The Rat Trap

[PaigeSweetStuf]

I have a feeling that it would be the ladies in the 1 or 2 seeds that make it to the final four and if not for the S curve some wouldn't even make it on the brackets.

It would be impossible to crown THe BEST of The BEST but I know of many SPs that come extremely close. The best would be a combination of qualities and attributes that many of well regarded "legends" hold then encompassed into one being. I think you gentlemen are quite lucky to have so many wonderful well regarded SPs to choose from, In all my years I have never seen a hobby community that in general looks out for each other as much as Orlando does.

Actions speak much louder than words.

Stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.

Also. To Paige's point, I do chuckle every time I see an SP tout themselves as "The Best".

Intimacy / sexuality may be the most subjective thing in the entire world. "The Best" for someone may be nowhere near for another person. So, you're the best at what, exactly?

That said, if any of the ladies in our literary club is interested in determining some way in which we could crown someone "The Best," I would be more than happy to serve as a judge / evaluator in some kind of NCAA tournament style competition.

Paige, your body of work has likely earned you a 1 seed.

I would love to see this bracket, by the way!

[Just Cruzin]

Me being curious is a bad thing for me and I all I can imagine is the transition from one to the other while doing (you LOL) doing shots. Hmmm what does my schedule look like in the next few days LOL

THe difference for me between GFE and pse is I few extra shots of petron (LOL).

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[Alligator19]

Also. To Paige's point, I do chuckle every time I see an SP tout themselves as "The Best".

Intimacy / sexuality may be the most subjective thing in the entire world. "The Best" for someone may be nowhere near for another person. So, you're the best at what, exactly?

That said, if any of the ladies in our literary club is interested in determining some way in which we could crown someone "The Best," I would be more than happy to serve as a judge / evaluator in some kind of NCAA tournament style competition.

Paige, your body of work has likely earned you a 1 seed.

I would love to see this bracket, by the way!

So I get it, technically as SPs we are in competition for business, nothing wrong with a little friendly competition, or new competition might make you have step your game up but there are few things of late that have been bothersome to me.

When a highly regarded SP reaches out to another new SP to introduce themselves I feel it is quite rude to ignore them. You probably won't get a second chance at that intro. The new SP may be the hot shit at the moment but with everything novelty wears off. There will come a point you may need referrals or references. You don't have to jump at their intro to you but acknowledgement of receiving would be more than cordial.

Lately there have been some new advertisers claiming to be THE BEST at whatever. Thats some big shoes to fill jumping on this board with some legends, women who have been providing A+ service for years in the hobby. I am not saying that these new SPs do not provide quality service but those are bold words. Not every SP is for everyone so there can't be any single one that is the best at everything everytime. I think reviews say more than your ads ever could.

With this being said white knighting average performance in hopes of getting discounts doesn't really help the community as whole. It may be good for the author and subject, but that is just selfish. An honest review is more beneficial to all involved. Constructive criticism can help an SP step up their game if needed. And after awhile when we all read these rave reviews by the same authors on those SPs that most either give average or subpar reviews the authors loose credibility within the community.

I don't claim to be the best at anything. I do claim to be a reliable, friendly, consistant, hot, smart SP that aims to please. I put safety an discretion at top of my list of priority for all those involved. SPs know that I am one of the most friendly and knowledgeable in this hobby, and very easy to approach. We need to look out for each other, its a sisterhood that may save one of our lives or from getting a new pair of shiny silver handcuffs. I am not saying we all have to be besties, as I do like a small hand full of you ladies better than the rest but as long as you have always treated me with respect I will do the same for you. There are plenty of mario coins and dicks to go around.

Just some food for thought.

Stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.

[Alligator19]

Awesome post. With useful information for just about anyone. Provider or hobbyist.

So I get it, technically as SPs we are in competition for business, nothing wrong with a little friendly competition, or new competition might make you have step your game up but there are few things of late that have been bothersome to me.

When a highly regarded SP reaches out to another new SP to introduce themselves I feel it is quite rude to ignore them. You probably won't get a second chance at that intro. The new SP may be the hot shit at the moment but with everything novelty wears off. There will come a point you may need referrals or references. You don't have to jump at their intro to you but acknowledgement of receiving would be more than cordial.

Lately there have been some new advertisers claiming to be THE BEST at whatever. Thats some big shoes to fill jumping on this board with some legends, women who have been providing A+ service for years in the hobby. I am not saying that these new SPs do not provide quality service but those are bold words. Not every SP is for everyone so there can't be any single one that is the best at everything everytime. I think reviews say more than your ads ever could.

