"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[TacoLover23]

Promised an update form my two weeks of naughtiness which is now (thankfully? Coming to a close.

SB#12 drove 2 hours to visit me yesterday. This was a bit of a risk as I had never met her in person and she arrived around 4 pm in the afternoon and with plans to go to a swanky New Years Eve party. She is a college graduate, good job, mother, and separated / divorced. She arrives and its a bit bigger than her profile pictures but still bangable. She was certainly nervous. We hit the bar for drinks and appetizers which set me back $50. Not sure what I was thinking, but I offered to pay for a manicure / pedicure for her $50 and she needed shoes because she forgot her heels $30 (thanks Target! Throughout the afternoon and into the evening I could tell this was going to be work because she talked about how she "was not a prostitute" and "not looking for a cash for sex exchange" etc. Etc.

We hit the party and that set me back some more. Dinner was $75. And I probably dropped another $75 on drinks throughout the evening. Hanging out with her was a bit of a chore as she was tough to engage in conversation, should not affection or emotion throughout the evening. It was almost as she was going through the motions and it was evident based on a number of things she was saying that I was not getting any that night.

We head back from the party and get to the hotel about 1:30 am. The whole ride back she keeps telling me how tired she is and how she is just going to goto bed. She changes out of her dress and into sweat pants and a sweatshirt and crawls into bed as far as way as possible to me as she can. Once in bed I flat out told her that I didn't think she was feeling it, that I was going to respect her and not try and sleep with her. We go back and forth and she basically says that this is "too complicated" for her and she climbs out of beds, packs her bags and leaves the hotel around 2:30 am for a two hour drive back home!

This one defintley doesn't understand the role of being a sugar baby, but I was going to try and convince her to do anything she didn't want to do.

However it wasn't a total bust. When I woke up this morning on New Years Day, I had a text message from SB#5 telling me her plans got cancelled for the day and she could come see me if I wanted. She came to the hotel and we hit the hotel restaurant for a $25 breakfast and then back to the room to finish off some of the Champagne I had left over for the night before and a quick round of fun. I gave her a $50 New Years present and sent her on her way.

So a recap of my 2 weeks of craziness consists of.

Met 13 Sugar Babies in person (couple I didn't post about on here).

Brought 10 SB's back to the FC.

Closed the deal in one way or the other with 9 of them.

Had a total of 10 O's.

Sugar Cost of $335.

Incidental costs (drinks, apps, M&G costs) of $307 (Excluding the New Years Eve costs as I'm counting this as more of a traditional date as opposed to a sugar date).

Total cost per O = $64.20.

Play on players!

Sounds like you had a blast. Thanks for sharing all of this.

[LandonR]

Promised an update form my two weeks of naughtiness which is now (thankfully? Coming to a close.

SB#12 drove 2 hours to visit me yesterday. This was a bit of a risk as I had never met her in person and she arrived around 4 pm in the afternoon and with plans to go to a swanky New Years Eve party. She is a college graduate, good job, mother, and separated / divorced. She arrives and its a bit bigger than her profile pictures but still bangable. She was certainly nervous. We hit the bar for drinks and appetizers which set me back $50. Not sure what I was thinking, but I offered to pay for a manicure / pedicure for her $50 and she needed shoes because she forgot her heels $30 (thanks Target! Throughout the afternoon and into the evening I could tell this was going to be work because she talked about how she "was not a prostitute" and "not looking for a cash for sex exchange" etc. Etc.

We hit the party and that set me back some more. Dinner was $75. And I probably dropped another $75 on drinks throughout the evening. Hanging out with her was a bit of a chore as she was tough to engage in conversation, should not affection or emotion throughout the evening. It was almost as she was going through the motions and it was evident based on a number of things she was saying that I was not getting any that night.

