The Massholes

**Nrlmus** · 06-04-14 01:03

Originally Posted by YelloTail [View Original Post]

I did some research on the web. It is an interesting fetish and potential gold mine. I condensed some of the info but may need to make multiple posts due to content size.

Financial Domination is both a valid fetish and a very powerful form of Power Exchange. Financial Domination excitement usually occurs when the slave gives money to the Owner; feeling powerless under Her control. In most cases the man will get an intense rush of excitement both when thinking of giving money to a Domme. This excitement can last even past that point, lasting days after engaging in this fetish. The payment given is called a Tribute; and can be anywhere from around fifty dollars when strangers first meet to several thousand dollars as can be the case in well established relationships. Just like other Mistress / slave relationships, some Financial Dominants will form strong bonds with those who serve them over a long period of time. However, these relationships will be very platonic. While Financial Domination is a sexually charged fetish, that arouses and teases, most Dommes will not have any sex with their slaves, just as a Professional Dominatrix would not with Her clients.

Women that are participating in this Fetish are called Princesses, Queens and even Goddesses. Not only money is exchanged in this Power Exchange, in many cases gifts are given as well; which are usually purchased off a Wish list. Gifts are popular because there is a heavy emphasis on spoiling and pampering the Female Dominant. Allowing the Lady to live a life of absolute luxury while the male struggles and suffers in many ways for Her is often a big part of Financial Domination. Time and time again he must surrender and give up, so She can live above Her means. There is a large contrast between how Owner and slave live within this fetish, unlike other BDSM relationships where there is more blending between the lifestyles of the two. After all, in Financial Domination She is a Queen and Goddess, and he is Her slave. Some Ladies specialize in ruination of the slaves, while others drain more conservatively and with care, knowing that a completely ruined slave is useless. However, the sheer amount of men who fantasize about being ruined by a beautiful and powerful Woman is staggering; however, it is to be kept in mind that for most men, it is only the fantasy of this that appeals to them, not the reality. Only in rare cases does one actually need and crave the reality of ruination.

Come on Deb, you stumbled upon a goldmine! You got to start living large! Tell that worm to fly you off to Hawaii for lunch of something! Or tell him that he got to put his nose to the grindstone so he can get you a jet, and a 757 no less too! Don't sell yourself cheap, go for the house in Chilmark! LOL! Have him experience the reality of ar-ar-ar-ar-ar-ruination (Oh my God, you stupid ass foreign maggot just learned himself a new word! Oh, ruin me now too!.) Yeah-ah-ah-ah evil rules! LOL.

**Member #5037** · 06-03-14 22:37

Originally Posted by Yardape08 [View Original Post]

SpermSac.

SpermSac is online now.

Senior Member.

Reports:500.

What a joyous occasion almost brings a tear to my eye. They said it couldn't be done 500 posts in less than a year. Even Mongerexpert has only half that amount. Without a doubt the quickest ascent ever seen on this forum. Maybe we should start a greatest hits thread in your honor. No turning back now. Onward and upward to 1000.

How the fuk did that happen. ? It was just 300 something 2 months ago when Masshole's started. I'm still on moderation for slamming this dik wad so I'm not able to see where he's been but He must be posting his longwinded bullshit in other states forums. That would be the only explanation?

**Skatar018** · 06-03-14 20:53

Not that I care & I know someone worse but

Originally Posted by SpermSac [View Original Post]

I'm so glad that numbers irritate the piss out of you and a few others.
Oh wait! Didn't you just brag about hitting 500 not long ago?
I'll make sure that you stay ahead of me in the numbers game. I'd hate to see you have nothing to rant about.

The estimated time that you will pass YF post count is: October 25 at 9:45PM, T minus 3,436 hours & counting.http://www.timeanddate.com/countdown...=0&min=0&sec=0

Originally Posted by SpermSac [View Original Post]

I'll make sure that you stay ahead of me in the numbers game.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WfjzJeuY4Fc It can't be done I tell you.

