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[Bowtie]

Mw, I wish I could follow your lead. Unfortunatly, I'm with brass, looking for my perfect baby, and like him, my heart is often broken. I want to take one under my wing and mold or guide, but it just aint going to happen! I need to wake up and appreciate what I have and forget searching for perfection. My heart, nerves, wallet and life will be better off! Maybe someday. Untill then, ill keep looking with brass!

My sympathy to you, Brass. Your quest is much different than mine. I prefer variety and subscribe to "we pay them to leave". I realize many mongers have a completely opposite goal, and to each his own. But it is my experience these gals we work with are not really the long-term relationship kind. Still, I too, love them all; at least while in the throws of passion.

Now this is not to say a SB can't be found. I'm sure one can. But, if it is anything but a sort-term deal, I would be surprised. Please don't take offense to any of this. It's just my 2 cents and mostly for the newbs and other fellas to contemplate.

I'm sure your mind is made up and I sincerely wish you well, finding that perfect gem. I guess my only suggestion is to expect it to be more of a "temporary" arrangement. Please keep us posted. Be safe and good hunting. MW.

[Mw Jrp]

Well, another lesson learned. I must start to search all over again.

Here's the situation: I am looking for a companion, to see on a regular basis 4$ per month for time and companionship. Two extended visits per month, with the possibility of a slumber party from time to time. Cash card with both of our names on it so that in the event of an unforeseen event, I could just load the card.

I truly thought that I had found a true companion, the one that I was searching for, but, it just was not to be. Just like the Jenni Scenario, I Brass.

My sympathy to you, Brass. Your quest is much different than mine. I prefer variety and subscribe to "we pay them to leave". I realize many mongers have a completely opposite goal, and to each his own. But it is my experience these gals we work with are not really the long-term relationship kind. Still, I too, love them all; at least while in the throws of passion.

Now this is not to say a SB can't be found. I'm sure one can. But, if it is anything but a sort-term deal, I would be surprised. Please don't take offense to any of this. It's just my 2 cents and mostly for the newbs and other fellas to contemplate.

I'm sure your mind is made up and I sincerely wish you well, finding that perfect gem. I guess my only suggestion is to expect it to be more of a "temporary" arrangement. Please keep us posted. Be safe and good hunting. MW.

[NC Seahawk]

I saw her about a month ago and she was having a hard time. She said she spent almost two weeks in the hospital because of an infection related to a spider bite. With the foot long cut and stitches down her back and the sore on her neck, I believe her too. I've been meaning to go back because she's always given me great massages and actually acts like she enjoys it and my company.

Thank you for the heads up, it's pretty far for me anyway, I guess I'll have to find someone else now.

[Member #4733]

Well, another lesson learned. I must start to search all over again.

Here's the situation: I am looking for a companion, to see on a regular basis 4$ per month for time and companionship. Two extended visits per month, with the possibility of a slumber party from time to time. Cash card with both of our names on it so that in the event of an unforeseen event, I could just load the card.

I truly thought that I had found a true companion, the one that I was searching for, but, it just was not to be. Just like the Jenni Scenario, I probably would have done just about anything to keep an arrangement in tact. Gut wrenching actually, cut me right to the bone, physically ill for awhile until the shock began to wear off. Some of you have experienced it. It is a comfort to know that you have at least one companion that you can always count on. So, I have learned yet another lesson in what it means to practice discretion at all times.

Don't bother guessing or asking who it was, because I am not going to answer any questions about it, case closed. Just know that I am searching for a companion who has the same needs.

Dayton, Springfield and all point in between.

If you happen to have someone in mind that would appreciate such an arrangement, send me a PM. This is a bona fide offer, make no mistake about that.

Looking Forward to Hearing Your Suggestions.

And as always, I appreciate candor.

Brass.

[Macrzy]

I'd like to thank numb and rep for their public replies and all the others who pmed me with their supportive messages. Glad I'm not the only one who feels this way about the hobby.

And even worse is being from out of the area and having no "legitimate" reason for being in Dayton let alone any certain area. Those of us then drive in constant state of high alert. One LEO and we're gone. Luckily for me, several great seniors on here, understanding situations such as ours, have "befriended" me and have helped stear me in the right direction / ladies. There are a couple that in the past I have TOFTT but all too soon it seems that they have become drama / rip offs / etc. (Like MizChristina, Olivia, etc.) Plus adding in an extra $30 in gas etc. Well, guess this boils down in the final analysis: thanks to the seniors who have trusted and helped me out, even if I can't always help back.

