"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[FTP1999]

Brothers,

Can we discuss a bit of how to work with the young ladies of SA?

I am working with a college Sophomore and its taking too much time.

Most of them don't seem to know.

A. What they want, and.

Be. What they are OK doing, like the physical part.

How can we speed this up and conclude sooner, positive or negative?

I am patient but ... need some conclusion.

[Bowtie]

Well, potential replacement is out of the picture. We did the wonderful meet and greet, chatted a bunch every day for about a week but she couldn't get past not knowing my last name. Only 2 even knows my real first name, one after our 1 yr anniversary! I think this one was really looking for a bf. Ill give her a bit to think about it and to maybe sample the compitition, then hit her up again. She was a sweetheart, well put together and intelligent. Not totally giving up on her!

M&G as planned this evening at a nice local bar. Early 30's (oldest baby thus far), 5'4", very well put together. Masters degree, very well spoken, actually talks non stop! Open to any topic and we explored a lot of areas. Looking forward to next meeting, wow, just what I needed to get my mind off of number 1. Walrus, try stepping away from yours for a bit, it may give you another viewpoint.

[Bowtie]

Been chatting with a pretty mixed young lady from one of the sites. Chit chatting to see if we click while I figure out when I can do a m&g, targeting this week. Then out of the blue she asks what I think about having 2 sb's. Ok, tell me more. Seems her and her best friend (only other person knowing she is on the site) are bi and have played together several times, once with a dude. Haven't gotten detail on that yet, but I will be exploring more as well as how they work together before pulling the trigger. My question, what level of arrangement? Double? I could handle that for a few times, but I wouldn't want it to cut into my other baby budget! Thanks guys, love the forum!

[HollywoodGuy]

In your last 2 posts #8963 and #8965 The earlier pic appears to be that of a white while the 2nd is a black. Inquiring minds want to know!

Same girl. The pic where she looks darker is her actual skin tone. I've see pics of beyonce where she looks mixed. Never trust modeling pics. Except for body type. Make up and photoshop can do wonders.

[PghGuy2005]

In your last 2 posts #8963 and #8965 The earlier pic appears to be that of a white while the 2nd is a black. Inquiring minds want to know!

So the model from yesterday that refused to fuck me saying I was a wh**e came back this morning for another 2 hours. Yesterday was just some making out and groping on the sofa (with my pants never coming off). Today after about 10 minutes she politely asked me if I wanted a HJ so I graciously accepted. As I was spent from my ATF last night I did cum but nothing came out. LOL.

She seemed OK with that and we then went to a trendy place for breakfast. Since she has now driven 260 total miles to see me in two days I bought her food twice and gave her .8 for gas. She is on a modeling assignment today near my house (so her driving wasn't totally in vain) till about 8 pm and then wants to come back tonite (for what, I am not sure). I give her credit for going after what she wants (an exclusive arrangement). But it's something she can never get (at least not from me). We'll see what happens next.

I suddenly have a lot of POTS so its going to stay busy for the foreseeable future.

[First Half]

And personally, I respect that!

So the model from yesterday that refused to fuck me saying I was a wh**e came back this morning for another 2 hours. Yesterday was just some making out and groping on the sofa (with my pants never coming off). Today after about 10 minutes she politely asked me if I wanted a HJ so I graciously accepted. As I was spent from my ATF last night I did cum but nothing came out. LOL.

She seemed OK with that and we then went to a trendy place for breakfast. Since she has now driven 260 total miles to see me in two days I bought her food twice and gave her .8 for gas. She is on a modeling assignment today near my house (so her driving wasn't totally in vain) till about 8 pm and then wants to come back tonite (for what, I am not sure). I give her credit for going after what she wants (an exclusive arrangement). But it's something she can never get (at least not from me). We'll see what happens next.

I suddenly have a lot of POTS so its going to stay busy for the foreseeable future.

[HollywoodGuy]

So after she left I went to my ATF's where she got some good loving not knowing I was extra revved up prior to seeing her. But she was happy to receive all the benefits anyway. I am sure a lot of SO's have gotten similar benefits after a brothers hot M&G.

So the model from yesterday that refused to fuck me saying I was a wh**e came back this morning for another 2 hours. Yesterday was just some making out and groping on the sofa (with my pants never coming off). Today after about 10 minutes she politely asked me if I wanted a HJ so I graciously accepted. As I was spent from my ATF last night I did cum but nothing came out. LOL.

She seemed OK with that and we then went to a trendy place for breakfast. Since she has now driven 260 total miles to see me in two days I bought her food twice and gave her .8 for gas. She is on a modeling assignment today near my house (so her driving wasn't totally in vain) till about 8 pm and then wants to come back tonite (for what, I am not sure). I give her credit for going after what she wants (an exclusive arrangement). But it's something she can never get (at least not from me). We'll see what happens next.

I suddenly have a lot of POTS so its going to stay busy for the foreseeable future.

[PghGuy2005]

My communication with her has been entirely through text and at one point she asked "Unless all you are really interested in is sex".

I did not answer it directly and changed the topic because I did not want to lose her. One the one hand this is the first twenty something POT that is within my budget on the other I will have to sneak away from work on two days for one trip to the FC.

Help me out bros' how to get her to meet only in hotel rooms and not have her feel like a hoe. Some guys have met their POTs / SBs for a date and then a little later gotten a room. Does getting a room at the last minute cost more? Is it better to call the hotel directly or go through hotels.com or other travel sites.

He who owns the gold makes the rules.

About 5 pm today (perfect timing) this 20 year old 5'9" 120 model (pictured) gets to my door. She was a 7/9 in looks with a very good personality. We spent the next 5 hours playing and talking on the sofa. Not likely we could work out an arrangement as she was looking for a monogamous one. She definitely didn't care about sugar anywhere near as much as a commitment.

