Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[NKYGentleman]

FYI. He means me. I brought up the issue of a newbie reviewing another newbie. I would do it again because it is a calid concern. How many new providers have been busted for self reviews?

I know that it was you. So you had assume that she was a new provider posting a review on her self? And you would do it again? Do you know what happens when you ASSUME? It makes an ASS out of you and ME. You are a SR with almost 500 post and I'm sure that you have seen your share of BS on these boards. Let me share some wisdom with you that life has taught me. Things aren't always what they seem to be. This so happens to be the case. You are a so called "trusted SR" and should have waited to see how things panned out. But you jumped the gun on this one and it ends up not being what you thought. We all have to start some where and make our first review. I choose this lady. Even you had to start some where. I have been told by some providers that some so called " trusted SR's" aren't so trust worthy. And just because us regular guys are not SR's yet don't mean that we are not trust worthy.

I read some more things about the saga between Remmy and mdolby. I just want to share that there are 3 sides every story. His side, her side and there's the truth.

[ClassASweetie]

It's been a few months since I last saw Sass up north. Her performance had always been superb the 10 times or so that I saw her. I texted her last night to set up a 7:30 am for today. Texted back and forth and had everything set at her residential incall. I texted this morning around 6:30, then 7:00, then 7:15, then 7:30 while in her parking lot. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Sent her 3 more texts and a PM from this site. It's now noon and I've not heard anything. Wasted my morning. Very disappointed. Wonder if the ladies here think our time is worth $$ like theirs is?

Babe your time is very valuable and worth money just as well as ours. There are many things men do to make time for us providers, taking off work, lying about being at work, etc. I always respect a gentlemens time just as well as I want you all to respect ours.

The sad thing is is that I am seeing more and more reviews as this one and bad reviews of men not getting their services and / or getting ripped off. I am not saying anything of the provider mentioned above as I don't know her personally but it's bothering when more and more bad reviews are being put up.

[UntilThen]

Well after your response I will say I can see your point.

In our defense; all we had to go on was what the OP stated. Truth be told he did make it out to sound like you were symptomatic. I apologize for my post.

He showed up for the overnite at 3 in the afternoon. I got tired at 2 in the morning a week ago. I'm a human who gets tired and he had a problem with me not fucking him for 17 hrs straight. This is the only problem he had that I didn't stay up all night. And once again if you are stupid enough to think when someone goes to smoke a cig that they are on drugs, that is crazy! For the last time I was trying to sleep for awhile and he kept trying to touch and finger fuck me so I knew if I went to smoke so I could put my pants on so when I layed back down and that perv would stop! That whole story is bullshit. You don't come in the middle of the afternoon and expect me to stay up after 3 am. If you came at 9 I would of been up all night. Its all relative. I never shortchange anyone ever, this douchelord has crazy expectations for someone who never does this. And another thing when I said my stomache hurt it was in the morning and I said that so he would leave cause I had something to do and he wasnt going anywhere soon.

[Gatty23]

When replying to a post about someone, please put their name in your post. There's a recent review titled "Saw her. ". Saw Who? The references post that shows up also says her. So that means that everybody has to go back and research who they both are talking about. Why can't we all include a name someplace in the post. It wouldn't be hard to put "Saw Mary. " in the title instead of "her".

[Stormyoneonly]

I happened to get a sudden night available (thanks business travel) so figured I'd take a chance. Thought I did my research and picked her out of all the possibilities. Missed the review of her walking off on a guy. Oh well, no point in whining about it. I considered not even posting anything, but someone reminded me that I really should, so I just put up a factual review. I'm not angry, just highly disappointed since it looked like it was going to be a magical evening and ended up reminding me of married life. Oh well, It is what it is (hmm. Does this count as TOFTT? LOL). In the end people will have more information now when making a decision, or she might use the feedback to improve. At the very least, I'd think a provider would make it up somehow when they know they let a client down.

I'm not new to the hobby, but it has been a while. I knew it was a risk, so eh. I've found someone I can't say one bad word about (looking at you, Stormy), and I have some others I'd love to spend some time with if they'll have me (I keep hearing great things about Molly, and you just added another good bump for her). In the end, it goes with the hobby and we all take the good with the bad. We will always find providers that just want the money, providers with personal issues that will affect their performance, providers who "click" with some and not with others, and those amazing providers that truly care (or at least do well enough acting that we can believe it).

Hopefully people will continue to give reviews, both good and bad, so we can make better decisions on how we spend our time and money. I appreciate the info that others give, and though I'm still not a senior, I hope I do an adequate job contributing to the community.

I had a wonderful time with you and would love to spend a night with you! I loved rolling around underneath the covers! Very sweet man and you deserve great respect! I can't wait to see you again and again. I am sorry you went through this and hope you don't ever get that experience again! I have never done an overnight but would love to try one time! Have a spectacular holiday weekend!

