"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[CreamyBare]

What is the best way to juggle a SB and a wife? I need some helpful advice.

Well, the "best" way is you get a SB that is bisexual (aren't all women?) then while the SB is going down on your wife, you fuck the SB from behind. Everyone's happy.

[Brian139]

I hear it is the current thing to take pictures of what you eat. Here was my lunch today. Had an incredible cardio workout after that. Life is good.

Does not look like a nice lunch bro, I would rather skip it.

[FredMoore]

Appreciate the feedback for a M&G location. If anyone in Rich has a specific quiet hole in the wall they would like to share PM me. I'm thinking airport. Locals in my part of town should not be anywhere near an airport restaurant. Starbucks are just too small and public if the wrong person walks in.

RE: SB with wingman in tow, another negative is I had to treat two hungry girls to Lattes and a bunch of food. All for naught. I think I could have talked the target SB into a liaison if she were by herself.

Addicts are all Nando 1's. They become nonfunctional very quickly. Avoid them.

Week roundup:

1) down to SB#1 -very dear and passionate but not a spinner like I like them. Once / week with 2 x an option at no extra. Total 1. 75.

2) FB at 75 . No passion, just tank drainage. Looking for the next best thing. She was a spinner but is gaining and falling out of my interest zone.

3) SB #2 a 10/10 /7/7 in the wind. Did not communicate and just flaked. I don't get it but she either did not like the experience or $. This pisses me off more than anything!! Why can't they do the right thing and write a Dear John note for closure? It is still anonymous on line so they don't have to do it face to face. Just " thanks for the nice time but I did not connect. Good luck in your search. " How hard is that? By not saying anything they leave the door open for other followup and leads to more hassle for them. End the fucking thing!! Sorry for the rant.

4) POT # 1 Pulled a disappearance act last week. I sent a Dear Jane probe saying that if she found someone else it is OK but say so. Oh No she says, I still want to see you. ,but she is on line all day. End the fucking thing!

So this week has not been a good one in Sugar Town. Got to get back to the drawing board. I've been afraid to go on M&Gs since I am so wary of being seen. It's hard to do Sugar in an environment of fear.

[John G Smith]

But they are also addicts that might want to feed their habits by stealing.

Make sure you don't take her back to your house.

I pretty much try to avoid addicts entirely. Especially if they were on the harder stuff, they are in a high risk group and could be carrying all kinds and very serious diseases. Everything would need to be covered, which pretty much defeats the purpose of me seeing SBs.

Also once an addict is back on that stuff, they will sell you out, blackmail you, or put you in danger just to get another hit. Even if I was single, I wouldn't want to risk dealing with an active addict. There's just too many other options out there.

If the SB is just a pothead, I'll make an exception. Potheads tend to be more lazy and aimless, than dangerous. But I'd stay far away from a girl who did hard drugs even if she's recovering. Addicts are the master's of deception and will swipe your valuables, financial information, and etc before you even knew what happened.

[TexasMonger]

I hear it is the current thing to take pictures of what you eat. Here was my lunch today. Had an incredible cardio workout after that. Life is good.

She must be an Asian kitty.

Cheers.

TM.

[Beachesnole02]

I hear it is the current thing to take pictures of what you eat. Here was my lunch today. Had an incredible cardio workout after that. Life is good.

[Graham111]

Been primarily using CL and have had 2 good experiences.

SB19 - as Hollywood mentioned recovering addict, fucks like a champ. 31 YO. Very open. DP with vibrators and the whole nine yards. Constantly needs money so hope she is not back on the "stuff". But want to get a little too close so trying to temper the enthusiasm. She is active on sb sites so "it's not love".

SB20 - took a chance on a 43 yo off CL. Apologized for being heavy. She could use a few pounds, etc etc. Finally got her for $0. 5 and a tank of gas! What a ride. Wildest 2 hours I have had in a long time. Tight and wet, even after 4 kids. So me normal is young spinners but what a blast. I will try to see her a few more times and see just how kinky she can get. Of course totally fucked up personal life but I can't be a white knight. Just let them talk.

[JZLizard]

I have to agree. $ never gets me anywhere. I think it is because a) the cost of living is pretty high where I live and b) the type of girl I am interested in tend more to GPS. I like hot white, asian or latin young ladies. I know HW loves mixed or AA spinners. In my experience, they definitely ask for less money. Maybe it is a self esteem issue. But in the DC area, even $$ is considered low-ball.