We head back from the party and get to the hotel about 1:30 am. The whole ride back she keeps telling me how tired she is and how she is just going to goto bed. She changes out of her dress and into sweat pants and a sweatshirt and crawls into bed as far as way as possible to me as she can. Once in bed I flat out told her that I didn't think she was feeling it, that I was going to respect her and not try and sleep with her. We go back and forth and she basically says that this is "too complicated" for her and she climbs out of beds, packs her bags and leaves the hotel around 2:30 am for a two hour drive back home!

This one defintley doesn't understand the role of being a sugar baby, but I was going to try and convince her to do anything she didn't want to do.

However it wasn't a total bust. When I woke up this morning on New Years Day, I had a text message from SB#5 telling me her plans got cancelled for the day and she could come see me if I wanted. She came to the hotel and we hit the hotel restaurant for a $25 breakfast and then back to the room to finish off some of the Champagne I had left over for the night before and a quick round of fun. I gave her a $50 New Years present and sent her on her way.

So a recap of my 2 weeks of craziness consists of.

Met 13 Sugar Babies in person (couple I didn't post about on here).

Brought 10 SB's back to the FC.

Closed the deal in one way or the other with 9 of them.

Had a total of 10 O's.

Sugar Cost of $335.

Incidental costs (drinks, apps, M&G costs) of $307 (Excluding the New Years Eve costs as I'm counting this as more of a traditional date as opposed to a sugar date).

Total cost per O = $64.20.

Play on players!

[IluvSmellyFish]

It appears my approach is different than most of the others here. I don't cut them loose, but rather group flaky girls into a certain bucket. Then if there is an opening in my schedule that isn't filled, I double / triple / quaduple book them.

If all two / three / four end up flaking, well, no loss anyway since the time I scheduled to meet with them would have been idle time watching sportscenter anyway. On the other hand, if one of them does come through, great. And then I cancel on the others. I've found that some of these flakes are all about playing games (as identified by at least one other member of the board), and oddly enough, if you suddenly cancel on them because you have plans with another "friend," they all of a sudden become much more interested. As for those flakes that are so offended by the cancellation (even though they bailed on me last minute the last time we set plans) that they decide to "cut you loose". Well, all the same to me, there will be others to take her place.

One of the other more experienced brothers put it nicely (it was probably HWG), at the end of the day, its a game of numbers.

Just my two cents and my approach.

I need a little advice from the guys on this one. I've got one who's really young and hot (20 yo, latina) who has now cancelled on me for the M&G just prior to it the past 3 times. I really want to meet this one but suspect she's shy and nervous about it. She sends me plenty of pics to keep me going but every time I'm about to head out the door to meet her, something comes up and she cancels. How long do you allow one to miss appointments before deciding they're a lost cause?

[JZLizard]

I live in PHX, where that guy is located (he works the ASU girls pretty hard). A while back I was out of town for a while and happened to check out one of his videos. As I was watching I had a funny feeling that the girl in the video, a 20 something MILF named Madison, looked awfully familiar. After a while it hit me that she was the hot new bartender at my local sports bar that I had been chatting up one evening before I went out of town. She seemed like a sweet, not too bright, hot chick who had let a past relationship leave her in a tight spot. She was talking about how tough it is to make ends meet with kids and I was trying to get the conversation steered towards the SB path without clueing in every other horn-dog sitting at the bar. Ultimately I didn't get it done and left. Fast forward a few weeks to me catching her on film and her taking it three ways like a champ. In the video she came across exactly the way she did in the bar, a little ditzy and surprised to find herself with a cock in her mouth; I couldn't believe that she is bright enough to act that well.

Needless to say a couple of weeks later when I got back home I made a beeline for the bar, but alas, she had already quit (or maybe been fired, who knows). I felt good that my instincts were right about her, bummed that I didn't work it harder.

Great story!

I also try to avoid gaming women (for SB action or otherwise) at bars within listening range of other dudes as you said. It just seems like it undermines chances of success (possibly even resulting in someone trying to cock block).