[Sgdddy]

Curious as out of the blue I got a text today from a girl from Middletown named Brooklyn and said she used to go by Missy. I can not recollect ever seeing her. Digits were 513 xxx 169 x Does anyone know her?? Thanks.

Had a similar experience this week. This girl (Brooklyn / Missy) texts me after I hadn't seen here in like 2 years. Not sure what's up. I know she is the girl who used to dance at NYNY
and was painfully skinny last I saw her. She sent me a picture which looked pretty good and said she had been working on herself. Wondering if anyone has actually been with her lately?

She was pretty cute and cool until she just got sickly skinny.

[Dayton Guy]

OK. So I make all the txt arrangements back and forth. Get an h for. 6, I had been there before and in my line of work, I need that Russian torcher method of massage that she does & it helps, plus you know. The perks!

So I get there, and she actually looked better than I remembered from previous visits, we head upstairs, get comfortable and proceed with a great massage and lets just say decent dream at a very good cost.

Here comes the best part. As I leave her apartment complex in the middle of the afternoon, I am pulled over by the counties finest, told immediately I was pulled over for "marked lanes" then was asked what I was doing coming out of that apartment complex. My legal friends have always told me to keep my mouth shut in moments like those so I said as little as possible, they asked to search my vehicle (which was clean. So I thought). As the officer pulls me over gives me the "you know what goes on in these types of complexes" speech. Asks if he can search my vehice, I DO NOT consent to the search, they call K9, the K9 comes within 6' of my vehicle sits down and barks, the 20 something officer turns, looks at me and smiles as he says "the dog hit on your truck, I have to search it now". I responded with "nice doggie trick". So after 3 officers and the dog take the VIP tour of my work truck for over an hour now, I am cited with "marked lanes" companion charge normally. And ready. Possession of drug paraphernalia for a pack of rolling papers. Nothing else.

So I took my shakedown like a champ, & then txted chelle to let her know that I unequivocally will never ever ever ever be back to her place again.

So watch your back at all times and be prepared for full shakedown mode from the county boys.

Have a good weekend everyone.

If any seniors want to PM for details of the discounted encounter that started all this mess, pm away. Ill give you all the details.

[Supernova00]

I met Summer. I read a lot about her. She is young and look good.

May be I caught her on the wrong day but she was mechanical and far from a GFE. No fun for her no fun for me.

I don't think I will see her again.

[PleasureGiver]

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[ScorpioStriker]

I'd like to thank numb and rep for their public replies and all the others who pmed me with their supportive messages. Glad I'm not the only one who feels this way about the hobby.

[Member #4722]

Okay guys. Not naming any names here, but.

EDIT: I will admit I have talked to some providers about my personal problems in the past...however not to the degree that these girls I barely know do. I have vented to my regulars about problems I've had or personal stuff...but I don't even have a regular anymore. No one out there is worth it right now. Sorry for this long post about nothing really but I just needed to vent. I'd like to have a regular again, but I need someone who is gonna work with me not against me. If it's a pain or if it's hard to get with you I'm not interested. The whole point of this profession is supposed to be an easy fix to a problem every male has.

I will admit I have been a proponent of regulars for a long time. It was nice to see someone you were comfortable with on a regular basis. But here lately I'm finding it's more drama and BS than what it's worth. It's not fun anymore, and that's what this is supposed to be all about,"having fun". I used to see guys posting reviews and mentioning that they never see the same lady more than once, more variety oriented. Might be worth a try, the ole one and done philosophy, on to the next.

[Member #4722]

I will admit I have talked to some providers about my personal problems in the past. However not to the degree that these girls I barely know do. I have vented to my regulars about problems I've had or personal stuff. But I don't even have a regular anymore. No one out there is worth it right now. Sorry for this long post about nothing really but I just needed to vent. I'd like to have a regular again, but I need someone who is going to work with me not against me. If it's a pain or if it's hard to get with you I'm not interested. The whole point of this profession is supposed to be an easy fix to a problem every male has.

