Space Cadets

[Rhodester]

Had a creepy experience the other night at a bar.

I went out OTC and some random guy wouldn't / couldn't stop watching me. I wasn't worried about him at first because I was'nt necessarily alone. I had tons of friends around me (practically half the bar) but he was soooo obvious about his intentions that my friends were getting weirded out about it. I give him some credit though, because even after I paid him no mind, I watched him worked the crowd around me. Getting closer, and closer to me.

His planned would have failed had I not just let it go and told everyone to pay no mind. He finally sat next to me and all he could say was your pretty. I replied with a stern thank you, and asked if I could help with anything? He couldn't talk. Why are you starring at me so much if you have nothing to say? If your are going to be creepy at least entertain your obsession. Geesh. At that point a few of my friends went into bouncer mode. At which point I heard someone tell him to go and find his wife. I laughed it off and enjoyed the rest of my night out.

Now he wasn't "really" bothering me personally, I get looks all the time. But was making everyone else uncomfortable. I think he was so persistent was because he knew what I do on my free time. And sense I've never saw him before in my life I couldn't confirm if he was just taking SpankBank pictures for later or wondering which Flat rate box I would economically fit in (Just Kidding! Kinda, maybe, sort of?

Either way he didn't just trip on one of my boundaries, he basically ripped right through all of them like a fighter jet landing on a freaking air craft carrier!

I gave so many subtle signs to go away before my friends started getting weirded out, that after awhile I just gave up. The final straw, or icing on the cake, was when he tried to follow me to my car!!

*BEST PART*.

Whatever he had to say or had planned was foiled by Surprise surprise his own wife (Just coming out of the bar; found out much later she had left and just came back) cursed his ass out and he be-lined right back. (seriously don't follow women to their cars, unless you are a bagger at Publix helping an old lady).

I couldn't imagine that night ending very well for the fella if I had been a less patience or an insecure provider. I don't think he considered that any one of my friends would have gladly taken him outback for a much needed eye exam for doing way to much intentionally.

I don't know if the guy was just idiotic or just didn't care for discretion; I understand I can be a bit distracting when I go out with my friends. And I sometimes see familiar faces with very unfamiliar SO / company / uniforms and I keep walking as if I have amnesia! So why stare?

So if guy is reading this (possible) take a deep breath, in fact take 10 more after that! Then when you are home, close your bathroom door, don't FORGET TO RUN THE WATER, and just text me hey.

I bet you get a lot farther with me that way than semi stalking me to my car and being nagged in public by your wife. Have respect for others privacy to party in a hot dress without getting drooled on. *lick*.

Fellow hobbyists, if I may take the Soapbox for a moment. (Steps up, clears his throat. Ahem.).

Symone is right. The fact that we may recognize a provider (or "think we recognize her") does not gives us any right to stalk, or even talk to them in public. We should expect (actually, we sometimes demand) the same courtesy. We have to trust them to be discrete with our lives. If in fact one of our "friends" goes over the line in public, they need to be reminded that our lives are just as private. Fact is, we do complain when a provider does go over that line.

I have seen several providers that I know intimately and from the boards in public (as I am sure some of you have also). I mind my own damn business, which is shopping, enjoying my time with my friends, riding my bike, or doing my job. By the way, I don't know THAT many providers, just got "lucky" when I did see them.

Just to remind some of those who don't realize it, Providers have lives, they eat, drink, bleed when they are cut (got that from the Bard.), go to movies, shop for groceries, go to the beach, have friends (that don't know that they have "hobbies") and a few other activities that we all do.

Thankfully, I don't have to run the COLD water after seeing a provider in public. Actually gives me a feeling of safety knowing we all have lives outside our hobby.

Truth be told, I would be flattered if one of the ladies I have met introduced me as friend, not a client. Hasn't happened yet, but ya never know.

Thank you Symone for reminding us.

OK I'm done (straightens his shirt, bows and steps down.) Anyone else need the Soapbox? Otherwise we can put it away and thanks for listening.

[ItsMeKelly]

Laughing, I bet you get all kinds of pussy A-2! I can just imagine how damn good looking you are!!

Not good looking at all, just rich and living in a town with 30,000 hookers and the hobby isn't against the law.

Has anyone besides me had any good fucking lately? All of this over a provider? Come on guys! We don't want to become a Rat Trap!

Luv you guys!

Oh hell yes I have!

A2

[LittleLou]

Was there just not an Admin post about going "Public" with information contained in a "PM".

You just did it again, re: your comment: "Since you said you spend 50% of your time with her. ".

Uh, um, don't think anybody rad that sentence here on the Open Forum.

I mean, really, WTF?

Since when has there been a rule that you can't talk about what was said in a PM? That wasn't what was said in the post by the Admin at all.