With this being said white knighting average performance in hopes of getting discounts doesn't really help the community as whole. It may be good for the author and subject, but that is just selfish. An honest review is more beneficial to all involved. Constructive criticism can help an SP step up their game if needed. And after awhile when we all read these rave reviews by the same authors on those SPs that most either give average or subpar reviews the authors loose credibility within the community.

I don't claim to be the best at anything. I do claim to be a reliable, friendly, consistant, hot, smart SP that aims to please. I put safety an discretion at top of my list of priority for all those involved. SPs know that I am one of the most friendly and knowledgeable in this hobby, and very easy to approach. We need to look out for each other, its a sisterhood that may save one of our lives or from getting a new pair of shiny silver handcuffs. I am not saying we all have to be besties, as I do like a small hand full of you ladies better than the rest but as long as you have always treated me with respect I will do the same for you. There are plenty of mario coins and dicks to go around.

Just some food for thought.

Stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.

[JustAGuy5]

At least for me, there are times where a provider might advertise GFE but I also have no interest in kissing them, especially a fake kiss. I feel like if I'm going to kiss someone there at least needs to be the illusion of a mutual feeling between both parties and I have yet to meet someone who can fake that well.

I appreciate your candor and wish more providers were as open with the topic as you are.

But to me it is all about how I vibe with someone. To some I may the most GFE chick on here, and to others they would not descrbe me as that in anyway. There are certain things I can't and won't do for anything. Thats why I don't advertise GFE.

There are some guys that no matter well I get to know them, how nice of guy they are, I am still not kissing them. I would much rather decline kissing than give some half ass forced kiss that is horrible. It is my policy to not do anything half ass.

At the same time tho kissing does not have to happen to be GFE but I know for some guys it is a must.

There is so many grey areas with this term so I try to avoid it. Most of all there has to an intimate and intellectual connection for it to happen tho.

Xoxo.

Paige.

[PaigeSweetStuf]

So I get it, technically as SPs we are in competition for business, nothing wrong with a little friendly competition, or new competition might make you have step your game up but there are few things of late that have been bothersome to me.

When a highly regarded SP reaches out to another new SP to introduce themselves I feel it is quite rude to ignore them. You probably won't get a second chance at that intro. The new SP may be the hot shit at the moment but with everything novelty wears off. There will come a point you may need referrals or references. You don't have to jump at their intro to you but acknowledgement of receiving would be more than cordial.

Lately there have been some new advertisers claiming to be THE BEST at whatever. Thats some big shoes to fill jumping on this board with some legends, women who have been providing A+ service for years in the hobby. I am not saying that these new SPs do not provide quality service but those are bold words. Not every SP is for everyone so there can't be any single one that is the best at everything everytime. I think reviews say more than your ads ever could.

With this being said white knighting average performance in hopes of getting discounts doesn't really help the community as whole. It may be good for the author and subject, but that is just selfish. An honest review is more beneficial to all involved. Constructive criticism can help an SP step up their game if needed. And after awhile when we all read these rave reviews by the same authors on those SPs that most either give average or subpar reviews the authors loose credibility within the community.

I don't claim to be the best at anything. I do claim to be a reliable, friendly, consistant, hot, smart SP that aims to please. I put safety an discretion at top of my list of priority for all those involved. SPs know that I am one of the most friendly and knowledgeable in this hobby, and very easy to approach. We need to look out for each other, its a sisterhood that may save one of our lives or from getting a new pair of shiny silver handcuffs. I am not saying we all have to be besties, as I do like a small hand full of you ladies better than the rest but as long as you have always treated me with respect I will do the same for you. There are plenty of mario coins and dicks to go around.

Just some food for thought.

Stay safe.

Xoxo.

Paige.

[PaigeSweetStuf]

But to me it is all about how I vibe with someone. To some I may the most GFE chick on here, and to others they would not descrbe me as that in anyway. There are certain things I can't and won't do for anything. Thats why I don't advertise GFE.

There are some guys that no matter well I get to know them, how nice of guy they are, I am still not kissing them. I would much rather decline kissing than give some half ass forced kiss that is horrible. It is my policy to not do anything half ass.

At the same time tho kissing does not have to happen to be GFE but I know for some guys it is a must.

There is so many grey areas with this term so I try to avoid it. Most of all there has to an intimate and intellectual connection for it to happen tho.

Xoxo.

Paige.

Thought this would be an interesting topic for discussion.