**Yello Tail** · 06-03-14 19:19

From another website:

Financial Domination is when people, usually slaves and submissive men, pay or tribute money to a Dominant Female. This fetish is brought on by the need to be controlled in any and every way possible. True financial domination means that the slave tributes money of his own volition without expecting anything in return. Often, the Mistress humiliates the slave verbally while he tributes Her. Many financial slaves tribute on a weekly or daily basis, as well as buy their Mistresses gifts whenever told to or whenever they feel it necessary. Often a financial slave will take it upon himself to adopt a Mistress' bill which he will pay faithfully every month for Her. The financial slave desires for his Goddess or Mistress to live like a Princess or a Queen while he himself is often forced to make financial sacrifices. The financial slaves truly see their Mistresses as Princesses or Goddesses and worship them thus. Sometimes financial domination is coupled with a blackmail fetish. The blackmail fetish brings the slave deeper into his submission by forcing him to obey and tribute his Mistress or bear the consequences of his blackmail information and / or pictures being posted by Her. Often there is a blackmail contract involved since blackmail is a potential legal hazard for the Mistress unless all bases are covered.

**Yello Tail** · 06-03-14 19:17

Those men who are into the fetish usually crave a fair amount of humiliation and exploitation; some prefer heavy forms of Domination that includes being ruined, while others like things mild and prefer to just spoil and enhance the life of their Lady; perhaps worshipping Her a little on the side. Most of the men participating in the fetish like to be called humiliating names such as piggy, pay pet, cash cow and even more degrading names. Some even like objectification and being ignored for days on end by their Domme. The relationships from the outside may not seem to have any sort of mercy or love attached to them, though some Dommes fiercely care for their pay pets; especially those who are with them long term.

Financial Domination is Power Exchange where the slave gives up his power and gives it to his Lady by showering Her with both money and gifts. After all, can it be hard to see how this could be such a strong form of power exchange? Money is the ultimate power in today's society and most people consider a man's worth to be tied up in his possessions and how much money he has. The less a man owns, the more shame and humility he feels; this is something that society has engrained in everyone's brains. For many reasons money is the single best vehicle to accomplish fulfilling the desires of a slave. The slave gives up his money and possessions, thus becoming more vulnerable, and the Lady becomes more powerful through acquiring riches and material belongings. Most of those who participate in Financial Domination have both a strong money fetish, and many men who are into serving financially or being financially exploited also crave humiliation; in cases intense humiliation.

While most Financial Domination is practiced solely online; though a few individuals have been known to do it in Real Time too; in the forms of money exploitation, shopping sprees and various forms of humiliation. Face to face Financial Domination is very rare. Because it is mostly practiced online there is a great deal of individuals who get into the fetish merely for fast cash, and thus there has been a great deal of "fake" individuals getting involved on the scene lately; especially among the Ladies. This is unfortunate, but sadly a case in many things where the internet is the main medium.

This is a very dynamic fetish, but it is commonly misunderstood. One has to understand that everyone is wired differently, and human sexuality is not a case of black and white. We come in all different colors and we all like different things. While you may never understand Financial Domination completely, I hope my article helped you understand it better. Article Source: http: EzineArticles. Com /4722392.

**Yello Tail** · 06-03-14 19:16

Originally Posted by Deb4512 [View Original Post]

1. I met someone yesterday for a financial domination session.

I did some research on the web. It is an interesting fetish and potential gold mine. I condensed some of the info but may need to make multiple posts due to content size.

Financial Domination is both a valid fetish and a very powerful form of Power Exchange. Financial Domination excitement usually occurs when the slave gives money to the Owner; feeling powerless under Her control. In most cases the man will get an intense rush of excitement both when thinking of giving money to a Domme. This excitement can last even past that point, lasting days after engaging in this fetish. The payment given is called a Tribute; and can be anywhere from around fifty dollars when strangers first meet to several thousand dollars as can be the case in well established relationships. Just like other Mistress / slave relationships, some Financial Dominants will form strong bonds with those who serve them over a long period of time. However, these relationships will be very platonic. While Financial Domination is a sexually charged fetish, that arouses and teases, most Dommes will not have any sex with their slaves, just as a Professional Dominatrix would not with Her clients.

Women that are participating in this Fetish are called Princesses, Queens and even Goddesses. Not only money is exchanged in this Power Exchange, in many cases gifts are given as well; which are usually purchased off a Wish list. Gifts are popular because there is a heavy emphasis on spoiling and pampering the Female Dominant. Allowing the Lady to live a life of absolute luxury while the male struggles and suffers in many ways for Her is often a big part of Financial Domination. Time and time again he must surrender and give up, so She can live above Her means. There is a large contrast between how Owner and slave live within this fetish, unlike other BDSM relationships where there is more blending between the lifestyles of the two. After all, in Financial Domination She is a Queen and Goddess, and he is Her slave. Some Ladies specialize in ruination of the slaves, while others drain more conservatively and with care, knowing that a completely ruined slave is useless. However, the sheer amount of men who fantasize about being ruined by a beautiful and powerful Woman is staggering; however, it is to be kept in mind that for most men, it is only the fantasy of this that appeals to them, not the reality. Only in rare cases does one actually need and crave the reality of ruination.