[SlammBamm]

LOL, I got to remember about the ignore function more often, capt your continued crying & whining just earned you a spot on there, hell it's not like I'll miss anything all you ever post about is britbrat / Hayden anyway, bye bye whiny little biotch.

Was there just not an Admin post about going "Public" with information contained in a "PM".

You just did it again, re: your comment: "Since you said you spend 50% of your time with her. ".

Uh, um, don't think anybody rad that sentence here on the Open Forum.

I mean, really, WTF?

[SlammBamm]

I got no idea when / where ya said it and doesn't matter anyway once again your just making weak excuses and blowing hot air, I'm done with your nonsense, LOL how pathetic.

Was there just not an Admin post about going "Public" with information contained in a "PM".

You just did it again, re: your comment: "Since you said you spend 50% of your time with her. ".

Uh, um, don't think anybody rad that sentence here on the Open Forum.

I mean, really, WTF?

[CaptainJohn]

Was there just not an Admin post about going "Public" with information contained in a "PM".

You just did it again, re: your comment: "Since you said you spend 50% of your time with her. ".

Uh, um, don't think anybody rad that sentence here on the Open Forum.

I mean, really, WTF?

[Symone]

Had a creepy experience the other night at a bar.

I went out OTC and some random guy wouldn't / couldn't stop watching me. I wasn't worried about him at first because I was'nt necessarily alone. I had tons of friends around me (practically half the bar) but he was soooo obvious about his intentions that my friends were getting weirded out about it. I give him some credit though, because even after I paid him no mind, I watched him worked the crowd around me. Getting closer, and closer to me.

His planned would have failed had I not just let it go and told everyone to pay no mind. He finally sat next to me and all he could say was your pretty. I replied with a stern thank you, and asked if I could help with anything? He couldn't talk. Why are you starring at me so much if you have nothing to say? If your are going to be creepy at least entertain your obsession. Geesh. At that point a few of my friends went into bouncer mode. At which point I heard someone tell him to go and find his wife. I laughed it off and enjoyed the rest of my night out.

Now he wasn't "really" bothering me personally, I get looks all the time. But was making everyone else uncomfortable. I think he was so persistent was because he knew what I do on my free time. And sense I've never saw him before in my life I couldn't confirm if he was just taking SpankBank pictures for later or wondering which Flat rate box I would economically fit in (Just Kidding! Kinda, maybe, sort of?

Either way he didn't just trip on one of my boundaries, he basically ripped right through all of them like a fighter jet landing on a freaking air craft carrier!

I gave so many subtle signs to go away before my friends started getting weirded out, that after awhile I just gave up. The final straw, or icing on the cake, was when he tried to follow me to my car!!

*BEST PART*.

Whatever he had to say or had planned was foiled by Surprise surprise his own wife (Just coming out of the bar; found out much later she had left and just came back) cursed his ass out and he be-lined right back. (seriously don't follow women to their cars, unless you are a bagger at Publix helping an old lady).

I couldn't imagine that night ending very well for the fella if I had been a less patience or an insecure provider. I don't think he considered that any one of my friends would have gladly taken him outback for a much needed eye exam for doing way to much intentionally.

I don't know if the guy was just idiotic or just didn't care for discretion; I understand I can be a bit distracting when I go out with my friends. And I sometimes see familiar faces with very unfamiliar SO / company / uniforms and I keep walking as if I have amnesia! So why stare?

So if guy is reading this (possible) take a deep breath, in fact take 10 more after that! Then when you are home, close your bathroom door, don't FORGET TO RUN THE WATER, and just text me hey.

I bet you get a lot farther with me that way than semi stalking me to my car and being nagged in public by your wife. Have respect for others privacy to party in a hot dress without getting drooled on. *lick*.

[ItsMeKelly]

Has anyone besides me had any good fucking lately? All of this over a provider? Come on guys! We don't want to become a Rat Trap!

Luv you guys!

Oh hell yes I have!

A2

[SlammBamm]

Ya know what "capt" ya want to gain back some board repect since its hanging by a thread it's easy and here it is as a gift to you my brother, go with "I'm going to do everything I can do to make sure she shows up on time relatively sober", ya did say you're with her 50 % of the time so take control of the situation and help the girl out instead of coming on here with this bullshit

Well since apparently my post was also taken down because I quoted your whiny ass complaint that Slamm posted your pm. I'd done the same thing, I don't see anything in the FAQ's instructing, otherwise. Slamm did not review whatever the hell she goes by, he simply helped others out that whatever the hell she goes by of the multiple name changes. Thanks Slamm for sharing information you have compiled from this site. Welcome to the internet Captain, you don't want it shared, don't put it out there anywhere. So I'll ask you since you know so much about her, why all the name changes? She doesn't get a new reputation for every name, her past remains the same.

Enjoy your visits with her, you actually do her more dis-service doing what your doing, I for one have no intentions on ever seeing her for no more reason than I don't need the headache.