Your demographic is like mine -- I like the occasional mixed or AA girl but they tend to be the type that have more Caucasian / Asian / Latina features. AA girls do tend to have lower cost expectations, but there's another reason not to rule them out -- they typically have strong sex drives (which makes them generally enthusiastic fucks) and pretty much across the board they love Caucasian men, it's kind of like a status thing with them I think (I. E. Some seem to feel higher in rank if they are able to land a white boyfriend, or in the case of the bowl a white SD), so once you combine the sexual enthusiasm with the price advantage it's something to consider.

For your preferred demographic, $200 is a reasonable range. Lower than that will probably be possible in edge cases but the average backpage hooker probably makes better than $100 a pop, so if they are claiming to be an SB and going for that rate you have to ask yourself why.

[Norm Gerd]

Hey Hollywood, when I first chatted with the girl I offered $100 and I've done that every single time. But maybe it's me or maybe it's the area I am in but $100 doesn't get me any where. I think most women in this area have a bad case of GPS. The first two times I got on SA $100 was a joke for me. IN this area I don't have a lot of options. I understand that $100 or move on is key but when you don't have options I need to up it. $200 is the cheapest I've ever had accepted by a girl. So believe me, I have followed your career closely and have used your tricks when ever I could. $100 just isn't getting me any where in this area. Believe me brother, I've tried. .

I have to agree. $ never gets me anywhere. I think it is because a) the cost of living is pretty high where I live and b) the type of girl I am interested in tend more to GPS. I like hot white, asian or latin young ladies. I know HW loves mixed or AA spinners. In my experience, they definitely ask for less money. Maybe it is a self esteem issue. But in the DC area, even $$ is considered low-ball.

Norm!

P.S. Took the advice of the posters on here and told the POT that the friend is a no go. And basically blew her off. She was not happy with the allowance and not comfortable with me, so I think a pass is in order.

[Makethescoop]

I live near Richmond and second the advice from GW.

There's lots of hole in the wall student places, some are fairly decent. Airport area, Chesterfield, north side, Manakin / Goochland. Don't discount those areas depending on where you live.

Been reading this section for a couple of months now, amazed at the wealth of information.

Work took me through the Williamsburg / Toano area last week. Lots of lovely young ladies in the area. College girls as well as the Eastern Europeans come to the area for work. Is anybody having any success in the area? Sugar babies? UTRs?

[AsianFrosty]

Addicts in recovery fuck like bunny rabbits.

But they are also addicts that might want to feed their habits by stealing.

Make sure you don't take her back to your house.

[HollywoodGuy]

I've got a lot of updates to post but I never have the time to do it properly. Plus I have to be on DL due to SO.

Funny story today. Start texting a new spinner from the next town over. She states she can't drive. I ask if I can come to her place. She says yes. I ask if she has roommates. She says I'm in a recovery home, so yes there are many roommates. Huh? I ask what for, she says heroin addiction but she is better now. As long as she's back by 10 pm everything is good. Hmm?

She looks hot and I'm sure a former heroin addict has few boundaries. My other question was, are you healthy. She claims fit as a fiddle.

Skin.

Addicts in recovery fuck like bunny rabbits.

[Member #5162]

I live near Richmond and second the advice from GW.

There's lots of hole in the wall student places, some are fairly decent. Airport area, Chesterfield, north side, Manakin / Goochland. Don't discount those areas depending on where you live.

Been reading this section for a couple of months now, amazed at the wealth of information.

[SkinJr]

I've got a lot of updates to post but I never have the time to do it properly. Plus I have to be on DL due to SO.

Funny story today. Start texting a new spinner from the next town over. She states she can't drive. I ask if I can come to her place. She says yes. I ask if she has roommates. She says I'm in a recovery home, so yes there are many roommates. Huh? I ask what for, she says heroin addiction but she is better now. As long as she's back by 10 pm everything is good. Hmm?

She looks hot and I'm sure a former heroin addict has few boundaries. My other question was, are you healthy. She claims fit as a fiddle.

Skin.

[HollywoodGuy]

Hey Hollywood, when I first chatted with the girl I offered $100 and I've done that every single time. But maybe it's me or maybe it's the area I am in but $100 doesn't get me any where. I think most women in this area have a bad case of GPS. The first two times I got on SA $100 was a joke for me. IN this area I don't have a lot of options. I understand that $100 or move on is key but when you don't have options I need to up it. $200 is the cheapest I've ever had accepted by a girl. So believe me, I have followed your career closely and have used your tricks when ever I could. $100 just isn't getting me any where in this area. Believe me brother, I've tried. .

I guess the bigger point is, don't dicker. Make an offer, stick to it, get a positive response, or move on. In my case I need to get laid at least 20-25 days a month (and don't have an SO). So I have to low ball. If you are looking at once or twice a week, then go higher.