**Yardape08** · 06-03-14 18:30

SpermSac.

SpermSac is online now.

Senior Member.

Reports:500.

Originally Posted by SpermSac [View Original Post]

#1 It is to easy for him to claim fraudulant use of card. No signature by him would be a fools game but if he wants to take you shopping and have him lay his card out and sign GO FOR IT. Other than that it's a SHOW ME THE MONEY!

#2 Naturally most guys are wanting full service for as little as possible. Some rates start at 150 and go up to as much as you can get. I have found some that provide unrushed FS for 150. I was very satisfied with the amount and the service. Many advertise 100 for HH quickie to 300 for the hour session. Let the negotiations begin.

Those that advertise the 400 to 600 per H rate good luck to them. There is someone out there that will pay it.

What a joyous occasion almost brings a tear to my eye. They said it couldn't be done 500 posts in less than a year. Even Mongerexpert has only half that amount. Without a doubt the quickest ascent ever seen on this forum. Maybe we should start a greatest hits thread in your honor. No turning back now. Onward and upward to 1000.

LOL, I can't take sides but this shit is funny.

A2

**Yellowfever023** · 06-03-14 17:09

Originally Posted by SpermSac [View Original Post]

#1 It is to easy for him to claim fraudulant use of card. No signature by him would be a fools game but if he wants to take you shopping and have him lay his card out and sign GO FOR IT. Other than that it's a SHOW ME THE MONEY!

#2 Naturally most guys are wanting full service for as little as possible. Some rates start at 150 and go up to as much as you can get. I have found some that provide unrushed FS for 150. I was very satisfied with the amount and the service. Many advertise 100 for HH quickie to 300 for the hour session. Let the negotiations begin.

Those that advertise the 400 to 600 per H rate good luck to them. There is someone out there that will pay it.

I have been busy lately but I just wanted to chime in and say Congrats to Sperm Bag as his post above was # 500, not only did he manage to put up 500 posts in a year he also managed to post more posts with less substance than monger expert, I mean even Mike Williams posts have more substance.

Deb, Thanks for the PM you sent, believe me there is no one here going to scare me off I have just been busy with a new UTR girl.

**Nrlmus** · 06-03-14 16:41

Originally Posted by Deb4512 [View Original Post]

1. I met someone yesterday for a financial domination session. Has anyone ever heard of this fetish? He wanted me to charge up his credit card and ask for money. Well this is a new fetish for me! I told him I don't need anything so there's no need to charge his credit card. I requested he take me to dinner and pay me $300 plus paying for dinner and then I offered an hour session and charged him $200. He told me he's disappointed that I didn't ask for more money. He wants me to use and abuse him financially. Any suggestions of how I go about with this request? I know it's probably every escorts dream job, but I'm new at financial domination. I don't know how much money he wants me to ask for. He won't tell me LOL. Maybe I'm not cut out for this type of fetish. Too bad, because it's the easiest money I've made, but I feel that it's only fair that I offer something in return and not just ask for money for doing nothing. What do you guys think? Why would anyone want financial domination?

2. What do you all consider the standard rate for full GFE, cim, BBBJ, kissing, everything on the table but greek. No clock watching. And where the escort takes direction from the guy and does anything he wants except greek. This doesn't include fetishes though. Just full GFE with awesome skills and services. The woman would be of average looks to a knock out. I was curious about standard hour and half an hour rates that you'd be willing to spend, high end to low end. Not low end where you'd be ripped off and with a druggie obviously. Just a rally nice provider, where you'd be totally satisfied. Just wondering what you all thought was a fair rate around the MA area nearby Boston including Boston.

1. Wow, this is fascinating and weird. Charge him what you will but take it in cash only. If he wants to buy you staff with his credit card, take him to nearby mall and go to town. Or if he is willing, take him to Newbury St and go to town there. Just make sure that whatever he buys, your name is not involved in the transaction itself. Gee, I wish I could afford to have such a fetish. LOL.

