"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[HollywoodGuy]

Things have changed a bit today. I told #1 what I would pay and she changed her tune real quick when she found out I wasn't going to budge. #2 changed also she even said she wants me to spend the night with her and doesn't expect any allowance in return just some great sex. #3 isn't budgeing she's a pro so I'm going to pass on her for sure. Since the others have seen that I'm not budgeing do you think I should still pass.

Always look for a friendly handshake. We're here to help these girls. If they dont see it that way, just move on. Due to just having had oral surgery my activities have been a bit curtailed. But gonna see my ATF tonite anyway.

[BigDawg14]

Pass on all three. Don't worry as a few more will make it through your filter. And the next three will be better pickins. Or if you really need to get out. Then do SB1 while you are waiting for the next three prospects.

Things have changed a bit today. I told #1 what I would pay and she changed her tune real quick when she found out I wasn't going to budge. #2 changed also she even said she wants me to spend the night with her and doesn't expect any allowance in return just some great sex. #3 isn't budgeing she's a pro so I'm going to pass on her for sure. Since the others have seen that I'm not budgeing do you think I should still pass.

[FredMoore]

Room rotation: we should take a cue from Pros who rotate 10 guys in and out on any given day. In my hooker days I hated the pile of used towels on the bathroom floor, the trashcan full of condom packages and cig butts, and the random fat roommate hiding in the bathroom smoking. Bottom line, don't sweat it. You worry too much. Just a brief straitening job and you're good to go. I'm envious of you studs who can get it up and fire it 3 times in one day.

Speaking of ** yesterday I optimistically had that very problem with SB #1 at 1 PM and #2 at 7 PM. I was fretting about how I was going to be ready to get up and go 6 hrs later for a new one. Well,#1 cancelled due to "family emergency" and #2 showed for the M&G but had to "meet her parents" in an hour. So I blew of my regular MILF for only one M&G. So I have my M&G tonight with an SB coming back to town from visiting family. The way things are going she will prob "stay with the folks one more night. ".

[LandonR]

Pass on all three. Don't worry as a few more will make it through your filter. And the next three will be better pickins. Or if you really need to get out. Then do SB1 while you are waiting for the next three prospects.

Agree completely. You are framing this completely wrong with these girls. You are negotiating this like it's a business transaction and they are BP or CL girls. Don't ask them what they want, how much time, etc. You are in control. You set the rules. They just get to come along for the ride.

[HollywoodGuy]

I setup a profile on SA and got great response so I joined for a month. I have emailed with 5 different SB in the first week. I have been seeing some UTRs but wanted to find some new talent. I am going to give the scenarios of the 3 that are ready for a trip to the FC with or without a M&G.

SB 1 She's 23 single mom just moved back to her hometown which is where I'm at also. She is staying at a local notel and wants to meet Monday on my lunch break. Here is what she has proposed to me $125 per meeting for and he or so. $200 per meeting for 2,3 or possibably 4 hrs together. $850 per month and I can see her 3-4 times for as long as I want.

SB 2 She's 24 and has a job and can host but we are 2 hrs apart. She said if I can't come to her she would come to me. If she comes to me she wants me to pay for a room her gas and a few drinks and any allowance after amount is up to me and she said there is no time limit on time together. Have a meeting setup with her in a week.

SB 3 She's 31 single mom with 2 kids. She also advertises on BP occassionally for $200 per hr. I have text her before but she doesn't know that. Last night she ask me what amount I could do. She said I'm new to this and never had a sugar daddy. I told her $120 for a few hours and she countered with $200 for 2 hrs. Funny how her value changed from BP to SA. Have a meeting setup with her this Friday.

All three are freaks and say anything sexually is on the table. I'm new to this so I'm reaching out to the pros and wanting some input on these three SB's and see what I should do.

Thanks for any advice!

Pass on all three. Don't worry as a few more will make it through your filter. And the next three will be better pickins. Or if you really need to get out. Then do SB1 while you are waiting for the next three prospects.

[BigDawg14]

I setup a profile on SA and got great response so I joined for a month. I have emailed with 5 different SB in the first week. I have been seeing some UTRs but wanted to find some new talent. I am going to give the scenarios of the 3 that are ready for a trip to the FC with or without a M&G.

SB 1 She's 23 single mom just moved back to her hometown which is where I'm at also. She is staying at a local notel and wants to meet Monday on my lunch break. Here is what she has proposed to me $125 per meeting for and he or so. $200 per meeting for 2,3 or possibably 4 hrs together. $850 per month and I can see her 3-4 times for as long as I want.

SB 2 She's 24 and has a job and can host but we are 2 hrs apart. She said if I can't come to her she would come to me. If she comes to me she wants me to pay for a room her gas and a few drinks and any allowance after amount is up to me and she said there is no time limit on time together. Have a meeting setup with her in a week.

SB 3 She's 31 single mom with 2 kids. She also advertises on BP occassionally for $200 per hr. I have text her before but she doesn't know that. Last night she ask me what amount I could do. She said I'm new to this and never had a sugar daddy. I told her $120 for a few hours and she countered with $200 for 2 hrs. Funny how her value changed from BP to SA. Have a meeting setup with her this Friday.