Stormy.

[Cincyman513]

It's been a few months since I last saw Sass up north. Her performance had always been superb the 10 times or so that I saw her. I texted her last night to set up a 7:30 am for today. Texted back and forth and had everything set at her residential incall. I texted this morning around 6:30, then 7:00, then 7:15, then 7:30 while in her parking lot. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Sent her 3 more texts and a PM from this site. It's now noon and I've not heard anything. Wasted my morning. Very disappointed. Wonder if the ladies here think our time is worth $$ like theirs is?

You're the second post I've seen about her not showing. I found her communication to be ridiculous. You can text her something a she MAY reply 4-21 hours later and never answer the question you asked. I gave up on her as it wasn't worth the aggrevation. I wonder if her posts every day bring in any business. Don't besurprised if she post that something happened and that she was sorry AND that she will make it up to you. Advice: DON'T HOLD YOUR BREATH!

[MDolby1975]

He showed up for the overnite at 3 in the afternoon. I got tired at 2 in the morning a week ago. I'm a human who gets tired and he had a problem with me not fucking him for 17 hrs straight. This is the only problem he had that I didn't stay up all night. And once again if you are stupid enough to think when someone goes to smoke a cig that they are on drugs, that is crazy! For the last time I was trying to sleep for awhile and he kept trying to touch and finger fuck me so I knew if I went to smoke so I could put my pants on so when I layed back down and that perv would stop! That whole story is bullshit. You don't come in the middle of the afternoon and expect me to stay up after 3 am. If you came at 9 I would of been up all night. Its all relative. I never shortchange anyone ever, this douchelord has crazy expectations for someone who never does this. And another thing when I said my stomache hurt it was in the morning and I said that so he would leave cause I had something to do and he wasnt going anywhere soon.

I gave a 100% honest and factual review, did not try to diss you, nor did not say or insinuate you were on drugs, and you're going to accuse me of things? If you're pissed about drug accusations, take it out on the people who gave them. It is one thing to be disappointed by service, but it is another to be accused of things that didn't happen. I gave you every benefit of the doubt and honestly had a good time (as you seemed to) until you went for your cig.

- it was 6 PM (at your suggestion. I still have the texts. Since business was slow and you were bored. Quiet enough that you mentioned you wouldn't have made rent if not for my overnight). You fell asleep at around 10 pm. 4 hours awake time (which I honestly enjoyed, and the vast majority of it was non-sexual).

- we even do FIV, nor was it attempted by me at any time.

- 17 hours straight? We had one round, got dressed and went to dinner. I didn't even ask for round 2 or do so much as squeeze your ass (which is as "perv" as I got the rest of the night while I tried to rouse you) until after you had already slept 2 (then 4) hours and round 2 didn't even occur. In fact, after dinner, we had tea (which was awesome BTW) sitting next to each other on the bed, and then later laid on the bed with my arm under your pillow (you fully dressed, me in boxers and shirt under the covers). Wasn't even sexual, let alone "perv" (anyone who has seen me knows that's not my style). Your pants were never off after we got back from the restaurant anyhow, so you didn't need to smoke to put them on. Plus it is odd you asked if I wanted to join you on the smoke break if you wanted to escape me.

- I never expected anyone to stay up till 3 am. I wasn't about to do it myself. Yes a second round before falling to sleep was desired, but you crashed out at 10 pm. I couldn't do an all night sex romp anyhow. I'm as human as you and had every expectation to sleep, but I did think 10 pm till 9 am without a second round was a bit much.

- if you had something to do, you could simply say so. You claimed to have a call to make at 7 am and weren't in too big a hurry to make it. I'd rather someone be honest with me than make up excuses.

I didn't know my hopes were unreasonable. A round, dinner, a second round, sleep, third round in the morning. From what I've read that's standard for an overnight (SRs, please tell me if this makes me an unreasonable "dochelord" or not. I'd love to know if that was an unreal vision).

Bottom line, I had fun till your smoke break, you gave no indication you felt differently. I even made it clear I enjoyed that part of our time in my review. I have no clue what happened to change things after your smoke, but I gave you the benefit of the doubt and didn't make accusations that others have. After your post (and a barrage of PMs I received from SRs) it seems clear I was just a sucker. I really thought you were a sweet and wonderful woman. I chose you to do the overnight with and I clearly chose poorly. I'm not going to besmirch your character or lie to make you look bad, but I'm also not going to have you make accusations against me that aren't true. It is what it is, I will learn from it and move on.

Take care of yourself, Remmy, I truly wish you the best.