2. 100-150/ HH, 200-250/ H is what I consider reasonable and / or most common rate. Don't go below a $100, not for the first date anyway or you'll be entering the street rate and with that comes different attitude towards you too. I see many charging $300/ H but if you go above $150 HH-250/ H you'll definitely be losing a lot of people.

**SpermSac** · 06-03-14 15:54

Originally Posted by Deb4512 [View Original Post]

1. I met someone yesterday for a financial domination session. Has anyone ever heard of this fetish? He wanted me to charge up his credit card and ask for money. Well this is a new fetish for me! I told him I don't need anything so there's no need to charge his credit card. I requested he take me to dinner and pay me $300 plus paying for dinner and then I offered an hour session and charged him $200. He told me he's disappointed that I didn't ask for more money. He wants me to use and abuse him financially. Any suggestions of how I go about with this request? I know it's probably every escorts dream job, but I'm new at financial domination. I don't know how much money he wants me to ask for. He won't tell me LOL. Maybe I'm not cut out for this type of fetish. Too bad, because it's the easiest money I've made, but I feel that it's only fair that I offer something in return and not just ask for money for doing nothing. What do you guys think? Why would anyone want financial domination?

2. What do you all consider the standard rate for full GFE, cim, BBBJ, kissing, everything on the table but greek. No clock watching. And where the escort takes direction from the guy and does anything he wants except greek. This doesn't include fetishes though. Just full GFE with awesome skills and services. The woman would be of average looks to a knock out. I was curious about standard hour and half an hour rates that you'd be willing to spend, high end to low end. Not low end where you'd be ripped off and with a druggie obviously. Just a rally nice provider, where you'd be totally satisfied. Just wondering what you all thought was a fair rate around the MA area nearby Boston including Boston.

#1 It is to easy for him to claim fraudulant use of card. No signature by him would be a fools game but if he wants to take you shopping and have him lay his card out and sign GO FOR IT. Other than that it's a SHOW ME THE MONEY!

#2 Naturally most guys are wanting full service for as little as possible. Some rates start at 150 and go up to as much as you can get. I have found some that provide unrushed FS for 150. I was very satisfied with the amount and the service. Many advertise 100 for HH quickie to 300 for the hour session. Let the negotiations begin.

Those that advertise the 400 to 600 per H rate good luck to them. There is someone out there that will pay it.

**Smoke Screen** · 06-03-14 15:31

Originally Posted by Deb4512 [View Original Post]

1. I met someone yesterday for a financial domination session. Has anyone ever heard of this fetish? He wanted me to charge up his credit card and ask for money. Well this is a new fetish for me! I told him I don't need anything so there's no need to charge his credit card. I requested he take me to dinner and pay me $300 plus paying for dinner and then I offered an hour session and charged him $200. He told me he's disappointed that I didn't ask for more money. He wants me to use and abuse him financially. Any suggestions of how I go about with this request? I know it's probably every escorts dream job, but I'm new at financial domination. I don't know how much money he wants me to ask for. He won't tell me LOL. Maybe I'm not cut out for this type of fetish. Too bad, because it's the easiest money I've made, but I feel that it's only fair that I offer something in return and not just ask for money for doing nothing. What do you guys think? Why would anyone want financial domination?

This guy is either nuts or he is trying to set you up. I would be very careful about something like this, he could possibly say you stole his card, or charged him for $1000 and he got nothing. If it sounds TGTBT it probably is, but who knows.

**Shamless1** · 06-03-14 13:59

Originally Posted by Deb4512 [View Original Post]

Damn. Maybe I'll ask for $1000 the next time we meet LOL but should I do nothing for him in return? I don't judge, I mean I will pee on clients (I actually did the day before yesterday, even in their mouths) crossdressing, dom sessions, role playing: mommy son / step son. , diaper fetish, also where the guy wants to eat his own cum (they can drink it out of the condom or I will let him cum in my mouth then pass the cum along in his mouth, prostate massage, strap on play, foot fetish. I'm sure there are other requests I've had that I've agreed to, but I can't think of anything else.