[Mike7794]

Needless to say a couple of weeks later when I got back home I made a beeline for the bar, but alas, she had already quit (or maybe been fired, who knows). I felt good that my instincts were right about her, bummed that I didn't work it harder.

Or maybe she has a new career.

[GetLost]

I need a little advice from the guys on this one. I've got one who's really young and hot (20 yo, latina) who has now cancelled on me for the M&G just prior to it the past 3 times. I really want to meet this one but suspect she's shy and nervous about it. She sends me plenty of pics to keep me going but every time I'm about to head out the door to meet her, something comes up and she cancels. How long do you allow one to miss appointments before deciding they're a lost cause?

One chance with me, if she flakes she's gone, plain and simple. Never, ever let a woman get the upper hand no matter what kind of relationship it is. Friend, GF, booty call, etc. Whatever it is always maintain the upper hand. In this case I would give her one chance. Once you get sucked into that BS drama women like to play, you're done for.

[Dsprdo]

But, I don't think any of the girls I've seen him film were scripted. If they were, then he has stumbled accidentally upon girls who all possess acting skills that far exceed academy award material.

I live in PHX, where that guy is located (he works the ASU girls pretty hard). A while back I was out of town for a while and happened to check out one of his videos. As I was watching I had a funny feeling that the girl in the video, a 20 something MILF named Madison, looked awfully familiar. After a while it hit me that she was the hot new bartender at my local sports bar that I had been chatting up one evening before I went out of town. She seemed like a sweet, not too bright, hot chick who had let a past relationship leave her in a tight spot. She was talking about how tough it is to make ends meet with kids and I was trying to get the conversation steered towards the SB path without clueing in every other horn-dog sitting at the bar. Ultimately I didn't get it done and left. Fast forward a few weeks to me catching her on film and her taking it three ways like a champ. In the video she came across exactly the way she did in the bar, a little ditzy and surprised to find herself with a cock in her mouth; I couldn't believe that she is bright enough to act that well.

Needless to say a couple of weeks later when I got back home I made a beeline for the bar, but alas, she had already quit (or maybe been fired, who knows). I felt good that my instincts were right about her, bummed that I didn't work it harder.

[LandonR]

Well SB#12 showed up for our New Years Eve date. She's 26 year old divorce mother of 2. Bigger than her profile pictures but not terrible. Has a very respectable job. Thinks she's full of shit on a couple of things but bangable. I'm already in far more than I want to be ($50 drinks and appetizers, paid $50 to get her nails done for her, and she forgot her shoes so had to run to Target to buy some for $30). Tickets for tonights NYE party were also a cool $100. But I have a date all night and she'll be spending the night. The bang is not invetibale. Will be a balance of making sure she doesn't get too drunk that she passes out when we get back. Was looking more for someone to hang out with tonight and have fun. So this fits the bill.

She's in the shower getting ready to go out. I'll report back. Happy New Years gents!

[Mike7794]

I stumbled on this thread by someone mentioning it on a massage parlor thread in my state. I've known about SD 4 me several years ago, and signed up for it briefly, but never really went forward with meeting any women. I was already in the mindset to visit China and play the field. This was back at the end of 2008. I went back and forth to China so many damn times all the way up to 2011. I was having so much damn fun. Especially going to the second hand cities where they hardly ever see a western man. But I can tell you the word is out with the power of the internet I imagine that the western cock is bigger than their Asian countrymen. One city had two universities. Just walking down the sidewalk you get so many Chinese college girls with the "I want to fuck you look" it was amazing. Really I felt like a damn rock star. If this is the life they lead they are truly lucky. I had an amazing four years there, but I digress.

After reading this thread the past several days I've signed up again for the site. Many great reads here and good advice. I'm partial to the Asian chicks. I'm just hooked on them still. Love those spinner bodies.

Thanks for all the good reads and especially for the veterans here like Hollywood and the others.

[LandonR]

Couple of questions came in after my post.