So after she left I went to my ATF's where she got some good loving not knowing I was extra revved up prior to seeing her. But she was happy to receive all the benefits anyway. I am sure a lot of SO's have gotten similar benefits after a brothers hot M&G.

[HollywoodGuy]

Finally a POT in her twenties has shown some interest however she does not want to be paid for having sex (will make her feel like a hoe) but wants to be paid for dates and the meetings for FC will be like getting together for fun gratis.

I hope this is making sense to you guys. When I said I can "play" only during the day while at work and hence do not have much time she said. We can have a date one day and FC the next day or later. Now the risk is she gets paid for the date and then disappears! That is nothing compared to me risking being seen public with her.

I would appreciate any info on safe places to meet during a weekday afternoon. Are bars open at that time?

He who owns the gold makes the rules.

About 5 pm today (perfect timing) this 20 year old 5'9" 120 model (pictured) gets to my door. She was a 7/9 in looks with a very good personality. We spent the next 5 hours playing and talking on the sofa. Not likely we could work out an arrangement as she was looking for a monogamous one. She definitely didn't care about sugar anywhere near as much as a commitment.

So after she left I went to my ATF's where she got some good loving not knowing I was extra revved up prior to seeing her. But she was happy to receive all the benefits anyway. I am sure a lot of SO's have gotten similar benefits after a brothers hot M&G.

[FTP1999]

You telling me. I had a 20-year old hottie the other night.

I eventually got her to cum and she soaked my bed completely.

Holly cow. She didn't want to leave.

I had to look up how to clean pee from a mattress. That was fun. 😕.

I have to agree. One of things I find amazing is how many young girls, and even women in their 30's, tell me that men their age do not know how to kiss them with the proper passion. The other thing that is a common denominator is that they don't know how to perform oral on them. If you are an older guy and have mastered both of those items, they will do pretty much anything to please you. And, I have to admit, there is nothing I find sexier that going down on a young lady and making her orgasm over and over. Some tell me they had no idea that they were multi-orgasmic because I was the first to do that to them. Those girls will go all out to please "Daddy". This is where we have a leg up on the young guys. To them, it's all about sticking their dicks in the girls and getting off.

[PghGuy2005]

Finally a POT in her twenties has shown some interest however she does not want to be paid for having sex (will make her feel like a hoe) but wants to be paid for dates and the meetings for FC will be like getting together for fun gratis.

I hope this is making sense to you guys. When I said I can "play" only during the day while at work and hence do not have much time she said. We can have a date one day and FC the next day or later. Now the risk is she gets paid for the date and then disappears! That is nothing compared to me risking being seen public with her.

I would appreciate any info on safe places to meet during a weekday afternoon. Are bars open at that time?

[PghGuy2005]

So, are you using your real name, real photo or what? How did she I'd you? If she knows who you really are, without meeting you, face to face, you are not covering your tracks well enough.

If that's the case, I would be worried about how much your SO knows already.

Be worried!

As I initially suspected it was nothing. Don't know why she wrote that anyway my reply was "So? Can we have an arrangement?" and the conversation started about what I was looking for yatta. Yatta.

Nothing come out of it though since she wanted to gallivant in public with me! And I of course have to be completely under the radar.

[First Half]

I play in both worlds for the exact reasons you talk about. There are times when I don't have time or energy to spend on turning a pot to a SB.
I also still visit the occasional AMP, and head to the strip joint from time to time.

As long as it is attractive naked flesh, I'm all in!

As for a $30 k budget, I have found there is an inverse relationship between amount of effort required to turn a pot into a SB and allowance offered. Meaning, if that is your budget, you should have ladies propositioning you, and not the other way around.

I'm going to spend a lot more time reading around here. Since I travel quite a bit, I think I'll see if I can land something in one of the cities I frequent and keep it out of my back yard. Thanks again for all the advice around here. Interesting stuff.

FH.

[FyrGuy33]

This is the very first question I ask any POT. The very first (of the sexual questions). If they are not down for some serious making out I will not meet them. Some lie. Most don't. Some are good. Some are bad. All my regulars are addicted kissers and amazing at it. This is a lost art many girls crave (of any age guy).

I have to agree. One of things I find amazing is how many young girls, and even women in their 30's, tell me that men their age do not know how to kiss them with the proper passion. The other thing that is a common denominator is that they don't know how to perform oral on them. If you are an older guy and have mastered both of those items, they will do pretty much anything to please you. And, I have to admit, there is nothing I find sexier that going down on a young lady and making her orgasm over and over. Some tell me they had no idea that they were multi-orgasmic because I was the first to do that to them. Those girls will go all out to please "Daddy". This is where we have a leg up on the young guys. To them, it's all about sticking their dicks in the girls and getting off.

[First Half]

Most of my income derives from commission, so it is variable to a certain extent. This variation allows me to distribute funds in a way that's not noticeable or traceable by my SO. It works out pretty well for extracurricular activities.

Thanks for the info. I'm seriously thinking about trying this out.

Wow, well let me first say that you're the envy of any SD that you have 30 K of disposable income that also flies under the radar of your SO. The possibilities of that are enticing.

In my limited experience I'd have to say that the bowl really takes the shine off the straight providers. Once my situation comes to an inevitable conclusion, I would be hard-pressed to be satisfied there. The bowl is, as many can attest, a lot of work. It was a lot of time and effort to find my one, I couldn't imagine keeping up a rotation. But the payoff. Oh the payoff. Words cannot do it justice, it simply must be experienced.