I do not offer brown showers (this is a popular request, but I refuse it because it makes me feel uncomfortable, also how can any escort be able to poop when the client is here. She'd have to plan it somehow with laxatives or prune juice and have the guy stay overnight until she has the urge), I refused to pee in a cup and watch the guy drink my urine in front of me, I refused to save condoms and semen for a guy who wanted to drink other clients cum and I also refused to put a guy on speaker phone so he could listen to my session, hide in my closet and listen and watch. I won't rim any more. Do guys really expect an escort to rim when they have poop on their butt holes? No pulling my hair, and no affixiation (can't spell it) fetish. The last one is so dangerous. I also refused to throw a guy in the dumpster (his fantasy was to be a piece of garbage) and I also refused to go to the mall with a beach ball and puncture it with my heel in front of the guy and all the shoppers. Lastly I refused a job a dom / sub fetish where an elderly man who lived in a nursing home wanted me to sneak in and spank him. I can't think of anything else and I do try to accomodate (how to spell this word? My clients. My specialty is full GFE without watching the clock. .

Good grief does this really go on? A nice GFE at a reasonable rate with some oh god in it from you would be all I would need. Hope you are local (smile).

**Oxy Moron** · 06-03-14 12:16

Originally Posted by Nrlmus [View Original Post]

I agree 100% on everything. Cute, good natured, great kid who gave it all and let me quote her here, uttered the ultimate phrase on this forum: "I'm proud to be GFE!" and lived it too! God, don't we need more of those! I hope she does well in whatever it is that she does after retiring! If anybody knows what happened to her since she retired, I'm sure many here would love to know but please PM me if it's something exclusive.

I actually talked to her after that episode, explaining to her that women who participate in the back-and-forth on this site invariably get burned. It may not be fair but it's true and we've seen it time and time again.

**Deb4512** · 06-03-14 06:31

Damn. Maybe I'll ask for $1000 the next time we meet LOL but should I do nothing for him in return? I don't judge, I mean I will pee on clients (I actually did the day before yesterday, even in their mouths) crossdressing, dom sessions, role playing: mommy son / step son. , diaper fetish, also where the guy wants to eat his own cum (they can drink it out of the condom or I will let him cum in my mouth then pass the cum along in his mouth, prostate massage, strap on play, foot fetish. I'm sure there are other requests I've had that I've agreed to, but I can't think of anything else.

I do not offer brown showers (this is a popular request, but I refuse it because it makes me feel uncomfortable, also how can any escort be able to poop when the client is here. She'd have to plan it somehow with laxatives or prune juice and have the guy stay overnight until she has the urge), I refused to pee in a cup and watch the guy drink my urine in front of me, I refused to save condoms and semen for a guy who wanted to drink other clients cum and I also refused to put a guy on speaker phone so he could listen to my session, hide in my closet and listen and watch. I won't rim any more. Do guys really expect an escort to rim when they have poop on their butt holes? No pulling my hair, and no affixiation (can't spell it) fetish. The last one is so dangerous. I also refused to throw a guy in the dumpster (his fantasy was to be a piece of garbage) and I also refused to go to the mall with a beach ball and puncture it with my heel in front of the guy and all the shoppers. Lastly I refused a job a dom / sub fetish where an elderly man who lived in a nursing home wanted me to sneak in and spank him. I can't think of anything else and I do try to accomodate (how to spell this word? My clients. My specialty is full GFE without watching the clock. .

**Deb4512** · 06-03-14 06:08

1. I met someone yesterday for a financial domination session. Has anyone ever heard of this fetish? He wanted me to charge up his credit card and ask for money. Well this is a new fetish for me! I told him I don't need anything so there's no need to charge his credit card. I requested he take me to dinner and pay me $300 plus paying for dinner and then I offered an hour session and charged him $200. He told me he's disappointed that I didn't ask for more money. He wants me to use and abuse him financially. Any suggestions of how I go about with this request? I know it's probably every escorts dream job, but I'm new at financial domination. I don't know how much money he wants me to ask for. He won't tell me LOL. Maybe I'm not cut out for this type of fetish. Too bad, because it's the easiest money I've made, but I feel that it's only fair that I offer something in return and not just ask for money for doing nothing. What do you guys think? Why would anyone want financial domination?

2. What do you all consider the standard rate for full GFE, cim, BBBJ, kissing, everything on the table but greek. No clock watching. And where the escort takes direction from the guy and does anything he wants except greek. This doesn't include fetishes though. Just full GFE with awesome skills and services. The woman would be of average looks to a knock out. I was curious about standard hour and half an hour rates that you'd be willing to spend, high end to low end. Not low end where you'd be ripped off and with a druggie obviously. Just a rally nice provider, where you'd be totally satisfied. Just wondering what you all thought was a fair rate around the MA area nearby Boston including Boston.