What, exactly does GFE mean. Or, at least, mean to you?

The following was posted on the Escort Classified Ads Thread recently:

"Come see me this toasty Friday!

NO FS!!

Also let me know before our dream if you would like the GFE experience. I thought that it was something specifically asked for during a dream. Sorry to those of you who came expecting GFE and didn't receive it!

Now, I've always been under the impression that GFE wasn't something that one turned on or off. That it was more of the overall vibe that a provider delivered along with their services.

For example. A GFE experience would be the illusion of intimacy or familiarity whereas a non-GFE would be just a straight business transaction or something like it. Again, I figured the whole FGE thing was just the general way an SP acted toward her clients, not something that could be requested or not requested.

Am I wrong?

Discuss.

[BuffGuy111]

THe difference for me between GFE and pse is I few extra shots of petron (LOL).

That's a good one especially from your post and reviews. I'll be seeing for myself real soon.

BG111.

[MarinaGfe]

THe difference for me between GFE and pse is I few extra shots of petron (LOL).

[Fisherman0317]

GFE is a good attitude, kissing, daty, BBBJ and cfs. These are the minimum requirements for GFE. Of course the gentleman should be clean and polite if he he expects a lady to treat him in a GFE fashion. Attitude is the most important thing. A quality experienced GFE provider will go along with most reasonable requests with a majority of her visitors and that in large part makes her GFE.

The ad you mention, the provider in question does not provide FS, so she technically is not GFE, but if you are not looking for FS, then she is GFE for you.

The first line of Otwist response is what I always considered had to be on the menu for a provider to say she is GFE.

[LuvInIt007]

Click the abbreviations tab at the top of the page and read. Requirements I would say watch a porn movie hence pse. I believe joy toy offered pse but make sure you are well rested.

I was wondering about the meaning or requirements of PSE? I have not seen any providers advertising PSE on this site (unless I missed the add). This a great site. Thanks for the input!

[Spearfish]

GFE is a good attitude, kissing, daty, BBBJ and cfs. These are the minimum requirements for GFE. Of course the gentleman should be clean and polite if he he expects a lady to treat him in a GFE fashion. Attitude is the most important thing. A quality experienced GFE provider will go along with most reasonable requests with a majority of her visitors and that in large part makes her GFE.

The ad you mention, the provider in question does not provide FS, so she technically is not GFE, but if you are not looking for FS, then she is GFE for you.

I was wondering about the meaning or requirements of PSE? I have not seen any providers advertising PSE on this site (unless I missed the add). This a great site. Thanks for the input!

[Otwist]

Thought this would be an interesting topic for discussion.

What, exactly does GFE mean. Or, at least, mean to you?

The following was posted on the Escort Classified Ads Thread recently:

"Come see me this toasty Friday!

NO FS!!

Also let me know before our dream if you would like the GFE experience. I thought that it was something specifically asked for during a dream. Sorry to those of you who came expecting GFE and didn't receive it!

Now, I've always been under the impression that GFE wasn't something that one turned on or off. That it was more of the overall vibe that a provider delivered along with their services.

For example. A GFE experience would be the illusion of intimacy or familiarity whereas a non-GFE would be just a straight business transaction or something like it. Again, I figured the whole FGE thing was just the general way an SP acted toward her clients, not something that could be requested or not requested.

Am I wrong?

Discuss.

GFE is a good attitude, kissing, daty, BBBJ and cfs. These are the minimum requirements for GFE. Of course the gentleman should be clean and polite if he he expects a lady to treat him in a GFE fashion. Attitude is the most important thing. A quality experienced GFE provider will go along with most reasonable requests with a majority of her visitors and that in large part makes her GFE.

The ad you mention, the provider in question does not provide FS, so she technically is not GFE, but if you are not looking for FS, then she is GFE for you.

[MissMurno69]

Keeping appointments and not playing games for both the gentleman and sp. The worst is when you give your address and then they tell you they are on their way and then comes the crickets. Silence. Total creeper or LEO move, either way not cool. Keep the appointments and cancel in a timely manner.

Xoxo.

Paige.

Thanks a lot Paige for pointing this issue out, its totally a creeper move and should never happen. I had a SM do me this to me recently.

Crickets! For the Sec time also, Kinda Glad He Moved! Thats the worster thing you could do to a Sp.

[Chubbing]

A few weeks ago there was talk here about an SP that had a min size she would work with. Well now there is an SP with a max.

http://jacksonville.backpage.com/Fem...s-only/7137708