[MDolby1975]

Wow, Sorry dude. I have done an over night. But with someone that I have been seeing many times. I won't just do an over night with any provider that I met. It requires time and seeing her to build trust (in case she's the type that steals off of you) with each other. You took a huge risk. I read on the boards how a guy wanted an over night and she walked out on him leaving him hanging and she had his money in hand.

I happened to get a sudden night available (thanks business travel) so figured I'd take a chance. Thought I did my research and picked her out of all the possibilities. Missed the review of her walking off on a guy. Oh well, no point in whining about it. I considered not even posting anything, but someone reminded me that I really should, so I just put up a factual review. I'm not angry, just highly disappointed since it looked like it was going to be a magical evening and ended up reminding me of married life. Oh well, It is what it is (hmm. Does this count as TOFTT? LOL). In the end people will have more information now when making a decision, or she might use the feedback to improve. At the very least, I'd think a provider would make it up somehow when they know they let a client down.

I'm not new to the hobby, but it has been a while. I knew it was a risk, so eh. I've found someone I can't say one bad word about (looking at you, Stormy), and I have some others I'd love to spend some time with if they'll have me (I keep hearing great things about Molly, and you just added another good bump for her). In the end, it goes with the hobby and we all take the good with the bad. We will always find providers that just want the money, providers with personal issues that will affect their performance, providers who "click" with some and not with others, and those amazing providers that truly care (or at least do well enough acting that we can believe it).

Hopefully people will continue to give reviews, both good and bad, so we can make better decisions on how we spend our time and money. I appreciate the info that others give, and though I'm still not a senior, I hope I do an adequate job contributing to the community.

[Member #4637]

It's been a few months since I last saw Sass up north. Her performance had always been superb the 10 times or so that I saw her. I texted her last night to set up a 7:30 am for today. Texted back and forth and had everything set at her residential incall. I texted this morning around 6:30, then 7:00, then 7:15, then 7:30 while in her parking lot. Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Sent her 3 more texts and a PM from this site. It's now noon and I've not heard anything. Wasted my morning. Very disappointed. Wonder if the ladies here think our time is worth $$ like theirs is?

[D Nut]

Quote Originally Posted by MDolby1975 (View Original Post).
A while back I met a very nice wonderful woman who was new on here and I was too. I reviewed her and the "so called trusted SR's" on here was all over my ass about a newbie reviewing a newbie. I still remember who you are. Paybacks are a be*tch. Your turn is coming.

FYI. He means me. I brought up the issue of a newbie reviewing another newbie. I would do it again because it is a calid concern. How many new providers have been busted for self reviews?

[D Nut]

You shit it out!

I didn't think you were into watersports. But it's gone now.

[OnePilot]

I only thought H was done 1 way only. A very sweet friend told me this morning that the is more than 1 way to skin that cat so maybe I am wrong IDK.

Thanks for the heads up Ally. .

Shoot, Snort, Smoke.

[Swami222]

I would bet on that one.

I realize I am just a two poster, but I have spent a lot of time with remmy over the past two months. I have seen nothing to indicate that needles are involved. I am surprised and disappointed to hear of her behavior, but H addiction seems an unfair conclusion.

If we are going to cover what is "typical", I have found that many women typically get sleepy after good sex. Especially if they don't get enough sleep, which I believe may be an issue with remmy. Perhaps mr. Dolby's skills were a bit much for remmy that day.

I am not condoning her behavior as reported by mr. Dolby, but it seems irrational to label her an addict based on that same report. We are all to be presumed innocent until PROVEN guilty, after all. And everyone I know has screwed up at their job from time to time.

I don't want this forum to become a rumor mill, as it is the best resource I have found online. I hope to make more contributions in the future to keep it that way.

[Gunman2013]

I only thought H was done 1 way only. A very sweet friend told me this morning that the is more than 1 way to skin that cat so maybe I am wrong IDK.

Thanks for the heads up Ally. .

[Remmy]

Sounds like you paid for the hour and then the rest for her to have a good night sleep. You should have known once she went to bed the night was over bud.

He showed up for the overnite at 3 in the afternoon. I got tired at 2 in the morning a week ago. I'm a human who gets tired and he had a problem with me not fucking him for 17 hrs straight. This is the only problem he had that I didn't stay up all night. And once again if you are stupid enough to think when someone goes to smoke a cig that they are on drugs, that is crazy! For the last time I was trying to sleep for awhile and he kept trying to touch and finger fuck me so I knew if I went to smoke so I could put my pants on so when I layed back down and that perv would stop! That whole story is bullshit. You don't come in the middle of the afternoon and expect me to stay up after 3 am. If you came at 9 I would of been up all night. Its all relative. I never shortchange anyone ever, this douchelord has crazy expectations for someone who never does this. And another thing when I said my stomache hurt it was in the morning and I said that so he would leave cause I had something to do and he wasnt going anywhere soon.