"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Bowtie]

Listening is the key, get them to open up and listen to them. None have a perfect life, otherwise they wouldn't be looking. I'm sure there is that perfect baby, and I know I keep on looking for her! Game, yey, been 30 years since I needed that, now I "practice" all the time, SO with me or not. As for cost, if I would take the time to put into a spreadsheet and actually figure the cost per F, backpage or other escort site would be WAY LESS cash, aggrivation and time. Not even close, but I need the emotional connection, its more real than the GFE a lot of guys are hunting. The feeling of a baby opening up her life crying on my shoulder is deep. Makes for incredible experience in the FC, plus I get self satisfaction in helping. Just my thing, but damn it can be trying and requires huge amounts of my energy. Part of my addiction. I'm sure you guys have already seen the richmond site. I've been following for several years now. A MUST READ if you're just getting started in the sugar bowl. Good luck and be safe.

I'd echo this.

When it is good it is really good. Young early 20 something tight shit that, while they still are about a gift, aren't booking 6 other guys a day and hosting out of a notel.

That said, Bowtie's word "flakey" is a good one. There is nothing reliable about 99% of them.

You have to embrace the thrill of the hunt and value the intimacy that comes with this type of thing that isn't available with most traditional pros.

If you can't embrace the thrill of the hunt and find the private time to be markedly better, I suggest just calling the best agency with reliable gals you can afford. The net money spent will be similar maybe a little higher for the agency and you will save a lot of time.

Another consideration is you have to have a little "game" to pull off sugar. You don't have to be great looking or loaded but you do have to talk (& listen) to women. If the last time you civie dated was when you courted your wife 20 years ago you need to dust off your game.

[Steak 404]

Bob, good luck on the juggle, its tough, and from my experience, not easy. The sugar "bowl" is by no means a given, these young ladies are very flakie, and not at all consistant or reliable. This may be driven by location, and potential sugar payout, I don't know. I try to keep 2 or 3 in the mix so my needs are met, even then it can go dry in an instant or be overly time (or $) consuming. As for excuses, I've always worked heavy hours, so that allows me time away, but it does make getting that work done difficult. Give it a try, then if it doesn't work, look for a solid utr. Best of luck, Bowtie.

I'd echo this.

When it is good it is really good. Young early 20 something tight shit that, while they still are about a gift, aren't booking 6 other guys a day and hosting out of a notel.

That said, Bowtie's word "flakey" is a good one. There is nothing reliable about 99% of them.

You have to embrace the thrill of the hunt and value the intimacy that comes with this type of thing that isn't available with most traditional pros.

If you can't embrace the thrill of the hunt and find the private time to be markedly better, I suggest just calling the best agency with reliable gals you can afford. The net money spent will be similar maybe a little higher for the agency and you will save a lot of time.

Another consideration is you have to have a little "game" to pull off sugar. You don't have to be great looking or loaded but you do have to talk (& listen) to women. If the last time you civie dated was when you courted your wife 20 years ago you need to dust off your game.

[Bowtie]

Bob, good luck on the juggle, its tough, and from my experience, not easy. The sugar "bowl" is by no means a given, these young ladies are very flakie, and not at all consistant or reliable. This may be driven by location, and potential sugar payout, I don't know. I try to keep 2 or 3 in the mix so my needs are met, even then it can go dry in an instant or be overly time (or $) consuming. As for excuses, I've always worked heavy hours, so that allows me time away, but it does make getting that work done difficult. Give it a try, then if it doesn't work, look for a solid utr. Best of luck, Bowtie.

Been wanting to step into this type of scene for quite a while because it seems like the ideal setup. My holdup has been the time commitment with trying to juggle a whole other relationship (what with the job and SO taking up so much time). For this reason, I've been hitting the strip clubs for a quick fix when I can get away, but that's a little hit or miss as well, as my favs are flaky about working a set schedule so I'm never guaranteed not to have a wasted visit. Any of you guys with SO or fam or other significant time sink have any suggestions on how you fit this kind of arrangement into your rotation? Thanks for the help.

[Bobbyj29]

Been wanting to step into this type of scene for quite a while because it seems like the ideal setup. My holdup has been the time commitment with trying to juggle a whole other relationship (what with the job and SO taking up so much time). For this reason, I've been hitting the strip clubs for a quick fix when I can get away, but that's a little hit or miss as well, as my favs are flaky about working a set schedule so I'm never guaranteed not to have a wasted visit. Any of you guys with SO or fam or other significant time sink have any suggestions on how you fit this kind of arrangement into your rotation? Thanks for the help.

[PWhipped]

It works for me.

http://coach4ula.wix.com/fivesteps

This is why some of us have good luck and success finding UTR and civvies.

Wet Dreams, PW.

[Steak 404]

As an aside, Richmond of all places has a great forum on Sugar Babies. 9000+ posts and growing. Lots of national (non-Richmond) guys contributing including Hollywood Guy.

Obviously I wouldn't suggest trying to read all 9000 posts but for someone that's new to this and wants to learn I'd say that's a good "RTFF" place to start.

Here's the link http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/sh...mateurs-or-Not.

I've been at this a while and I'd say there's a lot of "how to" wisdom there (mixed, like everywhere on USASG, with a lot of worthless posts) that is a pretty good road map.

[HollywoodGuy]

Some good stuff. Thanks for sharing. I use a variation on that. The most important thing about your system is you have a process and you know where you are going. Guys with sales backgrounds will get this innately. Have a process, control and direct the conversation. Recognize it is a numbers game and you will have to go through a lot of "prospects" to find ones that are worthwhile. As a side note, I'd add that creating the ad or profile and having them respond to you vs. The other way around helps you to drive your process.

On the SD sites I am the aggressor but on CL I let them come to me. In my area on the SD sites the female aggressors are mostly GPS, UTR or below my standards of physical beauty. I aim for the NP first timers (and many times settle for less). But I never settle on my need for exclusivity if a girl wants to become a regular. Also my target audience is 18-25, non-white (usually AA or mixed with a smattering of asian and latina), and spinners (the tighter the better). I aim for the 7/9's (face/body) to conserve on the funds.

[Steak 404]

It works for me.

http://coach4ula.wix.com/fivesteps

Some good stuff. Thanks for sharing. I use a variation on that. The most important thing about your system is you have a process and you know where you are going. Guys with sales backgrounds will get this innately. Have a process, control and direct the conversation. Recognize it is a numbers game and you will have to go through a lot of "prospects" to find ones that are worthwhile. As a side note, I'd add that creating the ad or profile and having them respond to you vs. The other way around helps you to drive your process.

[HollywoodGuy]

It works for me.

http://coach4ula.wix.com/fivesteps

[Steak 404]

I thought I'd start this forum. Seems to be similar sections in other cities for this. I'll define a Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationship broadly. Most of these are not the fairy tale "kept woman" exclusive kind of deal that cost thousands per month. More often the gal gets some "sugar" (gifts, mentorship, cash, a bill paid) and the guy gets some "sugar" from her on a non-exclusive basis.

This forum will be more about sharing best practices and general experiences vs. Reviews. Most of these women are UTR so no posting of any personal info. If you are inclined to share, share the details via PM. That's really it as far as rules go. Oh yeah and don't beg guys to hook you up.

Let's see how this goes. Certainly open to thoughts.