[DivesLong]

Slamm,

I did NOT "Strongarm" you, I did not "Threaten" you, I did not cast any BS or lies your way, although you seem to like doing all of these things and more.

What I said was, simply and clearly, you admittedly have never, ever seen this Provider, so how the hell can you write a review or post ANY comments or judgements on somebody you yourself have never seen? All I said was SEE HER and THEN post your review, comments, judgements, whatever you want to post, am I wrong here?

However, everybody on this Forum now knows you like to post, RE-Post PM's, that's PRIVATE messages, not meant to be outed to the Membership, takes some sort of insecurity, or frustration, or "Please Please Please pay attention to me" wierd psychological BS going on with you to even THINK about doing that and hell yes you got spanked by Admin for breaking the rules, WTF, the Forum rules don't apply to you?

Grow the fuck up, play nice, share whatever you ACTUALLY know something about and it's all good.

As far as my being a "White Knight", a "Tool", a "Shill", a "Champion" or whatever other names or classifications anybody wants to put on me, well, OK it's a freaking "Forum", e. G. Exchange of information, and intelligence, and there's something really honest and true in that old saying "Opinions are like assholes" everybody's got one, if this gets personal or, well, nasty that just lowers the standards of this Forum.

See her, write about her, or ANY Provider on here and THEN make all the comments, judgements, advisories you want to make, from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.

OK?

Well since apparently my post was also taken down because I quoted your whiny ass complaint that Slamm posted your pm. I'd done the same thing, I don't see anything in the FAQ's instructing, otherwise. Slamm did not review whatever the hell she goes by, he simply helped others out that whatever the hell she goes by of the multiple name changes. Thanks Slamm for sharing information you have compiled from this site. Welcome to the internet Captain, you don't want it shared, don't put it out there anywhere. So I'll ask you since you know so much about her, why all the name changes? She doesn't get a new reputation for every name, her past remains the same.

Enjoy your visits with her, you actually do her more dis-service doing what your doing, I for one have no intentions on ever seeing her for no more reason than I don't need the headache.

[SlammBamm]

CaptainJohn, no matter how hard I try whether on the board or thru PM there's just no getting thru to you, even Lou's tried to impart wisdom but you're so stuck on "her jock" it's just pointless, I feel for ya brother but ya continually making yourself look like a fool.

So really there's no point in this back and forth, you're "love stricken" and your going to continue to do this shit, I offered to stop randomly posting about Hayden bullshit and alias in the PM I sent you even though she's burned more than her share BUT out of my failed attemot to show respect for you have failed, so ya keep fucking coming on the board trying to embarrass me, well good job assjack, you've acomplished none of what ya set out to do, maybe you should stop while you're behind. Once again don't ever come here either thru board or pm & tell a member that he'll see her or else, that's just bullshit & I'll call your ass on it everyrime. If ya want to talk call me but stop this weakass shit I got no time for it.

Too bad ya decided to go down this road cause I was actually trying to show ya a little respect for you're heart of trying to standing up for your girl but once again you had to take it too far, fuck you.

Slamm,

I did NOT "Strongarm" you, I did not "Threaten" you, I did not cast any BS or lies your way, although you seem to like doing all of these things and more.

What I said was, simply and clearly, you admittedly have never, ever seen this Provider, so how the hell can you write a review or post ANY comments or judgements on somebody you yourself have never seen? All I said was SEE HER and THEN post your review, comments, judgements, whatever you want to post, am I wrong here?

However, everybody on this Forum now knows you like to post, RE-Post PM's, that's PRIVATE messages, not meant to be outed to the Membership, takes some sort of insecurity, or frustration, or "Please Please Please pay attention to me" wierd psychological BS going on with you to even THINK about doing that and hell yes you got spanked by Admin for breaking the rules, WTF, the Forum rules don't apply to you?

Grow the fuck up, play nice, share whatever you ACTUALLY know something about and it's all good.

As far as my being a "White Knight", a "Tool", a "Shill", a "Champion" or whatever other names or classifications anybody wants to put on me, well, OK it's a freaking "Forum", e. G. Exchange of information, and intelligence, and there's something really honest and true in that old saying "Opinions are like assholes" everybody's got one, if this gets personal or, well, nasty that just lowers the standards of this Forum.

See her, write about her, or ANY Provider on here and THEN make all the comments, judgements, advisories you want to make, from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.

OK?

[LittleLou]

Slamm,

I did NOT "Strongarm" you, I did not "Threaten" you, I did not cast any BS or lies your way, although you seem to like doing all of these things and more.

What I said was, simply and clearly, you admittedly have never, ever seen this Provider, so how the hell can you write a review or post ANY comments or judgements on somebody you yourself have never seen? All I said was SEE HER and THEN post your review, comments, judgements, whatever you want to post, am I wrong here?