All three are freaks and say anything sexually is on the table. I'm new to this so I'm reaching out to the pros and wanting some input on these three SB's and see what I should do.

Thanks for any advice!

[IluvSmellyFish]

Advice on SBs that have LTR potential?

Based on my experience so far, I am with vasd1. A sb might seem like a keeper, but after 4-8 trips to the fc, the honeymoon period ends. I have yet to find a sb that holds my interest.

Not because there are not great, and hot sbs out there, but rathet for precisely that reason. New hot young sbs keep coming into the bowl and its just so hard to keep any one for a consistent peroid.

[HollywoodGuy]

Advice on SBs that have LTR potential?

Keep them on a short leash.

[HollywoodGuy]

How did that work out? I have been thinking about the same tactic because I have 3 girls who live on the other side of town ( 45 min drive each way with no traffic). None of them have transportation so I have to go over, pick them up, bring them back and then take them home. I was thinking about getting a room on Sunday and trying to get two of them in in one day to save all the driving. I just wonder if whoever is second is going to catch an attitude about the sheets being mussed or finding a hair on the pillow. None of these three have been to the FC yet, though they've all indicated complete willingness.

I have done this a few times. And did get busted once. Do the first one on the bedspread and lay the pillows on the floor. Then clean the bathroom and get new towels. Then fold down the bed before the second one gets there and put the pillows back on the bed, still looking fresh.

[IluvSmellyFish]

I've been able to use a room twice several times by scheduling an early evening FC visit on the day of check-in, going home for the night, then meeting #2 the next morning before check-out (ask for late check out, almost always granted). Never had an issue with mussed sheets. Just told girl #2 I had spent the night there. Actually kinda fun, banging two different girls in the same bed. He he he.

I normally call the front desk and ask my room to be made up. I always book someone I trust to show for the 3 pm check in. Then do a m&g with a pot I have a good vibe with.

After a FC session with a trusted SB, I have the room made up while I am out on a m&g. If the m&g goes well, no questions asked. Plus I get a new bottle of travel size shampoo and soap for when I am at the gym at work.

[LandonR]

How did that work out? I have been thinking about the same tactic because I have 3 girls who live on the other side of town ( 45 min drive each way with no traffic). None of them have transportation so I have to go over, pick them up, bring them back and then take them home. I was thinking about getting a room on Sunday and trying to get two of them in in one day to save all the driving. I just wonder if whoever is second is going to catch an attitude about the sheets being mussed or finding a hair on the pillow. None of these three have been to the FC yet, though they've all indicated complete willingness.

I've done this a number of times and have never had the girls say anything. My last time was check in around noon. Date #1 was 2 pm-4 pm. Date #2 was about 9 pm-11 pm and then Date #3 was the following morning. I was exhausted. .

[LandonR]

Curious if any guys have been able to pull of a threesome with these girls. I've causally mentioned it during the heat of sex to a couple of the girls and they have all been agreeable. Ihaven't actually tried to make it work yet. Just curious if anyone has brought two sugar babies together for the purpose of a threesome.

[HoyaSvnFgr]

Took out a 10/10 for dinner and drinks the other night. The girl was gorgeous. She mentioned she's had a good experience so far on the SA site, but didn't reveal too much info nor did I ask. I told her I'd like to see more of her and would like to discuss it on our next meet. Based on my experience so far, she's been the best quality girl I've been out with.

Since I'm initiating the negotiations, any pointers? I don't think she'll go for a per-date arrangement. I think it'll be a monthly or maybe bi-weekly, which is the most sensible. She's a full-time grad student and lists expectations as "practical". Her bio only mentions someone to hangout with, provide assistance when needed and ideally something long-term.

In the past, most of the girls that I didn't like so much but we're tolerable brought up the arrangement discussion. I of course didn't budge on not paying $1. 00 (a single buck) and got all the free goods I could get before communication dwindled. With this girl I'm making the leap first. I'd prefer not to agree on a set amount, but I could provide varying amounts depending on my finances. Also, if I put my time into 1 SB per month I'll likely save money. I've spent way to much on random M&G's already.

This date made me want to change my approach. I'm probably going to let go some of the 6 face / 10 bed chicks too. The young 10 bed chicks have mostly enjoyed the nights on the town, no $ required. I'll have memories of the outstanding BBBJ CIM and the wild sex, but I'm cutting them loose in pursuits of SBs I can actually click with and enjoy their company.

Advice on SBs that have LTR potential?

[Stixxer]

How did that work out? I have been thinking about the same tactic because I have 3 girls who live on the other side of town ( 45 min drive each way with no traffic). None of them have transportation so I have to go over, pick them up, bring them back and then take them home. I was thinking about getting a room on Sunday and trying to get two of them in in one day to save all the driving.

How about just have them all over there with you together!

Although I'm sure there's all kinds of ways that situation could go from sweet to sour really quick.

[Stixxer]

" what do the numbers mean " ? Stixxer a= face / be=body / c=sex skills / d=overall satisfaction.

Makes sense. Thanks, Fred.