too. Sigh. Yes life is good.

I mean that advice is only if you want to pay less and go more long term with a girl that actually likes you. And the needier a girl is the harder she is going to try in the FC (you would think).

The advantage to paying more or having a GPS girl is you are (maybe) more in control and can get a cuter looking girl but then you got to deal with a lot of fake crying after you leave them. LOL. And there are still no guarantees in the skills dept.

Sometimes I think there is a direct correlation between price and performance. A low price girl thats good knows you are gonna come back again and again, but a high priced girl that knows shes not all that has to get as much as possible because she knows its not going to last. A major generalization for sure. I am more convinced that some girls just dont have a clue if they are any good in the FC or not. I am really mostly talking about the young ones. But thats where most of my experience lies.

[JohnnyTheWad]

My ATF is painfully shy. While I wouldn't care if most girls I see stumbled across this thread (highly unlikely, although a few have). Out of respect for her I would not post risque pics. I have posted some very risque pics of other girls like my current little church girl. In her case making it impossible to identify her due to the camera angles or lighting. But thanks for the compliment. She is my 6 foot spinner fantasy come true.

Which leads me to a somewhat related topic. While I have dated the "brazen hussy" types over the years. It's the painfully shy and loner types that sometimes really rock my world. I always look for some trait in them that I can tell probably caused them some serious grief or made them an outsider in HS and empathize with that to gain their confidence and trust. Having been one of those kids as well I can relate.

These traits could be a lot of things, overly large breasts, very slender, grew up in a neighborhood outside their race, very intelligent, studied dance, classical music or did sports their entire childhood. And many more possibilities. Anything that makes them different enough to stand out to the point of creating an isolated past or envy among their peers to the level of being hated on.

There is nothing hotter than an obviously sexy girl that openly displays her vulnerability in spite of truly wishing that no one would notice. Not the ones that feign shock at the overly aggressive advances from thirsty men. But in a young girl of the former type, because this naturally leads to the need for a strong daddy figure for protection and/or acceptance.

Life is good.

Yes it is and I understand your stance. Good insight there, I was one of those kinds of kids too. Sigh. Yes life is good.

[HollywoodGuy]

Damn HG, why did I not see this before? She is smokin. LOL I can see why you keep her around. If you share even more risque pics, I bet not one monger on here complains. LOL excellent, bro. JTW.

My ATF is painfully shy. While I wouldn't care if most girls I see stumbled across this thread (highly unlikely, although a few have). Out of respect for her I would not post risque pics. I have posted some very risque pics of other girls like my current little church girl. In her case making it impossible to identify her due to the camera angles or lighting. But thanks for the compliment. She is my 6 foot spinner fantasy come true.

Which leads me to a somewhat related topic. While I have dated the "brazen hussy" types over the years. It's the painfully shy and loner types that sometimes really rock my world. I always look for some trait in them that I can tell probably caused them some serious grief or made them an outsider in HS and empathize with that to gain their confidence and trust. Having been one of those kids as well I can relate.

These traits could be a lot of things, overly large breasts, very slender, grew up in a neighborhood outside their race, very intelligent, studied dance, classical music or did sports their entire childhood. And many more possibilities. Anything that makes them different enough to stand out to the point of creating an isolated past or envy among their peers to the level of being hated on.

There is nothing hotter than an obviously sexy girl that openly displays her vulnerability in spite of truly wishing that no one would notice. Not the ones that feign shock at the overly aggressive advances from thirsty men. But in a young girl of the former type, because this naturally leads to the need for a strong daddy figure for protection and/or acceptance.

Life is good.

[JohnnyTheWad]

Here are a few pics I took tonite of my ATF.

Going on 7 months now at least twice a week.

Damn HG, why did I not see this before? She is smokin. LOL I can see why you keep her around. If you share even more risque pics, I bet not one monger on here complains. LOL excellent, bro. JTW.

[HollywoodGuy]

Here are a few pics I took tonite of my ATF.

Going on 7 months now at least twice a week.

[Expresso Jim]

Reminds me of that great line from Updike's classic 60's novel, Run Rabbit Run, "To fuck is human, to be blown devine. ".

A truly great BJ is far more elusive than I'd like it to be. Although, I guess if they were ubiquitous, it would diminish the pleasure a bit whenever one stumbles upon gold.

A great blowjob can be any combination of enthusiastic effort or simply raw talent. I've known girls that seemed to be barely trying, but there was something about their technique and natural amount of suction that just makes it feel sublime.

Aside from the natural talent factor (which of course varies among girls, but tends to remain relatively constant in any one girl over time), a BJ can be an interesting indicator and side effect of what's going through the girl's mind.

A girl who is trying to impress you and establish her worthiness for an ongoing relationship or whatever can be quite a treat when she is giving you her best possible oral effort. Sometimes the psychology behind guiding them down the road of doing so can be almost as fun as the act itself.

Then again sometimes you end up with a fairly uneventful hummer that is little more than foreplay for a bigger event.