However, everybody on this Forum now knows you like to post, RE-Post PM's, that's PRIVATE messages, not meant to be outed to the Membership, takes some sort of insecurity, or frustration, or "Please Please Please pay attention to me" wierd psychological BS going on with you to even THINK about doing that and hell yes you got spanked by Admin for breaking the rules, WTF, the Forum rules don't apply to you?

Grow the fuck up, play nice, share whatever you ACTUALLY know something about and it's all good.

As far as my being a "White Knight", a "Tool", a "Shill", a "Champion" or whatever other names or classifications anybody wants to put on me, well, OK it's a freaking "Forum", e. G. Exchange of information, and intelligence, and there's something really honest and true in that old saying "Opinions are like assholes" everybody's got one, if this gets personal or, well, nasty that just lowers the standards of this Forum.

See her, write about her, or ANY Provider on here and THEN make all the comments, judgements, advisories you want to make, from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.

OK?

CaptainJohn,

You have a very skewed view of reality. Admin didn't "spank" Slamm that I saw. He did take down his post, but there was no spanking. I also would like to know how Slamm did anything unscrupulous by simply announcing that brit / brit brat / hayden / bree, etc. , etc. , has once again changed her name. You think someone that hasn't seen a provider can't pass on information when they recognize someone that has changed their name? Why the name changes in the first place? If a provider has to keep changing her name, it is never for a good reason. You have come to the defense, and gone way above in trying to defend a provider that HAS had some bad reviews. That HAS been busted for writing her own reviews under an alias. That HAS a lot of Drama surrounding her. That HAS, by your own admission, a drug problem. Why is it so important to you that no one believe all of these known things about her? It doesn't make any sense, especially if you are going to claim that this forum is to share information! It's too bad that this provider has had a lot of issues. It's worse that you have tried time and time again to make excuses for her and then go after anyone that makes what you consider to be a negative comment about her. Do you get a cut of her fee? What is your motivation to constantly defend her un defendable actions?

[CaptainJohn]

Slamm,

I did NOT "Strongarm" you, I did not "Threaten" you, I did not cast any BS or lies your way, although you seem to like doing all of these things and more.

What I said was, simply and clearly, you admittedly have never, ever seen this Provider, so how the hell can you write a review or post ANY comments or judgements on somebody you yourself have never seen? All I said was SEE HER and THEN post your review, comments, judgements, whatever you want to post, am I wrong here?

However, everybody on this Forum now knows you like to post, RE-Post PM's, that's PRIVATE messages, not meant to be outed to the Membership, takes some sort of insecurity, or frustration, or "Please Please Please pay attention to me" wierd psychological BS going on with you to even THINK about doing that and hell yes you got spanked by Admin for breaking the rules, WTF, the Forum rules don't apply to you?

Grow the fuck up, play nice, share whatever you ACTUALLY know something about and it's all good.

As far as my being a "White Knight", a "Tool", a "Shill", a "Champion" or whatever other names or classifications anybody wants to put on me, well, OK it's a freaking "Forum", e. G. Exchange of information, and intelligence, and there's something really honest and true in that old saying "Opinions are like assholes" everybody's got one, if this gets personal or, well, nasty that just lowers the standards of this Forum.

See her, write about her, or ANY Provider on here and THEN make all the comments, judgements, advisories you want to make, from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.

OK?

[LittleLou]

Then with all due respect to A2, his playground so his rules.

Captain John, don't ever try and strongarm me or any other member into seeing "your girl" with some weakass shit about how your going to embarrass us on the board, thru PM or otherwise all you did was make yourself look like a fool and drop your credibility down even more, we both know what ya wrote, enough said.

Slamm, why would you point out to everyone that a provider has changed her name again? Didn't you know that once they change their name we can no longer refer to or tie them to their sordid past? Members don't need information like that. Next you'll be telling us when the rip off girls have changed their name again and try warning us to stay away from them. How rude can you get? On a side note, there is a new SW (she isn't new she is about 60 but new to the game) named scabby. I want you to BB her in the keaster, or I am going to let everyone know that you don't have a hair on your ass! Please don't ask her why she is called scabby, it's kind of personal.

[SlammBamm]

Then with all due respect to A2, his playground so his rules.

Captain John, don't ever try and strongarm me or any other member into seeing "your girl" with some weakass shit about how your going to embarrass us on the board, thru PM or otherwise all you did was make yourself look like a fool and drop your credibility down even more, we both know what ya wrote, enough said.

Really didn't want to make this little uh, rebuttel, but with all due repect to a Fellow Member and with all due civility, Fellow Member Slamm, don't you think you should actually see a Provider, actually spend time with her, before you post your comments, opinions, and well, judgements?

Isn't this what this Forum is supposed to be all about? Sharing REAL TRUE ACTUAL experiences with a Provider?

Just saying.