[NumbNutz]

Cut out the entire quote, but there is absolute truth in Scorpio's post. Almost all I've met either don't care or have no concept that it takes an average man around a day or two of solid work for what they get in one hour. Sure, there is risk, but that's on both ends. Maybe everyone should blowup at once with a rant of the day message-problem solved, no more bitching when they run out of minutes j / k.

Okay guys. Not naming any names here, but.

I'm getting a little sick of these utrs and other ladies crying that they need more business, only to engage in backwards practices and then wonder why no one wants to see them. It could be as simple as checking at the start of the week and letting them know your going to see them in a few days.

[ScorpioStriker]

Okay guys. Not naming any names here, but.

I'm getting a little sick of these utrs and other ladies crying that they need more business, only to engage in backwards practices and then wonder why no one wants to see them. It could be as simple as checking at the start of the week and letting them know your going to see them in a few days.

At the time they are all for it. Happy about it, can't wait to see you etc etc. But then you contact them on that day as you set up and then at the last minute they can't meet you where they normally do but want you to go into a shady part of town.

That alone makes me second guess it. Not to mention I know for a fact that law enforcement in that area is heavy right now, hey it just warmed up and you know what comes out when it warms up? Cops and thugs.

I like to stay away from both of those types. Then when you politely tell this person sorry that doesn't work for me, I'll try again another day or something to that fashion. Instead of simply saying okay no problem sorry things didn't work out hope to see you soon.

They slam you with texts and calls begging you. Promising you the world. It's annoying as hell at least I think it is. Then they lay a list longer than my dick of personal problems on you.

All of which I don't care about. They are so many of them that I don't even believe half. It's like look save your excuses until you figure out which one to use. I know a lot of these young girls struggle with certain problems. I get it, but these aren't my problems.

I'm more than willing to grease the gears if they grease mine, I don't judge. But when you come at me with desperation and basically beg me it's an instant turn off. Another problem I have most likely because of my age is some of these girls expect me to 'white knight' them or try and set things up with me as though I was a boyfriend.

I do have a decent job. It isn't great but it's better than quite a few, it isn't enough in my book and I always want to make more. But they figure it out somehow and then expect me to always have cash for them. I may have a job and I may make a steady income but I'm in debt like everyone else.

Not credit card debt or student loans. Thank hell for that but You know I got other debts in my life. Not to mention I don't exactly live in a mansion or in a good situation to be brutally honest so the whole woe is me thing doesn't work well on me. It honestly makes me less likely to be interested.

I understand some of them have legit issues but you know what? So do I.

That being said I'm divorced I'm single right now. I got the time to mess around with some of them but not to the degree they'd like me to. What annoys me is the rare one or two girls I have been into and would of done stuff for either didn't want any part of it or wore out their welcome QUICK.

So it's just a little annoying when someone is screaming 'save me save me' but ten seconds later forgets what the hell they are doing. I also dislike only being hit up when you need money. I used to be into this one girl she doesn't do this anymore but she would always keep in touch with me.

Always text me or call me up and never once asked for money but just let me know she was thinking about me. It was a nice illusion. I liked it. It worked and I did a lot of stuff I would never do for this girl. In the end I'd say both of us crossed a lot of lines we never crossed before. I don't regret it. I enjoyed it while it lasted.

But don't treat me like a limitless credit card. That may work for some but not for me. You want my business? Treat me like customer. Not a quick way to make a buck and not a boyfriend. Your not my girlfriend. I don't care about your personal problems. Sure sometimes you grow into things with people you meet and that's a whole other story.

I don't know maybe I'm being dumb but last minute changes on their end and then blowing my phone up really just pisses me off. You know what else pisses me off? When a provider acts like your a burden to them. In which case I say fine you obviously don't want my money. I'll find someone who does.

Which. Normally they come to you a month or two later asking for help or saying they have been slow. And would like to see you.

/ Facepalm.

EDIT: I will admit I have talked to some providers about my personal problems in the past...however not to the degree that these girls I barely know do. I have vented to my regulars about problems I've had or personal stuff...but I don't even have a regular anymore. No one out there is worth it right now. Sorry for this long post about nothing really but I just needed to vent. I'd like to have a regular again, but I need someone who is gonna work with me not against me. If it's a pain or if it's hard to get with you I'm not interested. The whole point of this profession is supposed to be an easy fix to a problem every male has. >.<

[Bdirect]

I missed it the first time through, but laughed my ass off when I saw it.

Thanks.

Too funny typo error.