I'm in my early 40's. Live in a medium sized midwestern city.

I would say I have pretty good game. I've been honing my skill set for over 20 years. .

My strategy has to be as honest as possible with them. I do try and paint a picture of what our future could look like together. At least what my fantasy future would look like.

[JZLizard]

My fault I was being lazy on my post. As far as the scripting it is? You come in, we talk, you get nakid, you masturbate, I say "suck my cock" (it is in EVERY BRCC) and then we fuck and if possible anal" anything other than that is up for grabs I would suppose. Of course the girls play it up because they know it will be seen and they MIGHT get more work out if it.

Yeah, I definitely agree. I wouldn't be surprised if he even sends them links to his videos before they meet in person, so that they can see what they are signing up for (just to eliminate girls that waste time).

Even the old Ed Powers stuff back in the early days of amateur pretty much ended up being the same old drill -- a new girl could watch his prior films and know pretty much how the session was going to go. He and Randy West never tried to hide the fact they were paying the girls for their introductory sessions. I think what made it amateur porn is that there was no "fictional" scripting added or professional-level production work like makeup / wardrobe or other pro-level techniques, and of course the fact that it was the girls first time on public video (usually).

[JoeBlowDC]

I can fully believe he would pay them a grand or so for a porno shoot -- he is in business after all. And I don't believe he is really misleading them the way he claims to be (claiming to get them connected to mainstream porn producers), I think part of that is him adding some entertainment value to his brand.

But, I don't think any of the girls I've seen him film were scripted. If they were, then he has stumbled accidentally upon girls who all possess acting skills that far exceed academy award material. A lot of people don't realize that acting to a script in a way that is believable for a film production or play is one thing, but acting to a script while trying to *believably* portray someone who is not acting is a hell of a lot harder, so these girls would be exceeding the skillset of Jessica Lange or Meryl Streep by an order of magnitude if they were following a script (at least the ones I've seen). This is why producers of reality shows work so hard to take raw footage and weave it into something remotely believable (because there is so much directed activity and posturing for the camera that takes place behind the scenes). Still, most of the time a reality show that isn't real is easy enough to spot.

Now, creative editing, that's a whole different story. Things can be edited in order to tell a story completely different than how it happened. But, his productions aren't that slick and I doubt his production skills are either. Just a guy with a camera who has decent game when it comes to talking to women.

My fault I was being lazy on my post. As far as the scripting it is? You come in, we talk, you get nakid, you masturbate, I say "suck my cock" (it is in EVERY BRCC) and then we fuck and if possible anal" anything other than that is up for grabs I would suppose. Of course the girls play it up because they know it will be seen and they MIGHT get more work out if it.

[HollywoodGuy]

Or perhaps you are like Hollywood with gobs of game.

I get what I pay for. LOL.

[FredMoore]

What city you in?

How old are you?

Guys (maybe like you) who get free or at least cheap pussy are probably closer in age to the girls. I do not get any free passes but I am 40 + yrs older than my target audience. Or perhaps you are like Hollywood with gobs of game.

My senior hottie has bolted because I refuse to use condoms. She was a 9/10/9/7 and IRL could be date material, but not a FB. She was willing but didn't lube up like my ex . I guess she wasn't that into it .

My SB-EX is incommunicado because she suddenly found "the love of her life " (Or a higher paying SD). she was a little chubby so i was shopping for a spinner to add to the collection and ended up with nothing for the moment . I did take her for granted but she was SO sexual the minute I touched her she was dripping juices and moaned and groaned with gusto . I do miss her enthusiasm.

Pot #1.

Single mom low 20's, 8/8 and willing to travel to see me. We will see if it happens. The distance goes against this working. I am sure local Mongers(big market) will snap her up unless she is playing the Multiples game. If she does come up as scheduled I am going to beat her pussy like she owes me money.

[HollywoodGuy]

It's been a crazy few weeks.

I'm exhausted!

What city you in?